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I can’t Just have Sex anymore !
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That's a shame.
Right! That sucks because now I have to sit back and wait for MR. Mine 👑
That sounds rough, is it the intimacy you're looking for?
Desire & connection along with feelings.
That sounds rough, is it the intimacy you're looking for?
Desire & connection along with feelings.
Love yoself mama.
Have been ♥️ Will continue that path
This is why toys exist 😉
For the sake of having it, I sort of need to feel In love with the person! But I don’t love anyone 🙄
I feel exactly the same right now 😪 I used to be able to but since having a partner I had a massive connection with who I'm no longer with I just can't do it I don't even want another woman near me like that.
This is why toys exist 😉
Yes I have them, eventually you want physical touch with mr.mine
For the sake of having it, I sort of need to feel In love with the person! But I don’t love anyone 🙄
That is what happens when women have a bunch of casual sex. It destroys their pairbonding ability. It damages the woman.
Divorce rate goes up in direct correlation with the number of a woman's prior sexual partners.
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Where did you get this from
For the sake of having it, I sort of need to feel In love with the person! But I don’t love anyone 🙄
That is what happens when women have a bunch of casual sex. It destroys their pairbonding ability. It damages the woman.
Divorce rate goes up in direct correlation with the number of a woman's prior sexual partners.
Where did you get this from
Remember when you were a virgin? How in love you were with your "first"?
After 50 men, that goes away completely. There are studies, but it is common sense. C'mon.
All this sexual freedom, yet women are profoundly uhappy nowadays. Childless and unmarried. Working like a man until death.
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After how many dates should the women give up the kitty. I’ve seen tons of marriages started first night. I don’t know if real answers exist
For the sake of having it, I sort of need to feel In love with the person! But I don’t love anyone 🙄
I feel exactly the same right now 😪 I used to be able to but since having a partner I had a massive connection with who I'm no longer with I just can't do it I don't even want another woman near me like that.
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That’s what it is, we’re jaded!
For the sake of having it, I sort of need to feel In love with the person! But I don’t love anyone 🙄
That is what happens when women have a bunch of casual sex. It destroys their pairbonding ability. It damages the woman.
Divorce rate goes up in direct correlation with the number of a woman's prior sexual partners.
Where did you get this from
Remember when you were a virgin? How in love you were with your "first"?
After 50 men, that goes away completely. There are studies, but it is common sense. C'mon.
All this sexual freedom, yet women are profoundly uhappy nowadays. Childless and unmarried. Working like a man until death.
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It’s less special as the number increases ?
I think as you get older it changes
For the sake of having it, I sort of need to feel In love with the person! But I don’t love anyone 🙄
That is what happens when women have a bunch of casual sex. It destroys their pairbonding ability. It damages the woman.
Divorce rate goes up in direct correlation with the number of a woman's prior sexual partners.
Where did you get this from
Remember when you were a virgin? How in love you were with your "first"?
After 50 men, that goes away completely. There are studies, but it is common sense. C'mon.
All this sexual freedom, yet women are profoundly uhappy nowadays. Childless and unmarried. Working like a man until death.
After how many dates should the women give up the kitty. I’ve seen tons of marriages started first night. I don’t know if real answers exist
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Date 3
That sounds rough, is it the intimacy you're looking for?
Desire & connection along with feelings.
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Healthy
Besides to make kids, you don’t need sex.
You’re not missing anything special.
Train goes into the tunnel and then reverses out. Rinse n repeat
Been there. That’s why celibacy for me. Shrug 🤷♀️
For the sake of having it, I sort of need to feel In love with the person! But I don’t love anyone 🙄
That is what happens when women have a bunch of casual sex. It destroys their pairbonding ability. It damages the woman.
Divorce rate goes up in direct correlation with the number of a woman's prior sexual partners.
Where did you get this from
Remember when you were a virgin? How in love you were with your "first"?
After 50 men, that goes away completely. There are studies, but it is common sense. C'mon.
All this sexual freedom, yet women are profoundly uhappy nowadays. Childless and unmarried. Working like a man until death.
After how many dates should the women give up the kitty. I’ve seen tons of marriages started first night. I don’t know if real answers exist
Depends on your age. If you are 18 or 19, find a rich man and stay a virgin. Marry rich and have many kids. Virginity is valued by men.
If you are 25+, you are already very old for marriage. You ladies need Kevin Samuels.
Anyway, women want to be a ho and settle down at 28. Lol. Approaching advanced maternal age already. Her eggs fried from alcohol, raves, fornicating, tobacco, cannabis. Yeah - HARD pass. And people wonder why the IQ of children is dropping.
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The IQ of people is dropping because their parents don’t think before having sex/kids—they don’t take their responsibilities seriously and we have, more often than not, stupid breeding and teaching stupidity. Fuck, you exhaust me with every post I read from you on this thread. It’s too early for this bs.... I need some tea. ☕️
For the sake of having it, I sort of need to feel In love with the person! But I don’t love anyone 🙄
That is what happens when women have a bunch of casual sex. It destroys their pairbonding ability. It damages the woman.
Divorce rate goes up in direct correlation with the number of a woman's prior sexual partners.
Where did you get this from
Remember when you were a virgin? How in love you were with your "first"?
After 50 men, that goes away completely. There are studies, but it is common sense. C'mon.
All this sexual freedom, yet women are profoundly uhappy nowadays. Childless and unmarried. Working like a man until death.
After how many dates should the women give up the kitty. I’ve seen tons of marriages started first night. I don’t know if real answers exist
Depends on your age. If you are 18 or 19, find a rich man and stay a virgin. Marry rich and have many kids. Virginity is valued by men.
If you are 25+, you are already very old for marriage. You ladies need Kevin Samuels.
Anyway, women want to be a ho and settle down at 28. Lol. Approaching advanced maternal age already. Her eggs fried from alcohol, raves, fornicating, tobacco, cannabis. Yeah - HARD pass. And people wonder why the IQ of children is dropping.
The IQ of people is dropping because their parents don’t think before having sex/kids—they don’t take their responsibilities seriously and we have, more often than not, stupid breeding and teaching stupidity. Fuck, you exhaust me with every post I read from you on this thread. It’s too early for this bs.... I need some tea. ☕️
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I don't have the energy to deal with this bullshit this early in the morning.
This is why toys exist 😉
Yes I have them, eventually you want physical touch with mr.mine
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get a fluffy puppy to snuggle
This is why toys exist 😉
Yes I have them, eventually you want physical touch with mr.mine
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get a fluffy puppy to snuggle
Good, Casual sex is overrated. Why randomly give yourself to a stranger who could care less about what you need sexually or emotionally. I think casual sex is a waste of time.
Good, Casual sex is overrated. Why randomly give yourself to a stranger who could care less about what you need sexually or emotionally. I think casual sex is a waste of time.
Yes it shallow and empty
If sex is the peak of a relationship or connection, I don't want it. I want more than just the sexual connection, I want what makes the connection.
💯
You know what turns me on more...
Going to a strange place, meeting a stranger, starting a conversation.
A simple conversation with some random person in a random land.
What an energy exchange.
For the sake of having it, I sort of need to feel In love with the person! But I don’t love anyone 🙄
That is what happens when women have a bunch of casual sex. It destroys their pairbonding ability. It damages the woman.
Divorce rate goes up in direct correlation with the number of a woman's prior sexual partners.
Where did you get this from
Remember when you were a virgin? How in love you were with your "first"?
After 50 men, that goes away completely. There are studies, but it is common sense. C'mon.
All this sexual freedom, yet women are profoundly uhappy nowadays. Childless and unmarried. Working like a man until death.
It’s less special as the number increases ?
I think as you get older it changes
No high value man wives up a ho.
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No high value woman wants to husband up a ho either
Ewww 😬
If you like the guy is it meaningless sex maybe for them
But there is no guarantees right. You can wait 8 dates it’s still meaningless for the guy.
Initially all guys court for sex because the find you attractive. It always starts like this.
How many women you been with rein? I respect a man who lives by what he expect others to live by. I bet your an honorable man who waits to have sex with all women until marriage
For the sake of having it, I sort of need to feel In love with the person! But I don’t love anyone 🙄
That is what happens when women have a bunch of casual sex. It destroys their pairbonding ability. It damages the woman.
Divorce rate goes up in direct correlation with the number of a woman's prior sexual partners.
Where did you get this from
Remember when you were a virgin? How in love you were with your "first"?
After 50 men, that goes away completely. There are studies, but it is common sense. C'mon.
All this sexual freedom, yet women are profoundly uhappy nowadays. Childless and unmarried. Working like a man until death.
It’s less special as the number increases ?
I think as you get older it changes
No high value man wives up a ho.
No high value woman wants to husband up a ho either
Ewww 😬
Scorpio woman's secret desire is to be a man.
Let's be honest. You Scorp ladies think like men.
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God no 🥴
But I have a good blend of female and male energy
Have always been told I’m very feminine...I’m
grateful for that
If sex is the peak of a relationship or connection, I don't want it. I want more than just the sexual connection, I want what makes the connection.
💯
Let's be honest, DMV.
Your body count is triple digits. C'mon.
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Don’t play yourself
The number is in the thousands
For the sake of having it, I sort of need to feel In love with the person! But I don’t love anyone 🙄
That is what happens when women have a bunch of casual sex. It destroys their pairbonding ability. It damages the woman.
Divorce rate goes up in direct correlation with the number of a woman's prior sexual partners.
Where did you get this from
Remember when you were a virgin? How in love you were with your "first"?
After 50 men, that goes away completely. There are studies, but it is common sense. C'mon.
All this sexual freedom, yet women are profoundly uhappy nowadays. Childless and unmarried. Working like a man until death.
It’s less special as the number increases ?
I think as you get older it changes
No high value man wives up a ho.
No high value woman wants to husband up a ho either
Ewww 😬
Scorpio woman's secret desire is to be a man.
Let's be honest. You Scorp ladies think like men.
God no 🥴
But I have a good blend of female and male energy
Have always been told I’m very feminine...I’m
grateful for that
You are feminine - as in a feminist.
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I’m a feminine woman
Are you still with the mermaid 🧜♀️?
Are you a doctor now?
Good, Casual sex is overrated. Why randomly give yourself to a stranger who could care less about what you need sexually or emotionally. I think casual sex is a waste of time.
I feel this way also. I’m tired of the superficial crap.
The pump and dump damages women.
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Maybe the dump, until the next pump 😉
I've seen more men damaged by a "dump" though. Not surprisingly, since most divorces and breakups are initiated by women, not men.
Casual sex has its own perks. I assume that year-long and exclusive FWBs are "casual", since I have no experience with one night stands or "pump and dump".
For once, you could let yourself loose and ask for anything, since you don't care what the person thinks of you, or what the consequences for the "relationship" might be. You can learn from casual sex and experiment a lot, with the right person. Perhaps things too refined for my taste, but the experience was worthwhile.
My Aries Mars prefers sex for the sake of sex...aka the brilliantly rough, savage, animalistic act that it is. If I'm very much into my partner, like with my most recent ex, there is a "spiritual" connection that for me translates into: "carnality is not enough, in fact it is a burden. I would like to peel our skins off, to free our souls, so they unite. Even if we die."
Good, Casual sex is overrated. Why randomly give yourself to a stranger who could care less about what you need sexually or emotionally. I think casual sex is a waste of time.
I feel this way also. I’m tired of the superficial crap.
The pump and dump damages women.
Maybe the dump, until the next pump 😉
I've seen more men damaged by a "dump" though. Not surprisingly, since most divorces and breakups are initiated by women, not men.
Lol Pisces ho.
Still unmarried? None of them giving you that commitment, huh?
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Been married for 17 years.
You?
Good, Casual sex is overrated. Why randomly give yourself to a stranger who could care less about what you need sexually or emotionally. I think casual sex is a waste of time.
I feel this way also. I’m tired of the superficial crap.
The pump and dump damages women.
Maybe the dump, until the next pump 😉
I've seen more men damaged by a "dump" though. Not surprisingly, since most divorces and breakups are initiated by women, not men.
Lol Pisces ho.
Still unmarried? None of them giving you that commitment, huh?
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So the 🧜♀️ did the dirty on you? 😬
How many women you been with rein? I respect a man who lives by what he expect others to live by. I bet your an honorable man who waits to have sex with all women until marriage
I am a man. Very different.
Men don't get damaged mentally by body count.
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But they’re damaged goods in some women’s eyes...scared to commit and sleeping around can be signs of immaturity and a turn off
How many women you been with rein? I respect a man who lives by what he expect others to live by. I bet your an honorable man who waits to have sex with all women until marriage
I am a man. Very different.
Men don't get damaged mentally by body count.
But they’re damaged goods in some women’s eyes...scared to commit and sleeping around can be signs of immaturity and a turn off
Women do not care about a man's body count. They care about the ring. About commitment.
If there is no ring, it doesn't mean a thing.
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Not all women
I don’t want a man inside me who has been inside lots of women...yuk
If sex is the peak of a relationship or connection, I don't want it. I want more than just the sexual connection, I want what makes the connection.
💯
Let's be honest, DMV.
Your body count is triple digits. C'mon.
Don’t play yourself
The number is in the thousands
Ayyyy, let him know to respect ya gangsta.
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Gurl, these kids today have no respect for their elders
Good, Casual sex is overrated. Why randomly give yourself to a stranger who could care less about what you need sexually or emotionally. I think casual sex is a waste of time.
I feel this way also. I’m tired of the superficial crap.
The pump and dump damages women.
Maybe the dump, until the next pump 😉
I've seen more men damaged by a "dump" though. Not surprisingly, since most divorces and breakups are initiated by women, not men.
Lol Pisces ho.
Still unmarried? None of them giving you that commitment, huh?
So the 🧜♀️ did the dirty on you? 😬
What? That chapter closed a long time ago. I told you years ago under my old account.
Scorpio has better matches than Pisces, honestly.
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I didn’t realise ... I just remembered you being crazy about her
Is there such a thing as a match for Scorpio lol? Not the easiest to deal with in love ....
How many women you been with rein? I respect a man who lives by what he expect others to live by. I bet your an honorable man who waits to have sex with all women until marriage
Lol he’s far from it. He just thinks it’s okay for men to sleep around but would only wife a young virgin molded for him. People like his type are the worst.
Good, Casual sex is overrated. Why randomly give yourself to a stranger who could care less about what you need sexually or emotionally. I think casual sex is a waste of time.
I feel this way also. I’m tired of the superficial crap.
The pump and dump damages women.
Maybe the dump, until the next pump 😉
I've seen more men damaged by a "dump" though. Not surprisingly, since most divorces and breakups are initiated by women, not men.
Lol Pisces ho.
Still unmarried? None of them giving you that commitment, huh?
So the 🧜♀️ did the dirty on you? 😬
What? That chapter closed a long time ago. I told you years ago under my old account.
Scorpio has better matches than Pisces, honestly.
I didn’t realise ... I just remembered you being crazy about her
Is there such a thing as a match for Scorpio lol? Not the easiest to deal with in love ....
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I also remember his holier than thou vibes all too well. It was a matter of time he got put in his place.
How many women you been with rein? I respect a man who lives by what he expect others to live by. I bet your an honorable man who waits to have sex with all women until marriage
Lol he’s far from it. He just thinks it’s okay for men to sleep around but would only wife a young virgin molded for him. People like his type are the worst.
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Stepford wives/1950s mentality ...
Life through a grey and white lense...
Besides to make kids, you don’t need sex.
You’re not missing anything special.
Train goes into the tunnel and then reverses out. Rinse n repeat
Hahaha geez that’s funny
Good, Casual sex is overrated. Why randomly give yourself to a stranger who could care less about what you need sexually or emotionally. I think casual sex is a waste of time.
Me too casual sex is terrible
For the sake of having it, I sort of need to feel In love with the person! But I don’t love anyone 🙄
That is what happens when women have a bunch of casual sex. It destroys their pairbonding ability. It damages the woman.
Divorce rate goes up in direct correlation with the number of a woman's prior sexual partners.
Where did you get this from
Remember when you were a virgin? How in love you were with your "first"?
After 50 men, that goes away completely. There are studies, but it is common sense. C'mon.
All this sexual freedom, yet women are profoundly uhappy nowadays. Childless and unmarried. Working like a man until death.
It’s less special as the number increases ?
I think as you get older it changes
No high value man wives up a ho.
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Can’t make a Ho a house wife ?
For the sake of having it, I sort of need to feel In love with the person! But I don’t love anyone 🙄
In love or infatuated? There is nothing wrong with waiting until you feel that spark or intense infatuation. In fact I’d say it’s better to let that develop before just hopping in the sack with a guy just because you feel like you should. There is no shame in being a choosey lover.
My Virgo Venus is showing 😂😂 I am kind of the same way. I wouldn’t say I need to be **in love** because that takes a long time for me to develop. But it definitely has to be a infatuation type of feel. I can’t hump somebody just because he took me on a couple dates.
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Virgo Venus here
You know what turns me on more...
Going to a strange place, meeting a stranger, starting a conversation.
A simple conversation with some random person in a random land.
What an energy exchange.
Yessss talk to me! Engage me
Still voting for mean full sex !
🤦♀️ errrm, so I'll just ignore the ignorant posts and the rock the poster crawled out from. I hope that he is trolling...
I understand your feeling, because I feel the same. And it's ok, it just shows that you've evolved enough to need a deeper sensation. With life and more obligations, and life changes, we change and somehow refine the need for connection.
It definitely has changed in my world today
For the sake of having it, I sort of need to feel In love with the person! But I don’t love anyone 🙄
What’s your birthday?
For the sake of having it, I sort of need to feel In love with the person! But I don’t love anyone 🙄
I don't know. The most I've had sex "for the sake of it" has been during marriage, lol. Sometimes you just lift a leg. Sex is super casual when married, it's like brushing your teeth.
As a single woman, never gave it a thought. I don't masturbate. Was on the hunt for the ultimate orgasm... so that made me picky... people searching for "connection." I was looking for the perfect orgasm, the perfect fantasy, and that is what it was about for me the quality experience.
I found relationships to be an entanglement so, as murphy's law would have it, relationships were difficult to avoid. Still managed to have casual sex as my first serious relationship was a three year open relationship.
Like you, I didn't love nobody. Didn't and don't trust no body. So what you supposed to do? Just be selective.
"I'm a tell you how I want it
Baby, tell me how you need it
Hope you're good at keeping secrets
Say you're good at keeping secrets
'Cause you know I don't trust nobody
I know you don't trust nobody
You know I'm a freak right? (yeah, yeah)
Hit you on a free night (yeah, yeah, yeah)
I know what you keep tight (yeah, yeah)
You don't wanna leave, right? (yeah, yeah, yeah)
You don't wanna stay a little late?
I'll give you that tingle in your waist
Hit you when you need a little taste
Better watch my back"
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For the sake of having it, I sort of need to feel In love with the person! But I don’t love anyone 🙄