Do you Reply to your exes or ignore?

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I only have one ex that I probably will always reply to and that is my Taurus ex. All the others wouldn't even get a response from me. He has some type of hold on me and I always talk to him no matter what. He is the same way towards me. We haven't dated for two years but still talk everyday © and it is because I miss him but even when I found other partners he has still remained...maybe I should work on removing him but I think I'd be sad if I did and he would fee the same. I wouldn't say that I'm a watery gem but I do attribute this lingering that is happening to my cancer Venus
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Posted by GemWoman92
I only have one ex that I probably will always reply to and that is my Taurus ex. All the others wouldn't even get a response from me. He has some type of hold on me and I always talk to him no matter what. He is the same way towards me. We haven't dated for two years but still talk everyday © and it is because I miss him but even when I found other partners he has still remained...maybe I should work on removing him but I think I'd be sad if I did and he would fee the same. I wouldn't say that I'm a watery gem but I do attribute this lingering that is happening to my cancer Venus
Aww yes, Cancer venus will do that...can I ask if there is any chance you guys might reconcile in the future?
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I only have one ex that I probably will always reply to and that is my Taurus ex. All the others wouldn't even get a response from me. He has some type of hold on me and I always talk to him no matter what. He is the same way towards me. We haven't dated for two years but still talk everyday © and it is because I miss him but even when I found other partners he has still remained...maybe I should work on removing him but I think I'd be sad if I did and he would fee the same. I wouldn't say that I'm a watery gem but I do attribute this lingering that is happening to my cancer Venus
Aww yes, Cancer venus will do that...can I ask if there is any chance you guys might reconcile in the future?
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I honestly don't know. He has a history of cheating but he also hasn't really dated anyone in the time we've been apart like I have. One day I will have to sit down and talk to him about it but the problem that arises with this is I hate talking about my feelings (Aquarius moon). He can't stand it at this little fault of mine also attributed to why we didn't work the first two times. Who knows, third time might be the charm lol🙈
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My scorpio ex keep messaging me on fb. And I never add/ignore his friend requests. So he deletes the request and resends a new one!!! I dont even read his messages. My taurus ex got in touch with me few times. I was friendly to him. Casual talks. He was very loving and when I broke up with him, he was truly hurt. And he is a great guy. So I treat him accordingly. But no tender feelings whatsoever for them. My scorpio ex cheated on me multiple times and it was an abusive relationship. No respect for him. But no grudges also.
Plus did i tell you I'm happily married to an amazingly great and hot Aries guy since 2009 :-)

never had the pleasure of dating an Aries 😢. I'm slightly jealous lol
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This is interesting...do you think time makes a difference? My gem ex and me have been communicating via messages since oct on and off, friendly. We were together over 14 years ago! I initiated it after good ole fb reconnected us lol...he responded, became very flirty but it stopped for a bit which was fine then on Xmas day he starts messaging again..I think I'd like to see him again due to the time that's passed but normally wouldn't do with an ex.. I replied to him the other day when he messaged and thought I would give him a bit of flattery.. he asked me right out if i was trying to flirt with him, in a nice enough way, I said yeah and heard nothing back. Oh well, lol. He's a gem with cancer in venus and mars in virgo. Hoping I haven't scared him off, for friends if nothing else!
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This is interesting...do you think time makes a difference? My gem ex and me have been communicating via messages since oct on and off, friendly. We were together over 14 years ago! I initiated it after good ole fb reconnected us lol...he responded, became very flirty but it stopped for a bit which was fine then on Xmas day he starts messaging again..I think I'd like to see him again due to the time that's passed but normally wouldn't do with an ex.. I replied to him the other day when he messaged and thought I would give him a bit of flattery.. he asked me right out if i was trying to flirt with him, in a nice enough way, I said yeah and heard nothing back. Oh well, lol. He's a gem with cancer in venus and mars in virgo. Hoping I haven't scared him off, for friends if nothing else!

Do you know if he is currently seeing someone. I would do something like thus if an old flame I truly liked came back and made me doubt my current situation. I have cancer venus and a Taurus mars
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I only have one ex that I probably will always reply to and that is my Taurus ex. All the others wouldn't even get a response from me. He has some type of hold on me and I always talk to him no matter what. He is the same way towards me. We haven't dated for two years but still talk everyday © and it is because I miss him but even when I found other partners he has still remained...maybe I should work on removing him but I think I'd be sad if I did and he would fee the same. I wouldn't say that I'm a watery gem but I do attribute this lingering that is happening to my cancer Venus
Aww yes, Cancer venus will do that...can I ask if there is any chance you guys might reconcile in the future?

I honestly don't know. He has a history of cheating but he also hasn't really dated anyone in the time we've been apart like I have. One day I will have to sit down and talk to him about it but the problem that arises with this is I hate talking about my feelings (Aquarius moon). He can't stand it at this little fault of mine also attributed to why we didn't work the first two times. Who knows, third time might be the charm lol🙈
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Oh my goodness, yes my recent ex is Gemini w/Aqua Moon soo hard to get past that barrier and form an emotional connection 😢 Why is it hard to discuss emotions? Is it because you are not sure how to express them verbally? I'm intrigued 😄
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Hiya ta for input Š...He was in the Oct, nothing long term. We have mutual friends so I found this out which was why I didn't pursue the messaging back then but they split beginning of December...he told me without prompting he had no ties when he got back in touch at xmas...i remember him being a slow burner back in the day lol, took him a bit to ask me out.
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@moonbutter. Well I just always doubt that the other person really cares about my feelings. It's also hard for me to open up to people. I like to write my feelings down instead of verbalizing them. I found that writing letters to past lovers has helped me to express my feelings. Lol I just need to get over my emotional shyness. I don't like talking to people about their feelings either but I'm a really caring person. It's just weird. lol
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@moonbutter. Well I just always doubt that the other person really cares about my feelings. It's also hard for me to open up to people. I like to write my feelings down instead of verbalizing them. I found that writing letters to past lovers has helped me to express my feelings. Lol I just need to get over my emotional shyness. I don't like talking to people about their feelings either but I'm a really caring person. It's just weird. lol
I think I get it GemWoman92, it's like me (a Cancer) trying to verbalize logical thinking...so would it be better if a former lover of yours wrote their feelings to you rather then express verbally?
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Hey Gems, the infamous communicators of the Zodiac 😛 Do you typically respond if an ex reaches out or ignore? If you reply is it because you miss them, or just being nice?
Also, how can one tell if you are happy to hear from the ex and/or a clue you might wanna rekindle in the future?
I don't know many gems who go back. Not unless there are kids involved.
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I agree^^
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Hey Gems, the infamous communicators of the Zodiac 😛 Do you typically respond if an ex reaches out or ignore? If you reply is it because you miss them, or just being nice?
Also, how can one tell if you are happy to hear from the ex and/or a clue you might wanna rekindle in the future?
I don't know many gems who go back. Not unless there are kids involved.
I agree^^
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I know my Gem ex is atypical(I call him a defected Gem) lol. He is the homebody, few friends, doesn't like adventure/new things...anyway, we were off and on a few years and he always came back, but this time he may be done 😢
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@moonbutter. Well I just always doubt that the other person really cares about my feelings. It's also hard for me to open up to people. I like to write my feelings down instead of verbalizing them. I found that writing letters to past lovers has helped me to express my feelings. Lol I just need to get over my emotional shyness. I don't like talking to people about their feelings either but I'm a really caring person. It's just weird. lol
I think I get it GemWoman92, it's like me (a Cancer) trying to verbalize logical thinking...so would it be better if a former lover of yours wrote their feelings to you rather then express verbally?
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Definitely! And be open to letting me express my feelings the same way. I find that when I try to verbalize my feelings I often can't find the right words and feel embarrassed but in my head it all makes sense lol
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What if you and your ex were each other's best friends ever and broke up for he fact that we couldn't communicate properly emotionally, therefore ending in a fierce resentment because of our deep love for each other. After 3 years we just started recommunicating, but it's strained and awkward and yet every couple of weeks we'll text. Would that be reserved feelings from the geminis point of view? I obviously know I still have my reserved love for him, but idk if he feels the same or is just playing with me as a comfort to him
I would need to know a little more about his chart before I can make an assumption.
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I would run away if I saw them
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Ex, I love ya, but you gotta stop it with that gif! -_-

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Lol I need to find a new one
Yessss! You have endless options, Google is your friend 😄

I can help if you are lacking creativity, Lol
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Hey Gems, the infamous communicators of the Zodiac 😛 Do you typically respond if an ex reaches out or ignore? If you reply is it because you miss them, or just being nice?
Also, how can one tell if you are happy to hear from the ex and/or a clue you might wanna rekindle in the future?
I only have 1 Ex that I could see texting me. In the past I've answered because I wanted to see how miserable he was and enjoyed the changed dynamic of power between us.

I also missed him as a friend but I soon realized that I had outgrown him. Our conversations would always come back to how much me missed me, how great I was, and how badly he fucked up. I eventually got tired of him trying to change my decision to break up, offering love (yet again) when it wasn't enough to hold us together the first time.

If he calls today... I probably will still answer... Mostly out of curiosity and pity.
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I would run away if I saw them
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Ex, I love ya, but you gotta stop it with that gif! -_-

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Lol I need to find a new one
Yessss! You have endless options, Google is your friend 😄

I can help if you are lacking creativity, Lol
Teach me please, Sempai Blackpahse!

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How to use the gifs?

Google whatever sort of gif you are looking for.. Example.. for the one I just used to respond to Ex.. I typed "begging gif" into Google, then pick out whatever one you like, right click it then select copy image address.. then paste that address here in the message box! :3
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Thanks!

I've used HTML before and can do simple text based stuff, but I can't seem to get gifs and images to show up correctly on this site.
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@moonbutter. Well I just always doubt that the other person really cares about my feelings. It's also hard for me to open up to people. I like to write my feelings down instead of verbalizing them. I found that writing letters to past lovers has helped me to express my feelings. Lol I just need to get over my emotional shyness. I don't like talking to people about their feelings either but I'm a really caring person. It's just weird. lol
This I get!
I'm like this too. When I feel for someone intensely, words are never enough. I get too shy. And I feel they wont care. And I take too long to express it 😢
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Ugh I hope we can both learn to overcome this!! Friends and past lovers have labeled me as having no emotion because of this fault! When in actuality I'm super sensitive 😢 but I can snap out of/hide my feelings very well! Same for you @wicked ?? 🤔
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What if you and your ex were each other's best friends ever and broke up for he fact that we couldn't communicate properly emotionally, therefore ending in a fierce resentment because of our deep love for each other. After 3 years we just started recommunicating, but it's strained and awkward and yet every couple of weeks we'll text. Would that be reserved feelings from the geminis point of view? I obviously know I still have my reserved love for him, but idk if he feels the same or is just playing with me as a comfort to him
I would need to know a little more about his chart before I can make an assumption.
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His:
Gemini
Venus Cancer
Mars Aries
Jupiter Scorpio
Uranus Pisces
Neptune Capricorn
Rising Leo
Mid heaven Taurus

Mine:
Sun Taurus
Moon Gemini BUT I maybe moon cancer really
Mercury Gemini
Venus Gemini
Mars Aries
Jupiter Scorpio
Uranus Pisces
Neptune Capricorn
Rising Leo
Midheaven Aries
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What if you and your ex were each other's best friends ever and broke up for he fact that we couldn't communicate properly emotionally, therefore ending in a fierce resentment because of our deep love for each other. After 3 years we just started recommunicating, but it's strained and awkward and yet every couple of weeks we'll text. Would that be reserved feelings from the geminis point of view? I obviously know I still have my reserved love for him, but idk if he feels the same or is just playing with me as a comfort to him
I would need to know a little more about his chart before I can make an assumption.

His:
Gemini
Venus Cancer
Mars Aries
Jupiter Scorpio
Uranus Pisces
Neptune Capricorn
Rising Leo
Mid heaven Taurus

Mine:
Sun Taurus
Moon Gemini BUT I maybe moon cancer really
Mercury Gemini
Venus Gemini
Mars Aries
Jupiter Scorpio
Uranus Pisces
Neptune Capricorn
Rising Leo
Midheaven Aries
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Being a gem with Venus in Cancer is so hard because often times it leaves us confused on how to express emotions because our Gemini said makes us so flighty but the cancer Venus makes us so lovey dovey. If by chance he happens to have an Aquarius moon or mercury in cancer I'd assume that you would have a good chance of rekindling because we tend to hold on to lovers that have been in our lives for extended periods of time (especially if we built a bond like the one that you described has). Just openly ask him and bring his cancer heart out of that shell and you'll get your answer. I feel like the communication issues were having were on his behalf— Encourage him to be open with you and be patient.
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@moonbutter. Well I just always doubt that the other person really cares about my feelings. It's also hard for me to open up to people. I like to write my feelings down instead of verbalizing them. I found that writing letters to past lovers has helped me to express my feelings. Lol I just need to get over my emotional shyness. I don't like talking to people about their feelings either but I'm a really caring person. It's just weird. lol
I think I get it GemWoman92, it's like me (a Cancer) trying to verbalize logical thinking...so would it be better if a former lover of yours wrote their feelings to you rather then express verbally?
Definitely! And be open to letting me express my feelings the same way. I find that when I try to verbalize my feelings I often can't find the right words and feel embarrassed but in my head it all makes sense lol
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Thank you, very helpful and makes complete sense!
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What if you and your ex were each other's best friends ever and broke up for he fact that we couldn't communicate properly emotionally, therefore ending in a fierce resentment because of our deep love for each other. After 3 years we just started recommunicating, but it's strained and awkward and yet every couple of weeks we'll text. Would that be reserved feelings from the geminis point of view? I obviously know I still have my reserved love for him, but idk if he feels the same or is just playing with me as a comfort to him
I would need to know a little more about his chart before I can make an assumption.

His:
Gemini
Venus Cancer
Mars Aries
Jupiter Scorpio
Uranus Pisces
Neptune Capricorn
Rising Leo
Mid heaven Taurus

Mine:
Sun Taurus
Moon Gemini BUT I maybe moon cancer really
Mercury Gemini
Venus Gemini
Mars Aries
Jupiter Scorpio
Uranus Pisces
Neptune Capricorn
Rising Leo
Midheaven Aries
Being a gem with Venus in Cancer is so hard because often times it leaves us confused on how to express emotions because our Gemini said makes us so flighty but the cancer Venus makes us so lovey dovey. If by chance he happens to have an Aquarius moon or mercury in cancer I'd assume that you would have a good chance of rekindling because we tend to hold on to lovers that have been in our lives for extended periods of time (especially if we built a bond like the one that you described has). Just openly ask him and bring his cancer heart out of that shell and you'll get your answer. I feel like the communication issues were having were on his behalf— Encourage him to be open with you and be patient.
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My first real genuine and trustworthy advice from a Gemini on here! Haha thank you so much. Actually after reading your response and further research I think my gem maybe a moon Aquarius. I've thought this whole time he was moon libra since I didn't know his birth time, but when you said Aquarius it all clicked since his favorite artist ever is an Aquarius. I've heard that Aquarius are emotionally distant, that definitely seems like him right now lol
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Well I'm happy I could give you some good Gem advice. I get especially distant if I'm confused and nervous. Try asking him to write a love letter. We like writing love letters

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I'm actually mid finishing a love letter to him, my first one. I feel like I'm putting too much emotion into it because I'm saying everything to him I can't bring myself to say to him in person, but do you think he'd rather hear it in person? Like do you think he'd feel a certain way that I could write it all out in a letter to him but won't(can't) say it to his face
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Well I'm happy I could give you some good Gem advice. I get especially distant if I'm confused and nervous. Try asking him to write a love letter. We like writing love letters

@TrueTaurianGoddess
I'm actually mid finishing a love letter to him, my first one. I feel like I'm putting too much emotion into it because I'm saying everything to him I can't bring myself to say to him in person, but do you think he'd rather hear it in person? Like do you think he'd feel a certain way that I could write it all out in a letter to him but won't(can't) say it to his face
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I personally wouldn't mind at all because that is usually how I express myself best. When my ex's would write me heartfelt letters and messages it always made me feel great and showed me they really loved me.
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Well I'm happy I could give you some good Gem advice. I get especially distant if I'm confused and nervous. Try asking him to write a love letter. We like writing love letters

@TrueTaurianGoddess
I'm actually mid finishing a love letter to him, my first one. I feel like I'm putting too much emotion into it because I'm saying everything to him I can't bring myself to say to him in person, but do you think he'd rather hear it in person? Like do you think he'd feel a certain way that I could write it all out in a letter to him but won't(can't) say it to his face
I personally wouldn't mind at all because that is usually how I express myself best. When my ex's would write me heartfelt letters and messages it always made me feel great and showed me they really loved me.
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So, I wrote him the letter and gave it to him about an hour ago. Needless to say my anxiety is sky high right now being a Taurus and moon gem lol. I forgot to mention that's he's in a relationship as currently, but not one that I see lasting long. Still, is it weird I have it to him while he's with someone else or how would you take that?
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Well I'm happy I could give you some good Gem advice. I get especially distant if I'm confused and nervous. Try asking him to write a love letter. We like writing love letters

@TrueTaurianGoddess
I'm actually mid finishing a love letter to him, my first one. I feel like I'm putting too much emotion into it because I'm saying everything to him I can't bring myself to say to him in person, but do you think he'd rather hear it in person? Like do you think he'd feel a certain way that I could write it all out in a letter to him but won't(can't) say it to his face
I personally wouldn't mind at all because that is usually how I express myself best. When my ex's would write me heartfelt letters and messages it always made me feel great and showed me they really loved me.
So, I wrote him the letter and gave it to him about an hour ago. Needless to say my anxiety is sky high right now being a Taurus and moon gem lol. I forgot to mention that's he's in a relationship as currently, but not one that I see lasting long. Still, is it weird I have it to him while he's with someone else or how would you take that?
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I only have one ex that I probably will always reply to and that is my Taurus ex. All the others wouldn't even get a response from me. He has some type of hold on me and I always talk to him no matter what. He is the same way towards me. We haven't dated for two years but still talk everyday © and it is because I miss him but even when I found other partners he has still remained...maybe I should work on removing him but I think I'd be sad if I did and he would fee the same. I wouldn't say that I'm a watery gem but I do attribute this lingering that is happening to my cancer Venus
Aww yes, Cancer venus will do that...can I ask if there is any chance you guys might reconcile in the future?

I honestly don't know. He has a history of cheating but he also hasn't really dated anyone in the time we've been apart like I have. One day I will have to sit down and talk to him about it but the problem that arises with this is I hate talking about my feelings (Aquarius moon). He can't stand it at this little fault of mine also attributed to why we didn't work the first two times. Who knows, third time might be the charm lol🙈
Oh my goodness, yes my recent ex is Gemini w/Aqua Moon soo hard to get past that barrier and form an emotional connection 😢 Why is it hard to discuss emotions? Is it because you are not sure how to express them verbally? I'm intrigued 😄
We can't accept the irrationality that comes with emotions...it has no reason sometimes and it makes us mad...until we start accepting our own emos n letting ourselves feel without trying to find a reason for it. I'm reverse of ur ex..aqua sun gem moon
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@cosmicbutter thanks, that makes sense. Any time I try bringing up emotions(like do you still have feelings for me) he gets mad, so I guess that's why? But how does one overcome that?
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Well I'm happy I could give you some good Gem advice. I get especially distant if I'm confused and nervous. Try asking him to write a love letter. We like writing love letters

@TrueTaurianGoddess
I'm actually mid finishing a love letter to him, my first one. I feel like I'm putting too much emotion into it because I'm saying everything to him I can't bring myself to say to him in person, but do you think he'd rather hear it in person? Like do you think he'd feel a certain way that I could write it all out in a letter to him but won't(can't) say it to his face
I personally wouldn't mind at all because that is usually how I express myself best. When my ex's would write me heartfelt letters and messages it always made me feel great and showed me they really loved me.
So, I wrote him the letter and gave it to him about an hour ago. Needless to say my anxiety is sky high right now being a Taurus and moon gem lol. I forgot to mention that's he's in a relationship as currently, but not one that I see lasting long. Still, is it weird I have it to him while he's with someone else or how would you take that?
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If this person is a rebound relationship then I would say that your chances are probably good. He is probably super confused right now though. Did you receive any feedback yet?