Posted by pinkbird03Posted by Jalent99I do agree with foreverloveme, but girls girls girls. Don't be worried about losing a guy when there's so many other great guys out there!! He should be worried about losing you!!! You need to be honest with your needs and feelings and communicate that to him so he knows or else nothing will ever change and you will be unhappy.Posted by pinkbird03I dont want to give him that kind of pressure.....giving myself 3 more mths....Foreverloveme says his action is more reflective of how he feels. Kind of make sense to me, msging not come naturally for him and he was putting additional effort to do that initially. But I still see him at least once a wk, soo I should appreciate and see the positivity in that.....
@jalent99
Seeing each other is the exact same. He does text a lot more now though! I wonder why he is texting you less. Just ask him and let me know what he says.
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Posted by Jalent99Yes. Same. I haven't liked someone this much in awhile. I'm a cancer.Posted by pinkbird03Posted by Jalent99I do agree with foreverloveme, but girls girls girls. Don't be worried about losing a guy when there's so many other great guys out there!! He should be worried about losing you!!! You need to be honest with your needs and feelings and communicate that to him so he knows or else nothing will ever change and you will be unhappy.Posted by pinkbird03I dont want to give him that kind of pressure.....giving myself 3 more mths....Foreverloveme says his action is more reflective of how he feels. Kind of make sense to me, msging not come naturally for him and he was putting additional effort to do that initially. But I still see him at least once a wk, soo I should appreciate and see the positivity in that.....
@jalent99
Seeing each other is the exact same. He does text a lot more now though! I wonder why he is texting you less. Just ask him and let me know what he says.
If I had to choose, I rather see him more than have him msg me more
I never asked, but whats your sign? I only know your man is a Cap.....
Difficult for me to like someone that much, 2nd person I m soo passionate and patient with in my life. I must have went out for coffee/dinners, chatted with at least 10 other guys before I felt something for him. The rest were relationships that happened after they pursued for a while. The difference is that I fall in then out of love after years. Let me take this one gamble on him, if it doesnt work then I dont think I will pursue love anymore ?click to expand
Posted by pinkbird03Opposite attracts for u then! U have it harder than me i guess....i have a lot of placements similar to hisPosted by Jalent99Yes. Same. I haven't liked someone this much in awhile. I'm a cancer.Posted by pinkbird03Posted by Jalent99I do agree with foreverloveme, but girls girls girls. Don't be worried about losing a guy when there's so many other great guys out there!! He should be worried about losing you!!! You need to be honest with your needs and feelings and communicate that to him so he knows or else nothing will ever change and you will be unhappy.Posted by pinkbird03I dont want to give him that kind of pressure.....giving myself 3 more mths....Foreverloveme says his action is more reflective of how he feels. Kind of make sense to me, msging not come naturally for him and he was putting additional effort to do that initially. But I still see him at least once a wk, soo I should appreciate and see the positivity in that.....
@jalent99
Seeing each other is the exact same. He does text a lot more now though! I wonder why he is texting you less. Just ask him and let me know what he says.
If I had to choose, I rather see him more than have him msg me more
I never asked, but whats your sign? I only know your man is a Cap.....
Difficult for me to like someone that much, 2nd person I m soo passionate and patient with in my life. I must have went out for coffee/dinners, chatted with at least 10 other guys before I felt something for him. The rest were relationships that happened after they pursued for a while. The difference is that I fall in then out of love after years. Let me take this one gamble on him, if it doesnt work then I dont think I will pursue love anymore ?
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Posted by InLoveWithLifeYou're an official CP addict. It's that addiction speaking in defense.
Tiki33,
I understand that you know a lot. Giving suggestions and sound advice is one thing; compelling/forcing someone (either directly or indirectly) to accept that is something else.
Have you heard of the saying, "It is not what you say that always matters; it is how you say that really matters."
I am a lover of psychology. I find analyzing and studying various personalities very interesting. No, I don't do this with all. I am not judgmental with friends. But when some people try various means to grab my attention, I do take notice. Then I study and analyze. It is interesting.
"Lover of Psychology? You observe, study, and analyze various personalities? LOL! Then why are you so confused in his case? You're funny, girl!" You may want to mock and laugh. But psychology has answers for those questions, too. (I don't want to get into that now.)
Let me guess. You are not happy with the ratio of the attention you get and the attention you want? So you think the more assertive you are, the more people will listen to you? The louder the better? Not to worry, dear. That is not very uncommon. This could be a sign of low self-esteem. This may seem to be not a big issue. But this can and will affect multiple areas of life, causing more problems everyday. You better work on it. Of course, that is a mere suggestion, my humble opinion.
You do not want to accept this? Can I say, "You are in denial"? 🙂
Posted by Jalent99I guess. i actually think we are a great match. We don't argue. There's a lot of chemistry. Same goals and beliefs. The only thing that bothers me is that I don't see him enough and I want to build a stronger bond with him. I really shouldn't be so tough on him though. I do think he tries. Just like your guy. He definitely tries too.Posted by pinkbird03Opposite attracts for u then! U have it harder than me i guess....i have a lot of placements similar to hisPosted by Jalent99Yes. Same. I haven't liked someone this much in awhile. I'm a cancer.Posted by pinkbird03Posted by Jalent99I do agree with foreverloveme, but girls girls girls. Don't be worried about losing a guy when there's so many other great guys out there!! He should be worried about losing you!!! You need to be honest with your needs and feelings and communicate that to him so he knows or else nothing will ever change and you will be unhappy.Posted by pinkbird03I dont want to give him that kind of pressure.....giving myself 3 more mths....Foreverloveme says his action is more reflective of how he feels. Kind of make sense to me, msging not come naturally for him and he was putting additional effort to do that initially. But I still see him at least once a wk, soo I should appreciate and see the positivity in that.....
@jalent99
Seeing each other is the exact same. He does text a lot more now though! I wonder why he is texting you less. Just ask him and let me know what he says.
If I had to choose, I rather see him more than have him msg me more
I never asked, but whats your sign? I only know your man is a Cap.....
Difficult for me to like someone that much, 2nd person I m soo passionate and patient with in my life. I must have went out for coffee/dinners, chatted with at least 10 other guys before I felt something for him. The rest were relationships that happened after they pursued for a while. The difference is that I fall in then out of love after years. Let me take this one gamble on him, if it doesnt work then I dont think I will pursue love anymore ?
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Posted by ForeverlovemeIt was too late. It was an honest excuse. I'm also not going to always be available when he is. That's life. And still it's been almost 3 weeks regardless of if I saw him or not last night. He also canceled on me Thursday and I didn't make a big deal about it. Things come up. I'm not making a fuss about things like that.Posted by pinkbird03
I guess. i actually think we are a great match. We don't argue. There's a lot of chemistry. Same goals and beliefs. The only thing that bothers me is that I don't see him enough and I want to build a stronger bond with him. I really shouldn't be so tough on him though. I do think he tries. Just like your guy. He definitely tries too.
No offense. You & other people have said this, yet last night he was available, willing, and trying to see you & 1) you didn't see him & 2) made excuses not to see him rather than just saying "no. Not tonight" or "can we get together another day because I'm tired"
So you want to spend more time, when you're ready to...it takes both of you working around each others schedules.
& I'd also appreciate & value the time we spend together more if I wasn't getting it frequently, same thing I tell my children. Appreciate the time you do haveclick to expand
Posted by Jalent99
@pinkbird03
Ohhh i didnt mean u guys are not compatible, i meant its easier for me cause i have similar behaviors given similar placements, wherelse u need more time to understand him. Good to know that u have great chemistry! ?
I love talking to u guys, everytime I do I m challenged to rem that I do behave in a certain way as well and yet at the receiving end of it I get all uncomfortable....
I like to think that Caps tries hard when its something they want! Well I can only be positive about his efforts....
Posted by pinkbird03Thank U! Hope urs work out well too!! ?Posted by Jalent99
@pinkbird03
Ohhh i didnt mean u guys are not compatible, i meant its easier for me cause i have similar behaviors given similar placements, wherelse u need more time to understand him. Good to know that u have great chemistry! ?
I love talking to u guys, everytime I do I m challenged to rem that I do behave in a certain way as well and yet at the receiving end of it I get all uncomfortable....
I like to think that Caps tries hard when its something they want! Well I can only be positive about his efforts....
Yes be positive. I know you feel like he doesn't like you as much, but he seems so interested!!
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Posted by CAPLOCKISBACKOmg you are such a Capricorn!!! Lol glad you're back! 🙂Posted by pinkbird03I just needed space to process things and unload everything at the gym.
Where'd @caplock go 😢
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Posted by CAPLOCKISBACKGlad to see you! Was kinda worried.Posted by pinkbird03I just needed space to process things and unload everything at the gym.
Where'd @caplock go 😢
Im good now.click to expand
Posted by CAPLOCKISBACKLol, CapLock! You're darn cute!Posted by InLoveWithLifePosted by CAPLOCKISBACKGlad to see you! Was kinda worried.Posted by pinkbird03I just needed space to process things and unload everything at the gym.
Where'd @caplock go 😢
Im good now.
I was just getting over one Cap's disappearing acts when you disappeared just like that! Lol!
Thank you. I have a bucket of ice cream and netflix. You're invited lol
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Posted by CAPLOCKISBACKFriends 4-> ??Posted by pinkbird03Posted by CAPLOCKISBACKOmg you are such a Capricorn!!! Lol glad you're back! 🙂Posted by pinkbird03I just needed space to process things and unload everything at the gym.
Where'd @caplock go 😢
Im good now.
Im just glad that even though its been a tough year, i come across amazing people like you and everyone else (sorry i cant make a list because there's many people to name )
Geez...I love you all and even if I wanted to leave, you all make it difficult to do so.
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