evergreen89
@evergreen89
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Help me read this Cap guy
Give him space and don't mention other guys!
He says it takes him time to commit and he hasn't taken down his profile. You say you're holding back and after two months you had slept with him(not judging that - it just doesn't seem like a person who makes a point of holding back.) and had been taking down your dating profile. I don't know this guy and I'm probably weird, but I'm a weird capricorn and I must admit that you taking down your dating profile after that short amount of time was to me a huuuge jump forward and in his shoes I would probably be freaking out at that. Your mentioning of other guys is, imo, a huge nono, however innocent it was. Just don't!!!
He says it takes him time to commit and he hasn't taken down his profile. You say you're holding back and after two months you had slept with him(not judging that - it just doesn't seem like a person who makes a point of holding back.) and had been taking down your dating profile. I don't know this guy and I'm probably weird, but I'm a weird capricorn and I must admit that you taking down your dating profile after that short amount of time was to me a huuuge jump forward and in his shoes I would probably be freaking out at that. Your mentioning of other guys is, imo, a huge nono, however innocent it was. Just don't!!!
...so I'm not at all shocked at his behaviour.
Posted by evergreen89
So I've been seeing this Cap guy for about 2 months now. We haven't been exclusive yet. I know Cappies can be slow to commit so I'm being very patient with him. I'm a Pisces, and I have been trying to hold back on a lot of things, like emotions. I met him online, and about 3 weeks after talking (we already slept together by then, after the 5th date), I told him I took down my profile and just wanted to get to know him only. He said he likes me but it definitely takes him time to commit to someone, and only when he sees that it is getting very serious will he commit to anybody. He also said that he's not talking to anybody else, and that he's not looking to either.
So he's still active on that website (which didn't bother me at first as it was still very soon, but now that it has been 2 months it starts to bother me). SHould I say anything about this? (I have a friend also on that website and she told me she saw him online just the other day, although not for long)
Another thing is, yesterday when I was texting him, somehow the conversation led to me mentioning a guy that has been crushing on me. I have no interest in this guy. ANyhow my cap guy asked me a series of questions about this guy, do I hang out with him, do I talk to him? Blah blah. I reassured him that he is the only one I'm talking to, although we're not exclusive yet. He said he wanted to know what the deal was with that guy, and that it pissed him off. Can someone explain what this behavior means? He's not my bf yet he's acting like we're in a committed relationship. He's generally pretty cold, as in he does not show his emotions easily. What does this mean?
Thank you!
Two months is WAY to soon to be worrying about this. It takes about 6 months to get serious about someone. I met my aqua on line and it was at the 6 month stage when we took down our profiles. We became exclusive at about 5 months.
Just date and keep getting to know him. DO NOT shower him with emotions. It's too soon. He will run like the wind and leave you in a cloud of dust. It's scary for someone to think they love you, etc when they don't even really know you. He hasn't dropped all his walls yet. Slow down and enjoy the getting to know you stage. Don't expect too much too soon. Don't ask for labels too soon.
Posted by evergreen89
Another thing is, yesterday when I was texting him, somehow the conversation led to me mentioning a guy that has been crushing on me. I have no interest in this guy. ANyhow my cap guy asked me a series of questions about this guy, do I hang out with him, do I talk to him? Blah blah. I reassured him that he is the only one I'm talking to, although we're not exclusive yet. He said he wanted to know what the deal was with that guy, and that it pissed him off. Can someone explain what this behavior means? He's not my bf yet he's acting like we're in a committed relationship. He's generally pretty cold, as in he does not show his emotions easily. What does this mean?
Thank you!
Why would you bring this up? You were trying to make him jealous, which REAKS of game playing. It's a game and you know it. Caps are very straightforward - he told you it was too soon and he told you he needed time. Then you go about trying to make him jealous. Caps prefer not to play games, BUT, start the games, and he will play. This cap is going to beat you at your own game.
Oh sweet evergreen...
If you're not exclusive stop acting like you are exclusive with him.
Don't trap yourself into a non-relationship where you're the only one being exclusive. Not only will you get your feelings hurt you'll be emotionally, physically, mentally maybe even spiritually trapped in a non existent relationship and kicking yourself for it.
Don't ever bring up another man be it casually or seriously because when you do that it reeks of desperation.
Use a bit of emotional intelligence when it comes to situations like this. He's not ready to be exclusive and you are. Don't ever pretend to be patient. Don't ever pretend to be okay with being his side piece if you're goal is exclusivity because you'll begin behave in a desperate needy way even when you're trying not to.. If exclusivity is what you want then it's okay to tell a man what you want and then you can ask him what he wants and if it doesn't line up you can politely back off and continue to date him as you're continuing on your journey to meet and date other men or bow out completely.
You know he does not want exclusivity with you so now what are you going to do? How long are you prepared to wait?
If exclusivity is important to you then make sure you tell him that from the start and you might want to hold off on having sex with a man until you know what he has in store for you as in what's his end goal in dating you.
If you're not exclusive stop acting like you are exclusive with him.
Don't trap yourself into a non-relationship where you're the only one being exclusive. Not only will you get your feelings hurt you'll be emotionally, physically, mentally maybe even spiritually trapped in a non existent relationship and kicking yourself for it.
Don't ever bring up another man be it casually or seriously because when you do that it reeks of desperation.
Use a bit of emotional intelligence when it comes to situations like this. He's not ready to be exclusive and you are. Don't ever pretend to be patient. Don't ever pretend to be okay with being his side piece if you're goal is exclusivity because you'll begin behave in a desperate needy way even when you're trying not to.. If exclusivity is what you want then it's okay to tell a man what you want and then you can ask him what he wants and if it doesn't line up you can politely back off and continue to date him as you're continuing on your journey to meet and date other men or bow out completely.
You know he does not want exclusivity with you so now what are you going to do? How long are you prepared to wait?
If exclusivity is important to you then make sure you tell him that from the start and you might want to hold off on having sex with a man until you know what he has in store for you as in what's his end goal in dating you.
Posted by truecap
Two months is WAY to soon to be worrying about this. It takes about 6 months to get serious about someone. I met my aqua on line and it was at the 6 month stage when we took down our profiles. We became exclusive at about 5 months.
Just date and keep getting to know him. DO NOT shower him with emotions. It's too soon. He will run like the wind and leave you in a cloud of dust. It's scary for someone to think they love you, etc when they don't even really know you. He hasn't dropped all his walls yet. Slow down and enjoy the getting to know you stage. Don't expect too much too soon. Don't ask for labels too soon.
Thank you. That makes me rethink about my whole strategy to capture this Cap. I need to be more patient for sure. I def haven't been emotional at all around him, I let him take the lead, and let him move at his own pace.
Sometimes I find myself sharing details (that I find interesting) with my Cap that include other men. For example, work dilemmas - an older mentor type asked me to supervise a trip with him to NY. It would be free for me, though not paid work, and would look great on my resume. Cap hated* hearing about it, and let me know. Was I trying to make him jealous? NO. Did it? YES!
After this experience, I realized how jealous and possessive he can be. In the future, will need to be more careful talking about any guys. Probably will just save these conversations for my Mom or a trusted gf 🙂
Yeah, agree with truecap, don't play games with a Cap. Be honest and up front about what you are looking for, and stick to it. That's what they do 🙂
After this experience, I realized how jealous and possessive he can be. In the future, will need to be more careful talking about any guys. Probably will just save these conversations for my Mom or a trusted gf 🙂
Yeah, agree with truecap, don't play games with a Cap. Be honest and up front about what you are looking for, and stick to it. That's what they do 🙂
Posted by tiki33
Oh sweet evergreen...
If you're not exclusive stop acting like you are exclusive with him.
Don't trap yourself into a non-relationship where you're the only one being exclusive. Not only will you get your feelings hurt you'll be emotionally, physically, mentally maybe even spiritually trapped in a non existent relationship and kicking yourself for it.
Don't ever bring up another man be it casually or seriously because when you do that it reeks of desperation.
Use a bit of emotional intelligence when it comes to situations like this. He's not ready to be exclusive and you are. Don't ever pretend to be patient. Don't ever pretend to be okay with being his side piece if you're goal is exclusivity because you'll begin behave in a desperate needy way even when you're trying not to.. If exclusivity is what you want then it's okay to tell a man what you want and then you can ask him what he wants and if it doesn't line up you can politely back off and continue to date him as you're continuing on your journey to meet and date other men or bow out completely.
You know he does not want exclusivity with you so now what are you going to do? How long are you prepared to wait?
If exclusivity is important to you then make sure you tell him that from the start and you might want to hold off on having sex with a man until you know what he has in store for you as in what's his end goal in dating you.
I'm def not acting like I'm exclusive with him. I haven't grown emotionally attached to him. After 2 months I feel like I care for him as a friend. I can't say I miss him if I haven't seen him for days (he wants to see me more often but I have other priorities and right now they come before him). I enjoy spending time with him as it is right now and what keeps me coming back for more is that he seems like a challenge and it seriously interests me. I want to be able to crack that shell, and find out for myself what's underneath it all.
I'm just not one to be talking to multiple guys at the same time as I cannot keep track of all of them. The only reason why the fact he's still active online bothers me is I feel like I should be doing the same thing, but I can't because I already took off my profile and I cannot go back on my words. It will look bad on me.
Posted by SunMoonStars
Sometimes I find myself sharing details (that I find interesting) with my Cap that include other men. For example, work dilemmas - an older mentor type asked me to supervise a trip with him to NY. It would be free for me, though not paid work, and would look great on my resume. Cap hated* hearing about it, and let me know. Was I trying to make him jealous? NO. Did it? YES!
After this experience, I realized how jealous and possessive he can be. In the future, will need to be more careful talking about any guys. Probably will just save these conversations for my Mom or a trusted gf 🙂
Yeah, agree with truecap, don't play games with a Cap. Be honest and up front about what you are looking for, and stick to it. That's what they do 🙂
I was very upfront in the beginning about what I am looking for. I told him I'm not looking for just a hook up so if that's what this is I told him not to waste my time. After we had sex the first time he said he couldn't seem to keep his mind off me and how great the sex was but at some point that was all he was talking about. So I called him up and told him that the sex was great but the fact that that was the only thing he talked about after we had sex turned me off, and I don't wanna waste my time so we can stop hanging out. He told me to calm down and that it wasn't just about sex, cuz otherwise he wouldn't have taken me out on dates. He told me he likes me and he wanted to get to know me, he just got carried away cuz to him the sex was really amazing. So i let him off the hook. And a couple times we did hang out without having sex. And he's still around. lol.
And yes I think I probably did the same thing, I accidentally mentioned the other guy just because it has something to do with the conversation we were having at that time, I never feel the need to make any guy jealous as I'm confident in myself. But he def shows me that side of him where he is a little possessive and jealous. This Cap is a true cap in every way, he rarely shows emotions until about 2 weeks ago, when I was so busy and didn't have a lot of time to spend with him, and we ended up going the whole week not seeing each other, so finally when we find time to see each other he told me "I'm so excited to see you. It's been a whole week".
evergreen, that's good that you told him what you are looking for.
As for his being active on the website, technically if you aren't exclusive and with a title, he is free to do that. I've said this before, status, titles, etc. are quite important to Caps imo. If you aren't his gf or wife, he will keep his options open to date others unless he says otherwise.
Other people have mentioned not to push a commitment too soon. Caps take their time to trust, and will test you.
As for his being active on the website, technically if you aren't exclusive and with a title, he is free to do that. I've said this before, status, titles, etc. are quite important to Caps imo. If you aren't his gf or wife, he will keep his options open to date others unless he says otherwise.
Other people have mentioned not to push a commitment too soon. Caps take their time to trust, and will test you.
Posted by evergreen89Posted by truecap
Two months is WAY to soon to be worrying about this. It takes about 6 months to get serious about someone. I met my aqua on line and it was at the 6 month stage when we took down our profiles. We became exclusive at about 5 months.
Just date and keep getting to know him. DO NOT shower him with emotions. It's too soon. He will run like the wind and leave you in a cloud of dust. It's scary for someone to think they love you, etc when they don't even really know you. He hasn't dropped all his walls yet. Slow down and enjoy the getting to know you stage. Don't expect too much too soon. Don't ask for labels too soon.
Thank you. That makes me rethink about my whole strategy to capture this Cap. I need to be more patient for sure. I def haven't been emotional at all around him, I let him take the lead, and let him move at his own pace.click to expand
This makes me slightly worried. Sounds a bit like game playing to me. I may be wrong, but that's my take on it. Just calm down, throw the games and strategies out the window and be you.
@HappyCapper: When I mean strategy I mean as in just take it as it as and go with the flow 🙂
Posted by evalani05
Capricorn men are smart,like really smart as in "They will f*** your brains out smart". Don't try to play games with these men because you won't even know what hit you. You will even have doubts if it was an act of love or he was just punished you!!They are the godfathers of rules,responsibility and restrictions,he can play whatever game you play ten times better than you,just don't!! Two months is not enough yet,you have his attention though so don't ruin it!Don't try to test his limits by seeing where you guys are,when he will be ready and sure he'll let you know,on his own time. You have to understand this man...and in order to do that you really have to like him...patience is the key here,remember this every time you think you are losing yourself,stability and patience. Without those two you are pretty much screwed. These men are not for just anybody,give him time and you also. No strategy will work,he has everything already planned out,he has a tunnel vision...meaning he sees right through you!!Just be kind,decent,nice,funny and do your own thing,he will get there if is you that he wants trust me on this,he's the type of man that always gets what he wants. Good luck and leave silly games aside,you will hurt yourself in the process.
Thanks for your insight. Really helpful!
Just a little note about on-line dating sites....I don't know if they all do this but match.com does...They send e-mails. If you open an email, it shows you were "active" on the site. So, just because they said you are active, doesn't mean you were actively searching and talking to other people. Opening that email was active with the site.
They do this so it looks like more people are actively using the site than there really is.
They do this so it looks like more people are actively using the site than there really is.
Posted by evalani05
Capricorn men are smart,like really smart as in "They will f*** your brains out smart". Don't try to play games with these men because you won't even know what hit you. You will even have doubts if it was an act of love or he was just punished you!!They are the godfathers of rules,responsibility and restrictions,he can play whatever game you play ten times better than you,just don't!! Two months is not enough yet,you have his attention though so don't ruin it!Don't try to test his limits by seeing where you guys are,when he will be ready and sure he'll let you know,on his own time. You have to understand this man...and in order to do that you really have to like him...patience is the key here,remember this every time you think you are losing yourself,stability and patience. Without those two you are pretty much screwed. These men are not for just anybody,give him time and you also. No strategy will work,he has everything already planned out,he has a tunnel vision...meaning he sees right through you!!Just be kind,decent,nice,funny and do your own thing,he will get there if is you that he wants trust me on this,he's the type of man that always gets what he wants. Good luck and leave silly games aside,you will hurt yourself in the process.
The cap men are going to LOVE this statement. lol!!
Actually though, it's good advice.
Posted by truecap
Just a little note about on-line dating sites....I don't know if they all do this but match.com does...They send e-mails. If you open an email, it shows you were "active" on the site. So, just because they said you are active, doesn't mean you were actively searching and talking to other people. Opening that email was active with the site.
They do this so it looks like more people are actively using the site than there really is.
The emails are from the site, not from women.
SO update on this guy. My friend said he messaged her online. Haha. I'm done with him.
Posted by evergreen89
SO update on this guy. My friend said he messaged her online. Haha. I'm done with him.
Did he initiate the message or did she?
Posted by truecap
Just a little note about on-line dating sites....I don't know if they all do this but match.com does...They send e-mails. If you open an email, it shows you were "active" on the site. So, just because they said you are active, doesn't mean you were actively searching and talking to other people. Opening that email was active with the site.
They do this so it looks like more people are actively using the site than there really is.
Okay, I have a question that has nothing to do with this case. Sorry about that.
On this forum, we naturally come from different cultural and discursive backgrounds and my question is about that. What does "talking to other people" really mean as you write it, Truecap? I understand that must be something deeper than just actual talking, but what does it really mean. It's mentioned so much in american tv-shows, but I haven't been able to quite get that expression. Sorry again for using this thread for my question.
@I'm def not acting like I'm exclusive with him.
Believe it or not you are. You're here talking about a man that has clearly told you he does not want exclusivity. Instead of you going on to the next adventure with a new man you're here talking about what he said. That's typically how women want/need to be exclusive behave.
He's still active online because he's still open to dating other women. If it bothers you then yes you have an exclusive vibe.
Some Pisces women just don't get it. They play games like oops I don't act exclusive but grrr it bothers me that he's still active on his profile, ooops I slipped and mentioned this guy blah blah which is way too slippery for Cap males to deal with.
Cap males see right through the BS and will just passively but politely dump a woman on her ass without saying a word, it'll take months before a woman realizes he's kind of gone even when he's still around.
He's got the sex, you've been captured, nothing left to do but wait and wait and wait. Can you wait?
Believe it or not you are. You're here talking about a man that has clearly told you he does not want exclusivity. Instead of you going on to the next adventure with a new man you're here talking about what he said. That's typically how women want/need to be exclusive behave.
He's still active online because he's still open to dating other women. If it bothers you then yes you have an exclusive vibe.
Some Pisces women just don't get it. They play games like oops I don't act exclusive but grrr it bothers me that he's still active on his profile, ooops I slipped and mentioned this guy blah blah which is way too slippery for Cap males to deal with.
Cap males see right through the BS and will just passively but politely dump a woman on her ass without saying a word, it'll take months before a woman realizes he's kind of gone even when he's still around.
He's got the sex, you've been captured, nothing left to do but wait and wait and wait. Can you wait?
Posted by tiki33
@I'm def not acting like I'm exclusive with him.
Believe it or not you are. You're here talking about a man that has clearly told you he does not want exclusivity. Instead of you going on to the next adventure with a new man you're here talking about what he said. That's typically how women want/need to be exclusive behave.
He's still active online because he's still open to dating other women. If it bothers you then yes you have an exclusive vibe.
Some Pisces women just don't get it. They play games like oops I don't act exclusive but grrr it bothers me that he's still active on his profile, ooops I slipped and mentioned this guy blah blah which is way too slippery for Cap males to deal with.
Cap males see right through the BS and will just passively but politely dump a woman on her ass without saying a word, it'll take months before a woman realizes he's kind of gone even when he's still around.
He's got the sex, you've been captured, nothing left to do but wait and wait and wait. Can you wait?
^^^ This.
Plus, you taking down your dating profile seems to me the very definition of a woman who wants exclusivity.
Posted by HappyCapperPosted by truecap
Just a little note about on-line dating sites....I don't know if they all do this but match.com does...They send e-mails. If you open an email, it shows you were "active" on the site. So, just because they said you are active, doesn't mean you were actively searching and talking to other people. Opening that email was active with the site.
They do this so it looks like more people are actively using the site than there really is.
Okay, I have a question that has nothing to do with this case. Sorry about that.
On this forum, we naturally come from different cultural and discursive backgrounds and my question is about that. What does "talking to other people" really mean as you write it, Truecap? I understand that must be something deeper than just actual talking, but what does it really mean. It's mentioned so much in american tv-shows, but I haven't been able to quite get that expression. Sorry again for using this thread for my question.
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To me talking with other people means texting, flirting, entertaining, but it doesn't mean sleeping with them. It keeps your perspective while you're in the pre-exclusive dating scenario. It means not putting all your eggs in one basket, keeping options open. But, you don't sleep with them.
Posted by truecapPosted by HappyCapperPosted by truecap
Just a little note about on-line dating sites....I don't know if they all do this but match.com does...They send e-mails. If you open an email, it shows you were "active" on the site. So, just because they said you are active, doesn't mean you were actively searching and talking to other people. Opening that email was active with the site.
They do this so it looks like more people are actively using the site than there really is.
Okay, I have a question that has nothing to do with this case. Sorry about that.
On this forum, we naturally come from different cultural and discursive backgrounds and my question is about that. What does "talking to other people" really mean as you write it, Truecap? I understand that must be something deeper than just actual talking, but what does it really mean. It's mentioned so much in american tv-shows, but I haven't been able to quite get that expression. Sorry again for using this thread for my question.
To me talking with other people means texting, flirting, entertaining, but it doesn't mean sleeping with them. It keeps your perspective while you're in the pre-exclusive dating scenario. It means not putting all your eggs in one basket, keeping options open. But, you don't sleep with them.click to expand
Thank you very much!🙂
Fish female OP, Trucap, Tiki & Eva have all given you great advice about Cap men. Your mistake was trying to play games with them.
Don't.
While you "think" you're done with him, it's actually HE who's done with you. Why do you think ---of all people ---he messaged YOUR friend online? Don't you think he WANTED you to be "done" with him?
He won your game.....by letting you think you won.
Out of topic but related to what I wrote above: Cap men remind me of Littlefinger from Game of Thrones. Sneaky, dark, dangerous.... while appearing harmless.
SOrry i've been out of touch for a while. Been busy. His explanation as to why he messaged her was that he didn't like the fact that some guy is still trying to "get with me", and he said who knows who else I'm talking to. And because we're not exclusive it wasn't his place to say anything. He just didn't like it, and he started talking to other people assuming that I'm doing the same thing. I don't know if I should believe him but at this point it doesn't really matter. I'm having a lot of fun with this guy so I'm leaving it at that. I did ask him if he wanted to keep his options and mine open, so we can go ahead and talk to other people at the same time we see each other, he said no and that he wanted to set the boundaries that neither one of us would be talking to or seeing other people.
So he messaged her to talk about you and to express his feelings about you.
You made it sound like he messaged her to hook up with her.
Games with him, games with us.....you're just full of games.
Enjoy your new guy.
You made it sound like he messaged her to hook up with her.
Games with him, games with us.....you're just full of games.
Enjoy your new guy.
No! He didn't know it was my friend that he messaged. The message was sent around 330am. He said he was bored and messaged a couple people, only because he thought I was talking to other guys.
@Truecap: Do you know how to read birth chart? Can you tell me something about this Cap? Your insights have been helping me a lot.
He was born on Dec 25th
Sun in Capricorn
Moon in Aries
Mercury in Capricorn
Venus in Capricorn
Mars in Taurus
He was born on Dec 25th
Sun in Capricorn
Moon in Aries
Mercury in Capricorn
Venus in Capricorn
Mars in Taurus
I know the Aries moon is impulsive, confrontational and gets bored easily. The cap venus is cautious, slow, calm, stable, and one knows where they stand with them. Cap mercury (me) is blunt and to the point - if you ask you will be told how they really feel.
Not so good at reading charts really but I'll post some information from alwaysastrology.com. I like how they explain it in simple terms.
Not so good at reading charts really but I'll post some information from alwaysastrology.com. I like how they explain it in simple terms.
Aries Moon Sign
The Moon rules the emotional self, so when the Moon is in Aries, watch out! Aries Moon is not known for restraint. They are impulsive and enthusiastic. If an idea strikes them, they are the first on the bandwagon to make it reality, without stopping to think about any obstacles that may be in the way. Spontaneous and determined, they let their heart rule their head.
Moon Sign Aries is happy, optimistic, and impatient. They live for the moment, forgetting all else. Instant gratification is their middle name. They are passionate and have no qualms about sharing how they feel. At the same time, they can be very independent. They don't like to take no for an answer. They have the self-confidence to put themselves out there and they want to make a strong impression. Subtle does not describe this Sign. They are well-suited to meeting challenges that may destroy lesser people. They are clever and often approach their situations with a novel angle. Occasionally there are the few who may blame everything on other people.
Aries Moon takes everything personally, but they don't hold grudges. If they feel slighted they will burst out angrily and let those responsible know about it. Their emotions can rapidly change, and they can throw some spectacular tantrums. These emotional outbursts are usually over as quickly as they started. They don't normally take any time to consider the consequences of their actions. They seem to be able to just shrug off anything that goes wrong and keep going. They tend to calm down as they get older.
Moon Sign Aries gets bored easily. They have been accused of causing confrontations just to keep things interesting. If you live with a Moon in Aries person, keep this in mind. It may make it easier to deal with the drama that is bound to occur. They like to get their own way, and can resent any authority besides their own. At their worst, Aries Moon can be overconfident, aggressive, self-indulgent and foolhardy. At their best, they can be inspiring, kind, sympathetic, generous and tireless for a cause.
Moon Sign Aries has a problem differentiating between a need and a want. If they want it, they feel they need it with all their being. This can be a problem for overspending or other vices. They are charming, even when they are in the midst of a personal crisis that has all their friends scrambling to help. In the middle of these frequent "crises," they seldom feel any concern over the needs of others.
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The Moon rules the emotional self, so when the Moon is in Aries, watch out! Aries Moon is not known for restraint. They are impulsive and enthusiastic. If an idea strikes them, they are the first on the bandwagon to make it reality, without stopping to think about any obstacles that may be in the way. Spontaneous and determined, they let their heart rule their head.
Moon Sign Aries is happy, optimistic, and impatient. They live for the moment, forgetting all else. Instant gratification is their middle name. They are passionate and have no qualms about sharing how they feel. At the same time, they can be very independent. They don't like to take no for an answer. They have the self-confidence to put themselves out there and they want to make a strong impression. Subtle does not describe this Sign. They are well-suited to meeting challenges that may destroy lesser people. They are clever and often approach their situations with a novel angle. Occasionally there are the few who may blame everything on other people.
Aries Moon takes everything personally, but they don't hold grudges. If they feel slighted they will burst out angrily and let those responsible know about it. Their emotions can rapidly change, and they can throw some spectacular tantrums. These emotional outbursts are usually over as quickly as they started. They don't normally take any time to consider the consequences of their actions. They seem to be able to just shrug off anything that goes wrong and keep going. They tend to calm down as they get older.
Moon Sign Aries gets bored easily. They have been accused of causing confrontations just to keep things interesting. If you live with a Moon in Aries person, keep this in mind. It may make it easier to deal with the drama that is bound to occur. They like to get their own way, and can resent any authority besides their own. At their worst, Aries Moon can be overconfident, aggressive, self-indulgent and foolhardy. At their best, they can be inspiring, kind, sympathetic, generous and tireless for a cause.
Moon Sign Aries has a problem differentiating between a need and a want. If they want it, they feel they need it with all their being. This can be a problem for overspending or other vices. They are charming, even when they are in the midst of a personal crisis that has all their friends scrambling to help. In the middle of these frequent "crises," they seldom feel any concern over the needs of others.
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On the good side, the Aries Moon isn't likely to sulk if they don't get their way. They also play it straight?? they don't go for manipulating others through guile or deception. They have an aura of innocence around them. They can achieve what many other people want, but don't take the chance to get. They like the idea of having power, and will probably handle it fine, if a little heavy handed.
On the good side, the Aries Moon isn't likely to sulk if they don't get their way. They also play it straight?? they don't go for manipulating others through guile or deception. They have an aura of innocence around them. They can achieve what many other people want, but don't take the chance to get. They like the idea of having power, and will probably handle it fine, if a little heavy handed.
Taurus Mars Sign
Mars in Taurus is focused on their goals, no matter how long it takes. Easy going and calm, Taurus Mars can fly into a rage when they are provoked beyond their endurance. Usually, they are the picture of strength and stability. They like to feel secure financially and like to collect personal possessions. Taurus Mars is not afraid to work for what they want, and they have the focus and patience to get it.
Taurus Mars is good about not getting involved in more projects than they can handle. It is difficult to get them to change their mind once it is made up. Adaptability isn't their strong suit. Likewise, if you're in a rush, it won't matter to them. They don't feel the need to change their pace unless it is a true emergency.
Taurus Mars is very reliable and dependable. They are practical and have great endurance. They can be obstinate, which can be frustrating to everyone around them. This can be taken to a very immature level at times. They like to build things, cultivate an art or enjoy pleasures of the senses. They can get jealous, as they see their partner as belonging only to them. Possession is important to them.
Taurus Mars is passionate and grounded. They project an air of confidence. Their honesty gives them great integrity. They excel in anything that requires dedication and discipline.
In a relationship, Mars in Taurus is rather conventional and straightforward. They are emotionally stable and loyal to the end. They are into gratification, both their own and their partner's. They like their creature comforts, and bring that into their relationships. Physical relations are very important to Taurus Mars. They don't complicate things with fantasy, they just take their time. Foreplay was invented by Mars in Taurus. They can be very jealous if they imagine someone else is interested in their partner. They have a very difficult time if denied sex for any length of time??_ they see it as necessary as breathing or eating, which they also enjoy to the utmost. They need a partner who is willing to relax and enjoy.
Mars in Taurus prefers to go with the flow rather than fight the current. They are naturals at crafting high quality things, and they may make a good living from such endeavors.
Mars in Taurus is focused on their goals, no matter how long it takes. Easy going and calm, Taurus Mars can fly into a rage when they are provoked beyond their endurance. Usually, they are the picture of strength and stability. They like to feel secure financially and like to collect personal possessions. Taurus Mars is not afraid to work for what they want, and they have the focus and patience to get it.
Taurus Mars is good about not getting involved in more projects than they can handle. It is difficult to get them to change their mind once it is made up. Adaptability isn't their strong suit. Likewise, if you're in a rush, it won't matter to them. They don't feel the need to change their pace unless it is a true emergency.
Taurus Mars is very reliable and dependable. They are practical and have great endurance. They can be obstinate, which can be frustrating to everyone around them. This can be taken to a very immature level at times. They like to build things, cultivate an art or enjoy pleasures of the senses. They can get jealous, as they see their partner as belonging only to them. Possession is important to them.
Taurus Mars is passionate and grounded. They project an air of confidence. Their honesty gives them great integrity. They excel in anything that requires dedication and discipline.
In a relationship, Mars in Taurus is rather conventional and straightforward. They are emotionally stable and loyal to the end. They are into gratification, both their own and their partner's. They like their creature comforts, and bring that into their relationships. Physical relations are very important to Taurus Mars. They don't complicate things with fantasy, they just take their time. Foreplay was invented by Mars in Taurus. They can be very jealous if they imagine someone else is interested in their partner. They have a very difficult time if denied sex for any length of time??_ they see it as necessary as breathing or eating, which they also enjoy to the utmost. They need a partner who is willing to relax and enjoy.
Mars in Taurus prefers to go with the flow rather than fight the current. They are naturals at crafting high quality things, and they may make a good living from such endeavors.
Capricorn Venus
Capricorn Venus is responsible and in control. They impress people by their wit, their focus on their goals, and their smarts. They like a certain amount of predictability in their relationships to fit their cautious personality.
They like to be alone, which is part of their charm. This loner behavior attracts many of the opposite sex as they seek to be a part of the "coolness" that is Capricorn Venus. They aren't very expressive or demonstrative about love, and their partners may wish they weren't quite so practical. The person with Venus in Capricorn isn't known for their warmth or spontaneity. In actuality, they can be very romantic and wish for someone to share their lives with. How they appear to others is very important to them.
Capricorn Venus is attracted to people who are serious and goal-oriented. They are willing to commit, and are rather conservative. They may be a bit shy, but they don't want anyone to know. They plan everything, and they are perfect for those who want to know where their relationship is going and want security. Capricorn Venus is respectful and tries very hard to not hurt their partner. It is difficult for them to let down their defenses, but when it happens, they are warm and tender.
Capricorn Venus shows their emotions and affection through their actions rather than their words. Passionate people can attract them, yet intimidate them at the same time. They have a lot to offer for those who are up to the challenge of getting to know them.
A Venus in Capricorn person needs material wealth and status to feel safe and secure. They may choose to marry someone who is from a higher station in life. They are reserved in public, but can be quite affectionate in private. They are loyal to those they love, and live up to their responsibilities. They are likely to seek out someone who has the same level of ambition they have with which to build their own personal empire. They are a little old-fashioned, and they would like nothing better than to settle down and have a family to grow old with.
In friendship, Capricorn Venus wants to help their friends be successful in the world. They are dependable and expect their friends to be as responsible as they are. They may suffer bouts of melancholy, so it is important that they have friends willing to extend a hand when this happens.
Capricorn Venus has a talent for finding good partnerships. They build with a sense of tradition, and they would
Capricorn Venus is responsible and in control. They impress people by their wit, their focus on their goals, and their smarts. They like a certain amount of predictability in their relationships to fit their cautious personality.
They like to be alone, which is part of their charm. This loner behavior attracts many of the opposite sex as they seek to be a part of the "coolness" that is Capricorn Venus. They aren't very expressive or demonstrative about love, and their partners may wish they weren't quite so practical. The person with Venus in Capricorn isn't known for their warmth or spontaneity. In actuality, they can be very romantic and wish for someone to share their lives with. How they appear to others is very important to them.
Capricorn Venus is attracted to people who are serious and goal-oriented. They are willing to commit, and are rather conservative. They may be a bit shy, but they don't want anyone to know. They plan everything, and they are perfect for those who want to know where their relationship is going and want security. Capricorn Venus is respectful and tries very hard to not hurt their partner. It is difficult for them to let down their defenses, but when it happens, they are warm and tender.
Capricorn Venus shows their emotions and affection through their actions rather than their words. Passionate people can attract them, yet intimidate them at the same time. They have a lot to offer for those who are up to the challenge of getting to know them.
A Venus in Capricorn person needs material wealth and status to feel safe and secure. They may choose to marry someone who is from a higher station in life. They are reserved in public, but can be quite affectionate in private. They are loyal to those they love, and live up to their responsibilities. They are likely to seek out someone who has the same level of ambition they have with which to build their own personal empire. They are a little old-fashioned, and they would like nothing better than to settle down and have a family to grow old with.
In friendship, Capricorn Venus wants to help their friends be successful in the world. They are dependable and expect their friends to be as responsible as they are. They may suffer bouts of melancholy, so it is important that they have friends willing to extend a hand when this happens.
Capricorn Venus has a talent for finding good partnerships. They build with a sense of tradition, and they would
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Capricorn Venus has a talent for finding good partnerships. They build with a sense of tradition, and they would like to leave a legacy in whatever they choose to be involved in.
People are attracted to Venus in Capricorn people because there is something soulful about them. This is made even more attractive because of the mystery created by their close guarding of their privacy. They don't just sit back and watch, they get up and do. They garner respect and exude dignity. They are loyal and unwavering.
For those attracted to a person with Venus in Capricorn, they want someone they can count on no matter what. They want someone who is accomplished in some fashion, and being prosperous doesn't hurt. They admire those who are hard-working and resourceful.
Capricorn Venus has a talent for finding good partnerships. They build with a sense of tradition, and they would like to leave a legacy in whatever they choose to be involved in.
People are attracted to Venus in Capricorn people because there is something soulful about them. This is made even more attractive because of the mystery created by their close guarding of their privacy. They don't just sit back and watch, they get up and do. They garner respect and exude dignity. They are loyal and unwavering.
For those attracted to a person with Venus in Capricorn, they want someone they can count on no matter what. They want someone who is accomplished in some fashion, and being prosperous doesn't hurt. They admire those who are hard-working and resourceful.
Capricorn Mercury Sign
Mercury in Capricorn tries to understand the world by putting everything into its own little compartment. They may be slow and methodical, and they appreciate structure and organization in their life. They are resourceful, but they can easily get overwhelmed if too much information comes at them at once. They need to break the information down into manageable pieces before it is useful.
They are very productive and active mentally, and prefer tasks that end with a tangible result. They can be quite authoritative, and don't like surprises. Mercury in Capricorn does not like people who don't keep promises. They can appear rather judgmental and strict, and they are short on patience with those who don't understand things that seem obvious to them.
They are not frivolous, and they don't like frivolity in others. They are practical in all aspects. They are often skeptical when confronted with something new. They may appear more conservative than they really are. They don't like to waste time or anything else. Planning, however, is important to them. They will take as much time as needed to make sure the plan is foolproof.
Words are chosen carefully by Capricorn Mercury. They don't want to appear foolish, so they may be a bit stiff. Those that appear very natural when making a presentation have probably worried themselves sick over how they would appear.
They are clear thinkers, and may appear rather rigid or narrow minded. They are cautious before committing to anything. They very seldom have anything to regret. While they don't learn too quickly, they retain the knowledge for a long time. They often feel a need to prove themselves.
Capricorn Mercury may appear moody or sulky, and it may take some effort to show enthusiasm. They have a great capacity for concentration and earnestness that makes them appear very serious. They are reliable and responsible, and in bad situations may end up depressed or pessimistic.
Mercury in Capricorn is definitely someone that you can trust to live their beliefs. They often become experts in their field because they are dedicated to learn all they can about their chosen topic. They favor self control, and may have difficulty mingling with others.
Mercury in Capricorn finds history and traditions fascinating. They have a way of melding the old and new into something practical and useful. They really want to leave their mark on the world and stand the test of time. They make go
Mercury in Capricorn tries to understand the world by putting everything into its own little compartment. They may be slow and methodical, and they appreciate structure and organization in their life. They are resourceful, but they can easily get overwhelmed if too much information comes at them at once. They need to break the information down into manageable pieces before it is useful.
They are very productive and active mentally, and prefer tasks that end with a tangible result. They can be quite authoritative, and don't like surprises. Mercury in Capricorn does not like people who don't keep promises. They can appear rather judgmental and strict, and they are short on patience with those who don't understand things that seem obvious to them.
They are not frivolous, and they don't like frivolity in others. They are practical in all aspects. They are often skeptical when confronted with something new. They may appear more conservative than they really are. They don't like to waste time or anything else. Planning, however, is important to them. They will take as much time as needed to make sure the plan is foolproof.
Words are chosen carefully by Capricorn Mercury. They don't want to appear foolish, so they may be a bit stiff. Those that appear very natural when making a presentation have probably worried themselves sick over how they would appear.
They are clear thinkers, and may appear rather rigid or narrow minded. They are cautious before committing to anything. They very seldom have anything to regret. While they don't learn too quickly, they retain the knowledge for a long time. They often feel a need to prove themselves.
Capricorn Mercury may appear moody or sulky, and it may take some effort to show enthusiasm. They have a great capacity for concentration and earnestness that makes them appear very serious. They are reliable and responsible, and in bad situations may end up depressed or pessimistic.
Mercury in Capricorn is definitely someone that you can trust to live their beliefs. They often become experts in their field because they are dedicated to learn all they can about their chosen topic. They favor self control, and may have difficulty mingling with others.
Mercury in Capricorn finds history and traditions fascinating. They have a way of melding the old and new into something practical and useful. They really want to leave their mark on the world and stand the test of time. They make go
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They make good administrators, engineers and excel at anything that is practical and detail oriented.
They make good administrators, engineers and excel at anything that is practical and detail oriented.
@Truecap: Wow, a lot of it is spot on! Thanks for sharing this with me. I think this guy likes me, and I can tell over time he is warming up to me. I just need to not overthink and overkill it. I'm letting him take the lead and see where this is going.
You can go on line and google different placements and placement combos like capricorn sun with aries moon, etc.
wow @evalani's comment xD
Update on this guy....
A lot has happened since I created this topic lol. Basically I couldn't just be patient with this guy anymore, and I told him he either shit or get off the pot, I wasn't gonna hang around if after two and a half months things weren't progressing. He said sorry that I was looking for a relationship but he wasn't. I decided to stop seeing him. 2 days later he called me and said he wanted me to meet his family, and that he realized he needed to put in more effort with me, and he was willing to take a step further.
I told him I wanted him to think carefully about what he just said, and if he needed more time to make sure he made the right decision, he could take all the time he wanted. And he said he just wasn't ready to let me go, and he disliked the idea of not being able to see me.
I guess sometimes when you like something, set it free, and if it comes back, it's yours.
Happy Thursday everyone!
A lot has happened since I created this topic lol. Basically I couldn't just be patient with this guy anymore, and I told him he either shit or get off the pot, I wasn't gonna hang around if after two and a half months things weren't progressing. He said sorry that I was looking for a relationship but he wasn't. I decided to stop seeing him. 2 days later he called me and said he wanted me to meet his family, and that he realized he needed to put in more effort with me, and he was willing to take a step further.
I told him I wanted him to think carefully about what he just said, and if he needed more time to make sure he made the right decision, he could take all the time he wanted. And he said he just wasn't ready to let me go, and he disliked the idea of not being able to see me.
I guess sometimes when you like something, set it free, and if it comes back, it's yours.
Happy Thursday everyone!
I meant to type $ h!t or get off the pot, and realized I cannot curse on here, lmao
Ultimatums seldom work out, but I hope it does in this case.
thanks Truecap, I honestly didn't expect he would come running back to me. But he did, I guess this guy needed a little push.
Whoa.... So after 4 months, he finally asked me to be his gf officially ,after 2 weeks of pulling away. i guess patience does pay off. He's now showing his affectionate side that I've never seen before. Everything about Capricorn people have been telling me is spot on with this cappie.
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