Gently letting down

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Posted by alexscaries
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It’s not you, it’s me.

There’s no connection/ chemistry

I just don’t know what I want and I don’t want to string you along with my indecisiveness.

I told the truth and said there was no sexual chemistry and got reprimanded, apparently that was too harsh 🄓

Sexual chemistry and friendship chemistry are two different things.
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I agree! I tried to explain that it meant no romantic chemistry- All he heard was that he wasn't fuccable šŸ™„
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In all truthfulness I'm not a massive flirt so it won't even get to the swapping numbers stage if I'm not interested.

If it's someone I'm in an actual relationship with I tell the truth.

Do you think I’m a massive flirt? What is it anyway?

Btw, that should be your next profile tagline šŸ™ƒ

I think you are genuinely interested in people. As for massive flirt. I don't know. I think the factor would be if you do it with everyone.

TBF I think most adults are aware if they are flirting I think were it gets confusing if you have lonely people who think someone being nice or sociable wants to date them.
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I agree šŸ’Æ %

Lonely people who miss-read the signals are the worst. They don’t bother me so much as they bother themselves.

I am so lonely today but someone said hi online šŸ™„
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Posted by borednbeautiful
Posted by alexscaries

In all truthfulness I'm not a massive flirt so it won't even get to the swapping numbers stage if I'm not interested.

If it's someone I'm in an actual relationship with I tell the truth.

Do you think I’m a massive flirt? What is it anyway?

Btw, that should be your next profile tagline šŸ™ƒ

I think you are genuinely interested in people. As for massive flirt. I don't know. I think the factor would be if you do it with everyone.

TBF I think most adults are aware if they are flirting I think were it gets confusing if you have lonely people who think someone being nice or sociable wants to date them.

I agree šŸ’Æ %

Lonely people who miss-read the signals are the worst. They don’t bother me so much as they bother themselves.

I am so lonely today but someone said hi online šŸ™„

I think people misread the signs due to expectation and also inexperience. It's really difficult to explain, but you can have a dry conversation and you can be into each other or you can have a laughing jokey conversation were it goes nowhere and both people are aware it is banter.
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True indeed.

Sometimes, I shut down around those I truly like. I become shy (believe it or not). I never talk much around them.

But if it’s just banter, it’s comfortable and fun. Banter may or may not go somewhere. It’s the best when it is mutual.

I also appreciate someone when we don’t always agree, but we always get along.