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This topic was created in the Capricorn forum by iceCapr823 on Thursday, January 11, 2018 and has 11 replies.

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@iceCapr823
8 Years

so I've been paying great attention to this blog.

personally ,joining it was/is one of my best decisions for 2018.

must love you guys *wink.

the topics, forums, the everything.. the girls here !! My God. (free approval/validation).

so here's the point/topic : (only for Capricorns)

I'll share a practical breakdown, on/of it.

there's a pattern , a trend .. I've seen here !! and from experience.

and that is ... Capricorn "-Starts-" well ,all sweet in the beginning, but 'generally' ends ; making more enemies ..divorce ,breakup , what more.

so i feel like there's a middle man, a piece of the puzzle missing .. not necessarily the LAST piece ..Just a tiny little ... that will maybe change not just our views ..but , Capricorns in general.

I'll use myself as a point of reference.

this is how I've broken it down.

1)

- we rule the 10th house, of Careers (business, success- orientated) (so safe to say we're business minded...or blooded )

- we're cardinal, initiators. (start well) : business ,relationships ?

(let's just say our mountain-climbing skills gives us that Strong headstart ?,that push?..)

then.. when we get to the top, do we stop ? generally No. ! we want more... better,bigger ; Insatiable creatures.

MISSING LINK/hypothesis 1a)

has anyone thought : do we , maybe unknowingly, take that same approach to/on relationships ?

we "start well",

(cardinal; initiators)

slow,

(our patient climb to the top)

the partners fall inlove .

(love being the mountain)

the relationship will seem to be going well ,the girl is happy.

(we putting our Zeal and determination to 'work'.)

(though the girls ..are complaining a little on the sex..Geeents!!??)

for a moment or forever ,we've made it/achieved.. or at least that's how it feels for the girl/company/world. true love is found , or so it seems.

("reached the top!! "? relationship wise)

then boom.. cold... silence.. discomfort .. kicks in.

myself im guilty of this ,countless of times.

most cases i don't know why. nor how.

missing link 1 :

our insatiable nature doesn't die after we've mastered, won, (found/'achived' true love), remember what happens when we (reached the top ) ? of the mountain ?

satisfied for a while ,

AND THEN..

climb another.

does our "10th-house-approach/foundation/blood/mind suddenly change ? when we at the top. (just coz we've achieved ?) personally I'd say NO.

?

MISSING LINK/ hypothesis 2.

Saturn is hard on us. i sometimes feel like he's always watching ...

as caps we're sometimes too shy to tell the girl : hey I'd love for a short fling ..(or i just wanna f*** the shit out of you..with no strings, attached.)

since we're so status-conscious, thats a little unprofessional.. or uncomfortable even for ourselves.

and so we ... turn to "love". only for

(saturn ,the father to be hard on our ass ,entirely. since he demands HONESTY, and Profesional behaviour with us *career-morals/discipline *) and then

eventually disconnecting us with the partners..

maybe cap just needs a good game , and be open about our kinky and dirty inner selves..like ,other flirts of the zodiac.

i feel like we lack alot in the relationship/dating/interpersonal blessings.

which went to Careers..so I'll be rich. and have complicated relationships ?

astrology is to do with the STARS , so don't judge Me nor anyone.

finally done.

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@Mr_Pinchy
8 Years5,000+ Posts

In b4 someone says he just rationalized and justified cheating with "its the stars". 😆

Dude, teh hens of the dxp chaperone department will be along shortly to teach you what's right. 😆

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@fire_underwater
8 YearsPisces

Posted by Mr_Pinchy
In b4 someone says he just rationalized and justified cheating with "its the stars". 😆

Dude, teh hens of the dxp chaperone department will be along shortly to teach you what's right. 😆

Maybe, but it's a damn good rationalization 😅

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@iceCapr823
8 Years

Posted by clownloyal
too shy to ask for sex so you trick her into thinking you want a relationship and warrant it w/ distance and neglect *facepalm*

cap or not idc how shy you are, practice common decency consider the fact a human has feelings and learn to communicate

point. but youre doing two things here., pointing fingers. and jumping a gun.

I'm raising point here.

two things.

1) i wouldn't successfully pull that off . as a cap, i tend to be a little too transparent.

and . ...2) father Saturn ?

he'd never grant me internal peace. as soon as he's seen me get involved with a partner I've either not deserved (any encounter for that matter) or "gamed my way through".

the pattern I've observed shows that it only comes down crambling..a matter of time.

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@stillstillwater
9 Years5,000+ Posts

Interesting theories and first interesting post. That's not about relationships but is about relationships.

Theory 1 is false because unless the girl

Is eating out of your hands there will always be a challenge in pleasing her.

Theory 2 - I believe. Caps have a self defeatist attitude at times and feel undeserving of anything good unless it comes with a lot of history and effort.

Now theory 3 could be that we need a partner who elevates us and sometimes from the outside it might seem like being with this person will be good to your life but after getting to know them

You realize you’re bringing more to their life and they don’t have much to contribute except “emotional support”. Caps rarely need emotio al support especially from a resource lacking in solid foundation and history.

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@pinkbird03
10 Years5,000+ Posts

Yes, I think it’s a business approach type of situation. You put all the hard work into achieving your goal and then once you’re successful, you’ll put your effort into something else. You get your satisfaction from work.