cringy things you've said/done to people while in love (venus sign?)

This topic was created in the Relationships forum by serenidad on Tuesday, March 29, 2022 and has 46 replies.

What Does a Venus in Taurus Say About Love and Cringe Moments

Venus in Taurus indicates a deep love for stability and loyalty, which can lead to intense but sometimes overly sentimental or cringy expressions of affection. This sign values devotion and may express love in dramatic ways. Understanding your Venus sign helps explain your romantic behaviors and how you connect with others emotionally.

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@serenidad
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the cringiest thing i've ever said to sag s/o was that

i don’t want to live in a world where he doesn’t exist.

when he gets cremated, i wanna be burned in the same coffin with him.

if he ever gets shot, i wanna be shot at the same time or if that’s not possible then get shot like 0.01 second later so i can die with him.

and if he ever needs a kidney or something he can have one of mine lol

i told him all of this when we were younger...

and then i ended up in the hospital a week after that conversation (minor car accident lol) and he was like “so after declaring all that shit, your ass is just gonna die nonchalantly before me? lol”

😂😂

my venus is in taurus

i wanna hear everyone else's stories...! 😂

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@serenidad
4 Years1,000+ Posts

you're venus in taurus too? 😂 i dunno if you relate to this but right after i say some sappy shit to someone, i get so embarrassed and i turn cool as a cucumber for the next few days and try to act all normal...lol😂

i feel like the taurus in me wanna remain composed and solid for people but i can't sometimes... lol i'm like a fucking spaz...lol😂

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Posted by MyStarsShine

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Posted by Librasetting777

Posted by MyStarsShine

I want to die having sex with you

*cringe*

😂😅

Scorpio Venus

(What else would it be)

Lol

me too Libra Venus 😉

We both have Aries asc and Taurus Moon and i’m 7th house dom

😃

😏 interesting lol I'm not allowed to leave America cuz I'm too poor 🤣

Where were you thinking of heading to?

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anywhere but here lol

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Posted by Librasetting777

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Librasetting777

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Librasetting777

Posted by MyStarsShine

I want to die having sex with you

*cringe*

😂😅

Scorpio Venus

(What else would it be)

Lol

me too Libra Venus 😉

We both have Aries asc and Taurus Moon and i’m 7th house dom

😃

😏 interesting lol I'm not allowed to leave America cuz I'm too poor 🤣

Where were you thinking of heading to?

anywhere but here lol

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May I ask why?

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@Librasetting777
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Posted by borednbeautiful

Posted by Librasetting777

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Librasetting777

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Librasetting777

Posted by MyStarsShine

I want to die having sex with you

*cringe*

😂😅

Scorpio Venus

(What else would it be)

Lol

me too Libra Venus 😉

We both have Aries asc and Taurus Moon and i’m 7th house dom

😃

😏 interesting lol I'm not allowed to leave America cuz I'm too poor 🤣

Where were you thinking of heading to?

anywhere but here lol

May I ask why?

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the vast majority of Americans are just a bunch of narcissistic ego tripping assholes who think their always right and they dont let anyone Express their views unless you share the same views which is very political these days. Should rename ourselves the slave states of America lol. You're not allowed to do shit unless you ask the land barons and give them your soul 🤣 its literally one of the worst countrys in the world these days our government literally oppresses all of its people it doesn't really matter what color you are and the people dont really seem to get it lol it's a us or them mentality these days.

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@RollergirlOrc
12 Years1,000+ Posts

The most cringe youll squeeze out of me is not in love but right after a break up. It's all dramatics, all the angst and sorrow and Mariah Carey/Michael Bolton you could think of.

😓

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@SeaLion
8 Years1,000+ Posts

Leo Venus -

Way to many things to list. I read old emails sent back and forth with my Pisces ex from college (my first love) years later and wanted to vomit 😂

Some of it is so embarrassing I don't even want to repeat myself.

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@borednbeautiful
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Posted by Librasetting777

Posted by borednbeautiful

Posted by Librasetting777

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Librasetting777

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Librasetting777

Posted by MyStarsShine

I want to die having sex with you

*cringe*

😂😅

Scorpio Venus

(What else would it be)

Lol

me too Libra Venus 😉

We both have Aries asc and Taurus Moon and i’m 7th house dom

😃

😏 interesting lol I'm not allowed to leave America cuz I'm too poor 🤣

Where were you thinking of heading to?

anywhere but here lol

May I ask why?

the vast majority of Americans are just a bunch of narcissistic ego tripping assholes who think their always right and they dont let anyone Express their views unless you share the same views which is very political these days. Should rename ourselves the slave states of America lol. You're not allowed to do shit unless you ask the land barons and give them your soul 🤣 its literally one of the worst countrys in the world these days our government literally oppresses all of its people it doesn't really matter what color you are and the people dont really seem to get it lol it's a us or them mentality these days.

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As long as there is McDonalds and cars, things are good.

Capitalism runs rampant. Workers have very few rights. Also, very little civil liberties.

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@Librasetting777
8 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by borednbeautiful

Posted by Librasetting777

Posted by borednbeautiful

Posted by Librasetting777

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Librasetting777

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Librasetting777

Posted by MyStarsShine

I want to die having sex with you

*cringe*

😂😅

Scorpio Venus

(What else would it be)

Lol

me too Libra Venus 😉

We both have Aries asc and Taurus Moon and i’m 7th house dom

😃

😏 interesting lol I'm not allowed to leave America cuz I'm too poor 🤣

Where were you thinking of heading to?

anywhere but here lol

May I ask why?

the vast majority of Americans are just a bunch of narcissistic ego tripping assholes who think their always right and they dont let anyone Express their views unless you share the same views which is very political these days. Should rename ourselves the slave states of America lol. You're not allowed to do shit unless you ask the land barons and give them your soul 🤣 its literally one of the worst countrys in the world these days our government literally oppresses all of its people it doesn't really matter what color you are and the people dont really seem to get it lol it's a us or them mentality these days.

As long as there is McDonalds and cars, things are good.

Capitalism runs rampant. Workers have very few rights. Also, very little civil liberties.

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lol our McDonald's are trashy as fuck so you know or the vast majority of them are some are actually clean like at airports and such lol.

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@borednbeautiful
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Posted by Librasetting777

Posted by borednbeautiful

Posted by Librasetting777

Posted by borednbeautiful

Posted by Librasetting777

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Librasetting777

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Librasetting777

Posted by MyStarsShine

I want to die having sex with you

*cringe*

😂😅

Scorpio Venus

(What else would it be)

Lol

me too Libra Venus 😉

We both have Aries asc and Taurus Moon and i’m 7th house dom

😃

😏 interesting lol I'm not allowed to leave America cuz I'm too poor 🤣

Where were you thinking of heading to?

anywhere but here lol

May I ask why?

the vast majority of Americans are just a bunch of narcissistic ego tripping assholes who think their always right and they dont let anyone Express their views unless you share the same views which is very political these days. Should rename ourselves the slave states of America lol. You're not allowed to do shit unless you ask the land barons and give them your soul 🤣 its literally one of the worst countrys in the world these days our government literally oppresses all of its people it doesn't really matter what color you are and the people dont really seem to get it lol it's a us or them mentality these days.

As long as there is McDonalds and cars, things are good.

Capitalism runs rampant. Workers have very few rights. Also, very little civil liberties.

lol our McDonald's are trashy as fuck so you know or the vast majority of them are some are actually clean like at airports and such lol.

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I know, trust me.

So do you think you could re-settle anywhere else?

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9 Years25,000+ Posts

I said to a guy when we’d just started seeing each other “what do you think

you’ll be doing in ten years time”? 😬

How to scare a bloke

We got married and had a baby 9 yrs later so i didn’t scare him off but i bet his Aqua Moon was like 😬

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I wrote really sappy things to my ex in a card that I gave to him with gifts. When I started suspecting that he could be cheating (and he was), I asked for the card back to destroy it. LOL. In my thought process, he wasn’t deserving of those sweet like candy words and disposing of that card was equivalent to the card not existing. I wanted to remove all traces of me from his life…zero association with him. He fought with me over a card for two months and finally I got it back and destroyed it.

Aqua Venus

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@Libra4rmTX
5 Years500+ Posts

Venus in scorpio.

Just where tf do I start lol

The worst one was my first love. Kinda went into stalker mode. I was 16. That taught me to learn to walk away lol cuz man man man.........

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@MyStarsShine
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Posted by cersei

Not me but my grandma told me when she was young she would lay next to my grandpa and watch him sleep thinking how she was the luckiest girl in the world to have him. Now she can’t stand him 😂

She’s also Taurus venus LOL

Love turned sour 😖😄

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@serenidad
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i just finished reading everyone's responses and to be honest, i didn't find any of the stuff that was mentioned cringy at all lol 😂😂 must be something wrong with me haha 😂

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Posted by Mutya

High school ex and I riding around in his car listening to Jay-Z and Beyoncé's "Bonnie and Clyde" swearing it's him and me against the world or like some fucked up Romeo and Juliet shit.

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me too

i was all about that romeo + juliet, ride or die kind of love...lol 😂

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@serenidad
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Posted by Librasetting777

Posted by borednbeautiful

Posted by Librasetting777

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Librasetting777

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Librasetting777

Posted by MyStarsShine

I want to die having sex with you

*cringe*

😂😅

Scorpio Venus

(What else would it be)

Lol

me too Libra Venus 😉

We both have Aries asc and Taurus Moon and i’m 7th house dom

😃

😏 interesting lol I'm not allowed to leave America cuz I'm too poor 🤣

Where were you thinking of heading to?

anywhere but here lol

May I ask why?

the vast majority of Americans are just a bunch of narcissistic ego tripping assholes who think their always right and they dont let anyone Express their views unless you share the same views which is very political these days. Should rename ourselves the slave states of America lol. You're not allowed to do shit unless you ask the land barons and give them your soul 🤣 its literally one of the worst countrys in the world these days our government literally oppresses all of its people it doesn't really matter what color you are and the people dont really seem to get it lol it's a us or them mentality these days.

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@Librasetting777

facts...!💯

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@serenidad
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Posted by RollergirlOrc

The most cringe youll squeeze out of me is not in love but right after a break up. It's all dramatics, all the angst and sorrow and Mariah Carey/Michael Bolton you could think of.

😓

i know what you mean...lol i was bumping sad music laying on the bed after my breakup with my ex. that was several years ago but i still remember...lol 😂 i don't like staying sad for too long but sometimes it's good to just let your sadness run its course so it doesn't surface later on in uglier ways or come back to haunt.

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Posted by SeaLion

Leo Venus -

Way to many things to list. I read old emails sent back and forth with my Pisces ex from college (my first love) years later and wanted to vomit 😂

Some of it is so embarrassing I don't even want to repeat myself.

leo is a pretty romantic sign by nature that loves grandiose things so i can totally see them sending sappy texts lol 😂

personally i love leo placements... lol

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@serenidad
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Posted by MyStarsShine

I said to a guy when we’d just started seeing each other “what do you think

you’ll be doing in ten years time”? 😬

How to scare a bloke

We got married and had a baby 9 yrs later so i didn’t scare him off but i bet his Aqua Moon was like 😬

that's so cute lol 😂

i'd be secretly pleased if someone was thinking 5, 10 years ahead lol 😂 it shows that they're planning to stick around...lol

i'm glad he felt the same way about you and that a beautiful romance blossomed from all of that ♥ and a baby too..! 😇

love hearing stories like that. it's heart warming...! lol

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@serenidad
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Posted by aquarius09

I wrote really sappy things to my ex in a card that I gave to him with gifts. When I started suspecting that he could be cheating (and he was), I asked for the card back to destroy it. LOL. In my thought process, he wasn’t deserving of those sweet like candy words and disposing of that card was equivalent to the card not existing. I wanted to remove all traces of me from his life…zero association with him. He fought with me over a card for two months and finally I got it back and destroyed it.

Aqua Venus

i'm so sorry he was cheating on you...😢 that always sucks.

and no disrespect but i never imagined aqua venus to be the type to be sappy in relationships so i'm kinda pleasantly surprised...lol glad you got the card back lol

hope you're in a much better place now mentally and emotionally ✨✨

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Posted by Libra4rmTX

Venus in scorpio.

Just where tf do I start lol

The worst one was my first love. Kinda went into stalker mode. I was 16. That taught me to learn to walk away lol cuz man man man.........

a female friend of mine libra sun/venus scorp used to stalk her boyfriend's ex on instagram 😂😂 i was like, " why are you doing that? he broke up with her to be with you. doesn't that mean something...?" and she said, "i just wanna see what he was working with so i can get clues on where she went wrong or what made their relationship not work." and i was like "...oh i see" lol 😂

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Posted by kachi_cake

I made a poem professing my love to two Virgo men before 🤮🚩. I still have some of them.

I told most of my former flings/exes they were my soulmate which is partially true 😬.

I said "I love you, you're the one, I can't live without you" to a few former lovers.

Did I mean them 🤔, sometimes?

When I think about it, I don't think I've ever truly loved any of them.

Truthfully, if I was ever to love somebody I'd want full commitment (not focused on sex) and a little conventional. I want somebody who'd pick me up, dine me, go on mini trips, plan the future with me, meet my son and so on.

It's tiring to have conversations that are hypothetical, dreams made of sand.

I don't want to commit until I find my person.

yeah wishy-washy conversations make me tired too 😫 and people being non-direct.

ain't nobody got time for that shit lol life is too short

i hope you meet someone who's solid and is on the same page with you in terms of values, hopes and desires and where you wanna take the relationship, and all that.

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@serenidad
4 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by cersei

In my daydreams I imagine a lot of scenarios where Ive said such such sappy cringey things Im glad I havent said out loud.

One time I liked this guy so much I literally prayed to god to please give me this guy I’ll never ask for anything else I just want him! 🙄

In middle school I liked this guy (my first real crush) I was on a high and would listen to Mariah Carey’s “Fantasy” and sing it out loud and imagine him. I dedicated that song to him 😂

Pisces venus

😂😂

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@serenidad
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Posted by Libraandgenerous

I wrote a long cringy poem to my first boyfriend, and my low self esteem ass was always " I don't deserve you " yikes!!!!

Libra Venus

yeah i see libra venus always people-pleasing and putting their needs last. i wanna tell them "it's ok to be a bit more demanding". lol

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Posted by Librasetting777

Posted by borednbeautiful

Posted by Librasetting777

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Librasetting777

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Librasetting777

Posted by MyStarsShine

I want to die having sex with you

*cringe*

😂😅

Scorpio Venus

(What else would it be)

Lol

me too Libra Venus 😉

We both have Aries asc and Taurus Moon and i’m 7th house dom

😃

😏 interesting lol I'm not allowed to leave America cuz I'm too poor 🤣

Where were you thinking of heading to?

anywhere but here lol

May I ask why?

the vast majority of Americans are just a bunch of narcissistic ego tripping assholes who think their always right and they dont let anyone Express their views unless you share the same views which is very political these days. Should rename ourselves the slave states of America lol. You're not allowed to do shit unless you ask the land barons and give them your soul 🤣 its literally one of the worst countrys in the world these days our government literally oppresses all of its people it doesn't really matter what color you are and the people dont really seem to get it lol it's a us or them mentality these days.

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Agreed.

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@serenidad
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Posted by _elle_

I'm sure I've said my share, I'm infected with a lot of Libra bits.

I'm not really embarrassed by them or feel cringe....that always comes *before* I say them because 12th house Venus.

So, if I said it, I meant it. The turmoil in my tummy and mind is excruciating prior to expressing any sentiment at all so I hope the recipient takes that in account when they are given that and can at the very least respect it.

I have to be honest, the cynicism in this thread makes me a little sad.....but it's whatever, I've already concluded that after my last breakup, I won't ever share such sentiments with another soul again. I guess I'm cynical too now. *shrugs*

- Libra Venus in the 12th House with Mars and Uranus

i completely get what you're saying. like so so much. it really hit me like a lightning. thank you for saying this.

expressing your love for someone shouldn't be seen as a cringy gesture or something for us to feel embarrassed about.

when we were all still kids and we didn't yet have all these negative feelings/notions about expressing our joy or love towards something or someone, i'm sure we all felt more free to be our authentic selves and we were less cynical about human interaction/relationships with others in general.

but as we grew older, that changed. due to disappointing experiences (in love, friendships etc) and we became like this...

thank you for bringing this up. i want so many people to read what you said. it's deep.

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@serenidad
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Posted by dontgiveup

My Scorpio bf says things that others may think are Cringy but my leo self soaks it up and loves the intensity lol

Tells me:

I'm addicted to you

We better be together forever

If you die we are going out together lol

I have said somethings before but sometimes I say them exaggerating to be funny.

I told my Scorp bf if he dies im crawling in the casket with him and getting buried alive lmao!

sounds like a legit ride or die couple to me. very happy for you two.😊

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9 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by Wizardz_

When I was a student this girl always sat next to me she was the "perfect" type of girl. Pretty, smart, studious, dressed slightly conservatively but attractive. The kind of "good girl" you would see in a movie. Idk why but one day I decided to write a letter declaring my love for her. After that she never sat next to me lol

🥺🥴

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13 Years5,000+ PostsTaurus

Posted by Mutya

"I want my boyfriend to be my bestfriend too"

I think I was low-key trying to control the poor guy

High school me = Eww

I don’t find a problem with this statement even now. Maybe that’s because my Venus is in the 11th house—but friendship is key to my deeper relationships. We have to be super close friends before I consider going the distance. Not to say, “I want to be your everything!!!” Fuck all that lol. I know we both need other friends and shit—again Venus and sun in 11th 🤷‍♀️ idk. But I do have to be able to be me and need my partner to be able to be them around me. I wanna knoooowwww you!!! I wanna be “inside your face…..” lol

Oh and yes, “Everything I do, I do it for you” by Bryan Adams is my absolute fav love song that always makes me cry when I sing it LOL ☠️

And to share my own story, I typed my favorite love poem out in the shape of a heart and printed it over and over onto pink paper until I could fold it perfectly into an origami heart that opened up to the poem. Spent a lot of time on that lol. And that’s just the tip of this iceberg of sappiness lol.

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13 Years5,000+ PostsTaurus

Posted by MareInfame

My most cringe moment doesn’t really make sense… but, it still keeps feeling this way… cringe every time I think about it and wish I would erase the moment.

This friend had been flirting, then expressing deep feelings for me, expressing dreams of me… hinting on wanting more. I always made him feel safe to share that stuff… but, moved away from putting energy into what he said.

Then years past and I felt he was persisting and not changing his mind, dedicate songs every time we would interact and songs would be exactly on same words shared, subject. He did that on queue for about 3 yrs.

When I confronted, he denied. He used to love when I flirted back. After years of this back and forth, I finally decided to express myself more openly. I just told him how much he meant to me and that I struggled with starting to getting attracted to him.

Whelp. He freaked out and said I was being cringy, said it was all in my head… and that I was scaring him… that my behavior was not normal and that NONE of the songs were for me (wow, what a 3yr coincidence 🙄)

He is the only human being that has said that about me. But it cut deep because my mom always told me that it wasn’t lady-like to initiate, and always made me feel bad about it if I even started a convo with another male 😵‍💫 - so it triggered deep.

He didn’t make sense AT ALL and it was hypocritical because I didn’t say ANYTHING he hadn’t said FIRST.

He was mad about me for something else (I don’t know what) so, I have no idea if he just was reacting… but damn, was it ever damaging and CRINGY 😣😣😣

He was a Gemini Venus.🚩🚩🚩

My mother was the same way—“girls don’t call boys” and such. I’ve always been a very forward person especially when it comes to the heart, so it was another instance of something “wrong” with me that I felt bad about. When I think back on my childhood, SO many times I was made to feel bad about who I was as a person—can really mess a young person up!!!

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@allrounder
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I tend to say a lot of things in text that I cringe at later 😂 I text/talk a lot thanks to my Gemini Rising and the fact I have ADD lol

My Pisces Sun, Aries Venus crush just pulled a kabedon (wall slam) move on me yesterday when it was just us two left in the studio 💀 some could see this as cringe, but boy, I was floored. My heart can only take so much lmao

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@serenidad
4 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by MareInfame

My most cringe moment doesn’t really make sense… but, it still keeps feeling this way… cringe every time I think about it and wish I would erase the moment.

This friend had been flirting, then expressing deep feelings for me, expressing dreams of me… hinting on wanting more. I always made him feel safe to share that stuff… but, moved away from putting energy into what he said.

Then years past and I felt he was persisting and not changing his mind, dedicate songs every time we would interact and songs would be exactly on same words shared, subject. He did that on queue for about 3 yrs.

When I confronted, he denied. He used to love when I flirted back. After years of this back and forth, I finally decided to express myself more openly. I just told him how much he meant to me and that I struggled with starting to getting attracted to him.

Whelp. He freaked out and said I was being cringy, said it was all in my head… and that I was scaring him… that my behavior was not normal and that NONE of the songs were for me (wow, what a 3yr coincidence 🙄)

He is the only human being that has said that about me. But it cut deep because my mom always told me that it wasn’t lady-like to initiate, and always made me feel bad about it if I even started a convo with another male 😵‍💫 - so it triggered deep.

He didn’t make sense AT ALL and it was hypocritical because I didn’t say ANYTHING he hadn’t said FIRST.

He was mad about me for something else (I don’t know what) so, I have no idea if he just was reacting… but damn, was it ever damaging and CRINGY 😣😣😣

He was a Gemini Venus.🚩🚩🚩

that's awful...sorry you had to go through that....😢

people who gaslight and play with another person's emotions like that generally have extremely low self esteem and are full of insecurities....i think they kinda wanna feel important by making others feel like crap....it's honestly pretty sad....:/