Queenjohnson
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Cold and dist
Understanding Gemini's Cold and Distant Behavior
Gemini individuals may become distant due to needing mental space or feeling overwhelmed. Changes in communication could also indicate they are processing emotions or reevaluating the connection. It is important to communicate openly and give them time to express their feelings. Patience and understanding can help clarify the situation.
Posted by QueenjohnsonWhat were your texts like? Were they flirty, playful? Banter? Emojis? Funny?
Aries female here
I started talking to this Gemini guy were pretty cool until 3 days afterwards he started being really cold and distant, he use to reply to my texts reaĺly fast now it will take him day or two or non at all. I don't know what I did to him for him to turn cold against me.
He probably doesnt want to seem to clingy by textin u all the time. I mean thats what i do with every female. Soon as i feel im being clingy i pull back and act a lil distant. Even though they say im nowhere near clingy
Yeah, don't 'bout it everything will be okay.
Posted by yung_wisegemDo u pull back to see how much a girl likes you? Or because you want to create a healthy balance?
He probably doesnt want to seem to clingy by textin u all the time. I mean thats what i do with every female. Soon as i feel im being clingy i pull back and act a lil distant. Even though they say im nowhere near clingy
Posted by MoonbutterUhhh. Its really both. I pull back just to see if a girl likes me just enough to see if she can put up with my somewhat erratic ways?. But then i also want to keep the balance like u said.. i want her to know i care without smothering her ya know? Idk being clingy to me is being needy. So i would rather my gurl to want me not need mePosted by yung_wisegemDo u pull back to see how much a girl likes you? Or because you want to create a healthy balance?
He probably doesnt want to seem to clingy by textin u all the time. I mean thats what i do with every female. Soon as i feel im being clingy i pull back and act a lil distant. Even though they say im nowhere near clingyclick to expand
Posted by yung_wisegemYes, I understand 🙂Posted by MoonbutterUhhh. Its really both. I pull back just to see if a girl likes me just enough to see if she can put up with my somewhat erratic ways?. But then i also want to keep the balance like u said.. i want her to know i care without smothering her ya know? Idk being clingy to me is being needy. So i would rather my gurl to want me not need mePosted by yung_wisegemDo u pull back to see how much a girl likes you? Or because you want to create a healthy balance?
He probably doesnt want to seem to clingy by textin u all the time. I mean thats what i do with every female. Soon as i feel im being clingy i pull back and act a lil distant. Even though they say im nowhere near clingyclick to expand
Posted by MoonbutterU know a lil too much about us gems?Posted by yung_wisegemYes, I understand 🙂Posted by MoonbutterUhhh. Its really both. I pull back just to see if a girl likes me just enough to see if she can put up with my somewhat erratic ways?. But then i also want to keep the balance like u said.. i want her to know i care without smothering her ya know? Idk being clingy to me is being needy. So i would rather my gurl to want me not need mePosted by yung_wisegemDo u pull back to see how much a girl likes you? Or because you want to create a healthy balance?
He probably doesnt want to seem to clingy by textin u all the time. I mean thats what i do with every female. Soon as i feel im being clingy i pull back and act a lil distant. Even though they say im nowhere near clingyclick to expand
Posted by yung_wisegem? I've had 2 LTR and currently in another with a Gem... I really can't see myself with any other sign ??♀️ my Gem Mars attracts them and I'm soo attracted to them...Posted by MoonbutterU know a lil too much about us gems?Posted by yung_wisegemYes, I understand 🙂Posted by MoonbutterUhhh. Its really both. I pull back just to see if a girl likes me just enough to see if she can put up with my somewhat erratic ways?. But then i also want to keep the balance like u said.. i want her to know i care without smothering her ya know? Idk being clingy to me is being needy. So i would rather my gurl to want me not need mePosted by yung_wisegemDo u pull back to see how much a girl likes you? Or because you want to create a healthy balance?
He probably doesnt want to seem to clingy by textin u all the time. I mean thats what i do with every female. Soon as i feel im being clingy i pull back and act a lil distant. Even though they say im nowhere near clingyclick to expand
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