He texted me.

How to Respond When He Texts After Disappearing

When he reappears after a month, respond calmly and honestly. Express your feelings and ask for clarity. Avoid rushing into decisions. Focus on setting boundaries and understanding his intentions before deciding to continue the relationship.

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Lovedeep
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7 Years

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Posted by PhishFood

What did he said in the text matters too, can you share ?


Yes sure..

When he started ignoring me i started doing the same

From last some days he had been checking my status immediately as I put it..

Today he initiated first by saying hi.. I replied a normal hi to him..he asked me how r u? I replied im fine.. then he asked if I had my food.. seems he is initiating conversation..I'm trying to play cool
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LadyNeptune
@LadyNeptune
10 Years25,000+ Posts

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Posted by Lovedeep

Posted by Impulsv

I read this somewhere

Wait three days

Or do

That will make him think about his behavior and twhen you responded won’t seem your too happy about it.

But hey I what do I know


I texted him simple hi only.. seems like he is testing me for sure.. sigh
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He isn't testing. He straight up forgot about you/doesn't gaf when you texted. Why?

Cause he has other options.

If someone respects you they will text you back. Thats common sense.
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PhishFood
@PhishFood
7 Years

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Posted by Lovedeep

Posted by PhishFood

What did he said in the text matters too, can you share ?


Yes sure..

When he started ignoring me i started doing the same

From last some days he had been checking my status immediately as I put it..

Today he initiated first by saying hi.. I replied a normal hi to him..he asked me how r u? I replied im fine.. then he asked if I had my food.. seems he is initiating conversation..I'm trying to play cool
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Good going

He's small talking lol