
borednbeautiful
@borednbeautiful
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Posted by hoeflation
Some chatty girls have all the moves 😅
Typing away seducing men ooh boy







Posted by geminiflybyPosted by Solo
Already happened to me here. We were together/lived together for 3.5 years.
😮click to expand

Posted by geminiflyby
Is it possible to fall in love that way? Sure! But it’s only fantasy on both sides until you meet in person. It falls apart pretty quickly after that. 🤣

Posted by Solo
Already happened to me here. We were together/lived together for 3.5 years.

Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by Solo
Already happened to me here. We were together/lived together for 3.5 years.
Someone from Dxp?click to expand

Posted by geminiflyby
Is it possible to fall in love that way? Sure! But it’s only fantasy on both sides until you meet in person. It falls apart pretty quickly after that. 🤣


Posted by SoloPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by Solo
Already happened to me here. We were together/lived together for 3.5 years.
Someone from Dxp?
Yes lolclick to expand

Posted by Solo
Don't block the love of your life by thinking you could only meet them in xyz place.


Posted by IWANTTOWINPosted by xyzabc
I’d be way too scared and paranoid to get to know someone on a romantic level on here not to mention to actually meet them in person! 😬😳 No thank you! Nothing against those who do as I would never judge….its just not for me. I feel like if I did and things went south I could never show my face on here again because they would now know things about me that no one else knows that I like to keep confidential. Eek! No, just no!
So no as someone from the internet, So no as someone from your workplace ? but ————————————————————————————————————————————
nah nothing,click to expand

Posted by xyzabcPosted by IWANTTOWINPosted by xyzabc
I’d be way too scared and paranoid to get to know someone on a romantic level on here not to mention to actually meet them in person! 😬😳 No thank you! Nothing against those who do as I would never judge….its just not for me. I feel like if I did and things went south I could never show my face on here again because they would now know things about me that no one else knows that I like to keep confidential. Eek! No, just no!
So no as someone from the internet, So no as someone from your workplace ? but ————————————————————————————————————————————
nah nothing,
click to expand
I feel like my workplace and DXP would be the same for me. Neither place I would go looking for love. Work is just that….the place I go to make a living and DXP is just a place I go to vent, talk shit etc. I don’t want to mix love with either of those. Now online as in a dating app is different because you are there actually looking for love and the person you meet is typically looking for the same thing.click to expand

Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by SoloPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by Solo
Already happened to me here. We were together/lived together for 3.5 years.
Someone from Dxp?
Yes lol
Wow that’s wild 😛click to expand

Posted by borednbeautifulPosted by xyzabcPosted by IWANTTOWINPosted by xyzabc
I’d be way too scared and paranoid to get to know someone on a romantic level on here not to mention to actually meet them in person! 😬😳 No thank you! Nothing against those who do as I would never judge….its just not for me. I feel like if I did and things went south I could never show my face on here again because they would now know things about me that no one else knows that I like to keep confidential. Eek! No, just no!
So no as someone from the internet, So no as someone from your workplace ? but ————————————————————————————————————————————
nah nothing,
click to expand
I feel like my workplace and DXP would be the same for me. Neither place I would go looking for love. Work is just that….the place I go to make a living and DXP is just a place I go to vent, talk shit etc. I don’t want to mix love with either of those. Now online as in a dating app is different because you are there actually looking for love and the person you meet is typically looking for the same thing.
So do you think it’s possible to fall in love via writing only? Have you ever met someone who didn’t live up to the expectations or maybe exceeded them?click to expand

Posted by IWANTTOWINPosted by xyzabcPosted by IWANTTOWINPosted by xyzabc
I’d be way too scared and paranoid to get to know someone on a romantic level on here not to mention to actually meet them in person! 😬😳 No thank you! Nothing against those who do as I would never judge….its just not for me. I feel like if I did and things went south I could never show my face on here again because they would now know things about me that no one else knows that I like to keep confidential. Eek! No, just no!
So no as someone from the internet, So no as someone from your workplace ? but ————————————————————————————————————————————
nah nothing,
I feel like my workplace and DXP would be the same for me. Neither place I would go looking for love. Work is just that….the place I go to make a living and DXP is just a place I go to vent, talk shit etc. I don’t want to mix love with either of those. Now online as in a dating app is different because you are there actually looking for love and the person you meet is typically looking for the same thing.
RULES ARE MEANT TO BE BREAK, LIFE WITHOUT RISK IZNT WORTH IT 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
but maybe im wrong and im just sag stelliumingclick to expand

Posted by xyzabcPosted by borednbeautifulPosted by xyzabcPosted by IWANTTOWINPosted by xyzabc
I’d be way too scared and paranoid to get to know someone on a romantic level on here not to mention to actually meet them in person! 😬😳 No thank you! Nothing against those who do as I would never judge….its just not for me. I feel like if I did and things went south I could never show my face on here again because they would now know things about me that no one else knows that I like to keep confidential. Eek! No, just no!
So no as someone from the internet, So no as someone from your workplace ? but ————————————————————————————————————————————
nah nothing,
click to expand
I feel like my workplace and DXP would be the same for me. Neither place I would go looking for love. Work is just that….the place I go to make a living and DXP is just a place I go to vent, talk shit etc. I don’t want to mix love with either of those. Now online as in a dating app is different because you are there actually looking for love and the person you meet is typically looking for the same thing.
So do you think it’s possible to fall in love via writing only? Have you ever met someone who didn’t live up to the expectations or maybe exceeded them?
Now? I’d say no. Not without meeting in person. Sure, you can form a deep bond, a friendship etc. I think you can even have a love for that person. But as far as being in love…a romantic love. No, more like in lust.
Years ago when I was naive and in my twenties? Heck yeah, I believed it was true. That you could fall in love online through writings only and phone calls. I thought I was in love years and years ago with a Gemini guy I met online. We chatted for 2 whole years through texts, emails, IM’s, phone calls etc. We finally planned on meeting. I bought my plane ticket and made arrangements and everything. The night before I was supposed to fly out he ghosted me, I’d call him and got the message his phone was no longer in service. Guess it got too real for him and he wanted to keep the fantasy going. Little did I know he was living a whole other life. Had a girlfriend whom he lived with. No wonder he ghosted me. Lmao. Looking back, I see how incredibly stupid that was “falling in lust” with someone online whom I had never met. Never again! 🤣. Live and learn I guess…live and learn.click to expand

Posted by borednbeautifulPosted by xyzabcPosted by borednbeautifulPosted by xyzabcPosted by IWANTTOWINPosted by xyzabc
I’d be way too scared and paranoid to get to know someone on a romantic level on here not to mention to actually meet them in person! 😬😳 No thank you! Nothing against those who do as I would never judge….its just not for me. I feel like if I did and things went south I could never show my face on here again because they would now know things about me that no one else knows that I like to keep confidential. Eek! No, just no!
So no as someone from the internet, So no as someone from your workplace ? but ————————————————————————————————————————————
nah nothing,
click to expand
I feel like my workplace and DXP would be the same for me. Neither place I would go looking for love. Work is just that….the place I go to make a living and DXP is just a place I go to vent, talk shit etc. I don’t want to mix love with either of those. Now online as in a dating app is different because you are there actually looking for love and the person you meet is typically looking for the same thing.
So do you think it’s possible to fall in love via writing only? Have you ever met someone who didn’t live up to the expectations or maybe exceeded them?
Now? I’d say no. Not without meeting in person. Sure, you can form a deep bond, a friendship etc. I think you can even have a love for that person. But as far as being in love…a romantic love. No, more like in lust.
Years ago when I was naive and in my twenties? Heck yeah, I believed it was true. That you could fall in love online through writings only and phone calls. I thought I was in love years and years ago with a Gemini guy I met online. We chatted for 2 whole years through texts, emails, IM’s, phone calls etc. We finally planned on meeting. I bought my plane ticket and made arrangements and everything. The night before I was supposed to fly out he ghosted me, I’d call him and got the message his phone was no longer in service. Guess it got too real for him and he wanted to keep the fantasy going. Little did I know he was living a whole other life. Had a girlfriend whom he lived with. No wonder he ghosted me. Lmao. Looking back, I see how incredibly stupid that was “falling in lust” with someone online whom I had never met. Never again! 🤣. Live and learn I guess…live and learn.
Oh man, that’s quite a story!
Yeah, I agree. When internet first became real for me, they had those aol chat rooms. Remember asl? 😂
I never wrote to anyone for too long. Sooner than later, someone loses interest or life happens.
I would not mind a friendship, but I wouldn’t like to shatter anyone’s hopes. Or to be disappointed myself.
Some guys only wanted a sex chat buddy 😅 🤦♀️click to expand

Posted by xyzabcPosted by borednbeautifulPosted by xyzabcPosted by borednbeautifulPosted by xyzabcPosted by IWANTTOWINI feel like my workplace and DXP would be the same for me. Neither place I would go looking for love. Work is just that….the place I go to make a living and DXP is just a place I go to vent, talk shit etc. I don’t want to mix love with either of those. Now online as in a dating app is different because you are there actually looking for love and the person you meet is typically looking for the same thing.Posted by xyzabc
I’d be way too scared and paranoid to get to know someone on a romantic level on here not to mention to actually meet them in person! 😬😳 No thank you! Nothing against those who do as I would never judge….its just not for me. I feel like if I did and things went south I could never show my face on here again because they would now know things about me that no one else knows that I like to keep confidential. Eek! No, just no!
So no as someone from the internet, So no as someone from your workplace ? but ————————————————————————————————————————————
nah nothing,
click to expand
So do you think it’s possible to fall in love via writing only? Have you ever met someone who didn’t live up to the expectations or maybe exceeded them?
Now? I’d say no. Not without meeting in person. Sure, you can form a deep bond, a friendship etc. I think you can even have a love for that person. But as far as being in love…a romantic love. No, more like in lust.
Years ago when I was naive and in my twenties? Heck yeah, I believed it was true. That you could fall in love online through writings only and phone calls. I thought I was in love years and years ago with a Gemini guy I met online. We chatted for 2 whole years through texts, emails, IM’s, phone calls etc. We finally planned on meeting. I bought my plane ticket and made arrangements and everything. The night before I was supposed to fly out he ghosted me, I’d call him and got the message his phone was no longer in service. Guess it got too real for him and he wanted to keep the fantasy going. Little did I know he was living a whole other life. Had a girlfriend whom he lived with. No wonder he ghosted me. Lmao. Looking back, I see how incredibly stupid that was “falling in lust” with someone online whom I had never met. Never again! 🤣. Live and learn I guess…live and learn.
Oh man, that’s quite a story!
Yeah, I agree. When internet first became real for me, they had those aol chat rooms. Remember asl? 😂
I never wrote to anyone for too long. Sooner than later, someone loses interest or life happens.
I would not mind a friendship, but I wouldn’t like to shatter anyone’s hopes. Or to be disappointed myself.
Some guys only wanted a sex chat buddy 😅 🤦♀️
click to expand
Oh gosh! Yes I remember! Back then I thought those chat rooms were the coolest thing ever and I thought I had many love interests! 🤣😂🤣. I got so into it that waiting for my internet (the good old dial up) at the time to connect was like torture for me! I could not wait to continue my daily chats with all my loves! 🤦♀️😂🤣😂click to expand

Posted by SoloPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by SoloPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by Solo
Already happened to me here. We were together/lived together for 3.5 years.
Someone from Dxp?
Yes lol
Wow that’s wild 😛
It was. I want love like that again.click to expand

Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by SoloPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by SoloPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by Solo
Already happened to me here. We were together/lived together for 3.5 years.
Someone from Dxp?
Yes lol
Wow that’s wild 😛
It was. I want love like that again.
What sign?
She still here?click to expand

Posted by SeaLionPosted by xyzabcPosted by borednbeautifulPosted by xyzabcPosted by borednbeautifulPosted by xyzabcPosted by IWANTTOWINI feel like my workplace and DXP would be the same for me. Neither place I would go looking for love. Work is just that….the place I go to make a living and DXP is just a place I go to vent, talk shit etc. I don’t want to mix love with either of those. Now online as in a dating app is different because you are there actually looking for love and the person you meet is typically looking for the same thing.Posted by xyzabc
I’d be way too scared and paranoid to get to know someone on a romantic level on here not to mention to actually meet them in person! 😬😳 No thank you! Nothing against those who do as I would never judge….its just not for me. I feel like if I did and things went south I could never show my face on here again because they would now know things about me that no one else knows that I like to keep confidential. Eek! No, just no!
So no as someone from the internet, So no as someone from your workplace ? but ————————————————————————————————————————————
nah nothing,
click to expand
So do you think it’s possible to fall in love via writing only? Have you ever met someone who didn’t live up to the expectations or maybe exceeded them?
Now? I’d say no. Not without meeting in person. Sure, you can form a deep bond, a friendship etc. I think you can even have a love for that person. But as far as being in love…a romantic love. No, more like in lust.
Years ago when I was naive and in my twenties? Heck yeah, I believed it was true. That you could fall in love online through writings only and phone calls. I thought I was in love years and years ago with a Gemini guy I met online. We chatted for 2 whole years through texts, emails, IM’s, phone calls etc. We finally planned on meeting. I bought my plane ticket and made arrangements and everything. The night before I was supposed to fly out he ghosted me, I’d call him and got the message his phone was no longer in service. Guess it got too real for him and he wanted to keep the fantasy going. Little did I know he was living a whole other life. Had a girlfriend whom he lived with. No wonder he ghosted me. Lmao. Looking back, I see how incredibly stupid that was “falling in lust” with someone online whom I had never met. Never again! 🤣. Live and learn I guess…live and learn.
Oh man, that’s quite a story!
Yeah, I agree. When internet first became real for me, they had those aol chat rooms. Remember asl? 😂
I never wrote to anyone for too long. Sooner than later, someone loses interest or life happens.
I would not mind a friendship, but I wouldn’t like to shatter anyone’s hopes. Or to be disappointed myself.
Some guys only wanted a sex chat buddy 😅 🤦♀️
click to expand
Oh gosh! Yes I remember! Back then I thought those chat rooms were the coolest thing ever and I thought I had many love interests! 🤣😂🤣. I got so into it that waiting for my internet (the good old dial up) at the time to connect was like torture for me! I could not wait to continue my daily chats with all my loves! 🤦♀️😂🤣😂
Oh yeah I remember those. Met some creaps back in those days. Was a teenager but talking to guys in their 20s. Lmao thinking back they were some cringy ass pedophiles.click to expand

Posted by BumboklaatPosted by xyzabcPosted by IWANTTOWINI feel like my workplace and DXP would be the same for me. Neither place I would go looking for love. Work is just that….the place I go to make a living and DXP is just a place I go to vent, talk shit etc. I don’t want to mix love with either of those. Now online as in a dating app is different because you are there actually looking for love and the person you meet is typically looking for the same thing.Posted by xyzabc
I’d be way too scared and paranoid to get to know someone on a romantic level on here not to mention to actually meet them in person! 😬😳 No thank you! Nothing against those who do as I would never judge….its just not for me. I feel like if I did and things went south I could never show my face on here again because they would now know things about me that no one else knows that I like to keep confidential. Eek! No, just no!
So no as someone from the internet, So no as someone from your workplace ? but ————————————————————————————————————————————
nah nothing,
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I've gotten in trouble so many times for posting my experiences/thoughts on here cause people keep finding me. That's why I try not to post pics of myself.
As far as making someone fall in love with words, I'm starting to figure out it's my strong point and it's not always intentional, I figured since my Mars, Venus and Mercury are in Earth signs, I Would be more of a physical person but my words can get me very far.
I'm starting to learn to control it and channel it, cause my 5th house Aqua Sun isn't good at not being friendly.click to expand





Posted by hoeflation
It’s so easy
You just need
Words of affirmation as love language or something


Posted by hoeflation
It’s so easy
You just need
Words of affirmation as love language or something

Posted by hoeflationPosted by nanochipPosted by hoeflation
It’s so easy
You just need
Words of affirmation as love language or something
You’re not wrong, but he can also send gifts, take care of tasks virtually by sending money if he wants to 🤑🤑 and quality time isn’t limited to just being in person either. A long phone call, playing a game, watching a movie, those are all as well. You’re really only missing the physical touch, which obviously is quite important to most men. There are sex toys and apps which has created connection there. No it’s not ideal and no I don’t use them but I’ve seen some interesting remote type of stuff lol
My physical touch needs are also very low so
lol at first I thought you were TMI-ing 🤣 I was like nano I don’t wanna know about your Bluetooth sybian!click to expand


Posted by Saturn_ReturnsPosted by nanochip
You’re really only missing the physical touch, which obviously is quite important to most men.
Correction: most people.
You really go out of your way to sound utterly clueless.click to expand

Posted by hoeflationPosted by nanochipPosted by hoeflationPosted by nanochipPosted by hoeflation
It’s so easy
You just need
Words of affirmation as love language or something
You’re not wrong, but he can also send gifts, take care of tasks virtually by sending money if he wants to 🤑🤑 and quality time isn’t limited to just being in person either. A long phone call, playing a game, watching a movie, those are all as well. You’re really only missing the physical touch, which obviously is quite important to most men. There are sex toys and apps which has created connection there. No it’s not ideal and no I don’t use them but I’ve seen some interesting remote type of stuff lol
My physical touch needs are also very low so
lol at first I thought you were TMI-ing 🤣 I was like nano I don’t wanna know about your Bluetooth sybian!
Lol no no, but I am very aware of this technology as a person who has LDR. I think it’s kind of cool and creative, but I haven’t heard of anyone I know who’s used it. Then again who would speak of it if they did. This will become more and more common, there’s really no such a thing as geographical barriers. I mean unless you’re really poor 😟
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Everyone in a LDR is just waiting for demolition man sex technology to arrive 🤣

Posted by hoeflationPosted by nanochipPosted by hoeflationPosted by nanochipEveryone in a LDR is just waiting for demolition man sex technology to arrive 🤣Posted by hoeflationPosted by nanochipPosted by hoeflation
It’s so easy
You just need
Words of affirmation as love language or something
You’re not wrong, but he can also send gifts, take care of tasks virtually by sending money if he wants to 🤑🤑 and quality time isn’t limited to just being in person either. A long phone call, playing a game, watching a movie, those are all as well. You’re really only missing the physical touch, which obviously is quite important to most men. There are sex toys and apps which has created connection there. No it’s not ideal and no I don’t use them but I’ve seen some interesting remote type of stuff lol
My physical touch needs are also very low so
lol at first I thought you were TMI-ing 🤣 I was like nano I don’t wanna know about your Bluetooth sybian!
Lol no no, but I am very aware of this technology as a person who has LDR. I think it’s kind of cool and creative, but I haven’t heard of anyone I know who’s used it. Then again who would speak of it if they did. This will become more and more common, there’s really no such a thing as geographical barriers. I mean unless you’re really poor 😟
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You’re not air enough to understand the appeal of this next level alternative sex okay 🤌🏻
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I don’t have air at all 😅click to expand

Posted by Saturn_ReturnsPosted by nanochipPosted by Saturn_ReturnsPosted by nanochip
You’re really only missing the physical touch, which obviously is quite important to most men.
Correction: most people.
You really go out of your way to sound utterly clueless.
It shouldn’t be shocking to you that physical touch is a more popular love language amongst MEN
You really could start a fight with an empty room. Go fuck off now, bye bye 🖕🏼
Whatever. You pull this shit all the time on dxp - projecting your personal tastes/beliefs/experiences onto others and expecting other dxpers to simply accept them as fact.
You even incriminated yourself in the post below:
Posted by nanochip
My physical touch needs are also very low so
I rest my case.
Seriously, get some fucking help, because branding you as damaged goods would be a gross understatement.click to expand

Posted by _StardustRevolution_Posted by xyzabc
I’d be way too scared and paranoid to get to know someone on a romantic level on here not to mention to actually meet them in person! 😬😳 No thank you! Nothing against those who do as I would never judge….its just not for me. I feel like if I did and things went south I could never show my face on here again because they would now know things about me that no one else knows that I like to keep confidential. Eek! No, just no!
You give me Mareinfame vibes
I miss herclick to expand

Posted by Bob_Kraft
Just don't cry on TikTok when shit goes south.



Posted by Saturn_ReturnsPosted by nanochipYes, your level of maturity knows no bounds…Posted by Saturn_ReturnsPosted by nanochipPosted by Saturn_ReturnsPosted by nanochipCorrection: most people.
You’re really only missing the physical touch, which obviously is quite important to most men.
You really go out of your way to sound utterly clueless.
It shouldn’t be shocking to you that physical touch is a more popular love language amongst MEN
You really could start a fight with an empty room. Go fuck off now, bye bye 🖕🏼
Whatever. You pull this shit all the time on dxp - projecting your personal tastes/beliefs/experiences onto others and expecting other dxpers to simply accept them as fact.
You even incriminated yourself in the post below:
Posted by nanochipI rest my case.
My physical touch needs are also very low so
Seriously, get some fucking help, because branding you as damaged goods would be a gross understatement.
🖕🏼
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Just because you have a low sex drive or desire for intimacy doesn’t automatically mean that every other woman is exactly the same.
The same applies to other aspects of your life – just because you experienced something specific IRL doesn’t mean that every other woman has experienced exactly the same thing.
Most men have normal sex drives or desire for intimacy. But, of course, the fault doesn’t lie with you… it lies with them. How dare men be governed by their primal instincts!
*facepalm*
Maybe this is all a coping mechanism for whatever shit you’re going through, but it’s ineffective and doing you more harm than good. You're not fooling anyone.
Seriously, seek professional help. Alternatively, become a rug muncher and see where that gets you.
Ciao!
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Posted by Solo
I wanna munch some rug. It's almost been a fucking decade. I yearn for it.

Posted by Saturn_ReturnsPosted by nanochipYes, your level of maturity knows no bounds…Posted by Saturn_ReturnsPosted by nanochipPosted by Saturn_ReturnsPosted by nanochipCorrection: most people.
You’re really only missing the physical touch, which obviously is quite important to most men.
You really go out of your way to sound utterly clueless.
It shouldn’t be shocking to you that physical touch is a more popular love language amongst MEN
You really could start a fight with an empty room. Go fuck off now, bye bye 🖕🏼
Whatever. You pull this shit all the time on dxp - projecting your personal tastes/beliefs/experiences onto others and expecting other dxpers to simply accept them as fact.
You even incriminated yourself in the post below:
Posted by nanochipI rest my case.
My physical touch needs are also very low so
Seriously, get some fucking help, because branding you as damaged goods would be a gross understatement.
🖕🏼
click to expand
Just because you have a low sex drive or desire for intimacy doesn’t automatically mean that every other woman is exactly the same.
The same applies to other aspects of your life – just because you experienced something specific IRL doesn’t mean that every other woman has experienced exactly the same thing.
Most men have normal sex drives or desire for intimacy. But, of course, the fault doesn’t lie with you… it lies with them. How dare men be governed by their primal instincts!
*facepalm*
Maybe this is all a coping mechanism for whatever shit you’re going through, but it’s ineffective and doing you more harm than good. You're not fooling anyone.
Seriously, seek professional help. Alternatively, become a rug muncher and see where that gets you.
Ciao!
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Posted by borednbeautiful
Is it possible to fall in love with someone you’ve never met in person?
For example, you are both dxp members and exchange some private messages, messages get longer and more private, you feel some sort of bond, you talk on the phone, you Skype and boom 💥 next thing you know =
love happens ❤️
Just for the record, it did not happen to me, lol. Unfortunately 😒
I am genuinely just curious!
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For example, you are both dxp members and exchange some private messages, messages get longer and more private, you feel some sort of bond, you talk on the phone, you Skype and boom 💥 next thing you know =
love happens ❤️
Just for the record, it did not happen to me, lol. Unfortunately 😒
I am genuinely just curious!