Standoff with Libra Woman

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9 Years

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Hey guys,

I am currently seeing a Cap man. Have been for the past three months. Its been slow, we meet up once a week. But the time we spend together is quality time. He wines and dines me or I cook him a nice homemade meal. He communicated to me that hes slow to enter a relationship (i'm the same way so this works out) and that he's currently not seeing or sleeping with anyone else.

Last night however, a girl called his phone when he was over. I asked him who it was and he honestly told me it was a libra woman he was seeing a few months ago. She had moved to another country for school and therefore they never had an oppurtunity to date. He told me she does a good job keeping in touch, she texts him every mornning and night and calls at least once a day.

I immedialtey went cold and told him I was not interested in someone who still had feelings for a former lover. He told me he doesn't reciprocate her efforts but by March they would decide whether they would pursue a relaitonship or end contact.

I'm in my mid twenties where she is in her ealry thirties, he told me that there are aspects about me he doesn't like. I'm quick tempered and emotionally needy...but he knows i am this way because of my age and soon when i grow up i'll be a bit more independent.

On the other hand, she's mature, independent and being the libra she is...incredibly sweet.

Wondering if he's only with me because our sexual chemistry is so intense? Is Cap and Libra a better combo then Scorp and Cap? Caps can be quite cynical, mean and depressed. I don't understand how astrologically they are a bad match for one another.

PS- i'm a Scorp Woman.
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Posted by SomeSortOfMermaid
Idk why you're even entertaining this dude.

He's basically saying you're good enough for now, and using you as a means to fill the void the libra left.


Co sign! I am glad he was honest with you but that's what this sounds like to me that you were only good for the moment until he figures out what he wants with her and if it doesn't work out with her then oh yeah you're still here. Ugh I am annoyed for you.
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Posted by SomeSortOfMermaid
Idk why you're even entertaining this dude.

He's basically saying you're good enough for now, and using you as a means to fill the void the libra left.


Co sign! I am glad he was honest with you but that's what this sounds like to me that you were only good for the moment until he figures out what he wants with her and if it doesn't work out with her then oh yeah you're still here. Ugh I am annoyed for you.
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Ditto. Don't be plan B. Unless that is what you want...