Cold and dist

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Moonbutter
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Posted by Queenjohnson
Aries female here

I started talking to this Gemini guy were pretty cool until 3 days afterwards he started being really cold and distant, he use to reply to my texts reaĺly fast now it will take him day or two or non at all. I don't know what I did to him for him to turn cold against me.
What were your texts like? Were they flirty, playful? Banter? Emojis? Funny?
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YFN_Rosebudd
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He probably doesnt want to seem to clingy by textin u all the time. I mean thats what i do with every female. Soon as i feel im being clingy i pull back and act a lil distant. Even though they say im nowhere near clingy
Do u pull back to see how much a girl likes you? Or because you want to create a healthy balance?
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Uhhh. Its really both. I pull back just to see if a girl likes me just enough to see if she can put up with my somewhat erratic ways?. But then i also want to keep the balance like u said.. i want her to know i care without smothering her ya know? Idk being clingy to me is being needy. So i would rather my gurl to want me not need me
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Posted by yung_wisegem
He probably doesnt want to seem to clingy by textin u all the time. I mean thats what i do with every female. Soon as i feel im being clingy i pull back and act a lil distant. Even though they say im nowhere near clingy
Do u pull back to see how much a girl likes you? Or because you want to create a healthy balance?
Uhhh. Its really both. I pull back just to see if a girl likes me just enough to see if she can put up with my somewhat erratic ways?. But then i also want to keep the balance like u said.. i want her to know i care without smothering her ya know? Idk being clingy to me is being needy. So i would rather my gurl to want me not need me
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Yes, I understand 🙂
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YFN_Rosebudd
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Posted by yung_wisegem
Posted by Moonbutter
Posted by yung_wisegem
He probably doesnt want to seem to clingy by textin u all the time. I mean thats what i do with every female. Soon as i feel im being clingy i pull back and act a lil distant. Even though they say im nowhere near clingy
Do u pull back to see how much a girl likes you? Or because you want to create a healthy balance?
Uhhh. Its really both. I pull back just to see if a girl likes me just enough to see if she can put up with my somewhat erratic ways?. But then i also want to keep the balance like u said.. i want her to know i care without smothering her ya know? Idk being clingy to me is being needy. So i would rather my gurl to want me not need me
Yes, I understand 🙂
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U know a lil too much about us gems?
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Posted by yung_wisegem
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Posted by yung_wisegem
Posted by Moonbutter
Posted by yung_wisegem
He probably doesnt want to seem to clingy by textin u all the time. I mean thats what i do with every female. Soon as i feel im being clingy i pull back and act a lil distant. Even though they say im nowhere near clingy
Do u pull back to see how much a girl likes you? Or because you want to create a healthy balance?
Uhhh. Its really both. I pull back just to see if a girl likes me just enough to see if she can put up with my somewhat erratic ways?. But then i also want to keep the balance like u said.. i want her to know i care without smothering her ya know? Idk being clingy to me is being needy. So i would rather my gurl to want me not need me
Yes, I understand 🙂
U know a lil too much about us gems?
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? I've had 2 LTR and currently in another with a Gem... I really can't see myself with any other sign ??‍♀️ my Gem Mars attracts them and I'm soo attracted to them...