I can’t Just have Sex anymore ! (Page 2)

Posted by Reincarnation2

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Posted by Tenpxd

For the sake of having it, I sort of need to feel In love with the person! But I don’t love anyone 🙄

I don't know. The most I've had sex "for the sake of it" has been during marriage, lol. Sometimes you just lift a leg. Sex is super casual when married, it's like brushing your teeth.

As a single woman, never gave it a thought. I don't masturbate. Was on the hunt for the ultimate orgasm... so that made me picky... people searching for "connection." I was looking for the perfect orgasm, the perfect fantasy, and that is what it was about for me the quality experience.

I found relationships to be an entanglement so, as murphy's law would have it, relationships were difficult to avoid. Still managed to have casual sex as my first serious relationship was a three year open relationship.

Like you, I didn't love nobody. Didn't and don't trust no body. So what you supposed to do? Just be selective."I'm a tell you how I want it

Baby, tell me how you need it

Hope you're good at keeping secrets

Say you're good at keeping secrets

'Cause you know I don't trust nobody

I know you don't trust nobody

You know I'm a freak right? (yeah, yeah)

Hit you on a free night (yeah, yeah, yeah)

I know what you keep tight (yeah, yeah)

You don't wanna leave, right? (yeah, yeah, yeah)

You don't wanna stay a little late?

I'll give you that tingle in your waist

Hit you when you need a little taste

Better watch my back"

Fuck that sounds depressing. I feel bad for your spouse.

Your post makes me want to go Kurt Cobain.

Hedonism vs. meaning, people. Hedonism vs. meaning. Please don't have kids and pass your DNA along.

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Yes sir, I am hedonistic. Guess my body count.

But, what's really sad is that you are alone with no prospect of procreation and don't see why... while judging someone who has done both. 😢

Snuggle up tight boo.

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Posted by Reincarnation2

Posted by Truemara

How many women you been with rein? I respect a man who lives by what he expect others to live by. I bet your an honorable man who waits to have sex with all women until marriage

I am a man. Very different.

Men don't get damaged mentally by body count.

The advice to stay virgin until a rich man marries you within 5 years of your becoming legal age is an unrealistic fairytale unless you’re an extremely attractive woman or very lucky. And even then People are immature at 18, Personalities are dynamic and change and even in older age when both parties are mature relationships don’t always last. What then? The woman becomes a worthless single use plastic bag because she didn’t marry the first person she met? But man is allowed trial and error? No matter how good a judge of character you are it takes experimentation and time to find out if a person is right for you. People’s worth is not all about novelty and it’s important to find someone you harmonise with unless you want to damage your children and give them personality disorders by having constant quarrels with your spouse



sperm quality does suffer epigenetic damage. sleeping around, having chronically raised prolactin and having ejaculatory sex does deplete your body. Men may not get damaged mentally, but they can get damaged physically if extremely promiscuous and it takes two gametes to produce healthy offspring. Yes, the gamete reserve in men is abundant and renewable unlike the fixed ovarian reserve in women, however, for that same reason the quality is more sensitive to your life style , reflective of your current level of health and is just as susceptible to damage

So the next best thing to your unrealistic advice to average women is keeping your count super low, say below 5, and being very picky.

How does that work in a community where there’s about a 50:50 male to female split?

The end result is the minority of rich and attractive men sleep around with a large pool of women, leaving the rest of men, the majority, disgruntled, frustrated and without mates? And this is how you get the incels, and the MGTOW people stinking up everyone’s else’s life and getting violent



By the way, putting so much stock in youth when it comes to childbearing was reasonable in the last century. However the majority of those born after 1995 are not in the least bit healthy and fertile, if you take a 34 year old woman she’ll probably be healthier and carry a child more successfully than the 20 year olds now. but that’s a topic for another day

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We think alike.

I grew up in a community with majority men, 50/50... and, boy oh boy... will pay for your dirty panties.

Even when sex is great I rather masterbate tbh. 95% of the time its much better and more stress relieving to just rub one off on my own terms rather then putting in a ton of effort with obvious strings attached.

Like the first few times with a new lover sex is always amazing. But there is a 0% chance I will be able to put in the exact same effort and motivation every single time, till the day we die. Who tf believes that is actual reality? There is no relationship, or man that perfect.

This is why I don't need women in my life. The idea is appealing, but the more they crave sex the more of a life problem they tend to be. I wish most women could just easily just rub one off when ever needed and go on with the day 😆

I’m not letting this topic end my 5 year streak lol

Posted by Truemara

I’m not letting this topic end my 5 year streak lol

Wait what mermaid are they talking about

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Posted by Truemara

How many women you been with rein? I respect a man who lives by what he expect others to live by. I bet your an honorable man who waits to have sex with all women until marriage

I am a man. Very different.

Men don't get damaged mentally by body count.

But they’re damaged goods in some women’s eyes...scared to commit and sleeping around can be signs of immaturity and a turn off

Women do not care about a man's body count. They care about the ring. About commitment.

If there is no ring, it doesn't mean a thing.

Not all women

I don’t want a man inside me who has been inside lots of women...yuk

Considering my profession, I can tell you most women have zero fear of STDs. Most women will let a man rawdog them if they are ovulating.

Get your Pap smears. We live in a clown world.

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True that’s why 6 month STD checks are needed

Posted by Ixi

What a chaste, and self-righteous circle-jerk this thread has become.

Like it's 100% okay to not want to engage sexually with others while you are single because it's what you want and what you need to be happy and fulfilled. Do what you gotta do if that's you.

But all of these misogynistic af judgments about women who decide not to issue a fortress proclamation regarding their vagina are gross.

Let it be noted that just because some mouthbreathing troglodyte with a truly perverse view of marriage (that honestly devalues the women) can't find a desperate/delusional 20 year old virgin sex puppet to wait on him hand and foot doesn't mean that women who enjoy/have enjoyed sex are any less worthy of a relationship or bond.

Like y'all really out here condescending on folks acting like you deserve a special prize because you did what was best for you or you deprived yourself of a few orgasms? Like please get tf over yourselves, you don't get a gold star and special commendation just because your genitals are rusted.

In every thread, you will have

1. Pick me’s

2. Couldn’t be me’s

Posted by Soul

Even when sex is great I rather masterbate tbh. 95% of the time its much better and more stress relieving to just rub one off on my own terms rather then putting in a ton of effort with obvious strings attached.

Like the first few times with a new lover sex is always amazing. But there is a 0% chance I will be able to put in the exact same effort and motivation every single time, till the day we die. Who tf believes that is actual reality? There is no relationship, or man that perfect.

This is why I don't need women in my life. The idea is appealing, but the more they crave sex the more of a life problem they tend to be. I wish most women could just easily just rub one off when ever needed and go on with the day 😆

Why is that?

It shouldn't get harder to please a person once feelings are involved on both sides, usually it gets easier to please them sexually.

How often do you have sex? And a woman craving sex from you isn't an ego boost?

I think meeting someone who matches your drive is best.

Posted by Ixi

What a chaste, and self-righteous circle-jerk this thread has become.

Like it's 100% okay to not want to engage sexually with others while you are single because it's what you want and what you need to be happy and fulfilled. Do what you gotta do if that's you.

But all of these misogynistic af judgments about women who decide not to issue a fortress proclamation regarding their vagina are gross.

Let it be noted that just because some mouthbreathing troglodyte with a truly perverse view of marriage (that honestly devalues the women) can't find a desperate/delusional 20 year old virgin sex puppet to wait on him hand and foot doesn't mean that women who enjoy/have enjoyed sex are any less worthy of a relationship or bond.

Like y'all really out here condescending on folks acting like you deserve a special prize because you did what was best for you or you deprived yourself of a few orgasms? Like please get tf over yourselves, you don't get a gold star and special commendation just because your genitals are rusted.

Having casual sex doesn't mean depriving of an orgasm.

Most men and women masturbate on a regular basis and can have one.

Most times women stop having casual sex because they start valuing their selves more after they've had a long list of unsuccessful searches for love in the wrong places.

But there are plenty who still love casual sex and don't see any issues with it. The ones who can orgasm easily off penetration and just need a dick to get them there.

Both are fine.

Woman should be able to do what they want, when they want, with their bodies.

Posted by Ixi

What a chaste, and self-righteous circle-jerk this thread has become.

Like it's 100% okay to not want to engage sexually with others while you are single because it's what you want and what you need to be happy and fulfilled. Do what you gotta do if that's you.

But all of these misogynistic af judgments about women who decide not to issue a fortress proclamation regarding their vagina are gross.

Let it be noted that just because some mouthbreathing troglodyte with a truly perverse view of marriage (that honestly devalues the women) can't find a desperate/delusional 20 year old virgin sex puppet to wait on him hand and foot doesn't mean that women who enjoy/have enjoyed sex are any less worthy of a relationship or bond.

Like y'all really out here condescending on folks acting like you deserve a special prize because you did what was best for you or you deprived yourself of a few orgasms? Like please get tf over yourselves, you don't get a gold star and special commendation just because your genitals are rusted.

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LOL!!! "genitals are rusted..."