crush on a Gemini boy- does he know ?

Bit apprehensive to post on here but maybe I'll get some good feedback lol

I met a Gemini guy about 7 months ago, I was working in a bar and approached him to ask him if he wanted to buy drinks (this was my job to do btw)

I got to talking to him and instantly liked him, he met up with me a couple of times after that and I always thought we'd really got on. I found him so handsome and could tell he was super intelligent!

I had lent him a book of mine after he said he'd be interested in reading it, after seeing him at work ( a different job) a couple times he'd always say 'we should meet up for a reading session' lol

I tried to follow him up on it one time, he said he wasn't in the city. But, I saw him walking so I text him and said 'you must have a really handsome twin bc i just seen you type think

I mentioned it in a light hearted way and thought I'd make it more of a compliment- I'm sure he did leave to go do other things that day but I couldn't just not mention it lol found it funny id caught him out a bit !

I have seen him a couple of times since and every time we say hey, one time he said he thought about me alot and we agreed there was a connection, but again, nothing came of it. Hes always complimentary saying im a wonderful person but he just seems to pull away kinda.

The time after that I saw him he was with a girl and they were dancing together but he said hey to me. I don't think he's really the serious dating kind bc i get that vibe off of him, i wasn't upset or anything. I posted a pic of me with a guy the next day which he opened,. And then I deleted him off of social media bc it was beginning to drive me a bit insane which it still is, think he recognized and deleted me back.

So I was wondering if gems are always like this? is he still thinking about me and should i reach out to him? or should i just leave it and hope he comes to me one day? think about him most days and its sending me a bit crazy bc it has been so many months.

Did he ever try to touch you in a flirty way? And where did you guys meet up before? Did he pay?

You would know if he was into you.

Yea his behaviour seems pretty normal. Please dont take the flaky-ness personally 😆 its very difficult t explain but I assume hes the kind to do it often. Just be cool with it and joke about it...act like its totally cool. Coz thats exactly what we do when we're caught out like you did. Advice? Add him back on social media and dm him that you were dealing with moodswings(use funny emojs) and you're over it now. Act Extremely casual but still communicate in a way thats unique to your relationship.

I personally...rate my foreplay and courtship game very highly 😆. but my follow through is pathetic. Hes gona flake out as he deals with many different things in his life. Show him you can still stick around and always be a bright happy person whenever you see him. Dont be afraid to be spontaneous...its likely to work in your favour

Just enjoy the journey of getting to know one another...Gems like to take things slow aka “their terms” lol but seriously, what’s the rush?

Posted by Moonbutter
Did he ever try to touch you in a flirty way? And where did you guys meet up before? Did he pay?

No and no we didn't go out to do anything, I insisted we went on a drive instead.

Posted by Moonbutter
Just enjoy the journey of getting to know one another...Gems like to take things slow aka “their terms” lol but seriously, what’s the rush?

I would, but I haven't spoken to him in months. I don't know if you read my post, but I haven't seen/spoken to him in probably 2-3 months.

So I don't know whether to leave it and save embarrassment, or send him a message.

Posted by GoingNowhereSlowly
Yea his behaviour seems pretty normal. Please dont take the flaky-ness personally its very difficult t explain but I assume hes the kind to do it often. Just be cool with it and joke about it...act like its totally cool. Coz thats exactly what we do when we're caught out like you did. Advice? Add him back on social media and dm him that you were dealing with moodswings(use funny emojs) and you're over it now. Act Extremely casual but still communicate in a way thats unique to your relationship.
I personally...rate my foreplay and courtship game very highly. but my follow through is pathetic. Hes gona flake out as he deals with many different things in his life. Show him you can still stick around and always be a bright happy person whenever you see him. Dont be afraid to be spontaneous...its likely to work in your favour

Thanks for your advice! I just don't want to embarrass myself by messaging him when I haven't spoken to him in months.

Posted by taurusffff

Posted by Moonbutter
Just enjoy the journey of getting to know one another...Gems like to take things slow aka “their terms” lol but seriously, what’s the rush?

I would, but I haven't spoken to him in months. I don't know if you read my post, but I haven't seen/spoken to him in probably 2-3 months.
So I don't know whether to leave it and save embarrassment, or send him a message. click to expand

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Ok, so Gems are some of the easiest going. What I used to do with Gems is just send a silly meme or GIF and see if they laugh and reciprocate. Then you will know what’s up