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He told me during our date that he was a “beta male”. That his ex eventually stopped loving him because he wasn’t “alpha enough”.I didn’t press him for any further details because I figured we’d get there on the second or third date.
Hold up. A Capricorn man actually let those words come out of his mouth? I haven’t read this whole thread so I’m just making sure I’m getting this right
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Yes. As he sat next to me at dinner and we were talking.
It was shocking...I’ve had a lot of Capricorn males in my life as family and friends, and they’d never have said something like that. But I admired his being so honest. Then he went ice cold in the following days.
It was a table, and he sat next to me.
After he said it, he followed up with, “Don’t get me wrong. If a guy came up here messing with you, I’d definitely be protective of you and show my alpha side then, I’m just generally a beta male.”
I’m definitely an alpha, and I not only show it in my manner of speaking and how I carry myself, but it’s constantly exuded even when I’m not intentionally trying. I told him that I’m mostly an alpha professionally and in society...but that as a woman, I’d like to be more traditional.
Towards the end while we were talking, I would sometimes put my hand on his leg. And I felt the urge to rub my hand against it suggestively, so I did. I guess that was too slutty for a Cap male? I don’t know. 🤷🏽♀️
It was a table, and he sat next to me.
After he said it, he followed up with, “Don’t get me wrong. If a guy came up here messing with you, I’d definitely be protective of you and show my alpha side then, I’m just generally a beta male.”
I’m definitely an alpha, and I not only show it in my manner of speaking and how I carry myself, but it’s constantly exuded even when I’m not intentionally trying. I told him that I’m mostly an alpha professionally and in society...but that as a woman, I’d like to be more traditional.
That’s so interesting. Maybe he’s trying to say he likes to choose his battles and not every opportunity needs to be one puffing your cheat. It could
Be admirable if he’s “alpha” when it matters.
But I hate men who can’t handle their business. Turn off!!!
Posted by Captivate86
Yeah, I’m seriously rethinking this whole thing.Not even Walmart or the grocery store. Fucking dollar store.
If you’re only with a cap for money or you think they’re gonna share with you their success then you got another thing coming lol
This is why you gotta have your own money. If my cap doesn’t wanna pay for it i got it but it would be nice for them to spend a little! Lol
It's not a money thing, it's effort.
Even if he said he made them that would show effort. Getting something from the dollar store AND telling someone you got them from there is the equivalent of saying this is what I think about you.
OP he's upset about something and being an @ss. Even if he really did get them from the dollar store he wouldn't let you know if he wasn't being an @ss smh.
Cap men can be spoiled and petty and become used to women almost throwing their interest at them.
If you are just as laid back as he is he doesn't know how to take it and will try to knock you down a few notches smh.
Have you tried to
Communicate your
Feelings to him? If
You haven’t then you’re both playing the same game.
Sorry I’m
Jumping late on this thread but just my 2 cents. Caps think they’re above other people and they should do the work but you gotta do some
Legwork too.
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I haven't talked to this man(my dad) in five months, and he just called about 10 minutes ago. Ain't that something smh.
Posted by Captivate86
Yeah, I’m seriously rethinking this whole thing.Not even Walmart or the grocery store. Fucking dollar store.
If you’re only with a cap for money or you think they’re gonna share with you their success then you got another thing coming lol
This is why you gotta have your own money. If my cap doesn’t wanna pay for it i got it but it would be nice for them to spend a little! Lol
It's not a money thing, it's effort.
Even if he said he made them that would show effort. Getting something from the dollar store AND telling someone you got them from there is the equivalent of saying this is what I think about you.
OP he's upset about something and being an @ss. Even if he really did get them from the dollar store he wouldn't let you know if he wasn't being an @ss smh.
Cap men can be spoiled and petty and become used to women almost throwing their interest at them.
If you are just as laid back as he is he doesn't know how to take it and will try to knock you down a few notches smh.
Have you tried to
Communicate your
Feelings to him? If
You haven’t then you’re both playing the same game.
Sorry I’m
Jumping late on this thread but just my 2 cents. Caps think they’re above other people and they should do the work but you gotta do some
Legwork too.
I haven't talked to this man(my dad) in five months, and he just called about 10 minutes ago. Ain't that something smh.
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Did you talk to him?
Posted by Captivate86
Yeah, I’m seriously rethinking this whole thing.Not even Walmart or the grocery store. Fucking dollar store.
If you’re only with a cap for money or you think they’re gonna share with you their success then you got another thing coming lol
This is why you gotta have your own money. If my cap doesn’t wanna pay for it i got it but it would be nice for them to spend a little! Lol
It's not a money thing, it's effort.
Even if he said he made them that would show effort. Getting something from the dollar store AND telling someone you got them from there is the equivalent of saying this is what I think about you.
OP he's upset about something and being an @ss. Even if he really did get them from the dollar store he wouldn't let you know if he wasn't being an @ss smh.
Cap men can be spoiled and petty and become used to women almost throwing their interest at them.
If you are just as laid back as he is he doesn't know how to take it and will try to knock you down a few notches smh.
Have you tried to
Communicate your
Feelings to him? If
You haven’t then you’re both playing the same game.
Sorry I’m
Jumping late on this thread but just my 2 cents. Caps think they’re above other people and they should do the work but you gotta do some
Legwork too.
I haven't talked to this man(my dad) in five months, and he just called about 10 minutes ago. Ain't that something smh.
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For his sake, I hope he learns that life is too short to be stubbornly prideful with one’s children, no matter how old they are. My dad was a Capricorn, and I think he realized that too late.
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He told me during our date that he was a “beta male”. That his ex eventually stopped loving him because he wasn’t “alpha enough”.
I didn’t press him for any further details because I figured we’d get there on the second or third date.