I DO NOT UNDERSTAND THIS CAPPY AT ALL :O!!!! (Page 2)

Posted by michellemabelle

Posted by amethyst2002
You're playing games. That's why he's ignoring you.

Awesome you raised something I want to discuss! xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx 😛

you know how 6 of the starsigns are feminine and 6 are masculine. It feels to me like this is what happens when masculine and feminine meet.

The feminine aims to please and is not true to herself..she is always compromising, putting the guy on a pedestal saying its all about you and what you want. So she is like an actress taking on roles, changing costumes, adapting, manouvering. like someone with multiple personality disorder constantly changing

The male says this is who I am and if you dont like it ..tough. Males are always doing a male bonding ritual where they establish the key word RESPECT. They develop respect and show respect as equals. This is why they are good drivers because they are respecting the other drivers and doing road ettiquette. They will not change or compromise to kiss someones arse. They see arse kissing as giving up your identity, losing power, wimpish, cowardice, weakness. If you dont demand respect you dont deserve it. All men are equal, no pedestals.

So put these 2 together and what do you have? A male who sees a female as false hyprocrite playing mind games who craves someone who is straightforward and upfront. And a female frustrated at her failure to please her partner/friend since that is her true enjoyment she wishes to savour. Or worse a male who tramples all over the woman and a woman who gives up her loving intentions because they are rewarded with aggression. The woman then turns into a bitter character out for revenge against the male population. The man turns into a sexually frustrated loner fed up of the complexities of the female trying to find a way to be solitary.

So whats the answer? For male starsigns to date male starsigns and female date female?

Just thought this comment really brings out this point!

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i am actually all those things...agreeable, adaptable... etc.. i like to get along with people..however i don't really try and change the way i am or kiss his arse as far as i kno!!
he is definitely very male however..regardless of his starsign being feminine... exactly everything u said does match...
he doesn't want to change for no one..he doesn't ev

he doesn't even apologise for what he says or does..even though a lot of the time he can be in the wrong...
and in this instance i see him as bein in the wrong..because he is the one that felt the need to push my buttons by briefly talking about this anonymous someone who he liked.. and because of this i stopped talking to him for a bit...
i could not have a normal conversation without thinking about this other girl...
this does not mean however that he should start to ignore me...
sometimes i think that he is totally the opposite of perceptive!!! but anyway to me it does not make any sense why he would be ignoring me now and thats the truth

i think the major problem in this instance is that i don;t know if this other girl was real... made up... or he was talking about me... but two of these options would be him playing mind games with me!!
i don't see how me taking time out to think about this was really bad!!

Candy, you may not be aware of it but you have bought 'the game' and you have started playing it. What isn't written in the instruction manual is the bit about the game you just purchased, well it's still not yours.

It's his game.

His rules.

And he always wins.

Mentioning some mystery woman is part of the game. Now you've bought it and you are playing it - the game is addictive. Trying to analyze anything to do with 'his game' will only end in hours and hours of wasted energy.

I think the very fact you are asking someone to relay what you have replied to Amethyst's opinion - because you have blocked her messages, is, in itself - game playing. You have proven the very point she was attempting to explain to you.

I understand you just want answers - but it seems you only want the ones you want to hear :-)

So, can someone please tell me I am going to win that world cruise I keep talking about!

I really wanna hear it.

Posted by candy10

thanks 😄.. Hugs back to you too !!! im glad that someone has finally outlined what i tend to see from a lot of people on these threads... a really condescending/pessimistic manner of responding.. without any sympathy/empathy whatsoever!!

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well you are on the capricorn forum lol these you described are capricorn traits heehee

Posted by MissBizarre
I think the very fact you are asking someone to relay what you have replied to Amethyst's opinion - because you have blocked her messages, is, in itself - game playing. You have proven the very point she was attempting to explain to you.

I understand you just want answers - but it seems you only want the ones you want to hear :-)

Miss Bizare are you aquarius or another sign? Im intrigued by which signs like the bizarre. BTW I love your picture the way it goes sidewards..might try that sometime myself 😛

lol amethyst is a b***** so i don't really give a f**** what she sayz 😄

one day she'll b f***** over someone... and no one will give a f***

Posted by LoversInLove3
amethyst just gave you a clear, concise, straightforward answer, not everyone is going to have an awe-inspiring "AHA" kindof answer to a problem...sometimes the problem doesn't merit one. No offense to you or your quest to find answers for your issues, but you need thicker skin if you're going to let a little comment like that get to you.

it wasn't the straightforward answer that got to me... it'ss the comments she made after that did.. there is no need to be rude.. and she was being rude. for no apparent reason.

whats the need to respond like a hater— thats all she is.

it's probably some deep seated need to feel better about themselves...that people act this way..but whatever...
i don't ask for attitude when i ask for advice.. but it seems like this is all i get here. so thanks but no thanks