surferpisces
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do geminis feel or only appear hot and cold
Gemini moon here. I constantly flip flop my emotions. However, the 8th house makes me believe fully that how im feeling is passionate and deep.
In my experience as a Gemini sun, I'm never comfortable even if the woman I'm with is great. We over think a lot so it keeps us on edge and hot and cold is a natural thing. We never know for sure so I try to stay present when in a moment with someone.
Posted by CobycoWhat is your moon sign?
In my experience as a Gemini sun, I'm never comfortable even if the woman I'm with is great. We over think a lot so it keeps us on edge and hot and cold is a natural thing. We never know for sure so I try to stay present when in a moment with someone.
Posted by MissMScorpio moonPosted by CobycoWhat is your moon sign?
In my experience as a Gemini sun, I'm never comfortable even if the woman I'm with is great. We over think a lot so it keeps us on edge and hot and cold is a natural thing. We never know for sure so I try to stay present when in a moment with someone.click to expand
Posted by surferpiscesIn my experience I think it's when it's wrong person and or wrong timing ... either way it's just wrong for them, hence the back and forth so just best to move it along.
Are geminis actually flighty and distant in relationships because they FEEL that way, or do geminis just appear hot and cold even when they know they want something?
is it more related to their moon sign?
If I'm interested and I know you are also I'm pretty obvious about it.
When I am unsure though I can be hot and cold.. if I feel like I'm doing too much then I'll be hot and cold. Just depends really...
I think it's safe to say with all Gems, if we want something we try our best to get it. Kind of go into things head first but we need to really want it.
When I am unsure though I can be hot and cold.. if I feel like I'm doing too much then I'll be hot and cold. Just depends really...
I think it's safe to say with all Gems, if we want something we try our best to get it. Kind of go into things head first but we need to really want it.
@tino
Haha, I've been killed (by a June Gem) and recovered too 😄
When you say "You must separate every aspects of your life to its fullest", what do you mean? No common hobbies, or taking interest in his?
Haha, I've been killed (by a June Gem) and recovered too 😄
When you say "You must separate every aspects of your life to its fullest", what do you mean? No common hobbies, or taking interest in his?
@tino You talk like a Gemini. You have become the Gemini. 😐
How is it exactly that you two were killed by June Geminis? What did they do?
Posted by heliumfiascoI've been seeing a gem with cancer moon and he is flip floppy as hell. Do you do this because you are unsure? I just do my own stuff and pretend I don't notice it...
Gemini moon here. I constantly flip flop my emotions. However, the 8th house makes me believe fully that how im feeling is passionate and deep.
I'm a gemini moon and I get cold/distant when I feel like I'm stuck in a rot, I crave change and learning new things. Boredom = death to me. I'm scorpio dominant, so I'm very loyal still, but if I get bored I eventually drift away and bounce. I've also noticed myself get cold with guys who are more emotional than me, like I'm super emotional as it is (on top of all my scorpio placements, my gemini is in the 8th house too so...) and I need the guy I'm dating to be stronger and tougher for me. If I realise I'm dating a cry baby I get super awkward about it and drift away.
With friends I'm not flighty at all though, I'm basically the glue that keeps my friend group together lol.
With friends I'm not flighty at all though, I'm basically the glue that keeps my friend group together lol.
Posted by natsKilled me as his girlfriend=ended the relationship.
How is it exactly that you two were killed by June Geminis? What did they do?
Then he most likely went on dating someone who couldn't care less about him. I "know" it, because about 4-6 weeks after the breakup, he was liking/ sharing lamentations on FB, something he never did before or after...."Nobody is that busy...it depends on what number you are one their priority list"; "Do not hurt anyone...it takes a minute to hurt someone you like and (years ?) to heal"; "Men also deserve to feel appreciated....(a list followed)". And many other lamentations I can't remember....
I felt vindicated 😄
Posted by UndineLol fair! Why did he end it? If it's too personal you don't need to respond.Posted by natsKilled me as his girlfriend=ended the relationship.
How is it exactly that you two were killed by June Geminis? What did they do?
Then he most likely went on dating someone who couldn't care less about him. I "know" it, because about 4-6 weeks after the breakup, he was liking/ sharing lamentations on FB, something he never did before or after...."Nobody is that busy...it depends on what number you are one their priority list"; "Do not hurt anyone...it takes a minute to hurt someone you like and (years ?) to heal"; "Men also deserve to feel appreciated....(a list followed)". And many other lamentations I can't remember....
I felt vindicated 😄click to expand
How long were you together? Did you fall in love fast?
Posted by natsIt took me 6-7 months to fall in love, since he was a bit awkward, very un-Gemini, to begin with. I had a take it or leave it attitude towards our relationship during that time.Posted by UndineLol fair! Why did he end it? If it's too personal you don't need to respond.Posted by natsKilled me as his girlfriend=ended the relationship.
How is it exactly that you two were killed by June Geminis? What did they do?
Then he most likely went on dating someone who couldn't care less about him. I "know" it, because about 4-6 weeks after the breakup, he was liking/ sharing lamentations on FB, something he never did before or after...."Nobody is that busy...it depends on what number you are one their priority list"; "Do not hurt anyone...it takes a minute to hurt someone you like and (years ?) to heal"; "Men also deserve to feel appreciated....(a list followed)". And many other lamentations I can't remember....
I felt vindicated 😄
How long were you together? Did you fall in love fast?
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He ended it after 2 years, two weeks after he tried to re-schedule a date and couldn't reach me by phone. He said that our relationship has lost momentum, that I did not do enough things together with him and that he had enough of my relationship with an old friend and colleague (another Pisces).
Oh, forgot to mention that I was in love with another man (my Aqua ex) during the first months of our relationship 😄
Posted by goatI agree. However, he did appreciate my friendship and still does. We liked each other as well...he said that I was nothing but lovely. I think he needs someone who uses and abuses him (like his previous Leo wife or the mad Aqua he dated afterwards, not a friend...Posted by UndineI read a study a few months back that saud if your SO doesn't like your friends your relationship is as good as dead.Posted by natsIt took me 6-7 months to fall in love, since he was a bit awkward, very un-Gemini, to begin with. I had a take it or leave it attitude towards our relationship during that time.Posted by UndineLol fair! Why did he end it? If it's too personal you don't need to respond.Posted by natsKilled me as his girlfriend=ended the relationship.
How is it exactly that you two were killed by June Geminis? What did they do?
Then he most likely went on dating someone who couldn't care less about him. I "know" it, because about 4-6 weeks after the breakup, he was liking/ sharing lamentations on FB, something he never did before or after...."Nobody is that busy...it depends on what number you are one their priority list"; "Do not hurt anyone...it takes a minute to hurt someone you like and (years ?) to heal"; "Men also deserve to feel appreciated....(a list followed)". And many other lamentations I can't remember....
I felt vindicated 😄
How long were you together? Did you fall in love fast?
He ended it after 2 years, two weeks after he tried to re-schedule a date and couldn't reach me by phone. He said that our relationship has lost momentum, that I did not do enough things together with him and that he had enough of my relationship with an old friend and colleague (another Pisces).click to expand
you need to be a lil Krazy for Gemini ?
Posted by Moonbutter
you need to be a lil Krazy for Gemini ?
So true! Krazy is fun and interesting 😄
I have gem in moon, Venus, and Jupiter, and I wouldn't even call it hot/cold. I can understand that this is how it comes off to others, but to the gem it is simply what is and isn't interesting. And what can be interesting in one moment, can be a total bore in the next. I guess what I'm trying to say is that coming off as cold isn't intended.
Speaking for myself, what I feel is mostly superficial until I can analyze the emotion and process it. However this might take time I am not willing to spend. If that is the case, I will move on to the next thing. But if the feeling is allowed to be processed, and felt deeper down, it is very real, and very strong. If the feeling is positive and exciting, I will crave more of it. But if it's hurtful and negative, I won't want to play anymore, let alone take it seriously.
My cancer sun allows me to take in and process emotion a little easier and more efficiently, but gem energy is so influential in my chart, that trying to process a constant flux of emotion can be overwhelming, and I look for the nearest escape route.
Speaking for myself, what I feel is mostly superficial until I can analyze the emotion and process it. However this might take time I am not willing to spend. If that is the case, I will move on to the next thing. But if the feeling is allowed to be processed, and felt deeper down, it is very real, and very strong. If the feeling is positive and exciting, I will crave more of it. But if it's hurtful and negative, I won't want to play anymore, let alone take it seriously.
My cancer sun allows me to take in and process emotion a little easier and more efficiently, but gem energy is so influential in my chart, that trying to process a constant flux of emotion can be overwhelming, and I look for the nearest escape route.
Posted by CrabraAbsolutely ? The good kind of crazy ?Posted by Moonbutter
you need to be a lil Krazy for Gemini ?
So true! Krazy is fun and interesting 😄
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Posted by UndineHe tried for 2 wks to re schedule and couldn't reach you? Lol if so, id be angry too!Posted by natsIt took me 6-7 months to fall in love, since he was a bit awkward, very un-Gemini, to begin with. I had a take it or leave it attitude towards our relationship during that time.Posted by UndineLol fair! Why did he end it? If it's too personal you don't need to respond.Posted by natsKilled me as his girlfriend=ended the relationship.
How is it exactly that you two were killed by June Geminis? What did they do?
Then he most likely went on dating someone who couldn't care less about him. I "know" it, because about 4-6 weeks after the breakup, he was liking/ sharing lamentations on FB, something he never did before or after...."Nobody is that busy...it depends on what number you are one their priority list"; "Do not hurt anyone...it takes a minute to hurt someone you like and (years ?) to heal"; "Men also deserve to feel appreciated....(a list followed)". And many other lamentations I can't remember....
I felt vindicated 😄
How long were you together? Did you fall in love fast?
He ended it after 2 years, two weeks after he tried to re-schedule a date and couldn't reach me by phone. He said that our relationship has lost momentum, that I did not do enough things together with him and that he had enough of my relationship with an old friend and colleague (another Pisces).click to expand
Posted by UndineSo why did you date the Gemini if you were in love with someone else?
Oh, forgot to mention that I was in love with another man (my Aqua ex) during the first months of our relationship 😄
Posted by goatCancer Mercury and Pisces Moon. His mum called him a "glutton for punishment"Posted by UndineLikes to be used and abused? Sounds more like a water sign than a Gemini. Cancer or pisces.Posted by goatI agree. However, he did appreciate my friendship and still does. We liked each other as well...he said that I was nothing but lovely. I think he needs someone who uses and abuses him (like his previous Leo wife or the mad Aqua he dated afterwards, not a friend...Posted by UndineI read a study a few months back that saud if your SO doesn't like your friends your relationship is as good as dead.Posted by natsIt took me 6-7 months to fall in love, since he was a bit awkward, very un-Gemini, to begin with. I had a take it or leave it attitude towards our relationship during that time.Posted by UndineLol fair! Why did he end it? If it's too personal you don't need to respond.Posted by natsKilled me as his girlfriend=ended the relationship.
How is it exactly that you two were killed by June Geminis? What did they do?
Then he most likely went on dating someone who couldn't care less about him. I "know" it, because about 4-6 weeks after the breakup, he was liking/ sharing lamentations on FB, something he never did before or after...."Nobody is that busy...it depends on what number you are one their priority list"; "Do not hurt anyone...it takes a minute to hurt someone you like and (years ?) to heal"; "Men also deserve to feel appreciated....(a list followed)". And many other lamentations I can't remember....
I felt vindicated 😄
How long were you together? Did you fall in love fast?
He ended it after 2 years, two weeks after he tried to re-schedule a date and couldn't reach me by phone. He said that our relationship has lost momentum, that I did not do enough things together with him and that he had enough of my relationship with an old friend and colleague (another Pisces).click to expand
Posted by natsBecause that "someone else" moved 300 miles away for good.Posted by UndineSo why did you date the Gemini if you were in love with someone else?
Oh, forgot to mention that I was in love with another man (my Aqua ex) during the first months of our relationship 😄
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Posted by natsNo...he tried once and then refused to see me for 2 weeks.Posted by UndineHe tried for 2 wks to re schedule and couldn't reach you? Lol if so, id be angry too!Posted by natsIt took me 6-7 months to fall in love, since he was a bit awkward, very un-Gemini, to begin with. I had a take it or leave it attitude towards our relationship during that time.Posted by UndineLol fair! Why did he end it? If it's too personal you don't need to respond.Posted by natsKilled me as his girlfriend=ended the relationship.
How is it exactly that you two were killed by June Geminis? What did they do?
Then he most likely went on dating someone who couldn't care less about him. I "know" it, because about 4-6 weeks after the breakup, he was liking/ sharing lamentations on FB, something he never did before or after...."Nobody is that busy...it depends on what number you are one their priority list"; "Do not hurt anyone...it takes a minute to hurt someone you like and (years ?) to heal"; "Men also deserve to feel appreciated....(a list followed)". And many other lamentations I can't remember....
I felt vindicated 😄
How long were you together? Did you fall in love fast?
He ended it after 2 years, two weeks after he tried to re-schedule a date and couldn't reach me by phone. He said that our relationship has lost momentum, that I did not do enough things together with him and that he had enough of my relationship with an old friend and colleague (another Pisces).
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Right. Well he sounds like an ass ?
Gemini moon here. I usually appear hot and cold yes. And I've experienced the same with other two close friends that have the moon in gemini. But the three of us are very affectionate and giving. When we like something or someone it's for life and I'm never hot and cold. But our focus can change quickly, so I understand if from the outside others might see us as hot and cold. It's not, it's just that we have a short attention span.
As for gemini suns, I really don't get them. They always seem so superficial to me. So emotionless. I have two good friends gemini and to my eyes it's like there's nothing underneath their expressions. They both have a very good poker face. You can never tell what they are thinking. But they aren't hot and cold, they are just plain, cagey and smiley. But I love both of them. I just wait for their actions to speak louder than their expressions.
As for gemini suns, I really don't get them. They always seem so superficial to me. So emotionless. I have two good friends gemini and to my eyes it's like there's nothing underneath their expressions. They both have a very good poker face. You can never tell what they are thinking. But they aren't hot and cold, they are just plain, cagey and smiley. But I love both of them. I just wait for their actions to speak louder than their expressions.
Posted by goatShe is Scorpio with Cap moon. He tried to be, but she never appreciated him as much as he wanted. He once cut contact with her for one year when he believed that she loved her elder son (another Scorpio) more than him!Posted by UndineMakes sense. What sign is his mom? Is he a "mama's boy?"Posted by goatCancer Mercury and Pisces Moon. His mum called him a "glutton for punishment"Posted by UndineLikes to be used and abused? Sounds more like a water sign than a Gemini. Cancer or pisces.Posted by goatI agree. However, he did appreciate my friendship and still does. We liked each other as well...he said that I was nothing but lovely. I think he needs someone who uses and abuses him (like his previous Leo wife or the mad Aqua he dated afterwards, not a friend...Posted by UndineI read a study a few months back that saud if your SO doesn't like your friends your relationship is as good as dead.Posted by natsIt took me 6-7 months to fall in love, since he was a bit awkward, very un-Gemini, to begin with. I had a take it or leave it attitude towards our relationship during that time.Posted by UndineLol fair! Why did he end it? If it's too personal you don't need to respond.Posted by natsKilled me as his girlfriend=ended the relationship.
How is it exactly that you two were killed by June Geminis? What did they do?
Then he most likely went on dating someone who couldn't care less about him. I "know" it, because about 4-6 weeks after the breakup, he was liking/ sharing lamentations on FB, something he never did before or after...."Nobody is that busy...it depends on what number you are one their priority list"; "Do not hurt anyone...it takes a minute to hurt someone you like and (years ?) to heal"; "Men also deserve to feel appreciated....(a list followed)". And many other lamentations I can't remember....
I felt vindicated 😄
How long were you together? Did you fall in love fast?
He ended it after 2 years, two weeks after he tried to re-schedule a date and couldn't reach me by phone. He said that our relationship has lost momentum, that I did not do enough things together with him and that he had enough of my relationship with an old friend and colleague (another Pisces).click to expand
I thought that the fact that I was "nothing like her" (in his own words) was a good omen, but I was wrong.
Posted by surferpiscesWe only cold when we don't really care about you...
Are geminis actually flighty and distant in relationships because they FEEL that way, or do geminis just appear hot and cold even when they know they want something?
is it more related to their moon sign?
Posted by CobycoPosted by MissMScorpio moonPosted by CobycoWhat is your moon sign?
In my experience as a Gemini sun, I'm never comfortable even if the woman I'm with is great. We over think a lot so it keeps us on edge and hot and cold is a natural thing. We never know for sure so I try to stay present when in a moment with someone.click to expand
how to know the moon sign? what's 30 May moon sign?
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Him
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Sun: Gemini
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Mars: cancer
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What do you guys think of this pairing , I feel so different with him .. hmm or is just the physical ?
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