@Blaze0409
8 Years
Confused
Interpreting the Signs of a Disappearing Capricorn
A missing Capricorn may be reflecting personal struggles or needing space. His lack of contact could indicate emotional distance or uncertainty. Sending mixed signals like the self-love article suggests he is processing feelings. Understanding his actions requires patience and open communication to clarify intentions and feelings.
im a pisces by the way
thank you for your replies . 🙂 Im thinking on talking to him personally . ( i was thinking to go to his house and surprise him . ) would that be advisable ? He knows where i work . Yes .
Posted by Blaze0409
thank you for your replies . 🙂 Im thinking on talking to him personally . ( i was thinking to go to his house and surprise him . ) would that be advisable ? He knows where i work . Yes .Wouldn’t be a good idea for my bf to surprise him. I would reach out & ask to set up a meeting.
Just really they like to be in control, and sometimes it is good to remember that.
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He deactivated his Facebook account , is not replying when i send him texts . So i guess i'll have to move on then ?
thanks ! 🙂 patience is key right ? 😉
Posted by Supes
Don’t sound like he went missing.
i dont know what to reply . LOL .
How long did you date him before he went missing?
I read that caps do this. When they are falling for you, they turn aloof. Eventually they snap out of it if they really like you.
I hope that’s whats going on with my guy. He’s Capricorn cusp. Sucks. I feel your pain.
Posted by Blaze0409
thank you for your replies . 🙂 Im thinking on talking to him personally . ( i was thinking to go to his house and surprise him . ) would that be advisable ? He knows where i work . Yes .NO! Don't do that! Not a good idea trust me...if you ever read anything about Caps they like to plan and surprising them can easily go wrong, I wouldn't advice such thing...
I read you wrote he deactivated account...are you sure at that? That he didn't block you instead? You check for that option?
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Yep , I tried to use another account to view his profile . None came out .
Posted by pinkbird03
How long did you date him before he went missing?I read that caps do this. When they are falling for you, they turn aloof. Eventually they snap out of it if they really like you.
I hope that’s whats going on with my guy. He’s Capricorn cusp. Sucks. I feel your pain.
Cusp with Aqua or Sag?
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Aqua
Posted by pinkbird03
How long did you date him before he went missing?I read that caps do this. When they are falling for you, they turn aloof. Eventually they snap out of it if they really like you.
I hope that’s whats going on with my guy. He’s Capricorn cusp. Sucks. I feel your pain.
You're giving her way too much hope lol. He will find her if he misses her. He knows where she is lol
Posted by pinkbird03
How long did you date him before he went missing?I read that caps do this. When they are falling for you, they turn aloof. Eventually they snap out of it if they really like you.
I hope that’s whats going on with my guy. He’s Capricorn cusp. Sucks. I feel your pain.
You're giving her way too much hope lol. He will find her if he misses her. He knows where she is lol
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Lol because I have so much hope!! Lol I’m living off it right now 😂
Posted by pinkbird03
How long did you date him before he went missing?I read that caps do this. When they are falling for you, they turn aloof. Eventually they snap out of it if they really like you.
I hope that’s whats going on with my guy. He’s Capricorn cusp. Sucks. I feel your pain.
You're giving her way too much hope lol. He will find her if he misses her. He knows where she is lol
Lol because I have so much hope!! Lol I’m living off it right now 😂
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HAHAHAHAHA good for you . Im losing hope on him though 😢
Posted by pinkbird03
How long did you date him before he went missing?I read that caps do this. When they are falling for you, they turn aloof. Eventually they snap out of it if they really like you.
I hope that’s whats going on with my guy. He’s Capricorn cusp. Sucks. I feel your pain.
You're giving her way too much hope lol. He will find her if he misses her. He knows where she is lol
Lol because I have so much hope!! Lol I’m living off it right now 😂
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Me too girl! I'm giving my Aqua friend some space too. lol
Posted by pinkbird03
How long did you date him before he went missing?I read that caps do this. When they are falling for you, they turn aloof. Eventually they snap out of it if they really like you.
I hope that’s whats going on with my guy. He’s Capricorn cusp. Sucks. I feel your pain.
You're giving her way too much hope lol. He will find her if he misses her. He knows where she is lol
Lol because I have so much hope!! Lol I’m living off it right now 😂
HAHAHAHAHA good for you . Im losing hope on him though 😢
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3 months is a long time though. Pinky has only been waiting 2 weeks lol
I will say that a different Aqua I was talking to waited 4 months to contact me, it shocked the hell out of me but still went no where. I'm actually planning on seeing him next month though, we've remained friends for over 10 years.
3 months ?
That seems very disrespectful to me and cowardly not to let you know he is okay and very selfish
Posted by MyStarsShine
3 months ?That seems very disrespectful to me and cowardly not to let you know he is okay and very selfish
Running 3 months . to be exact. He has always been kinda insecure and super possesive when we're still together .
Posted by MyStarsShine
3 months ?That seems very disrespectful to me and cowardly not to let you know he is okay and very selfish
Running 3 months . to be exact. He has always been kinda insecure and super possesive when we're still together .
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Sounds like he isn't ready for a healthy relationship
Posted by pinkbird03
How long did you date him before he went missing?I read that caps do this. When they are falling for you, they turn aloof. Eventually they snap out of it if they really like you.
I hope that’s whats going on with my guy. He’s Capricorn cusp. Sucks. I feel your pain.
Cusp with Aqua or Sag?
Aqua
Difficult one I guess lol mine has Aqua Moon and Venus so I know a thing or two about it...it's more complicated when Cap is related to Aqua, make it double complicated lol
but I do hope it works out in your favor eventually 🙂
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Mine is aqua moon tooooo. Soooo complicated lol Thank you 😊
Posted by pinkbird03
How long did you date him before he went missing?I read that caps do this. When they are falling for you, they turn aloof. Eventually they snap out of it if they really like you.
I hope that’s whats going on with my guy. He’s Capricorn cusp. Sucks. I feel your pain.
You're giving her way too much hope lol. He will find her if he misses her. He knows where she is lol
Lol because I have so much hope!! Lol I’m living off it right now 😂
Me too girl! I'm giving my Aqua friend some space too. lol
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I think it’s working. He checked my snap story within 4 minutes of me posting it a little while ago😁 if only he’d text me!!!!
Do u know if it’s working for you too?
Posted by pinkbird03
How long did you date him before he went missing?I read that caps do this. When they are falling for you, they turn aloof. Eventually they snap out of it if they really like you.
I hope that’s whats going on with my guy. He’s Capricorn cusp. Sucks. I feel your pain.
You're giving her way too much hope lol. He will find her if he misses her. He knows where she is lol
Lol because I have so much hope!! Lol I’m living off it right now 😂
HAHAHAHAHA good for you . Im losing hope on him though 😢
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Are you able to stalk him? To see if he’s with anyone else?
Posted by pinkbird03
How long did you date him before he went missing?I read that caps do this. When they are falling for you, they turn aloof. Eventually they snap out of it if they really like you.
I hope that’s whats going on with my guy. He’s Capricorn cusp. Sucks. I feel your pain.
You're giving her way too much hope lol. He will find her if he misses her. He knows where she is lol
Lol because I have so much hope!! Lol I’m living off it right now 😂
Me too girl! I'm giving my Aqua friend some space too. lol
I think it’s working. He checked my snap story within 4 minutes of me posting it a little while ago😁 if only he’d text me!!!!
Do u know if it’s working for you too?
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No we just talked yesterday but I am trying again. lol We got into an argument 😆 I half ass stuff. This time I have a date in mind, the end of next week. I don't like being the one to always initiate. I asked him why he doesn't reach out and he said he had nothing to say and he was busy. So I will be too unless he has something to say to me. lol
Posted by pinkbird03
How long did you date him before he went missing?I read that caps do this. When they are falling for you, they turn aloof. Eventually they snap out of it if they really like you.
I hope that’s whats going on with my guy. He’s Capricorn cusp. Sucks. I feel your pain.
Cusp with Aqua or Sag?
Aqua
Difficult one I guess lol mine has Aqua Moon and Venus so I know a thing or two about it...it's more complicated when Cap is related to Aqua, make it double complicated lol
but I do hope it works out in your favor eventually 🙂
Mine is aqua moon tooooo. Soooo complicated lol Thank you 😊
Oh well then you know it even better how it is xD I was just reading about those moons compatibility and damn, so true that Aqua Moon attracts my Moon so much lol too bad it never seems to work out xD hope your Moon gets along better with those weirdos xD
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Scorpio Moon... I don’t think so. But the last 3 guys I’ve dated have had an aqua moon... fml lol this current one has a Pisces Venus. I think that makes a big difference.
Why do u think aqua moon men are sooo difficult?
Posted by pinkbird03
How long did you date him before he went missing?I read that caps do this. When they are falling for you, they turn aloof. Eventually they snap out of it if they really like you.
I hope that’s whats going on with my guy. He’s Capricorn cusp. Sucks. I feel your pain.
You're giving her way too much hope lol. He will find her if he misses her. He knows where she is lol
Lol because I have so much hope!! Lol I’m living off it right now 😂
Me too girl! I'm giving my Aqua friend some space too. lol
I think it’s working. He checked my snap story within 4 minutes of me posting it a little while ago😁 if only he’d text me!!!!
Do u know if it’s working for you too?
No we just talked yesterday but I am trying again. lol We got into an argument 😆 I half ass stuff. This time I have a date in mind, the end of next week. I don't like being the one to always initiate. I asked him why he doesn't reach out and he said he had nothing to say and he was busy. So I will be too unless he has something to say to me. lol
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Lol I know what you are going through. I’ve tried no contact many times with this aqua. First was 4 Days, then 5, then 7. And now this is my longest. It feels good to have that control. I think it also helps the guys think about how they really feel about us. Hoping for a 360! Lol we’ll see
Posted by pinkbird03
How long did you date him before he went missing?I read that caps do this. When they are falling for you, they turn aloof. Eventually they snap out of it if they really like you.
I hope that’s whats going on with my guy. He’s Capricorn cusp. Sucks. I feel your pain.
Cusp with Aqua or Sag?
Aqua
Difficult one I guess lol mine has Aqua Moon and Venus so I know a thing or two about it...it's more complicated when Cap is related to Aqua, make it double complicated lol
but I do hope it works out in your favor eventually 🙂
Mine is aqua moon tooooo. Soooo complicated lol Thank you 😊
Oh well then you know it even better how it is xD I was just reading about those moons compatibility and damn, so true that Aqua Moon attracts my Moon so much lol too bad it never seems to work out xD hope your Moon gets along better with those weirdos xD
Scorpio Moon... I don’t think so. But the last 3 guys I’ve dated have had an aqua moon... fml lol this current one has a Pisces Venus. I think that makes a big difference.
Why do u think aqua moon men are sooo difficult?
Nothing is wrong with aqua moon 😄
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Lol I said men!! 😋 aqua moon ladies seem better!!
Posted by pinkbird03
How long did you date him before he went missing?I read that caps do this. When they are falling for you, they turn aloof. Eventually they snap out of it if they really like you.
I hope that’s whats going on with my guy. He’s Capricorn cusp. Sucks. I feel your pain.
Cusp with Aqua or Sag?
Aqua
Difficult one I guess lol mine has Aqua Moon and Venus so I know a thing or two about it...it's more complicated when Cap is related to Aqua, make it double complicated lol
but I do hope it works out in your favor eventually 🙂
Mine is aqua moon tooooo. Soooo complicated lol Thank you 😊
Oh well then you know it even better how it is xD I was just reading about those moons compatibility and damn, so true that Aqua Moon attracts my Moon so much lol too bad it never seems to work out xD hope your Moon gets along better with those weirdos xD
Scorpio Moon... I don’t think so. But the last 3 guys I’ve dated have had an aqua moon... fml lol this current one has a Pisces Venus. I think that makes a big difference.
Why do u think aqua moon men are sooo difficult?
I think it makes it more difficult that combo, Cap sun and Aqua Moon. Aqua moons can be detached and also even shy. Also they got strong egos, they're very independent and expect everyone to be like them, need freedom and space to be themselves...that's what i can remember about it now on top of my mind. It fits very well with Cap personality to make a one very detached appearing and cold from the outside person. Ofc they have good sides as well but I mention only those that make them harder to get along with...oddly enough this perfectly fits my own moon tho. According to some list your Moon goes along best with Aries and Cancer moon
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Sounds very much like my man. He’s extremely independent. He works nonstop but I won’t accept that as an excuse anymore. If he wants me, he’s going to have to put in effort 🙂
Posted by pinkbird03
How long did you date him before he went missing?I read that caps do this. When they are falling for you, they turn aloof. Eventually they snap out of it if they really like you.
I hope that’s whats going on with my guy. He’s Capricorn cusp. Sucks. I feel your pain.
Cusp with Aqua or Sag?
Aqua
Difficult one I guess lol mine has Aqua Moon and Venus so I know a thing or two about it...it's more complicated when Cap is related to Aqua, make it double complicated lol
but I do hope it works out in your favor eventually 🙂
Mine is aqua moon tooooo. Soooo complicated lol Thank you 😊
Oh well then you know it even better how it is xD I was just reading about those moons compatibility and damn, so true that Aqua Moon attracts my Moon so much lol too bad it never seems to work out xD hope your Moon gets along better with those weirdos xD
Scorpio Moon... I don’t think so. But the last 3 guys I’ve dated have had an aqua moon... fml lol this current one has a Pisces Venus. I think that makes a big difference.
Why do u think aqua moon men are sooo difficult?
I think it makes it more difficult that combo, Cap sun and Aqua Moon. Aqua moons can be detached and also even shy. Also they got strong egos, they're very independent and expect everyone to be like them, need freedom and space to be themselves...that's what i can remember about it now on top of my mind. It fits very well with Cap personality to make a one very detached appearing and cold from the outside person. Ofc they have good sides as well but I mention only those that make them harder to get along with...oddly enough this perfectly fits my own moon tho. According to some list your Moon goes along best with Aries and Cancer moon
Sounds very much like my man. He’s extremely independent. He works nonstop but I won’t accept that as an excuse anymore. If he wants me, he’s going to have to put in effort 🙂
Exactly! They are workaholics by default lol but it's no excuse to not be around at all so best thing to do is let them be, when they realize they're missing you(if they do that is...) they will change their own behavior, but putting pressure on them just makes them pull away even more so best thing to do is to do nothing lol
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You got that right!! Very knowledgeable!
Posted by pinkbird03
How long did you date him before he went missing?I read that caps do this. When they are falling for you, they turn aloof. Eventually they snap out of it if they really like you.
I hope that’s whats going on with my guy. He’s Capricorn cusp. Sucks. I feel your pain.
You're giving her way too much hope lol. He will find her if he misses her. He knows where she is lol
Lol because I have so much hope!! Lol I’m living off it right now 😂
HAHAHAHAHA good for you . Im losing hope on him though 😢
Are you able to stalk him? To see if he’s with anyone else?
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naah . i think he deactivated his FB account 😢
Posted by wiseblood
No wonder you are confused.. Tellin us over on the Gem board that you're in love with your Gemini bestie..
New troll??
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/gemini/i-just-wanna-know--9966792/
i was inlove with him . BEFORE .
Posted by MyStarsShine
3 months ?That seems very disrespectful to me and cowardly not to let you know he is okay and very selfish
Running 3 months . to be exact. He has always been kinda insecure and super possesive when we're still together .
Sounds very familiar. When he came back it was very different. They have to decide if it’s worth it. But really believe me, you have to walk away for real. Not sit there waiting. They will sense it.
Sorry to jump in but take a look:
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/gemini/i-just-wanna-know--9966792/#9967077
might explain why Cap disappeared...they're not dumb and don't get fooled easy...
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Hi . yes he was aware that i had Gemini in my life as my bestie . And that is one of the reasons why we always fight when we are still dating
Posted by wiseblood
No wonder you are confused.. Tellin us over on the Gem board that you're in love with your Gemini bestie..
New troll??
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/gemini/i-just-wanna-know--9966792/
i was inlove with him . BEFORE .
You made the threads at pretty much the same time and were talking in both of them simultaneously.. Seems pretty current to me.. Ya have two threads going for two different men and are acting like ya care a lot about both of them.. Don't know why you are trying to play detective about why your Gem bestie is cracking pregnancy jokes if you are so hung up on this Cap? You're digging for BOTH of their motives at the same time..
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i am not talking to them at the same time , just like what i said , i have no contact whatsoever with cap .
Posted by Blaze0409
My cap has gone missing for 3 months now . One day he just disappeared out of the blue . No texts , calls , pm's .Im just confused as to what is going on . 😢 if he misses me , why wouldn't he just contact me personally ? Help ? Thanks
Pro tip: He's not YOUR cap if he can bounce out of your life and ghost you for 1/4 of the year.
Demand more from the people in your life. Don't stand for this ish.
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Hi I just need some help . My cap has gone missing for 3 months now . One day he just disappeared out of the blue . No texts , calls , pm's . I tried to contact him after the first day that he disappeared , i asked him if he is alright , if he is sick or whatsoever . I received no response . After a few days of not hearing anything from him , i decided to let go of the situation . I unfriended him on facebook because i was hurting so bad . Last christmas , i accidentally sent him a messenger request , which he accepted the next day . I sent him a message apologizing that i accidentally hit the "send request button . " he just responded with "really?" ignored him after that . The next day i received a message from him , it was an article about self love . I dont know why he sent me that . I replied to him asking what that is for , and he left me on seen . Last January 3, i saw our mutual friend at work . He said that he has been asking about me , and according to him , Cap missed me .
Im just confused as to what is going on . 😢 if he misses me , why wouldn't he just contact me personally ? Help ? Thanks