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Is it possible to fall in love with someone you’ve never met in person?

For example, you are both dxp members and exchange some private messages, messages get longer and more private, you feel some sort of bond, you talk on the phone, you Skype and boom 💥 next thing you know =

love happens ❤️

Just for the record, it did not happen to me, lol. Unfortunately 😒

I am genuinely just curious!
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I think it is possible to have a special bond with someone you meet online, but unless you meet in person can you really call it romantic love? Friendship love yes definitely, but until you meet them face to face you will never know if that chemistry is really there. I have met someone on here, I won't say names but he knows who he is. We have a lot in common but unfortunately he lives on the other side of the world. We talk off of here all the time and I consider him a trusted friend. If circumstances were different absolutely I think we would have gotten together a long time ago. 🥰 But I cherish the friendship we have now.
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Is it possible to fall in love that way? Sure! But it’s only fantasy on both sides until you meet in person. It falls apart pretty quickly after that. 🤣


Yeah, I think it would be nerve wracking experience 😬

Especially for us Geminis lol 😂

Imagine meeting in person and they didn’t live up to the fantasy. No thanks, I’d rather just keep the fantasy and friendship going 🤭
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I’d be way too scared and paranoid to get to know someone on a romantic level on here not to mention to actually meet them in person! 😬😳 No thank you! Nothing against those who do as I would never judge….its just not for me. I feel like if I did and things went south I could never show my face on here again because they would now know things about me that no one else knows that I like to keep confidential. Eek! No, just no!
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I’d be way too scared and paranoid to get to know someone on a romantic level on here not to mention to actually meet them in person! 😬😳 No thank you! Nothing against those who do as I would never judge….its just not for me. I feel like if I did and things went south I could never show my face on here again because they would now know things about me that no one else knows that I like to keep confidential. Eek! No, just no!



So no as someone from the internet, So no as someone from your workplace ? but ————————————————————————————————————————————
nah nothing,
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I feel like my workplace and DXP would be the same for me. Neither place I would go looking for love. Work is just that….the place I go to make a living and DXP is just a place I go to vent, talk shit etc. I don’t want to mix love with either of those. Now online as in a dating app is different because you are there actually looking for love and the person you meet is typically looking for the same thing.
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I’d be way too scared and paranoid to get to know someone on a romantic level on here not to mention to actually meet them in person! 😬😳 No thank you! Nothing against those who do as I would never judge….its just not for me. I feel like if I did and things went south I could never show my face on here again because they would now know things about me that no one else knows that I like to keep confidential. Eek! No, just no!




So no as someone from the internet, So no as someone from your workplace ? but ————————————————————————————————————————————

nah nothing,
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I feel like my workplace and DXP would be the same for me. Neither place I would go looking for love. Work is just that….the place I go to make a living and DXP is just a place I go to vent, talk shit etc. I don’t want to mix love with either of those. Now online as in a dating app is different because you are there actually looking for love and the person you meet is typically looking for the same thing.
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So do you think it’s possible to fall in love via writing only? Have you ever met someone who didn’t live up to the expectations or maybe exceeded them?
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I’d be way too scared and paranoid to get to know someone on a romantic level on here not to mention to actually meet them in person! 😬😳 No thank you! Nothing against those who do as I would never judge….its just not for me. I feel like if I did and things went south I could never show my face on here again because they would now know things about me that no one else knows that I like to keep confidential. Eek! No, just no!




So no as someone from the internet, So no as someone from your workplace ? but ————————————————————————————————————————————

nah nothing,
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I feel like my workplace and DXP would be the same for me. Neither place I would go looking for love. Work is just that….the place I go to make a living and DXP is just a place I go to vent, talk shit etc. I don’t want to mix love with either of those. Now online as in a dating app is different because you are there actually looking for love and the person you meet is typically looking for the same thing.



So do you think it’s possible to fall in love via writing only? Have you ever met someone who didn’t live up to the expectations or maybe exceeded them?
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Now? I’d say no. Not without meeting in person. Sure, you can form a deep bond, a friendship etc. I think you can even have a love for that person. But as far as being in love…a romantic love. No, more like in lust.

Years ago when I was naive and in my twenties? Heck yeah, I believed it was true. That you could fall in love online through writings only and phone calls. I thought I was in love years and years ago with a Gemini guy I met online. We chatted for 2 whole years through texts, emails, IM’s, phone calls etc. We finally planned on meeting. I bought my plane ticket and made arrangements and everything. The night before I was supposed to fly out he ghosted me, I’d call him and got the message his phone was no longer in service. Guess it got too real for him and he wanted to keep the fantasy going. Little did I know he was living a whole other life. Had a girlfriend whom he lived with. No wonder he ghosted me. Lmao. Looking back, I see how incredibly stupid that was “falling in lust” with someone online whom I had never met. Never again! 🤣. Live and learn I guess…live and learn.
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I’d be way too scared and paranoid to get to know someone on a romantic level on here not to mention to actually meet them in person! 😬😳 No thank you! Nothing against those who do as I would never judge….its just not for me. I feel like if I did and things went south I could never show my face on here again because they would now know things about me that no one else knows that I like to keep confidential. Eek! No, just no!





So no as someone from the internet, So no as someone from your workplace ? but ————————————————————————————————————————————


nah nothing,



I feel like my workplace and DXP would be the same for me. Neither place I would go looking for love. Work is just that….the place I go to make a living and DXP is just a place I go to vent, talk shit etc. I don’t want to mix love with either of those. Now online as in a dating app is different because you are there actually looking for love and the person you meet is typically looking for the same thing.



RULES ARE MEANT TO BE BREAK, LIFE WITHOUT RISK IZNT WORTH IT 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

but maybe im wrong and im just sag stelliuming
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I’m not saying it could never happen. Sometimes things happen that are beyond our control. Or we don’t see coming. 🤷‍♀️
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I’d be way too scared and paranoid to get to know someone on a romantic level on here not to mention to actually meet them in person! 😬😳 No thank you! Nothing against those who do as I would never judge….its just not for me. I feel like if I did and things went south I could never show my face on here again because they would now know things about me that no one else knows that I like to keep confidential. Eek! No, just no!




So no as someone from the internet, So no as someone from your workplace ? but ————————————————————————————————————————————

nah nothing,
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I feel like my workplace and DXP would be the same for me. Neither place I would go looking for love. Work is just that….the place I go to make a living and DXP is just a place I go to vent, talk shit etc. I don’t want to mix love with either of those. Now online as in a dating app is different because you are there actually looking for love and the person you meet is typically looking for the same thing.



So do you think it’s possible to fall in love via writing only? Have you ever met someone who didn’t live up to the expectations or maybe exceeded them?



Now? I’d say no. Not without meeting in person. Sure, you can form a deep bond, a friendship etc. I think you can even have a love for that person. But as far as being in love…a romantic love. No, more like in lust.

Years ago when I was naive and in my twenties? Heck yeah, I believed it was true. That you could fall in love online through writings only and phone calls. I thought I was in love years and years ago with a Gemini guy I met online. We chatted for 2 whole years through texts, emails, IM’s, phone calls etc. We finally planned on meeting. I bought my plane ticket and made arrangements and everything. The night before I was supposed to fly out he ghosted me, I’d call him and got the message his phone was no longer in service. Guess it got too real for him and he wanted to keep the fantasy going. Little did I know he was living a whole other life. Had a girlfriend whom he lived with. No wonder he ghosted me. Lmao. Looking back, I see how incredibly stupid that was “falling in lust” with someone online whom I had never met. Never again! 🤣. Live and learn I guess…live and learn.
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Oh man, that’s quite a story!

Yeah, I agree. When internet first became real for me, they had those aol chat rooms. Remember asl? 😂

I never wrote to anyone for too long. Sooner than later, someone loses interest or life happens.

I would not mind a friendship, but I wouldn’t like to shatter anyone’s hopes. Or to be disappointed myself.

Some guys only wanted a sex chat buddy 😅 🤦‍♀️
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I’d be way too scared and paranoid to get to know someone on a romantic level on here not to mention to actually meet them in person! 😬😳 No thank you! Nothing against those who do as I would never judge….its just not for me. I feel like if I did and things went south I could never show my face on here again because they would now know things about me that no one else knows that I like to keep confidential. Eek! No, just no!




So no as someone from the internet, So no as someone from your workplace ? but ————————————————————————————————————————————

nah nothing,
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I feel like my workplace and DXP would be the same for me. Neither place I would go looking for love. Work is just that….the place I go to make a living and DXP is just a place I go to vent, talk shit etc. I don’t want to mix love with either of those. Now online as in a dating app is different because you are there actually looking for love and the person you meet is typically looking for the same thing.





So do you think it’s possible to fall in love via writing only? Have you ever met someone who didn’t live up to the expectations or maybe exceeded them?



Now? I’d say no. Not without meeting in person. Sure, you can form a deep bond, a friendship etc. I think you can even have a love for that person. But as far as being in love…a romantic love. No, more like in lust.



Years ago when I was naive and in my twenties? Heck yeah, I believed it was true. That you could fall in love online through writings only and phone calls. I thought I was in love years and years ago with a Gemini guy I met online. We chatted for 2 whole years through texts, emails, IM’s, phone calls etc. We finally planned on meeting. I bought my plane ticket and made arrangements and everything. The night before I was supposed to fly out he ghosted me, I’d call him and got the message his phone was no longer in service. Guess it got too real for him and he wanted to keep the fantasy going. Little did I know he was living a whole other life. Had a girlfriend whom he lived with. No wonder he ghosted me. Lmao. Looking back, I see how incredibly stupid that was “falling in lust” with someone online whom I had never met. Never again! 🤣. Live and learn I guess…live and learn.



Oh man, that’s quite a story!
Yeah, I agree. When internet first became real for me, they had those aol chat rooms. Remember asl? 😂

I never wrote to anyone for too long. Sooner than later, someone loses interest or life happens.
I would not mind a friendship, but I wouldn’t like to shatter anyone’s hopes. Or to be disappointed myself.
Some guys only wanted a sex chat buddy 😅 🤦‍♀️
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Oh gosh! Yes I remember! Back then I thought those chat rooms were the coolest thing ever and I thought I had many love interests! 🤣😂🤣. I got so into it that waiting for my internet (the good old dial up) at the time to connect was like torture for me! I could not wait to continue my daily chats with all my loves! 🤦‍♀️😂🤣😂
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I’d be way too scared and paranoid to get to know someone on a romantic level on here not to mention to actually meet them in person! 😬😳 No thank you! Nothing against those who do as I would never judge….its just not for me. I feel like if I did and things went south I could never show my face on here again because they would now know things about me that no one else knows that I like to keep confidential. Eek! No, just no!

So no as someone from the internet, So no as someone from your workplace ? but ————————————————————————————————————————————
nah nothing,
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I feel like my workplace and DXP would be the same for me. Neither place I would go looking for love. Work is just that….the place I go to make a living and DXP is just a place I go to vent, talk shit etc. I don’t want to mix love with either of those. Now online as in a dating app is different because you are there actually looking for love and the person you meet is typically looking for the same thing.




So do you think it’s possible to fall in love via writing only? Have you ever met someone who didn’t live up to the expectations or maybe exceeded them?




Now? I’d say no. Not without meeting in person. Sure, you can form a deep bond, a friendship etc. I think you can even have a love for that person. But as far as being in love…a romantic love. No, more like in lust.


Years ago when I was naive and in my twenties? Heck yeah, I believed it was true. That you could fall in love online through writings only and phone calls. I thought I was in love years and years ago with a Gemini guy I met online. We chatted for 2 whole years through texts, emails, IM’s, phone calls etc. We finally planned on meeting. I bought my plane ticket and made arrangements and everything. The night before I was supposed to fly out he ghosted me, I’d call him and got the message his phone was no longer in service. Guess it got too real for him and he wanted to keep the fantasy going. Little did I know he was living a whole other life. Had a girlfriend whom he lived with. No wonder he ghosted me. Lmao. Looking back, I see how incredibly stupid that was “falling in lust” with someone online whom I had never met. Never again! 🤣. Live and learn I guess…live and learn.




Oh man, that’s quite a story!

Yeah, I agree. When internet first became real for me, they had those aol chat rooms. Remember asl? 😂

I never wrote to anyone for too long. Sooner than later, someone loses interest or life happens.

I would not mind a friendship, but I wouldn’t like to shatter anyone’s hopes. Or to be disappointed myself.

Some guys only wanted a sex chat buddy 😅 🤦‍♀️

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Oh gosh! Yes I remember! Back then I thought those chat rooms were the coolest thing ever and I thought I had many love interests! 🤣😂🤣. I got so into it that waiting for my internet (the good old dial up) at the time to connect was like torture for me! I could not wait to continue my daily chats with all my loves! 🤦‍♀️😂🤣😂
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Oh yeah I remember those. Met some creaps back in those days. Was a teenager but talking to guys in their 20s. Lmao thinking back they were some cringy ass pedophiles.
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Already happened to me here. We were together/lived together for 3.5 years.









Someone from Dxp?







Yes lol





Wow that’s wild 😛



It was. I want love like that again.



What sign?
She still here?
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It was a Cap and no, she's not. To my knowledge anyway.
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I’d be way too scared and paranoid to get to know someone on a romantic level on here not to mention to actually meet them in person! 😬😳 No thank you! Nothing against those who do as I would never judge….its just not for me. I feel like if I did and things went south I could never show my face on here again because they would now know things about me that no one else knows that I like to keep confidential. Eek! No, just no!

So no as someone from the internet, So no as someone from your workplace ? but ————————————————————————————————————————————
nah nothing,
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I feel like my workplace and DXP would be the same for me. Neither place I would go looking for love. Work is just that….the place I go to make a living and DXP is just a place I go to vent, talk shit etc. I don’t want to mix love with either of those. Now online as in a dating app is different because you are there actually looking for love and the person you meet is typically looking for the same thing.




So do you think it’s possible to fall in love via writing only? Have you ever met someone who didn’t live up to the expectations or maybe exceeded them?




Now? I’d say no. Not without meeting in person. Sure, you can form a deep bond, a friendship etc. I think you can even have a love for that person. But as far as being in love…a romantic love. No, more like in lust.


Years ago when I was naive and in my twenties? Heck yeah, I believed it was true. That you could fall in love online through writings only and phone calls. I thought I was in love years and years ago with a Gemini guy I met online. We chatted for 2 whole years through texts, emails, IM’s, phone calls etc. We finally planned on meeting. I bought my plane ticket and made arrangements and everything. The night before I was supposed to fly out he ghosted me, I’d call him and got the message his phone was no longer in service. Guess it got too real for him and he wanted to keep the fantasy going. Little did I know he was living a whole other life. Had a girlfriend whom he lived with. No wonder he ghosted me. Lmao. Looking back, I see how incredibly stupid that was “falling in lust” with someone online whom I had never met. Never again! 🤣. Live and learn I guess…live and learn.




Oh man, that’s quite a story!

Yeah, I agree. When internet first became real for me, they had those aol chat rooms. Remember asl? 😂

I never wrote to anyone for too long. Sooner than later, someone loses interest or life happens.

I would not mind a friendship, but I wouldn’t like to shatter anyone’s hopes. Or to be disappointed myself.

Some guys only wanted a sex chat buddy 😅 🤦‍♀️

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Oh gosh! Yes I remember! Back then I thought those chat rooms were the coolest thing ever and I thought I had many love interests! 🤣😂🤣. I got so into it that waiting for my internet (the good old dial up) at the time to connect was like torture for me! I could not wait to continue my daily chats with all my loves! 🤦‍♀️😂🤣😂



Oh yeah I remember those. Met some creaps back in those days. Was a teenager but talking to guys in their 20s. Lmao thinking back they were some cringy ass pedophiles.
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Oh yeah, definitely were a lot of creeps in those chat rooms too. Men who wanted to show me their junk and masturbate while I watched. I was a teenager back then too and most of these men were like in their twenties, thirties and forties. 🤢
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I’d be way too scared and paranoid to get to know someone on a romantic level on here not to mention to actually meet them in person! 😬😳 No thank you! Nothing against those who do as I would never judge….its just not for me. I feel like if I did and things went south I could never show my face on here again because they would now know things about me that no one else knows that I like to keep confidential. Eek! No, just no!

So no as someone from the internet, So no as someone from your workplace ? but ————————————————————————————————————————————
nah nothing,
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I feel like my workplace and DXP would be the same for me. Neither place I would go looking for love. Work is just that….the place I go to make a living and DXP is just a place I go to vent, talk shit etc. I don’t want to mix love with either of those. Now online as in a dating app is different because you are there actually looking for love and the person you meet is typically looking for the same thing.
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I've gotten in trouble so many times for posting my experiences/thoughts on here cause people keep finding me. That's why I try not to post pics of myself.

As far as making someone fall in love with words, I'm starting to figure out it's my strong point and it's not always intentional, I figured since my Mars, Venus and Mercury are in Earth signs, I Would be more of a physical person but my words can get me very far.

I'm starting to learn to control it and channel it, cause my 5th house Aqua Sun isn't good at not being friendly.
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you tellin people you post here? lol
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All of my relationships for the past decade originated from an online platform (and none of them were dating sites - strangely enough, dating sites have never worked for me because I don’t connect well enough to have the desire to meet or it’s just weird and feels forced I don’t like the aggressiveness of men on online dating either). Tbh it’s nothing but a benefit for me - I like my space, I don’t need someone there all the fucking time. And I like to travel! If it creates an opportunity for me to one day leave this god awful country, even better for me.

Theres no reason why this doesn’t/can’t work, unless YOU set that limitation and boundary for your own self. You don’t need someone physically there to develop emotional/mental connections. The physical will and does come later.

Obviously I meet these people irl and it never once changed how I felt/they felt about me. So my experience is different than most people here. I don’t understand why anyone would limit yourself to dating in your own small geographical area in 2024, super weird and archaic. IMO only.
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It’s so easy

You just need

Words of affirmation as love language or something


You’re not wrong, but he can also send gifts, take care of tasks virtually by sending money if he wants to 🤑🤑 and quality time isn’t limited to just being in person either. A long phone call, playing a game, watching a movie, those are all as well. You’re really only missing the physical touch, which obviously is quite important to most men. There are sex toys and apps which has created connection there. No it’s not ideal and no I don’t use them but I’ve seen some interesting remote type of stuff lol

My physical touch needs are also very low so
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It’s so easy

You just need

Words of affirmation as love language or something


I still don’t believe you don’t have some thirstys here after you after all this time

A tall, attractive, funny man that people perceive as wealthy and single. Like do you know how many broke scam artists are on here? Not to mention a website historically known and notorious for multiple Scorpio women sending pussy pix via dm to multiple men who share them with other users 💀💀💀🤮🤮
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It’s so easy

You just need

Words of affirmation as love language or something



You’re not wrong, but he can also send gifts, take care of tasks virtually by sending money if he wants to 🤑🤑 and quality time isn’t limited to just being in person either. A long phone call, playing a game, watching a movie, those are all as well. You’re really only missing the physical touch, which obviously is quite important to most men. There are sex toys and apps which has created connection there. No it’s not ideal and no I don’t use them but I’ve seen some interesting remote type of stuff lol



My physical touch needs are also very low so



lol at first I thought you were TMI-ing 🤣 I was like nano I don’t wanna know about your Bluetooth sybian!
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Lol no no, but I am very aware of this technology as a person who has LDR. I think it’s kind of cool and creative, but I haven’t heard of anyone I know who’s used it. Then again who would speak of it if they did. This will become more and more common, there’s really no such a thing as geographical barriers. I mean unless you’re really poor 😟
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You’re really only missing the physical touch, which obviously is quite important to most men.

Correction: most people.

You really go out of your way to sound utterly clueless.
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It shouldn’t be shocking to you that physical touch is a more popular love language amongst MEN

You really could start a fight with an empty room. Go fuck off now, bye bye 🖕🏼
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It’s so easy
You just need
Words of affirmation as love language or something




You’re not wrong, but he can also send gifts, take care of tasks virtually by sending money if he wants to 🤑🤑 and quality time isn’t limited to just being in person either. A long phone call, playing a game, watching a movie, those are all as well. You’re really only missing the physical touch, which obviously is quite important to most men. There are sex toys and apps which has created connection there. No it’s not ideal and no I don’t use them but I’ve seen some interesting remote type of stuff lol





My physical touch needs are also very low so




lol at first I thought you were TMI-ing 🤣 I was like nano I don’t wanna know about your Bluetooth sybian!




Lol no no, but I am very aware of this technology as a person who has LDR. I think it’s kind of cool and creative, but I haven’t heard of anyone I know who’s used it. Then again who would speak of it if they did. This will become more and more common, there’s really no such a thing as geographical barriers. I mean unless you’re really poor 😟
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Everyone in a LDR is just waiting for demolition man sex technology to arrive 🤣



You’re not air enough to understand the appeal of this next level alternative sex okay 🤌🏻
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It’s so easy
You just need
Words of affirmation as love language or something



You’re not wrong, but he can also send gifts, take care of tasks virtually by sending money if he wants to 🤑🤑 and quality time isn’t limited to just being in person either. A long phone call, playing a game, watching a movie, those are all as well. You’re really only missing the physical touch, which obviously is quite important to most men. There are sex toys and apps which has created connection there. No it’s not ideal and no I don’t use them but I’ve seen some interesting remote type of stuff lol



My physical touch needs are also very low so

lol at first I thought you were TMI-ing 🤣 I was like nano I don’t wanna know about your Bluetooth sybian!

Lol no no, but I am very aware of this technology as a person who has LDR. I think it’s kind of cool and creative, but I haven’t heard of anyone I know who’s used it. Then again who would speak of it if they did. This will become more and more common, there’s really no such a thing as geographical barriers. I mean unless you’re really poor 😟
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Everyone in a LDR is just waiting for demolition man sex technology to arrive 🤣




You’re not air enough to understand the appeal of this next level alternative sex okay 🤌🏻
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I don’t have air at all 😅
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I don’t have any earth in my chart!
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You’re really only missing the physical touch, which obviously is quite important to most men.

Correction: most people.





You really go out of your way to sound utterly clueless.






It shouldn’t be shocking to you that physical touch is a more popular love language amongst MEN



You really could start a fight with an empty room. Go fuck off now, bye bye 🖕🏼


Whatever. You pull this shit all the time on dxp - projecting your personal tastes/beliefs/experiences onto others and expecting other dxpers to simply accept them as fact.

You even incriminated yourself in the post below:

Posted by nanochip

My physical touch needs are also very low so

I rest my case.

Seriously, get some fucking help, because branding you as damaged goods would be a gross understatement.
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I’d be way too scared and paranoid to get to know someone on a romantic level on here not to mention to actually meet them in person! 😬😳 No thank you! Nothing against those who do as I would never judge….its just not for me. I feel like if I did and things went south I could never show my face on here again because they would now know things about me that no one else knows that I like to keep confidential. Eek! No, just no!


You give me Mareinfame vibes
I miss her
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Wasn’t she a Pisces? Or perhaps she was Scorpio. Gosh I can’t remember. I miss her too. She was such a sweetheart. Maybe she will return someday. I hope she is doing well.
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Posted by nanochip






You’re really only missing the physical touch, which obviously is quite important to most men.
Correction: most people.






You really go out of your way to sound utterly clueless.






It shouldn’t be shocking to you that physical touch is a more popular love language amongst MEN





You really could start a fight with an empty room. Go fuck off now, bye bye 🖕🏼


Whatever. You pull this shit all the time on dxp - projecting your personal tastes/beliefs/experiences onto others and expecting other dxpers to simply accept them as fact.


You even incriminated yourself in the post below:


Posted by nanochip


My physical touch needs are also very low so
I rest my case.


Seriously, get some fucking help, because branding you as damaged goods would be a gross understatement.





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Yes, your level of maturity knows no bounds…

Just because you have a low sex drive or desire for intimacy doesn’t automatically mean that every other woman is exactly the same.

The same applies to other aspects of your life – just because you experienced something specific IRL doesn’t mean that every other woman has experienced exactly the same thing.

Most men have normal sex drives or desire for intimacy. But, of course, the fault doesn’t lie with you… it lies with them. How dare men be governed by their primal instincts!

*facepalm*

Maybe this is all a coping mechanism for whatever shit you’re going through, but it’s ineffective and doing you more harm than good. You're not fooling anyone.

Seriously, seek professional help. Alternatively, become a rug muncher and see where that gets you.

Ciao!

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Posted by Saturn_Returns
Posted by nanochip
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Posted by nanochip
Posted by Saturn_Returns
Posted by nanochip






You’re really only missing the physical touch, which obviously is quite important to most men.
Correction: most people.






You really go out of your way to sound utterly clueless.






It shouldn’t be shocking to you that physical touch is a more popular love language amongst MEN





You really could start a fight with an empty room. Go fuck off now, bye bye 🖕🏼


Whatever. You pull this shit all the time on dxp - projecting your personal tastes/beliefs/experiences onto others and expecting other dxpers to simply accept them as fact.


You even incriminated yourself in the post below:


Posted by nanochip


My physical touch needs are also very low so
I rest my case.


Seriously, get some fucking help, because branding you as damaged goods would be a gross understatement.





🖕🏼
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Yes, your level of maturity knows no bounds…

Just because you have a low sex drive or desire for intimacy doesn’t automatically mean that every other woman is exactly the same.

The same applies to other aspects of your life – just because you experienced something specific IRL doesn’t mean that every other woman has experienced exactly the same thing.

Most men have normal sex drives or desire for intimacy. But, of course, the fault doesn’t lie with you… it lies with them. How dare men be governed by their primal instincts!

*facepalm*

Maybe this is all a coping mechanism for whatever shit you’re going through, but it’s ineffective and doing you more harm than good. You're not fooling anyone.

Seriously, seek professional help. Alternatively, become a rug muncher and see where that gets you.

Ciao!

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Hey what’s it like to be consistently the retard who puts 2 and 2 together to make 7, so confidently and with such conviction
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Posted by borednbeautiful
Is it possible to fall in love with someone you’ve never met in person?

For example, you are both dxp members and exchange some private messages, messages get longer and more private, you feel some sort of bond, you talk on the phone, you Skype and boom 💥 next thing you know =

love happens ❤️

Just for the record, it did not happen to me, lol. Unfortunately 😒

I am genuinely just curious!


My attention span is too short. Always has been.

My worst was talking to a guy on the phone and asking him to hold on as I needed to open my door and I had Chinese food in my hand. I put the phone in my coat pocket. Hung it up in the hall closet with the phone still in the pocket and that was all she wrote.

Love,

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