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Missvirgobaby
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I think some caps move extremely slow. My friend calls it "turtle speed" ?
If I don't feel instant attraction, I don't bother. If that instant attraction doesn't grow into what is potentially love in 1-3mths, I'm gonna start wondering why. I've already mentioned what happens by month six.
From what I'm seeing one to three months is a lot of caps time frame. Three to 4 is when I was introduced to the parents. He attempted to leave at 6 due to a topic neither will cave on. But came back with a I love you and plans on how to Make it work.


I've been dating my guy for a year and still haven't met his parents and, under the circumstances, it doesn't seem weird. Everyone has their own time frame. As long as I'm showing my respect and my effort and they're doing the same, traditional benchmarks are of no mind to me. Trust your gut and you'll be fine.


I didn't ask to meet him that was something he did on his own. I definitely let him do things on his own time. The only thing I ever really requested was the relationship. Which honestly is still working on his time


Since he's avoiding the relationship title, do you think he's talking to other women?
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He's said several times there isn't anyone else he's interested in and I have his attention. He's a work a holic so I really don't know when he would have time to see them but hey.
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Since he's avoiding the relationship title, do you think he's talking to other women?
Ask him! Then trust his answer!......thats what I did, I think theres no point in 2nd guessing. Take his word for it and he will open up to you, be suspicious and you will be in a place where you wont be happy......
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I've asked he's said no. So I left that at that
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tiki33
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Jalent I know they can commit but all too often this combination will stall and stall and stall, at least the men do. Of course I'm not speaking about a man that is mature, know himself, know what he wants and isn't afraid to go get it.

There have been countless threads where the men under this particular sign are non-committal and will start a situation but refuse to label it and stall.

This is a very difficult time consuming situation for a woman that is investing 99% of herself and her time on someone who refuses to budge mentally and emotionally AFTER he's got her in a position where she's all in mentally and emotionally.

It's the ALL IN part that can cause the stalling on his end even if he is the one encouraging her to be all in with him. It's not fair to encourage a woman to trust and believe and need him only to stall after he's got her, this is the frustrating part for a lot of women dealing with this particular sign combination.

Don't encourage her to fall only to stall afterwards. This can lead to a lot of frustration for a lot of women.
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As a Virgo woman you set the tone

If he is not giving you what you want why are you with him ?

I don't care if he introduced you to his great grandma

Your not getting what you want! Your wants are important correct

Your moving like a sorry Pisces... Never let anyone be in your life on their terms, they should be in your life on your terms

Virgos run their show this is a no!

8 months and still vague on the status, no way next !