ireallydunno
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Aquarius Man and Gemini Woman?
i'm Gemini and in official relationship with aquarius man. I guess we r a great match. it's not all Gemini being unfaithful , I never cheat when the man I love. my Aquarius man told me first that he is in love with me after we met each other 10 times and I don't have any connection with him as he never told.me his he feel and what he wants. i ussually never start a relatinship thats begin as a friend. don't know why. but with this Aquarius is tottaly different. I'm ok from being friends to commited in relationship. when he said he is in love, I just don't believe it. I though he just joking with me. I just ignore him . than I realize, why he always be there when I need him. always having time to my text while he is in work with his busy schedule. than I though maybe this is true that he is in love with me. so i try to open my heart slowly and now I am in love with him as well.
I'm agree with @nanobyte. don't lie to Gemini women.. we will find the truth and respect her time. if u have an appointment and u can't come, let her know. that's what happen to me with my aqua when he didn't show up when we supposed to.meet. I was so dissapointed with him and we talk in person than problem solve. they key is communication. I like to talk in person instead by text or telephone.
Posted by nanobyte
I have been with an aqua man in the past, and he fucked me up pretty badly. I think it can be the best pairing for both signs, and also the worst. As a gemini woman, I feel better and more "at home" with gemini men, but I am also very drawn to aquarians. My dad, my sister, 2 past best friends, and my ex all being aquas, I know them pretty well, more so than any other sign aside from gemini.
The great thing about aqua and gemini is that you don't have to feel the need to constantly vocalize your feelings to her. She is not a water sign, she does not require constant validation and reassuring. That is one of the main reasons why they are so good together. She knows and simply quietly understands your nature and that that does not come natural to you, and she will ACCEPT you for that. She will just get you. You two are simply in sync with one another, mentally physically emotionally spiritually.
The downfall of my relationship was that he "didn't feel respected" so instead of talking to me about that, communicating with me like an adult, he decided to start lying about trivial things. Then he started lying to me about big things. Straight up bold faced lie to my fucking face looking me right into the eyeballs with zero remorse. You guys can be pretty cold and have zero conscious about the lying, as I learned from him, my dad, and my sister lol. I've never seen anything like it before in my life.
Don't lie to her, about anything. She is too smart and she will find out, and call you out on it. And have physical evidence to back her up. COMMUNICATE! That is my #1 tip for advice. Don't not talk to her and let resentment build.
Man, thank you so much for the insight! I feel more confident about the relationship now, because the other signs I've been with in the past have been pretty water-y in the sense that they need constant validation, etc., which is something that I struggled with. I *do* feel that that we actually understand each other without words which is part of what attracts me to her. Since I don't know many people like that it made me uncertain about how I should handle it.. So thank you for clearing that up.
In regards to the whole lying thing, I'll do my best not to lie to her. I don't enjoy lying, and I've so far tried to be completely honest with her about everything. That being said, I have experienced lying from other Aquas... Mostly trivial lying, but I've heard a couple of Aquas (notably my grandfather and a mere acquaintance) say some dodgy shit in the past that seemed to be mostly made-up.. Probably due to ulterior motives?
Posted by AnteroI will admit that it sometimes feels like she occasionally doesn't take my confessions seriously, but I do hope that she'll eventually realize how serious I am.. Your description perfectly fits what I imagine she feels when I talk to her.
i'm Gemini and in official relationship with aquarius man. I guess we r a great match. it's not all Gemini being unfaithful , I never cheat when the man I love. my Aquarius man told me first that he is in love with me after we met each other 10 times and I don't have any connection with him as he never told.me his he feel and what he wants. i ussually never start a relatinship thats begin as a friend. don't know why. but with this Aquarius is tottaly different. I'm ok from being friends to commited in relationship. when he said he is in love, I just don't believe it. I though he just joking with me. I just ignore him . than I realize, why he always be there when I need him. always having time to my text while he is in work with his busy schedule. than I though maybe this is true that he is in love with me. so i try to open my heart slowly and now I am in love with him as well.
What are your moon signs?
Posted by themilkyway36Rising Sign is in Cancer
What are your moon signs?
Moon is in Aquarius
Mercury is in Capricorn
Venus is in Capricorn
Mars is in Pisces
Posted by ireallydunnoI hope this is what you're asking for LOLPosted by themilkyway36Rising Sign is in Cancer
What are your moon signs?
Moon is in Aquarius
Mercury is in Capricorn
Venus is in Capricorn
Mars is in Pisces
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If not, then I guess you're requesting the house placements?
Posted by ireallydunnoOh so you're a double AquaPosted by themilkyway36Rising Sign is in Cancer
What are your moon signs?
Moon is in Aquarius
Mercury is in Capricorn
Venus is in Capricorn
Mars is in Pisces
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What's her moon sign?
Posted by nanobytePosted by ireallydunnoIs that yours or hers?Posted by themilkyway36Rising Sign is in Cancer
What are your moon signs?
Moon is in Aquarius
Mercury is in Capricorn
Venus is in Capricorn
Mars is in Pisces
I am guessing yours?
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It's mine, yep.
Posted by themilkyway36Posted by ireallydunnoOh so you're a double AquaPosted by themilkyway36Rising Sign is in Cancer
What are your moon signs?
Moon is in Aquarius
Mercury is in Capricorn
Venus is in Capricorn
Mars is in Pisces
What's her moon sign?click to expand
I'm not sure what her moon sign is. I haven't asked her about her birth time yet. >.>
Posted by ireallydunnoYou don't need someone's birth time to calculate their moon signPosted by themilkyway36Posted by ireallydunnoOh so you're a double AquaPosted by themilkyway36Rising Sign is in Cancer
What are your moon signs?
Moon is in Aquarius
Mercury is in Capricorn
Venus is in Capricorn
Mars is in Pisces
What's her moon sign?
I'm not sure what her moon sign is. I haven't asked her about her birth time yet. >.>
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But moon sign compatibility is very important as well so you should look up her chart and let us know
Posted by nanobyte
YES you are right - any watery woman/man who enters a relationship with an aquarius expecting constant validation will be sorely disappointed and irreparably hurt. LOL y'all don't fuck around with that, don't like to give compliments at all, especially when forced. I am a gemini sun and capricorn moon and I even at times felt deprived... ME! and I am NOT a needy person for the most part.
I remember his mischievous ways... I would search for compliments (come on... all women need them sometimes, aqua men!) and knowing that, and his stubbornness, he would purposefully avoid them and it became a bit of a game. I thought it was hilarious, but I am sure that a watery woman's feelings would simply be flat out hurt by that.
"Do I look okay today?"
"Yea you look okay, let's go with that"
😆
I find it odd that gemini are known as "liars", yet my 2 gemini men (currently engaged to one) have never lied to me, not once. I get lied to up and down by my family, friend, and ex aquas lol.
Also on the validation thing - did you happen to ever date a leo and/scorpio? Those are the two types of women that my ex dated after me. There is no way he would stroke the ego of a Leo. After doing some "research", I came to find that all she did was shop and talk about how she was a princess and that she was cute. This chick literally has a public video asking for discount in stores for being cute. I thought... how the fuck is this aqua even handling that princess high maintenance stupidity bullshit? They didn't last lol, obviously. The scorpio and he lasted only like 2 weeks lol.
Well, I do love complimenting people - I'm just awful at it. I try hard but I feel like whatever I say just ends up coming off as corny or dry. I do somewhat agree on the validation bit though. I just don't have it in me to babysit people's feelings, no matter how hard I try.
I dated a Pisces and Taurus, which I'm almost certain were both riddled with water placements. They were both very needy! I will say that I enjoyed my time with them while it lasted though.
Er, I know the Pisces had a ton of water placements, because I looked at her chart but I don't know for certain about the Taurus.
Posted by nanobyteoh yeah I forgot drastic time changes can change the sign. That's why I got confused about my moon sign when I was still in the process of finding out my birth time, cause I really didn't relate to the moon sign that it was telling me I was from the wrong birth time I receivedPosted by themilkyway36the birth time can change the moon. if you looked up random charts and put in 12:00am and then 11:59PM for birth times, the moon sign can change by 1 sign. Lol I have done it before on charts that I was unsure the birth times of lol.Posted by ireallydunnoYou don't need someone's birth time to calculate their moon signPosted by themilkyway36Posted by ireallydunnoOh so you're a double AquaPosted by themilkyway36Rising Sign is in Cancer
What are your moon signs?
Moon is in Aquarius
Mercury is in Capricorn
Venus is in Capricorn
Mars is in Pisces
What's her moon sign?
I'm not sure what her moon sign is. I haven't asked her about her birth time yet. >.>
But moon sign compatibility is very important as well so you should look up her chart and let us know
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But I find that most of the time when I look up people's charts that I know (but idk their birth times), it seems to be accurate to their personality
Posted by nanobytePosted by ireallydunnoI know what you mean because the aqua I was with years ago said the same exact thing, verbatim. It made him very uncomfortable to compliment people because it felt contrived for him.Posted by nanobyte
YES you are right - any watery woman/man who enters a relationship with an aquarius expecting constant validation will be sorely disappointed and irreparably hurt. LOL y'all don't fuck around with that, don't like to give compliments at all, especially when forced. I am a gemini sun and capricorn moon and I even at times felt deprived... ME! and I am NOT a needy person for the most part.
I remember his mischievous ways... I would search for compliments (come on... all women need them sometimes, aqua men!) and knowing that, and his stubbornness, he would purposefully avoid them and it became a bit of a game. I thought it was hilarious, but I am sure that a watery woman's feelings would simply be flat out hurt by that.
"Do I look okay today?"
"Yea you look okay, let's go with that"
😆
I find it odd that gemini are known as "liars", yet my 2 gemini men (currently engaged to one) have never lied to me, not once. I get lied to up and down by my family, friend, and ex aquas lol.
Also on the validation thing - did you happen to ever date a leo and/scorpio? Those are the two types of women that my ex dated after me. There is no way he would stroke the ego of a Leo. After doing some "research", I came to find that all she did was shop and talk about how she was a princess and that she was cute. This chick literally has a public video asking for discount in stores for being cute. I thought... how the fuck is this aqua even handling that princess high maintenance stupidity bullshit? They didn't last lol, obviously. The scorpio and he lasted only like 2 weeks lol.
Well, I do love complimenting people - I'm just awful at it. I try hard but I feel like whatever I say just ends up coming off as corny or dry. I do somewhat agree on the validation bit though. I just don't have it in me to babysit people's feelings, no matter how hard I try.
I dated a Pisces and Taurus, which I'm almost certain were both riddled with water placements. They were both very needy! I will say that I enjoyed my time with them while it lasted though.
Another good reason a gemini and aqua make a good pair - a gemini, unlike aqua, is good with words and can sell ice cubes to an eskimo lol. it's a nice balance.
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Yes that is EXACTLY how I feel. I know when something is nice and all that though.. I just wish more people understood that and didn't require all this superfluous BS. That being said, I do understand the desire and occasional need for compliments, so if I feel there really is a need to give one, I'll try my best and do it.. I just hope they don't expect me to give them 24/7 because it's seriously draining ;~;
And yes. I have Gemini friends that I can have amazing discussions with. They seem to bring the best out of me in that regard.
Also; I know a Gemini who's EXTREMELY manipulative, with a Taurus Mars and mostly Leo placements. I know another who's quite a liar. I like having conversations with both of them but don't understand why they lie.. It just doesn't seem like they need to because they're already great people, and everyone seems to enjoy their company, so I wonder what their goal is.
I am fully aware that doesn't nearly describe all Geminis, but the two that I'm referring to (especially one with Taurus Mars and several Leo placements) are ridiculous.. It's almost like they actually believe all the BS that comes out of their mouth.
OMG @ireallydunno.. you are just like my aqua. double aqua like @themilkyway36. what does it means as a double aqua
Posted by AnteroHaving the same sun and moon just means the traits of the sign are magnified and what the person feels is how they carry themselves too
OMG @ireallydunno.. you are just like my aqua. double aqua like @themilkyway36. what does it means as a double aqua
Omg aquarius dude are so cold, worst than virgoans. At least Virgo tries to make up for it.
Posted by questionoflustquestionoftrustWhat makes you say that?
Omg aquarius dude are so cold, worst than virgoans. At least Virgo tries to make up for it.
As an Aquarius that knows many other Aquas, I can safely state that if we fuck up, we'll try to make up for it somehow. Always for the people we hold dear.
Posted by ireallydunnoAqua rather look cool, than show their feelings, that's if they have any.Posted by questionoflustquestionoftrustWhat makes you say that?
Omg aquarius dude are so cold, worst than virgoans. At least Virgo tries to make up for it.
As an Aquarius that knows many other Aquas, I can safely state that if we fuck up, we'll try to make up for it somehow. Always for the people we hold dear.click to expand
Posted by ParanoidThank you for sharing your thoughts on that. :3
Hmm.... I'm a Gemini woman and I have never- Not once dated more than one guy at once. I'm loyal to the extreme. If I talk to a guy and I like him I will outright swerve every other man. Everyone is different I guess. My moon is leo and my rising is Cancer so maybe this is why. You have her in a relationship and I have an aqua male friend. If I wasn't such good friends with him then I'd go there. You guys are awesome a good laugh. However you do attract water signs.... My aqua friend flirts a lot with my pisces friend.... Not going to lie it irritates me but that's mainly because she has a boyfriend so she has no right to do that... Did I mention I'm extremely loya? I may put my ideals onto other people too. What I'm trying to say though is she's already yours. Aquarius guys are great so if you put that together the chances of her cheating are slim.
Posted by questionoflustquestionoftrustPosted by ireallydunnoAqua rather look cool, than show their feelings, that's if they have any.Posted by questionoflustquestionoftrustWhat makes you say that?
Omg aquarius dude are so cold, worst than virgoans. At least Virgo tries to make up for it.
As an Aquarius that knows many other Aquas, I can safely state that if we fuck up, we'll try to make up for it somehow. Always for the people we hold dear.
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It's not like that at all. It's just REALLY hard for us to show our true feelings, because maybe deep down we know they're a bit childish and somewhat.. pathetic?
That being said, I took your guys' advice on the whole communication thing and it worked wonders. Seriously. I say this because it normally really hurts to express my feelings (as in I'd rather have needles shoved into my skin than express how I feel), but I gave it a try and it really did work out in the end, and it makes me really happy because not only did we clear things up, but now I'm more confident in our relationship, and our ability to maintain it. So thank you! xD
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