Gemini has turned possessive, WTF

Gemini has turned possessive, WTF

I know how Gemini men are, so I kept him at a fun distance. Now, he is acting "stalkerish" it's kind of freaking me out. The once fun-loving do whatever you want to do, call me when you want, don't call if don't has suddenly turned into "Where are you going?" "Don't go here, don't go there" "Why didn't you text me back, why aren't you picking up your phone" Like a completely different person. WTF...

Will this pass, I miss my fun loving friend?

Posted by BuffaloBills28
it means he's scared to lose you. It's a good thing in my opinion.

He is definitely going to lose me with this psycho behavior. He is calling 3 to 4 times a day, he is even becoming slightly scary.... he watches everyone I talk to in our circle of friends. I chose to kick it with him, because he was fun-loving and distant and I could maintain my freedom. Now he's trying to put me on lock down and I REALLY DON'T LIKE IT.

Posted by TheLibraMudra
This was pretty normal behavior for my Gemini ex lol. But it was ok for him to go party with god knows who at any time.

Right, and he doesn't have any Scorpio placements, I never heard of Gemini becoming possessive this is throwing me off, and I am losing interest. Do they return to their playful side..this is too much. Congrats on your marriage btw.

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Posted by Librawoman77

Posted by BuffaloBills28
it means he's scared to lose you. It's a good thing in my opinion.

He is definitely going to lose me with this psycho behavior. He is calling 3 to 4 times a day, he is even becoming slightly scary.... he watches everyone I talk to in our circle of friends. I chose to kick it with him, because he was fun-loving and distant and I could maintain my freedom. Now he's trying to put me on lock down and I REALLY DON'T LIKE IT.

Like mines did, they really are control freaks that I'm a bit taken aback sometimes. They can be very dictorial and restrictive. Lol I have a job interview tomorrow and the mr peterpan tried to blackmail me from going.

They are nuts. Don't ever make the mistake of living with one.. I wonder how poor Kim is doing. I have a feeling he got a f.king tight hold on her. Very controlling people and you don't see it right away with their supposed carefree and laid back demeanor. Quite the covert despots.

I have learned them well. Never again, their nonsense and selfishness is enough to even rival that of Aries. But it can be more sinister and deceptive because they mask it well with their easygoing charades.

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Well-said, Who is Kim? I want it to stop, should I start calling him and acting like I am sprung? Lol. I do adore him but damn. Why isn't this side of Gemini talked about in forums? What happened? Everything was going so great, the he turned into this possessive maniac. Maybe it's the twin thing? Does it go away? You said you have learned them very well, does the fun, playful, come and go as you will side ever return, because this bullshit is not going to work.

In my experience, one side of Gemini (one of the twins, if you will) is fun, carefree, unrestricted, and easy-going. That side of Geminis is so fun to be around! But, in a relationship the other twin comes out- the one that's not so buoyant and happy-go-lucky. I haven't been into astrology for long, but now that I know a little more about it, in hindsight I've recognized this pattern with Geminis once they're attached. Initially, they are incredibly breezy, light-hearted characters. Then they become incredibly possessive (but don't like to be chained themselves), and incredibly dictatorial. Two of my friends dated Gemini males in the last two years, and I noticed how withdrawn both of them became as a result of these relationships. Their boyfriends liked to be in charge of everything, and they were always telling my friends what and how to do things. One of them even told me: "I used to always feel like I couldn't live up to his standards."

This is just my experience. Not all Geminis are like this, but yours definitely seems to be one of them. Some people say it's normal, healthy, flattering. In my opinion, there is nothing healthy nor flattering about someone keeping tabs on you and thereby restricting your freedom. Is he worried about losing you? Possibly. Does he care about you? Sure. But he should verbalize such things in a way that doesn't elicit feelings of annoyance and unease on your part. He should take you out for an evening on the town, roses in tow if he wants to show he cares, rather than overseeing your activities. He should talk to you about your relationship and where you stand with each other if he's worried about losing you, rather than trying to dictate where you and who you go with.

I say cut yourself loose, before he does any real damage. 😢

Mine just watches me from afar.

I experienced this too, I liked it though, cuz I liked the Gemini. No it never stopped! Once the switch happened in never turned back.

I am usually distant to begin with but once i open up to someone i freak out that they are going to hurt me and become more possessive. You just need to give him some reassurance and not be distant and hopefully he will back off again

Posted by Librawoman77

We can be, but we have to really really really like you and feel like you are the best thing that ever happened to us. Gonna also depend on the other placements as I'm sure you know. I have that Leo streak in me, so I can relate to a degree...

Posted by LittleStar
I am crazy possessive of those I love. I don't share. :3

This. Exactly.