Gemini going hot and cold

Hello everyone I’m new on here as I can’t seem to figure out this Gemini man I was dating! So I’m a Capricorn and he’s a gem! We met the end of June and we started dating! We had such a strong connection! Spent a lot of time together and basically acted like a couple. He told me he liked me in his own way and started planning things to do in the future! All seems great right..... then a month and a half in I find out his ex girlfriend is pregnant with his child and he left her when she was pregnant! Obviously I wasn’t happy with this as he should of been honest with me so I went silent for a few days. He told me he still wanted to pursue things and he was sorry for not being honest. So despite the tricky situation I decided to carry on then suddenly he starts being distant, dosnt reply to texts and dosnt arrange to meet. So I put an end to it and I think it’s all unfair on me. He then messages me saying it isn’t fair on me to be dragged through it and he hopes we can start again in the near future!!!? Is he expecting me to wait for him ? I don’t understand? Since then he still messages me every now and then and is always watching my social media! Does he still like me and is trying to do the right thing or is he trying to play games? I’m so confused! Someone HELP!

I am a Gemini female. I m dating a Capricorn male. I really like your guys. But from my point of view. I have done similar things to other guys before. Like what you said. I really enjoyed their company. And felt nice and relaxed. But I wasn’t very serious with them either. I just wanted to find someone to be comfortable with until I meet someone important. So from his behavior I think he was trying to get rid of you . ( don’t be sad ) just accept the truth that. When I liked someone I m very very sticky clingy. If he’s not trying it means he got something going. He liked you. !! But just not enough. Or not more than he likes his ex. Don’t think about him anymore. Just move on. If he comes bcak you got to ask him. Are you serious with me or not. ? Don’t play around. Make up your mind. Tell him you are seeking something serious.