Gem coworker

Hi there, beautiful gems. I ve had some beautiful experiences with people your sign, but now... I was teamed, at work, with a gemini guy that seems to be the bad kind. Soft spoken, liar, lazy, gossipy and a trouble maker. Until now I ve let him unfold his mischief because nothing really problematic has happened and we ve only worked together 2 days. But I see the road ahead rather uphill. What I risk is having to do almost all the work, being targeted by his gossip to others, being put in trouble by him giving me fake information, all while he s getting half the money. I guess he s bored, insicure and mischievous (trying to have fun on the same people that do the job for them). I found out 2 previous colleagues have been reassigned, in tears. 😅 Honestly, to me this looks kinda stupid, because how can he hope to get away with it forever? I already talked to the manager about my first impression. For now, I'm almost amused. I am gemini rising, so I get him quite easily. Only it s not acceptable to be taken advantage of. Do you see a way of working with this immature 50 old years old gem?

I agree with you all. Not a chance to change him. He s good - of course - at talking. And if he was happy to do that and keep out of my way that would still be good. But his devils want him creating trouble. Therefore must be war. Geez, how boring. I m also too conscientious. Well, let it come...😔

I hate a not so great Gemini coworker.

He finally resigned and it was a great day for me.

Update.

I "ratted him out" alright and full gear too - mostly because I couldn't do it all the time and I hoped a rough one would be a good lesson.

It worked, apparently. He seems back to some better sense, polite and cooperant. I take care to let him use his talents - speaking and bragging out, mostly 😅 , but also some good ideas. In exchange, I got more free time - because my work is harder. And we discuss all common issues politely. I guess he gets this is a good deal for him. All I worry about now is boredom. Hopefully it works long term

Thank you all

Posted by LethalFantasia

Basicallllllllllly

rat him out

or let /karma deal w/him

or if it's not effecting you in any way

don't hate the player

hate the game

lmfao! x

Special thanks, Lethal. It worked, the ratting. It was a good advice. 🙂

Posted by Phantom_Limbo

Posted by LethalFantasia

If a gemini is not passionate about something but lowkey has to do it (probably because he needs an income & wasn't able to truly figure out his career before adulthood took off) they will slack or do the bare minimum or whatever it takes 2 do the least & get by

but of course there are ones who are responsible and whatever no matter the situation but yah

like I know for me personally, I understood everything that was going on in school pretty much (minus the math shit), but I think I would have rather died then actually sit there and go through all that nonsense and give it my all

lolz x

lol!

I never fully applied myself in school either. I still did well, but I could have done a lot better. I was fully engaged if the teacher was a good storyteller. I still remember exact verbiage from my good teachers, but otherwise I'd drift in and out of daydreams. I did my homework in study hall so I didn't have to take it home.

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Same! Always straight A student I knew not much but little bit about everything...

Never done homework at home. Always in class...(same my Libra DD)

I do always try at work but if I can not to - I don’t...

But men Gems - I always feel like strangling them...🧟‍♀️

Second update. He's having a crush on me, lol. God, lucky me to have Gemini rising, I see through all his mind games and he s textbook gem. I treat him super kindly and patient and I love the way he's constantly bewildered by me being consistent and coherent. I do not reciprocate, and I try not to behave like a player. I m waiting for him to finally hit the famous gemini switch button and calm down.

Oh, just for curiosity. I do have, professionally, some kind of a dream and it could only be made real through cooperating with other people. And I could use the talents of a gemini. Do you think he could be trusted? He s got Leo North Node, so in this life he s supposed to have the right to be a star, something i do not mind if he s doing the job. But would he be trustworthy or would he try to steal and cheat? I wonder... Well, it is rather early now, I should get to know him better...

Another update. The gem really messed it up. With all kindness and patience I put up in order to be able to work with him. He said something sooo racist in one circumstance that made me freeze inside. I couldn't help feeling deeply disgusted. The worst part is I understand he is rather insecure and has some personal rancours coming from lost occasions in his personal life and he said that out of these feelings and also to mirror others and feel superior. So sad. So superficial too. It made me so angry that I hit him so hard professionally that he resigned. No remorse, really. We still have to work together for one month and it won't be fun. I kind of wonder if he's going to try revenge, although he's trapped in a very narrow corner. Right now I don't care.

I know. 😔

Yes, unfortunately. Especially now, that he's pissed off. It's so confusing to me seeing his layers, defences, superficiality. It's not that he's "difficult to pin down". It's that he's a strange combination of extreme defensiveness and total irresponsibility about what he says, about the fact that word spoken are powerful and may be dangerous. I'm sorry now for hitting so hard - he seems to have managed to save his situation for now - but not so much, considering how he must have made suffer my previous colleagues. I hope he will be capable of learning something, but I'm not sure yet. I also tried to make him see me as some sort of ruthless vengeful Medusa. Not cute, but before this episode I treated him so kindly that I really hoped I'd get to him to be more of a good human being. Gee, I'm trying to keep my job and educate a gem into civilty, carrot and stick. Am I foolish?

Well, not carrot and stick. More like: you're good, I praise you; you're mean, I smash you. I think I seem myself quite mean.

He sounds like you should watch your back,mean...or..nice...it doesn't mean anything to those types when they view you as a threat (for whatever odd reason). Chances are he's going through all of your private stashes, meaningful works of yours, old contacts and your perceived insecurities, all while learning which buttons to press and how to be a better liar and an even better victim. Probably violent too (but careful, could be closeted as hell be careful not to do it while others are present). You might want to even go as far as checking for hidden things...like motives or cameras.

But don't let that stop you from delivering. Work even harder. On you. Always have someone in the distance to watch your back for you, just in case you need an eye in the sky. Karma will play itself out. Hopefully he learns to be decent.

Just saying...

Wise words again. As they say, when you plan revenge, dig two graves... 😓 But when it's war ...

Well, I just discovered the gem is doing personal shopping from the expenses fund and he knows it. And you know why? Because this unbelievable guy accused me of spending too much and I checked. It's astounding. Now the butter becomes real and dangerous. Down to the short strokes. I have not told anyone yet, because everyone needs peace, this time of the year, stress, shortage of personnel for the vacations and all. Now I really have to watch my back. Worst gem experience ever. The craziest thing is I think he could make his way through this too. Geez... Gem sun, moon, Mercury, Leo North Node. A pop star. 🙄

Last update. Hard battles, sparkles flying, I got reasigned to a better job. Gem's still there. 😂 You know what? I'm not sorry in the least and today I left laughing happily, while he looked like a coward and ashamed. May not be for long, but I really rocked his boat and lit some valid red flags on his shenanigans. Bumblebebe said this is crazy. For sure it was. Childish too, but you know, it's priceless showing how an arogant bastard could become bewildered, panicked and downright ass kisser for so long. I suppose I should feel a bit embarrassed by this story, but somehow I can't. Should I put it on my Scorpio moon? 😂