Gem Woman/ Virgo man.. Heartbreak

Ok, I know that you are not supposed to make certain decisions during Mercury retrograde. But I just had to push stop. The push and pull from him and the cold and quiet and mean- just too much. It all came to a head today.
You can't keep doing things for people who don't appreciate it. You can't give and give and give. With nothing in return.
It's almost exhausting with him. Always an excuse. Always something that needs to be analyzed and figured out. Always an issue. Always always always. And it always takes precedence over us.
Much as I have explained this, I'm tired of repeating myself. I shouldn't have to.
I won't lie, my heart is broken. I love that man to the core of my soul. I just can't deal with a person who constantly makes me feel like something is wrong with me. When it's not me.
I love him. He is a wonderful man. I just don't know what to do anymore. It feels like I've done everything. And gotten nothing in return. And that isn't right. I'm a good person. A loyal partner and friend. I love hard and I hurt just that much harder. I'm tired of hurting.