Sex and the Blues

This topic was created in the Capricorn forum by SpiceNSugar on Wednesday, October 2, 2013 and has 26 replies.

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As a Cap, when you're feeling "depressed", do have a tendency to want sex more or less?

Rough or soft?

Also, when you're feeling this way, are you more likely to partake in a one night stand (casual sex)?

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When down and out I give off a vibe that I want to be left along. As for sex though, I can't recall a time I've ever said that I was not in the mood.

As for a one night stand/casual sex, don't partake period. I don't entertain anything that I don't see worthwhile in the long term.

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i might actually want to get off more when i feel down. but my moods have no bearing on whether i can be turned on or not. unless i'm sick or not feeling well... i can always be turned on. when i'm stressed about something... chances are my mind is dwelling on an issue and it would be a little more difficult to get me roused. but not much more. lol

one night stands are pretty empty. i would absolutely not involve myself in a one night stand if i'm already feeling sad.

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More interest. But I feel that most of the times i get under the weather its due to sexual frustration. Sex has always cheered me up( Massive ammounts if endorphins get released .. so duh) and if im emotional wether it be sad or joyfull, its always more intense.

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When capi is stressed out he seems down I used to tell him I'd help to de-stress him by being there, spending time being close, lots of hugs, holding him etc it's not always about sex.
He kinda got used to it.. So when he's been really really busy he'll say I could use some de-stressing. Never actually ask out right lol
It's like u have to work for it..
It does help thou !

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Posted by Lucriu
More interest. But I feel that most of the times i get under the weather its due to sexual frustration. Sex has always cheered me up( Massive ammounts if endorphins get released .. so duh) and if im emotional wether it be sad or joyfull, its always more intense.

Are you more or less likely during moments like this to engage in casual sex?

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Lol CC it's prob his Taurus moon and Aqua Venus that's makes him like that. I woke up this morning to a miss u txt.. He has good days too

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@Lucriu
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Posted by SpiceNSugar

Posted by Lucriu
More interest. But I feel that most of the times i get under the weather its due to sexual frustration. Sex has always cheered me up( Massive ammounts if endorphins get released .. so duh) and if im emotional wether it be sad or joyfull, its always more intense.

Are you more or less likely during moments like this to engage in casual sex?

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Ive never had casual sex.

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Posted by CluelessCancer
I really miss my Virgo X, if we ever get back together even for a short period of time, i'm going to kiss and lick his whole body.

2 questions

Where is he?

And

Can I watch? Lol

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13 Years

Posted by SamCancerGirl
When capi is stressed out he seems down I used to tell him I'd help to de-stress him by being there, spending time being close, lots of hugs, holding him etc it's not always about sex.
He kinda got used to it.. So when he's been really really busy he'll say I could use some de-stressing. Never actually ask out right lol
It's like u have to work for it..
It does help thou !

I agree with this, and sometimes I'd be so oblivious, and my capricorn homegirl would point it out and laugh at me for not noticing. Like hey he said that so you would invite him over! and I'm like oh? oops, um, next time? lol *blushes*

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Posted by Synapse

Posted by StillWater
Don't they say sex is a stress reliever...

Yes, that's why if a woman ever gives me the "I have a migraine" excuse, I'm calling bullshit.

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Personally, my libido goes way down if I'm sad or depressed, which is part of why I started this thread.

I wanted to get some feedback from others.

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Posted by Ixion120
It all depends on what I am sad about. But I know that me being restless, makes me feel sad/frustrated, at that point I want nothing more than to bust down ole' girl.

Has it ever led you to engage in casual sex (one night stand)?

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I know a guy that cries after sex. And no its not personal experience, a friend of his girlfriend told me ( Hes my friend, but obviously i wouldnt ask him this type of shiz).

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Posted by Lucriu
I know a guy that cries after sex. And no its not personal experience, a friend of his girlfriend told me ( Hes my friend, but obviously i wouldnt ask him this type of shiz).

I've heard of women who cry after sex, but I haven't heard of this occurring in men. Interesting.

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Posted by SpiceNSugar

Posted by Lucriu
I know a guy that cries after sex. And no its not personal experience, a friend of his girlfriend told me ( Hes my friend, but obviously i wouldnt ask him this type of shiz).

I've heard of women who cry after sex, but I haven't heard of this occurring in men. Interesting.

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OK, I had a guy (taurus) cry after sex. The sex was out of this world but the time he cried was going to be our last time together. Don't be fooled by the tears though. He turned out to be a total jerk.