DeeLovesRed
@DeeLovesRed
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A Gem I'm close with....
Bitch is crazy to involve herself with a married man and she's not even the main side chick. Insane.
The best advice you can give her is to not spend money on guys. Especially since her own finances are fucked. That's like life 101.
The best advice you can give her is to not spend money on guys. Especially since her own finances are fucked. That's like life 101.
Complicated.
At least be the main side chick though.
Your friend is a lost cause. She won't listen to u & will find out the hard way.
It sounds like she has low self esteem to even be in that situation. Tell her to get therapy.
Posted by NotSoInstantShe's 32..
She is the side chick side chick side chick..... How old is she?
Posted by littlenanobyteNever really did her chart, but I think I should. I'll let you know..
Gross ! Does she think he is worth more than the shit that comes out of his ass?
She has no boundaries whatsoever... is she a water gem? (No offense water gems)
I don't see an earth or a fire gem putting up with that bullshit for a second.
She needs to drop him.... she knows what she wants to do before complaining to you... she just needs a sounding board and assurance. I wouldn't give her the assurance, and as a gem, I wouldn't want you to lie to me... so, tell her like you see it.... let her know that normal ppl wouldn't do this to themselves... be blunt!
Sometimes wee need someone who's blunt in our lives to wake us up from the horrible dream we're living...
Sometimes wee need someone who's blunt in our lives to wake us up from the horrible dream we're living...
Posted by misslissaThat's exactly what I want to do... Like c'mon, he's using her. And I know it... he's still married.. why is he still married, he doesn't have any legal issue, so why the hell is he still married. He must want to keep the marriage just in case anything else goes wrong.
She needs to drop him.... she knows what she wants to do before complaining to you... she just needs a sounding board and assurance. I wouldn't give her the assurance, and as a gem, I wouldn't want you to lie to me... so, tell her like you see it.... let her know that normal ppl wouldn't do this to themselves... be blunt!
Sometimes wee need someone who's blunt in our lives to wake us up from the horrible dream we're living...
He's living with his mistress, like he couldn't even divorce his wife for his mistress.. What makes you think he'll leave his mistress for YOU.. especially since he doesn't have any kids with you.. The common denominator in the other women's case is children.... And it breaks my heart, because she's like an older sis which I never had.
Posted by DeeLovesRedIt's sounds like she's been having the universe take a continual dump on her head. She's been living off of the boost this mans attention gives her.Posted by misslissaThat's exactly what I want to do... Like c'mon, he's using her. And I know it... he's still married.. why is he still married, he doesn't have any legal issue, so why the hell is he still married. He must want to keep the marriage just in case anything else goes wrong.
She needs to drop him.... she knows what she wants to do before complaining to you... she just needs a sounding board and assurance. I wouldn't give her the assurance, and as a gem, I wouldn't want you to lie to me... so, tell her like you see it.... let her know that normal ppl wouldn't do this to themselves... be blunt!
Sometimes wee need someone who's blunt in our lives to wake us up from the horrible dream we're living...
He's living with his mistress, like he couldn't even divorce his wife for his mistress.. What makes you think he'll leave his mistress for YOU.. especially since he doesn't have any kids with you.. The common denominator in the other woman's case is children.... And it breaks my heart, because she's like an older sis which I never had.click to expand
Take her out and show her a good time. Set her up with one of your guy friends. Remind her that their are quality men out there with far less baggage.
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by DeeLovesRedIt's sounds like she's been having the universe take a continual dump on her head. She's been living off of the boost this mans attention gives her.Posted by misslissaThat's exactly what I want to do... Like c'mon, he's using her. And I know it... he's still married.. why is he still married, he doesn't have any legal issue, so why the hell is he still married. He must want to keep the marriage just in case anything else goes wrong.
She needs to drop him.... she knows what she wants to do before complaining to you... she just needs a sounding board and assurance. I wouldn't give her the assurance, and as a gem, I wouldn't want you to lie to me... so, tell her like you see it.... let her know that normal ppl wouldn't do this to themselves... be blunt!
Sometimes wee need someone who's blunt in our lives to wake us up from the horrible dream we're living...
He's living with his mistress, like he couldn't even divorce his wife for his mistress.. What makes you think he'll leave his mistress for YOU.. especially since he doesn't have any kids with you.. The common denominator in the other woman's case is children.... And it breaks my heart, because she's like an older sis which I never had.
Take her out and show her a good time. Set her up with one of your guy friends. Remind her that their are quality men out there with far less baggage.
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I've taken her out and introduced her to guys... She does what she wants.. I'm convinced that great sex can trap a person... well I'm excluding myself from that statement
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