Fellow caps ,Why are we such jerks? (Page 2)

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Posted by MissLadyIceQueen
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i think it has more to do with your aqua venus and sagi mercury. the only cap you have in your chart is your sun. i have cap sun, venus and mercury and i seriously cannot relate.

i don't get the point of running from love. what's the worst? crash and burn? well, been there done that and what didn't kill me made me stronger lol. love is essential for my happiness. i'd always run towards love lol
Idk probably does have to do with the sag and aqua. I have a lot of outer planets in cap. They are also in a stellium together in my 6th house with rahu. I don't mean to run , I'm not really running from love. I just start pushing people away when I realize I really care about them. It may or may not be cap thing.
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how's your relationship with your parents? especially with your farther? it's usually not easy for many to break the cycle. do u have sun conjunct saturn? i was showered with love and well protected growing up so i expect and give the same with romantic partner and that's in sync with my 1st house venus conjunct sun





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i think it has more to do with your aqua venus and sagi mercury. the only cap you have in your chart is your sun. i have cap sun, venus and mercury and i seriously cannot relate.

i don't get the point of running from love. what's the worst? crash and burn? well, been there done that and what didn't kill me made me stronger lol. love is essential for my happiness. i'd always run towards love lol
Idk probably does have to do with the sag and aqua. I have a lot of outer planets in cap. They are also in a stellium together in my 6th house with rahu. I don't mean to run , I'm not really running from love. I just start pushing people away when I realize I really care about them. It may or may not be cap thing.


how's your relationship with your parents? especially with your farther? it's usually not easy for many to break the cycle. do u have sun conjunct saturn? i was showered with love and well protected growing up so i expect and give the same with romantic partner and that's in sync with my 1st house venus conjunct sun





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My dad and I aren't close. Broken home. I didn't grow up showered with love. Mother was all doing her own thing. Father very insensitive non supportive. They were and still are not nurturing . My Saturn is conjunct my sun. It's in my 6th house though.
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i think it has more to do with your aqua venus and sagi mercury. the only cap you have in your chart is your sun. i have cap sun, venus and mercury and i seriously cannot relate.

i don't get the point of running from love. what's the worst? crash and burn? well, been there done that and what didn't kill me made me stronger lol. love is essential for my happiness. i'd always run towards love lol
Idk probably does have to do with the sag and aqua. I have a lot of outer planets in cap. They are also in a stellium together in my 6th house with rahu. I don't mean to run , I'm not really running from love. I just start pushing people away when I realize I really care about them. It may or may not be cap thing.


how's your relationship with your parents? especially with your farther? it's usually not easy for many to break the cycle. do u have sun conjunct saturn? i was showered with love and well protected growing up so i expect and give the same with romantic partner and that's in sync with my 1st house venus conjunct sun







My dad and I aren't close. Broken home. I didn't grow up showered with love. Mother was all doing her own thing. Father very insensitive non supportive. They were and still are not nurturing . My Saturn is conjunct my sun. It's in my 6th house though.


I feel ya. I grew up the same way. As a Sag sun/aqua moon I know all about running away. I'm also Cap dominant. Change is definitely possible, you just really have to want it. I think about it as a journey, taking one step at a time. The key is to be aware & to take responsibility for yourself, so that you can make those changes you want to make. I applaud you that you think this way at your age. It took me 2 failed marriages & a midlife crisis.

Oh yeah I struggled in romantic relationships, but have been the most loving & caring mom making sure I give what I didn't get. Hang in there. I do notice my relationships change for the better along with my changes. Also, sometimes that run away instinct is telling us something, so it's not always wrong. It's just important to stay when someone is important to us. And work through it until it's better or clear you must walk. ( that's what happened with my 17 yr marriage).

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Thanks that means a lot. I feel like even though they weren't right for you entire life , you had that relationship for a reason. I know every one that I've had taught me something about myself and how to improve. What I'm good at what I'm not and need to work on. It's crazy because if you take yourself out of your own shoes and literally reflect from the other person's point of view you can see your own faults. I mean sometimes it's not you, most of the time it's both parties acting out of self preservation.