lexie
@lexie
10 Years
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Posted by HappyCapperok maybe I am wrong about him being confusing.. maybe I'm just confused. how do I know what to say and what not to say? when he suddenly stops talking, I panic and try to get him to reply. I get clingy and I'm afraid that will scare him away. which just make me more clingy and my emotions go crazy 20 different feelings in a minute. he's frying my brain. overload. lol
Thanks.🙂
But.
In which way is he confusing? The only problem you seem to be having is you getting clingy when he's busy.


Posted by HappyCapperstop talking mid conversation and then only read my messages for the next hour. Im too clingy. I feel pathetic
Aww lol
Well, what do you mean by suddenly stop talking. Is it like mid convo and then quiet for three days? Or, what are we talking about?
Posted by RumiLyes yes I know. how do you cure clingy-ness
Hehe 😄
Dont act on your anxiety. Know that the world wont end if you won't contact him right away... Its an opportunity for you to deal with problem of being clingy! 🙂
He's in army and you know how patient you have to be.. ☺
Posted by HappyCappermy sun cancer his sun Capricorn
Wild guess: cancer sun and/or venus, conjunct gemini moon?
Posted by HappyCapperthanx lol
Let's start with the easy question:
"how do I know what to say and what not to say?"
Answer: whatever you're doing right now seems to be working just fine. Just relax and do what you're doing.
Posted by lexieBut he continues talking after that hour?Posted by HappyCapperstop talking mid conversation and then only read my messages for the next hour. Im too clingy. I feel pathetic
Aww lol
Well, what do you mean by suddenly stop talking. Is it like mid convo and then quiet for three days? Or, what are we talking about?click to expand
Posted by HappyCapperafter I get his attention. then we continue talking like crazy. however when I wait, then I'll wait for days. he doesn't initiate, maybe cause he knows I'll start the conversion again? I don't know. I just don't want to end up chasing after him and scarring him away. but I don't want to not go after him and then he losses interest and forgets about me or such. even as friends I'm not sure how to handle things. I need to find a balance, but the Cancer in me either wants to drag him back by iron claws, or hide away till there's definitive hope.Posted by lexieBut he continues talking after that hour?Posted by HappyCapperstop talking mid conversation and then only read my messages for the next hour. Im too clingy. I feel pathetic
Aww lol
Well, what do you mean by suddenly stop talking. Is it like mid convo and then quiet for three days? Or, what are we talking about?click to expand

Posted by AquaNextDoorI'LL lose interest?? and how do i "not get clingy"?
Oh boy. You'll lose his interest in no time if u continue like that. I know it can be hard to not get clingy. But trust me.... that's not what u should do.
Posted by lexielol.... didnt read properly. blond moment. ok just how do i NOT get clingy?Posted by AquaNextDoorI'LL lose interest?? and how do i "not get clingy"?
Oh boy. You'll lose his interest in no time if u continue like that. I know it can be hard to not get clingy. But trust me.... that's not what u should do.click to expand


Posted by AquaNextDoorthanx, will check it out now.
By realizing that men lose interest in no time if u act that way because u give away yourself like u r on 80% sale. U don't want that he sees u as desperate and clingy. Especially a cap man needs a woman who he can redpect because she is strong and not desperate for his attention nor anybody's reassurance.
I learned a loooot from this website
Blackgirlsareeasy.com
Its written by a guy and it opened my eyes!!! Its not racist at all. Trust me. Read his blog, its your new dating bible.
After reading his blog you'll at least think 20x "fuck I did that before" then u'll realize that u have the power
Posted by AquaNextDoorive heard that before, de'ja' vu. guess that means its an important message and i should listen. :p hehehe
Never invest ur energy in a guy who doesnt make concrete steps to a more serious level.

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he's in the army. he has a dark evil/malicious side to him. which sparks my darker side. he's wild and crazy, which I totally love. I'm just as crazy. he's also really sexy, can turn me on in the most subtle and perfect way. he's a satyr.. all this I find really odd cause he's a Capricorn. just 2 days ago we had a 4 hour conversation on the phone. I thought earth signs get to the point quick when calling...
he's so mysterious. he's got me going crazy. I literally want to lock him and me in a room and talk for hours. then rip his clothes off and well Yea.... for hours
I can't get him out of my head. I dream of him all the time. literally. it's weird. we haven't even met in person yet.. ok well last time I saw him was 6 years ago and we never spoke or anything. now we started speaking and we are so in sync.
only problems I'm having is when he's busy and I get all clingy. start wondering why he's ignoring me etc. don't know what to do.
help please