virgo85
@virgo85
11 Years
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What does this Capricorn man want? help !!
Sounds like he just wants a fwb at this point with you. If a Cap man wants you for something serious, HE will be the one to pursue, there's really no doubt about it. They are very focused people when they want something, and straight to the point. Otherwise, he will probably keep it light, distant and dance around the topic.
Your companionship and maybe your body again.
Would you want a relationship with him? If so, tell him you won't tolerate wishy-washiness like that and that either he comes to you seriously or not at all.
As for Cap and Virgos being perfect matches...in work maybe, relationship-wise, both need to known how to be emotionally vulnerable and present.
Would you want a relationship with him? If so, tell him you won't tolerate wishy-washiness like that and that either he comes to you seriously or not at all.
As for Cap and Virgos being perfect matches...in work maybe, relationship-wise, both need to known how to be emotionally vulnerable and present.
Posted by SunMoonStars
Sounds like he just wants a fwb at this point with you. If a Cap man wants you for something serious, HE will be the one to pursue, there's really no doubt about it. They are very focused people when they want something, and straight to the point. Otherwise, he will probably keep it light, distant and dance around the topic.
I let him know it is not what I am looking for and I was very firmed and assertive about it. I told him to stop texting me because he didn't stop texting me for 2 days stright, day and night.
Posted by SirHorns
Your companionship and maybe your body again.
Would you want a relationship with him? If so, tell him you won't tolerate wishy-washiness like that and that either he comes to you seriously or not at all.
As for Cap and Virgos being perfect matches...in work maybe, relationship-wise, both need to known how to be emotionally vulnerable and present.
Thanks for your reply, I told him I don't want FWB. I think it is a waste of my time. I could be focusing on my job, GMAT exam and date around other guys who see a future together. I'm not someone's second option, not even over their job. I know my worth and i can bring more to the table more than just sex. I told him I'm very impatient and not the type that would wait around guys to make up their mind.
He said, he wants to hang out with me but no sex which I say no.
Then he said ok and sorry to bother you.
Posted by ScorpiosHarmony
He wants your body and company thats all. He's obviously not seeking anything serious at this stage. The fact that you cut him off may have bruised his ego and him still wanting a friendship is a way of controlling the situation and keeping you in the picture.
In future, don't sleep with a guy if you know you want more than a fwb situation. Wait till you get commitment first.
right! I regret that I did. I didn't want to use sex just as the only bargaining chip. But I guess you're right. I need to hold it off until I have a clear picture of what we are.
I'm going to date other guys but I want to know if he will change his mind after I told him what I want. If any of you are Capricorn, please give me any idea on how Caps react in a situation like this.
Posted by virgo85
Since then, he no longer see me during day time with the excuse of being overly busy.
But whenever he gets day off though, he would come over and sleep over. Then the next day, we usually go out to eat breakfast then he leaves. He never really talks much, and trying to get him to talk more was like pulling teeth.
.
You aren't anything to him. He only wants to sleep with you. He keeps bugging you because you took away his fun and he misses his fun.
Respect yourself and Lose his number.
Posted by ScorpiosHarmony
In future, don't sleep with a guy if you know you want more than a fwb situation. Wait till you get commitment first.
This ^^^.
Posted by truecapPosted by ScorpiosHarmony
In future, don't sleep with a guy if you know you want more than a fwb situation. Wait till you get commitment first.
This ^^^.click to expand
^^^Yup.
Unfortunately, I have to agree with the others - this guy has a looot to prove!
thanks guys! After seeing your comments, I'm certain that I made the right decision. I did delete his phone number. I haven't removed him from Facebook because I promised him I won't. And we've only beeing seeing for a month and half, so I'm not that much attached to him emotionally yet. I can keep him as friends on FB. 🙂 Thanks again for your response. I appreciate it.
SOME FACTS ABOUT CAPRICORN MALES TO PONDER ABOUT
Everything for a Capricorn is a seed, you must give your time and effort for it to grow it into a plant.
All you did with the sex was speed the process, which was to fast for him to catch up. So he did what many of us have done, he pulled the emergency brakes!
By asking where you stand now forces the too much water on a seed drowning it instead of making it grow.
He wants friendship because it's the only path for a Capricorn male to commit himself into a meaningful relationship.
Do as you wish, but these are the facts.
Everything for a Capricorn is a seed, you must give your time and effort for it to grow it into a plant.
All you did with the sex was speed the process, which was to fast for him to catch up. So he did what many of us have done, he pulled the emergency brakes!
By asking where you stand now forces the too much water on a seed drowning it instead of making it grow.
He wants friendship because it's the only path for a Capricorn male to commit himself into a meaningful relationship.
Do as you wish, but these are the facts.
Posted by SureShotCap
SOME FACTS ABOUT CAPRICORN MALES TO PONDER ABOUT
Everything for a Capricorn is a seed, you must give your time and effort for it to grow it into a plant.
All you did with the sex was speed the process, which was to fast for him to catch up. So he did what many of us have done, he pulled the emergency brakes!
By asking where you stand now forces the too much water on a seed drowning it instead of making it grow.
He wants friendship because it's the only path for a Capricorn male to commit himself into a meaningful relationship.
Do as you wish, but these are the facts.
I dont disagree with you. Ive done my research and thats what some people say too. But what if you are wrong?
Can you please tell me what is it that your afraid of? If I am wrong you learn,evolve and then move on. If I am right and you wait and your the one, you will have everything and anything he can provide for you.
I know you feel it, if you didn't we wouldn't be speaking atm. Why not take the chance? Just keep doing what your doing. Be you and stop asking people for advice. He will love you for it...
I know you feel it, if you didn't we wouldn't be speaking atm. Why not take the chance? Just keep doing what your doing. Be you and stop asking people for advice. He will love you for it...
Posted by SureShotCap
Can you please tell me what is it that your afraid of? If I am wrong you learn,evolve and then move on. If I am right and you wait and your the one, you will have everything and anything he can provide for you.
I know you feel it, if you didn't we wouldn't be speaking atm. Why not take the chance? Just keep doing what your doing. Be you and stop asking people for advice. He will love you for it...
Im afrid of being hurt. I tend to over analize everything. While we were hanging out, all i did was read stuff on google about Capricorns. I coukd barely focus on work.but you are right, i should give love a chance. Or i will never find it
Posted by virgo85Posted by SureShotCap
Can you please tell me what is it that your afraid of? If I am wrong you learn,evolve and then move on. If I am right and you wait and your the one, you will have everything and anything he can provide for you.
I know you feel it, if you didn't we wouldn't be speaking atm. Why not take the chance? Just keep doing what your doing. Be you and stop asking people for advice. He will love you for it...
Im afrid of being hurt. I tend to over analize everything. While we were hanging out, all i did was read stuff on google about Capricorns. I coukd barely focus on work.but you are right, i should give love a chance. Or i will never find itclick to expand
He probably needs time to think about it
He's obviously sexually attracted to you, but he doesn't know yet where will this lead in the end or what he'll do about it.
He probably wants to decide whether he will take things more seriously and start seeing you as more than a FBuddy or not
you know what I mean? lol
Posted by CapricornLordPosted by virgo85Posted by SureShotCap
Can you please tell me what is it that your afraid of? If I am wrong you learn,evolve and then move on. If I am right and you wait and your the one, you will have everything and anything he can provide for you.
I know you feel it, if you didn't we wouldn't be speaking atm. Why not take the chance? Just keep doing what your doing. Be you and stop asking people for advice. He will love you for it...
Im afrid of being hurt. I tend to over analize everything. While we were hanging out, all i did was read stuff on google about Capricorns. I coukd barely focus on work.but you are right, i should give love a chance. Or i will never find it
He probably needs time to think about it
He's obviously sexually attracted to you, but he doesn't know yet where will this lead in the end or what he'll do about it.
He probably wants to decide whether he will take things more seriously and start seeing you as more than a FBuddy or not
you know what I mean? lolclick to expand
Yes i get that vibe from him too. Ah! Now i dont know what to do anymore. I just told him today, i cant be friends right now. may be in couple of months, i will reach out to him. That's what i said.
Posted by virgo85
thanks guys! After seeing your comments, I'm certain that I made the right decision. I did delete his phone number. I haven't removed him from Facebook because I promised him I won't. And we've only beeing seeing for a month and half, so I'm not that much attached to him emotionally yet. I can keep him as friends on FB. 🙂 Thanks again for your response. I appreciate it.
Nothing wrong with keeping him friends on FB. Might even end up being a really good friend someday.
Besides, you can always keep HIM as an option for when you're bored. 😉
Posted by virgo85Posted by SureShotCap
SOME FACTS ABOUT CAPRICORN MALES TO PONDER ABOUT
Everything for a Capricorn is a seed, you must give your time and effort for it to grow it into a plant.
All you did with the sex was speed the process, which was to fast for him to catch up. So he did what many of us have done, he pulled the emergency brakes!
By asking where you stand now forces the too much water on a seed drowning it instead of making it grow.
He wants friendship because it's the only path for a Capricorn male to commit himself into a meaningful relationship.
Do as you wish, but these are the facts.
I dont disagree with you. Ive done my research and thats what some people say too. But what if you are wrong?click to expand
SureShot is a cap male and knows what he's talking about. I'd listen to him if I were you.
Posted by truecapPosted by virgo85Posted by SureShotCap
SOME FACTS ABOUT CAPRICORN MALES TO PONDER ABOUT
Everything for a Capricorn is a seed, you must give your time and effort for it to grow it into a plant.
All you did with the sex was speed the process, which was to fast for him to catch up. So he did what many of us have done, he pulled the emergency brakes!
By asking where you stand now forces the too much water on a seed drowning it instead of making it grow.
He wants friendship because it's the only path for a Capricorn male to commit himself into a meaningful relationship.
Do as you wish, but these are the facts.
I dont disagree with you. Ive done my research and thats what some people say too. But what if you are wrong?
SureShot is a cap male and knows what he's talking about. I'd listen to him if I were you.click to expand
I thought about contacting him but I kinda told him it might be a while until i reach out to him. If i do contact him now, I'm worried he won't respect me anymore.
"then he has been bugging me since then to keep him as a friend."
and
"He wants to talk to me and also hang out with me"
Doesn't seem you're gonna have to...🙂
and
"He wants to talk to me and also hang out with me"
Doesn't seem you're gonna have to...🙂
Posted by HappyCapper
"then he has been bugging me since then to keep him as a friend."
and
"He wants to talk to me and also hang out with me"
Doesn't seem you're gonna have to...🙂
He stopped texting me since yesterday morning after I told him I need sometime to clear my head and then I will reach out to him. So I don't know if I should just wait until he try and talk to me or contact him. I even deleted his number. So if I want to text him frist, I gonna have to go login to Sprint website and find his phone number from the call histroy.
Well, is your mind cleared? Do you know what you want?
Posted by virgo85Posted by HappyCapper
"then he has been bugging me since then to keep him as a friend."
and
"He wants to talk to me and also hang out with me"
Doesn't seem you're gonna have to...🙂
He stopped texting me since yesterday morning after I told him I need sometime to clear my head and then I will reach out to him. So I don't know if I should just wait until he try and talk to me or contact him. I even deleted his number. So if I want to text him frist, I gonna have to go login to Sprint website and find his phone number from the call histroy.click to expand
Do you have peanut butter in your ears? wait, eyes - since this is in print.
you guys are very supportive. now I'm in love with this forum.
@HappyCapper - I'm gonna take today to think about it. and then I will reach out to him if I think I can handle the friendship.
@HappyCapper - I'm gonna take today to think about it. and then I will reach out to him if I think I can handle the friendship.
I was just teasing you about the peanut butter....if you contact him, just beware.
Posted by truecap
I was just teasing you about the peanut butter....if you contact him, just beware.
sure! I'll be careful. He sent me text saying hi like 2 hours ago. I haven't answered yet.
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