Disappeared Or Gone For Good?

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Urbanhippie1
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9 Years

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I met a Gemini guy in his early 50's a few months ago out of town and I didn't take him to serious (I'm a Sagittarius in my mid 40's). He asked could he have my phone number and I said no and that I was seeing somebody (and I was). He stayed on my mind, why I don't know for about 6 weeks later I asked his friend for his phone number and he authorized the request. We texted and talked on the phone everyday for 4 weeks until I went to visit. It was an amazing weekend of conversation, outings, and sex. The attractions was once in a lifetime AMAZING! I was supposed to meet his other friends but I wanted to leave the event early because I was tired. I returned home and we continued talking and texting and came up with plans for me to come back in a couple of weeks and he offered for me to stay at his house and utilize his car while he was at work. He also referred his place as "our place" a couple of times. A couple of days after booking flight arrangements he said something that hurt my feelings, I told him and he apologize. He texted me the next day to see if I had returned from another trip and I told him I would call him later. He didn't answer my call. I texted him and told him I don't do the ignoring thing to well do you want to continue to pursue this or are we done. He texted back and said that we were good. A day went by where I didn't contact and he didn't contact me but I did text him the next day to tell him to contact me when he got a chance as he was out of town for the weekend. I didn't hear from him until I contacted him that Sunday to see if he was still expecting me that Wednesday as discussed. He texted me back and said no I haven't heard from you. I tried to call and he said he couldn't talk he was I work and I sent a nasty text detailing my feelings. I haven't heard from him since and it's been 3 weeks. Is he gone for good?
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RealTalk
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You're initiating too much. Also you shouldn't have to contact him TO TELL HIM to contact you. That's just absurd. Doesn't sound that interested to me, besides you contact him after you blew his advances off. You said you were seeing someone...um...—

Some people mistake a Geminis flirtation or them talking to you as a sign that they're into you. Most of the time they're blowing smoke up your ass to pass time, or they're bored. He's in his 50s wtf? He's probably married.
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I met a Gemini guy in his early 50's a few months ago out of town and I didn't take him to serious (I'm a Sagittarius in my mid 40's). He asked could he have my phone number and I said no and that I was seeing somebody (and I was). He stayed on my mind, why I don't know for about 6 weeks later I asked his friend for his phone number and he authorized the request. We texted and talked on the phone everyday for 4 weeks until I went to visit. It was an amazing weekend of conversation, outings, and sex. The attractions was once in a lifetime AMAZING! I was supposed to meet his other friends but I wanted to leave the event early because I was tired. I returned home and we continued talking and texting and came up with plans for me to come back in a couple of weeks and he offered for me to stay at his house and utilize his car while he was at work. He also referred his place as "our place" a couple of times. A couple of days after booking flight arrangements he said something that hurt my feelings, I told him and he apologize. He texted me the next day to see if I had returned from another trip and I told him I would call him later. He didn't answer my call. I texted him and told him I don't do the ignoring thing to well do you want to continue to pursue this or are we done. He texted back and said that we were good. A day went by where I didn't contact and he didn't contact me but I did text him the next day to tell him to contact me when he got a chance as he was out of town for the weekend. I didn't hear from him until I contacted him that Sunday to see if he was still expecting me that Wednesday as discussed. He texted me back and said no I haven't heard from you. I tried to call and he said he couldn't talk he was I work and I sent a nasty text detailing my feelings. I haven't heard from him since and it's been 3 weeks. Is he gone for good?


You told him you were seeing someone...did you let him know that you weren't seeing anyone anymore ? Or did you leave it as open ?