Im a Taurus female and for the last two months I have been sleeping with my boss . He's a Cap he's married and he also has another side girlfriend . I know that he's not the one but I'm catching more and more feelings everyday . I really need to distant my self from him . I see him almost everyday and it's so hard , Idk what he feels because he never tells me anything . I told him I was catching feelings and he said me too and that's all we ever said to each other . I never tell him how I really feel because is not worth it . I just wish he can be honest with me and tell me how he feels but I feel like he plays too many mind games at work he's so nice I don't do anything I sit on his desk all day and we spend all day together talking about life and work he drives me home every night he gets jelouse if I'm talking to anyone else but at the end of the day I need to know I'm just a side side side bitch .
How can I get over a Cap?

Ask for a promotion.

See other men

In all due respect I'm sorry that your in this position. But this reminds me a lot of Christian grey and Ana. About what to do.. I'm not sure actually. I haven't really dealt with other earth signs. Caps especially. I've had a few like me but it's never reciprocated to the point where we're in a relationship.
This is TRE tre tragic .Guard your heart girl
@skye I'm 26 and he's 49 .
Posted by truecapgenius....lol
Ask for a promotion.

Got to be a thrill thread and if not wth is wrong this is all we have to look forward too. Unavailable men. Damn.
Posted by Foreverlovemeco-sign.
How to get over a cap?
1. Stop sleepung with him
2. Stop hanging at his desk
A. Stay in your own work area
B. Change departments
C. Look for a new job
3. Allow yourself to feel whatever it is you're feeling, but don't react on those feelings
4. Time, healing takes time
5. See other people
6. Let go, move on, be happy. This isn't going anywhere
you gotta get away this is toxic but you also shot yourself in the foot on this one so don't do that again.

Posted by Elizabeth8204755How about that he had mulitple woman and it sounds like a one of those secretary movies fatal attraction movies. Haha fifty shades of grey movie..
Im a Taurus female and for the last two months I have been sleeping with my boss . He's a Cap he's married and he also has another side girlfriend . I know that he's not the one but I'm catching more and more feelings everyday . I really need to distant my self from him . I see him almost everyday and it's so hard , Idk what he feels because he never tells me anything . I told him I was catching feelings and he said me too and that's all we ever said to each other . I never tell him how I really feel because is not worth it . I just wish he can be honest with me and tell me how he feels but I feel like he plays too many mind games at work he's so nice I don't do anything I sit on his desk all day and we spend all day together talking about life and work he drives me home every night he gets jelouse if I'm talking to anyone else but at the end of the day I need to know I'm just a side side side bitch .

Posted by Elizabeth8204755What do you expect from this man and what do you want. It seems like you may be hiding from your true self and settling for less than you're worth for some reason.
@skye I'm 26 and he's 49 .

Dude, he's married! Wtf?
That should be enough right there. Let the other hoes be homewreckers, get out.
That should be enough right there. Let the other hoes be homewreckers, get out.
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Monday I'm going to make some changes and let's see what happends . I'll stay away from him and drive my self home . This isn't going to end good if I keep on been so wild . We have sex in the stairs , in the office , in the car , we hang out after work he takes to restaurants and bars we are basically always together . That's why I believe I started catching more feelings then I should of . worst part is having to see him everyday . It will never be the same at work specially after everyone in the office knows me and him have something going on . Worst part we started not using protection and I'm 2 months late on my mestruasion hopefully I'm not pregnant . I wish I can go back in time and erase everything , I also wish I can get him off my mind !
where is your head at seriously.
as a woman have more respect for yourself.
as a woman have more respect for yourself.
I'm sure there is way worst women in this world then me . I just made the mistake for falling for the wrong guy . Now I know it's wrong knowing he has a wife and he talks to someone else but we only live ones . Negative comments don't bother me

Posted by truecapYep.
Ask for a promotion.
Ask him for a promotion, or tell him that you will report his behavior to HR and to his wife as well.
May as well cash in on this episode of the Jerry Springer Show, rather than be an unpaid and soon forgotten member of the audience.

Posted by underwaterthingOh, I agree completely.
where is your head at seriously.
as a woman have more respect for yourself.
I can never understand why single people choose to pursue, let alone have sex with, married people.
It must be a serious self-esteem problem to motivate single people to mess around with married people.
Personally, I have had the chance to mess with married women, but never went after it. I just couldn't live with myself if I were to stoop that low.
But, to each his/her own.
At least make some serious cash before you bail on this go-nowhere relationship.

Make sure you tell him that you are late and prego. So he can plan and prepare for telling his wife which I am probably sure she knows. And his other side chicks. They probably prego too. Idk.

Don't tell him unless you know for sure.

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428so how was your week ? FDWT|AKA|J
Don't tell him unless you know for sure.

Posted by _I'm Okay but not so good though with my back problem i had recently. And you?Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428so how was your week ? FDWT|AKA|J
Don't tell him unless you know for sure.click to expand

Posted by Elizabeth8204755.... as opposed to who else doing it...?
Monday I'm going to make some changes and let's see what happends . I'll stay away from him and drive my self home . This isn't going to end good if I keep on been so wild . We have sex in the stairs , in the office , in the car , we hang out after work he takes to restaurants and bars we are basically always together . That's why I believe I started catching more feelings then I should of . worst part is having to see him everyday . It will never be the same at work specially after everyone in the office knows me and him have something going on . Worst part we started not using protection and I'm 2 months late on my mestruasion hopefully I'm not pregnant . I wish I can go back in time and erase everything , I also wish I can get him off my mind !
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