
if it wasn't for 10 years in age difference I'd be worried right now that we think about same person lol

Posted by MalakI hope not, cos the one I went out with is NOT a catch. I definitely hope yours is betterPosted by StrawberryJamif it wasn't for 10 years in age difference I'd be worried right now that we think about same person lol
@AgentP911 I never asked him out or accept tentative date. It's me giving him a may be for second date and he had to chase me by calling.
@Malak @RooSagicorn
He's single for a reason, he is weird, nothing wrong with being introvert, his level is being paranoid around ppl. Also he was hiding something else, I always thought his background was arabic as he looks Arabic to me. He told me his background is European. Last night he finally Admin he is Arabic. He said they are Arabic but parents born in Europe. I think it's weird for ppl hide their heritage.
Never again, not saying never to caps, just never to himclick to expand

Posted by StrawberryJamPosted by MalakI hope not, cos the one I went out with is NOT a catch. I definitely hope yours is betterPosted by StrawberryJamif it wasn't for 10 years in age difference I'd be worried right now that we think about same person lol
@AgentP911 I never asked him out or accept tentative date. It's me giving him a may be for second date and he had to chase me by calling.
@Malak @RooSagicorn
He's single for a reason, he is weird, nothing wrong with being introvert, his level is being paranoid around ppl. Also he was hiding something else, I always thought his background was arabic as he looks Arabic to me. He told me his background is European. Last night he finally Admin he is Arabic. He said they are Arabic but parents born in Europe. I think it's weird for ppl hide their heritage.
Never again, not saying never to caps, just never to himclick to expand
Posted by MalakAll the best with that girl, just my 2 cents make sure you are ok with him for who he is now, and not to bet on his potential. it can lead to heart break.Posted by StrawberryJamPosted by MalakI hope not, cos the one I went out with is NOT a catch. I definitely hope yours is betterPosted by StrawberryJamif it wasn't for 10 years in age difference I'd be worried right now that we think about same person lol
@AgentP911 I never asked him out or accept tentative date. It's me giving him a may be for second date and he had to chase me by calling.
@Malak @RooSagicorn
He's single for a reason, he is weird, nothing wrong with being introvert, his level is being paranoid around ppl. Also he was hiding something else, I always thought his background was arabic as he looks Arabic to me. He told me his background is European. Last night he finally Admin he is Arabic. He said they are Arabic but parents born in Europe. I think it's weird for ppl hide their heritage.
Never again, not saying never to caps, just never to him
he's got flaws I'll say it like that lol but I like him, has good potential too for better improvements but this one is much younger so can't be same person anyway lol but it really has a lot of similarities...anyway you're right there is absolutely no reason to be ashamed of his background plus many Arabic man are quite handsome or at least i saw those mostly lol
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Posted by StrawberryJamPosted by MalakAll the best with that girl, just my 2 cents make sure you are ok with him for who he is now, and not to bet on his potential. it can lead to heart break.Posted by StrawberryJamPosted by MalakI hope not, cos the one I went out with is NOT a catch. I definitely hope yours is betterPosted by StrawberryJamif it wasn't for 10 years in age difference I'd be worried right now that we think about same person lol
@AgentP911 I never asked him out or accept tentative date. It's me giving him a may be for second date and he had to chase me by calling.
@Malak @RooSagicorn
He's single for a reason, he is weird, nothing wrong with being introvert, his level is being paranoid around ppl. Also he was hiding something else, I always thought his background was arabic as he looks Arabic to me. He told me his background is European. Last night he finally Admin he is Arabic. He said they are Arabic but parents born in Europe. I think it's weird for ppl hide their heritage.
Never again, not saying never to caps, just never to him
he's got flaws I'll say it like that lol but I like him, has good potential too for better improvements but this one is much younger so can't be same person anyway lol but it really has a lot of similarities...anyway you're right there is absolutely no reason to be ashamed of his background plus many Arabic man are quite handsome or at least i saw those mostly lol
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Posted by MalakI dunno your guy but it doesn't sound good to me, but do take your time to get to know him and know yourself, know your limit and don't be afraid to walk away if he can't give you what you want in a healthy relationship.Posted by StrawberryJamPosted by MalakAll the best with that girl, just my 2 cents make sure you are ok with him for who he is now, and not to bet on his potential. it can lead to heart break.Posted by StrawberryJamPosted by MalakI hope not, cos the one I went out with is NOT a catch. I definitely hope yours is betterPosted by StrawberryJamif it wasn't for 10 years in age difference I'd be worried right now that we think about same person lol
@AgentP911 I never asked him out or accept tentative date. It's me giving him a may be for second date and he had to chase me by calling.
@Malak @RooSagicorn
He's single for a reason, he is weird, nothing wrong with being introvert, his level is being paranoid around ppl. Also he was hiding something else, I always thought his background was arabic as he looks Arabic to me. He told me his background is European. Last night he finally Admin he is Arabic. He said they are Arabic but parents born in Europe. I think it's weird for ppl hide their heritage.
Never again, not saying never to caps, just never to him
he's got flaws I'll say it like that lol but I like him, has good potential too for better improvements but this one is much younger so can't be same person anyway lol but it really has a lot of similarities...anyway you're right there is absolutely no reason to be ashamed of his background plus many Arabic man are quite handsome or at least i saw those mostly lol
will see what happens with that still, for now it's not looking really good and unless it's their famous pullback it's pretty much over...even if it isn't that i'm not sure how much i'm comfortable with being together with someone who tends to disappear and knowing myself I'll rather go away than cope with that bs...
damn we wrote so much about that guy here, i think no other thread has this many pages about any of them lol and he turned out just a weirdo by default lolclick to expand

Posted by StrawberryJamwell it started of with him rushing in too fast and as it couldn't go like that he started slowing down and eventually disappeared. I did my part to reassure him I'm being serious, if he doesn't get it yet or maybe doesn't want it then there is nothing more for me to do there. There's plenty of fish in the water as they say... and my lures are good looking lolPosted by MalakI dunno your guy but it doesn't sound good to me, but do take your time to get to know him and know yourself, know your limit and don't be afraid to walk away if he can't give you what you want in a healthy relationship.Posted by StrawberryJamPosted by MalakAll the best with that girl, just my 2 cents make sure you are ok with him for who he is now, and not to bet on his potential. it can lead to heart break.Posted by StrawberryJamPosted by MalakI hope not, cos the one I went out with is NOT a catch. I definitely hope yours is betterPosted by StrawberryJamif it wasn't for 10 years in age difference I'd be worried right now that we think about same person lol
@AgentP911 I never asked him out or accept tentative date. It's me giving him a may be for second date and he had to chase me by calling.
@Malak @RooSagicorn
He's single for a reason, he is weird, nothing wrong with being introvert, his level is being paranoid around ppl. Also he was hiding something else, I always thought his background was arabic as he looks Arabic to me. He told me his background is European. Last night he finally Admin he is Arabic. He said they are Arabic but parents born in Europe. I think it's weird for ppl hide their heritage.
Never again, not saying never to caps, just never to him
he's got flaws I'll say it like that lol but I like him, has good potential too for better improvements but this one is much younger so can't be same person anyway lol but it really has a lot of similarities...anyway you're right there is absolutely no reason to be ashamed of his background plus many Arabic man are quite handsome or at least i saw those mostly lol
will see what happens with that still, for now it's not looking really good and unless it's their famous pullback it's pretty much over...even if it isn't that i'm not sure how much i'm comfortable with being together with someone who tends to disappear and knowing myself I'll rather go away than cope with that bs...
damn we wrote so much about that guy here, i think no other thread has this many pages about any of them lol and he turned out just a weirdo by default lol
haha yea we talked a lot about this weirdo. Its a good chat with guys though, I enjoyed it. Hope everything learnt something out of it, I did as I'm intrigued by psychology and the triggers that make ppl do certain things.
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Posted by MalakIf he was rushing in too fast I see it as a red flag base on my own experience. I suspect he could be a commitment phobe, which I hope I am wrong for your sake.Posted by StrawberryJamwell it started of with him rushing in too fast and as it couldn't go like that he started slowing down and eventually disappeared. I did my part to reassure him I'm being serious, if he doesn't get it yet or maybe doesn't want it then there is nothing more for me to do there. There's plenty of fish in the water as they say... and my lures are good looking lolPosted by MalakI dunno your guy but it doesn't sound good to me, but do take your time to get to know him and know yourself, know your limit and don't be afraid to walk away if he can't give you what you want in a healthy relationship.Posted by StrawberryJamPosted by MalakAll the best with that girl, just my 2 cents make sure you are ok with him for who he is now, and not to bet on his potential. it can lead to heart break.Posted by StrawberryJamPosted by MalakI hope not, cos the one I went out with is NOT a catch. I definitely hope yours is betterPosted by StrawberryJamif it wasn't for 10 years in age difference I'd be worried right now that we think about same person lol
@AgentP911 I never asked him out or accept tentative date. It's me giving him a may be for second date and he had to chase me by calling.
@Malak @RooSagicorn
He's single for a reason, he is weird, nothing wrong with being introvert, his level is being paranoid around ppl. Also he was hiding something else, I always thought his background was arabic as he looks Arabic to me. He told me his background is European. Last night he finally Admin he is Arabic. He said they are Arabic but parents born in Europe. I think it's weird for ppl hide their heritage.
Never again, not saying never to caps, just never to him
he's got flaws I'll say it like that lol but I like him, has good potential too for better improvements but this one is much younger so can't be same person anyway lol but it really has a lot of similarities...anyway you're right there is absolutely no reason to be ashamed of his background plus many Arabic man are quite handsome or at least i saw those mostly lol
will see what happens with that still, for now it's not looking really good and unless it's their famous pullback it's pretty much over...even if it isn't that i'm not sure how much i'm comfortable with being together with someone who tends to disappear and knowing myself I'll rather go away than cope with that bs...
damn we wrote so much about that guy here, i think no other thread has this many pages about any of them lol and he turned out just a weirdo by default lol
haha yea we talked a lot about this weirdo. Its a good chat with guys though, I enjoyed it. Hope everything learnt something out of it, I did as I'm intrigued by psychology and the triggers that make ppl do certain things.
I like psychology a lot too, maybe that's why we ended up discussing those guys a lot lolclick to expand

Posted by MalakPosted by StrawberryJamConsidering I was in a relationship and he knew that I'd say he was rushing in fast. He literally said "I just want you to leave him" and "You deserve better" meanwhile we just started talking, how can he know that? I could be actually a bad person and my ex a very good one(it wasn't that ofc and he was right but how could he possibly know that?!). Anyway at start I took it as flirting only cause well it's online and not to be taken too seriously when you talk to people like that but he kept showing me he is serious and kinda got offended if I'm not taking him in that way so I changed my mind in that way.Posted by MalakIf he was rushing in too fast I see it as a red flag base on my own experience. I suspect he could be a commitment phobe, which I hope I am wrong for your sake.Posted by StrawberryJamwell it started of with him rushing in too fast and as it couldn't go like that he started slowing down and eventually disappeared. I did my part to reassure him I'm being serious, if he doesn't get it yet or maybe doesn't want it then there is nothing more for me to do there. There's plenty of fish in the water as they say... and my lures are good looking lolPosted by MalakI dunno your guy but it doesn't sound good to me, but do take your time to get to know him and know yourself, know your limit and don't be afraid to walk away if he can't give you what you want in a healthy relationship.Posted by StrawberryJamPosted by MalakAll the best with that girl, just my 2 cents make sure you are ok with him for who he is now, and not to bet on his potential. it can lead to heart break.Posted by StrawberryJamPosted by MalakI hope not, cos the one I went out with is NOT a catch. I definitely hope yours is betterPosted by StrawberryJamif it wasn't for 10 years in age difference I'd be worried right now that we think about same person lol
@AgentP911 I never asked him out or accept tentative date. It's me giving him a may be for second date and he had to chase me by calling.
@Malak @RooSagicorn
He's single for a reason, he is weird, nothing wrong with being introvert, his level is being paranoid around ppl. Also he was hiding something else, I always thought his background was arabic as he looks Arabic to me. He told me his background is European. Last night he finally Admin he is Arabic. He said they are Arabic but parents born in Europe. I think it's weird for ppl hide their heritage.
Never again, not saying never to caps, just never to him
he's got flaws I'll say it like that lol but I like him, has good potential too for better improvements but this one is much younger so can't be same person anyway lol but it really has a lot of similarities...anyway you're right there is absolutely no reason to be ashamed of his background plus many Arabic man are quite handsome or at least i saw those mostly lol
will see what happens with that still, for now it's not looking really good and unless it's their famous pullback it's pretty much over...even if it isn't that i'm not sure how much i'm comfortable with being together with someone who tends to disappear and knowing myself I'll rather go away than cope with that bs...
damn we wrote so much about that guy here, i think no other thread has this many pages about any of them lol and he turned out just a weirdo by default lol
haha yea we talked a lot about this weirdo. Its a good chat with guys though, I enjoyed it. Hope everything learnt something out of it, I did as I'm intrigued by psychology and the triggers that make ppl do certain things.
I like psychology a lot too, maybe that's why we ended up discussing those guys a lot lol
Since you are also into psychology I highly recommend you to read this book - Man who can't love from Steven A. Carter
Overall commitment phobe might be right actually. Considering he's single for a while, this all thing that happened with us I no longer think he's that serious. I think he wants to be but can't. Only thing I can tell so far is he doesn't want to lose me completely but can't commit to anything either so moving on from this, wherever life takes us so be itclick to expand

Posted by StrawberryJamPosted by MalakPosted by StrawberryJamConsidering I was in a relationship and he knew that I'd say he was rushing in fast. He literally said "I just want you to leave him" and "You deserve better" meanwhile we just started talking, how can he know that? I could be actually a bad person and my ex a very good one(it wasn't that ofc and he was right but how could he possibly know that?!). Anyway at start I took it as flirting only cause well it's online and not to be taken too seriously when you talk to people like that but he kept showing me he is serious and kinda got offended if I'm not taking him in that way so I changed my mind in that way.Posted by MalakIf he was rushing in too fast I see it as a red flag base on my own experience. I suspect he could be a commitment phobe, which I hope I am wrong for your sake.Posted by StrawberryJamwell it started of with him rushing in too fast and as it couldn't go like that he started slowing down and eventually disappeared. I did my part to reassure him I'm being serious, if he doesn't get it yet or maybe doesn't want it then there is nothing more for me to do there. There's plenty of fish in the water as they say... and my lures are good looking lolPosted by MalakI dunno your guy but it doesn't sound good to me, but do take your time to get to know him and know yourself, know your limit and don't be afraid to walk away if he can't give you what you want in a healthy relationship.Posted by StrawberryJamPosted by MalakAll the best with that girl, just my 2 cents make sure you are ok with him for who he is now, and not to bet on his potential. it can lead to heart break.Posted by StrawberryJamPosted by MalakI hope not, cos the one I went out with is NOT a catch. I definitely hope yours is betterPosted by StrawberryJamif it wasn't for 10 years in age difference I'd be worried right now that we think about same person lol
@AgentP911 I never asked him out or accept tentative date. It's me giving him a may be for second date and he had to chase me by calling.
@Malak @RooSagicorn
He's single for a reason, he is weird, nothing wrong with being introvert, his level is being paranoid around ppl. Also he was hiding something else, I always thought his background was arabic as he looks Arabic to me. He told me his background is European. Last night he finally Admin he is Arabic. He said they are Arabic but parents born in Europe. I think it's weird for ppl hide their heritage.
Never again, not saying never to caps, just never to him
he's got flaws I'll say it like that lol but I like him, has good potential too for better improvements but this one is much younger so can't be same person anyway lol but it really has a lot of similarities...anyway you're right there is absolutely no reason to be ashamed of his background plus many Arabic man are quite handsome or at least i saw those mostly lol
will see what happens with that still, for now it's not looking really good and unless it's their famous pullback it's pretty much over...even if it isn't that i'm not sure how much i'm comfortable with being together with someone who tends to disappear and knowing myself I'll rather go away than cope with that bs...
damn we wrote so much about that guy here, i think no other thread has this many pages about any of them lol and he turned out just a weirdo by default lol
haha yea we talked a lot about this weirdo. Its a good chat with guys though, I enjoyed it. Hope everything learnt something out of it, I did as I'm intrigued by psychology and the triggers that make ppl do certain things.
I like psychology a lot too, maybe that's why we ended up discussing those guys a lot lol
Since you are also into psychology I highly recommend you to read this book - Man who can't love from Steven A. Carter
Overall commitment phobe might be right actually. Considering he's single for a while, this all thing that happened with us I no longer think he's that serious. I think he wants to be but can't. Only thing I can tell so far is he doesn't want to lose me completely but can't commit to anything either so moving on from this, wherever life takes us so be it
You're right he didn't know you or him, sounded like he wants to "win" by making you leave someone else for his ego. Then when he has you he is now back paddling.
You don't have to answer anyone here, just write down 5 things you like about this cap, not looks or money, then 5 things you don't like about him. Then 5 things you want in a healthy relationship and 5 deal breaker, then you know the answer to whether he is worth further investingclick to expand
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