@RamOfPeace
10 Years1,000+ Posts
ViCap/MoonCap
Cap moon is a tough placement. Tough love describes it pretty well. Also cautious, critical, guarded, suspicious. However, very, very loyal and protective of my partner. It is logical. Takes a while to give into feelings. No time frame really...Maybe 6 months to a year to love someone.
For what it's worth, my grown kids tell me I'm nonemotional and they've seen all of my emotional side. My aries son thinks I have no emotion at all.
They don't think I'm cold, just that I wasn't a coddler. You fell down? Get up, you're fine.
Posted by truecap
They don't think I'm cold, just that I wasn't a coddler. You fell down? Get up, you're fine.
Yeh that could be me too. Having both moon & venus in cap makes me a thoughtful, strict toughlover
I found the right man whose venus in scorpio plus sun in cap could meet my high demands and need for a verry deep and stable emotional connection. Cuz of that I opened up way faster. But full trust is another thing that took about 8 months and even longer. But I warmed up super quick with him because he was all serious from the beginning
Posted by truecap
They don't think I'm cold, just that I wasn't a coddler. You fell down? Get up, you're fine.
Yeh that could be me too. Having both moon & venus in cap makes me a thoughtful, strict toughlover
I found the right man whose venus in scorpio plus sun in cap could meet my high demands and need for a verry deep and stable emotional connection. Cuz of that I opened up way faster. But full trust is another thing that took about 8 months and even longer. But I warmed up super quick with him because he was all serious from the beginning
Posted by RamOfPeace
It feels like you're stingy to budge with more emotions. e.
Don't look at it as stingy. Look at it as good things come to those who earn it. Once you earn it, you will know and it will be such a sweet reward. You probably won't understand until you get there, but oh you will.
Posted by RamOfPeace
It feels like you're stingy to budge with more emotions. e.Don't look at it as stingy. Look at it as good things come to those who earn it. Once you earn it, you will know and it will be such a sweet reward. You probably won't understand until you get there, but oh you will.
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Duly noted.
What I notice is the disconnect between verbage and action. You natives can embrace somebody and be very physically loving, but what comes out of your mouth is purely dry logic and rationale. It kills the mood sometimes, I am not yet sure how to cope.
Posted by RamOfPeace
It feels like you're stingy to budge with more emotions. I know that these placements are loyal and stable, but how long does it take to crack you open for more warmth? Given the fact that there's no malicious intent on your lover's side.I have dated two ViCaps and was married to a third one, but your ways are still confusing to me, even though I am a ViTau.
And MoonCap are beyond me, because I have only dated one and had the other one as my bff, but both give off an impression of tough love.
What were the sun signs?
Posted by RamOfPeace
It feels like you're stingy to budge with more emotions. e.Don't look at it as stingy. Look at it as good things come to those who earn it. Once you earn it, you will know and it will be such a sweet reward. You probably won't understand until you get there, but oh you will.
Duly noted.
What I notice is the disconnect between verbage and action. You natives can embrace somebody and be very physically loving, but what comes out of your mouth is purely dry logic and rationale. It kills the mood sometimes, I am not yet sure how to cope.
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Noted as something for me to work on.
Posted by RamOfPeace
It feels like you're stingy to budge with more emotions. I know that these placements are loyal and stable, but how long does it take to crack you open for more warmth? Given the fact that there's no malicious intent on your lover's side.I have dated two ViCaps and was married to a third one, but your ways are still confusing to me, even though I am a ViTau.
And MoonCap are beyond me, because I have only dated one and had the other one as my bff, but both give off an impression of tough love.
What were the sun signs?
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Leo and Sag. Leo only has MoonCap, Sag has both, MoonCap and ViCap
Posted by CruellaWhite
are they too critical? express your needs and ask them theirs
No, that's not what I am getting at. But thanks.
I dated a sag sun cap moon and he was far too dry and i needed more emotion from having him.
I will keep in mind what you said tho.
Question, with the venus in caps, who broke up with who?
@DMV Nobody broke up with anybody. I am dating a Sag with ViCap and MoonCap. Leo is my bff, but she has ViVirgo
In fact I am not even sure where you got the breakup idea from in my post
Posted by RamOfPeace
It feels like you're stingy to budge with more emotions. e.Don't look at it as stingy. Look at it as good things come to those who earn it. Once you earn it, you will know and it will be such a sweet reward. You probably won't understand until you get there, but oh you will.
Duly noted.
What I notice is the disconnect between verbage and action. You natives can embrace somebody and be very physically loving, but what comes out of your mouth is purely dry logic and rationale. It kills the mood sometimes, I am not yet sure how to cope.
Noted as something for me to work on.
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yeh my cap is that way too!! dry dry logic, totally not romantic hehe I told him that and he works on himself as he wants to give me that kind of reassurance and verbal love. I love him to death for even trying 🙂 that's all that counts.
Well..when their actions speak why bother 🙂
My dad never told he loves my mom. He infact jokes about it.. He never talks about how much he cares, doesn't speak about his emotions.
But ...we all can see how much he loves.
@truecap Yeah so it did not work. The dude has a history of falling hard at first, and exhausting all his feelings after 1-2 months of relationship apparently, which is exactly what happened. I seem to meet the "broken" type of ViCap, for the third time too. It is either them being stuck on someone forever from forever ago, or just in general being incapable of developing the emotion further.
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It feels like you're stingy to budge with more emotions. I know that these placements are loyal and stable, but how long does it take to crack you open for more warmth? Given the fact that there's no malicious intent on your lover's side.
I have dated two ViCaps and was married to a third one, but your ways are still confusing to me, even though I am a ViTau.
And MoonCap are beyond me, because I have only dated one and had the other one as my bff, but both give off an impression of tough love.