Need insight plz! Dumped by a Capricorn guy without any explanations

Hey! I was dumped by a Capricorn man. Everything seemed to be fine. We had several dates (it was just the beginning of relations), he was so nice and sweet, acted like a real gentleman,treated me like a lady. Then out of the blue he told me that he can't do this anymore. I asked him if he wasn't interesting. He said that basically yes but everything was much more complicated. That's all. And no more explanations. He told me not to ask him. Because he can't explain. Also he told me that he feels himself like a real asshole. I couldnt expect this! It's so weird! I felt like it was reciprocity, he made a lot of compliments to me, seemed to notice even small details, texted a lot, made plans with me for the next month. What's wrong with this capricorn? Is it usual behavior of Capricorns? Is it possible that he can come back? Or is it over?

PS I try to figure out what could happen but there were no signs that he wasn’t into me. Well, It’s my first Capricorn guy so I don’t know how are they. I thought that if guy asks you out or makes plan with you it means smth🙂))

Posted by DeadInside

sometimes you dont feel it

I suspect that might be it - you did nothing wrong @OP

I dont think you did anything wrong.

At least he told you to your face instead of ghosting.

Some people just want up and want something different.

uh that sounds like tha cap guy i know.. i kind of expect him doing this at some point.. you never know how they feel ...

Sounds like normal dating to me! You did nothing wrong (as far as we know), he just didn't "feel it" with you. Why? Because attraction works in mysterious ways. Let go of him with your head high.

It’s possible he could circle back when his other options don’t pan out.

But ask yourself if your willing to wait around for someone who didn’t make you a priority.

Idk that you can be dumped if your not in a relationship. Dating is exploratory. At any time people can change their minds about you and vice versa.

Respect that he was upfront instead of ghosting as is the trend nowadays.

I think he is hung up on his ex, very frequent reason to date (to get over somebody) and if the ex reaches out its done

He'll be back.

Cap males have trouble letting go of exes. Cap ladies aren't as bad, but we still struggle.

My ex-Cap won't let go and has admitted to being obsessed. As for me, it took 4 years to finally let go.

Yours at least had a flash of conscience and let you go. Trust him. He told you the truth in the end. But close the door, because he'll likely try to creep back in at some point.

I would say it is usual behavior. Like others said, at least he told you.

For some reason he didn’t feel the connection and chose not to proceed. No biggie. Don’t blame yourself, don’t blame him. Not everyone you date is going to go forward. Just because the chemistry isn’t there on one side doesn’t mean either of you are a bad person. Can’t make someone feel something they don’t.

I don’t think he will come back.

Just don’t beat yourself up or spend too much time over analyzing

How long were you guys together?

Had that with a cancer guy! Few dates, he was all gushing over me when I was there, felt real! Making plans etc and really out of the blue he ghosted me (so be glad that cap was actually man enough to tell you).

Of course it was because of his ex that came back. That‘s just how it can go 🤷🏻‍♀️ You date, get all up in infatuation/feelings and then someone realizes that it‘s just not what they want. No big deal

You‘ll be just fine 🌷