Cheering up a Gem

This topic was created in the Gemini forum by aquasnoz on Thursday, January 14, 2016 and has 5 replies.

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@aquasnoz
14 Years10,000+ Posts

Alright I have zero idea on how to do this. I tend to just talk about a bunch of random things and make jokes but I have no clue as to if it's working. We do talk a lot of random shit lately but we're going into that really personal territory.

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@Pandala
12 YearsGemini

I agree, the other placements will help.

It could be as simple as a raspberry on the tummy or to just leave them alone with a neat Mandala design coloring book and some colored pencils.

Or it could be more complex... Whats the context here? Iff'in you don't mind me askin' :}

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@aquasnoz
14 Years10,000+ Posts

Don't have the exact but here:

Sun Gemini
Moon Pisces
Mercury Gemini R
Venus Taurus
Mars Leo
Jupiter Sagittarius
Saturn Pisces
Uranus Aquarius R
Neptune Capricorn R
Pluto Scorpio R

Started when she went away for holidays, this build up of travelling anxiety so I gave her a little protection charm. AFAIK it worked. Lately she's been talking to me about seeing a therapist, family issues... they seem to be dragging her down a bit.

I've taken her out on random trips, gave her books, watched movies, anything for her to get her mind off it or focus on it. She knows I went through a bit myself but I told her that I'll share when I feel it's right. Didn't want to make it to feel like a competition of who had it worse haha.

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@aquasnoz
14 Years10,000+ Posts

Oh we're not involved, I really like her because she was there for me in a pretty tough time few months ago, whether she knows it or not. I tend not to tell people that. I view her as a great friend and just want to see a smile on that face again.

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@aquasnoz
14 Years10,000+ Posts

oh and thank you! I tend to worry if I'm doing the right things half the time.

And when I say like think pisces moon like. I also never use that word because so many people tend to relate it to a 'romantic' like.

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@misslissa
17 Years1,000+ PostsGemini

Hey, Aquasnoz! I hope you are well! 🙂

You are actually doing great! Just keep letting her know she can unload without any judgement from you. Keep helping her, so she can help herself. And, if she smiles and then laughs, the cheering up is working!

🙂