Impar12
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Gemini man in love
Geminis won't talk bout their feelings they will how ever be about them
What are his placements? Sun, Moon, Venus, Mars, rising?
I will talk about my feelings if I really get close with someone. 3 wks is still very early, he will not start doing all that this soon if he did I would be surprised. You have to give it time to really develop and let him really get to know you on a slow not fast paced. Fast to me, equals burn out.
I will talk about my feelings if I really get close with someone. 3 wks is still very early, he will not start doing all that this soon if he did I would be surprised. You have to give it time to really develop and let him really get to know you on a slow not fast paced. Fast to me, equals burn out.
Men don't talk about feelings. In fact, you'll be labelled annoying as fuck if you try to play the shrink with them.
There are more important things to talk about. Their values and expectations. Are they compatible with yours? The beginning of a relationship is like a job interview, followed by the critical first 6 months.
Focus on YOUR feelings instead and confess them to your bff. If you can't really help it, there is a simple way to quench your thirst. Buy a Tarot set and a book. Ask a question, like the one you are asking here. With your eyes closed, pick up four cards. Read their meaning in the book. Do it till you get the answer you want.
From what I've learned during several decades and different relationships, is that feelings are the easiest and the least important thing. They come and go, go and come. They can be developed or stopped at a whim. They get tired. They change. Spend enough good time with someone you are much interested in to begin with, and voila! You are mesmerised!
There are more important things to talk about. Their values and expectations. Are they compatible with yours? The beginning of a relationship is like a job interview, followed by the critical first 6 months.
Focus on YOUR feelings instead and confess them to your bff. If you can't really help it, there is a simple way to quench your thirst. Buy a Tarot set and a book. Ask a question, like the one you are asking here. With your eyes closed, pick up four cards. Read their meaning in the book. Do it till you get the answer you want.
From what I've learned during several decades and different relationships, is that feelings are the easiest and the least important thing. They come and go, go and come. They can be developed or stopped at a whim. They get tired. They change. Spend enough good time with someone you are much interested in to begin with, and voila! You are mesmerised!
Some women believe to "see" feelings when men pay them compliments, act charmingly, protective and attentive. It's just the way some men are training themselves to act. No relationship with "feelings" what so ever.
If you are a sucker for these things, get an Aqua or a Libra. Gems don't kiss too much ass.
If you are a sucker for these things, get an Aqua or a Libra. Gems don't kiss too much ass.
Posted by LittleStar+1
When I trust someone then I am open. It does take a bit of time to fully accept my emotions though.
I seriously get nervous when I have to talk about my emotions....I literally get all shaky, heart starts racing... its crazy
I think three weeks is way too early to really know how you stand with someone emotionally other than being infatuated. Three months seems more ideal.
Posted by theDominoVery true. I also believe the moon and Venus has influence on this. This is very much true for me.Posted by downstairsmixupA Gem does in fact talk about their feelings and reserves their deepest feelings to the one they love.
Geminis won't talk bout their feelings they will how ever be about them
A Gem will gravitate towards you, and be somewhat obsessed for your comfort, affection, and time. They'll seek you out and dedicate every waking second (thought) to your life.click to expand
Posted by theDominoMoon in Leo, Venus in Cancer.Posted by gemguyaz34What's your moon and venus? Aqua and Tarsus here, respectively.Posted by theDominoVery true. I also believe the moon and Venus has influence on this. This is very much true for me.Posted by downstairsmixupA Gem does in fact talk about their feelings and reserves their deepest feelings to the one they love.
Geminis won't talk bout their feelings they will how ever be about them
A Gem will gravitate towards you, and be somewhat obsessed for your comfort, affection, and time. They'll seek you out and dedicate every waking second (thought) to your life.click to expand
Both Geminis I've dated have started out VERY fast....lots of words and emotions and talks about future and buying me gifts, and then quickly we burn each others energy out.
One of them was very aggressively perusing me as I just giggled at it, but I would flirt with him and like his pictures and I commented on a couple pics of his on Instagram being flirtatious (he was away and I commented "come home already!") and I saw that he had deleted them! I asked him about it and he said he only had his close friends and family on there and he didn't need them asking questions...so I pretty much got over it after that but would still respond to texts and flirt a bit and he got all huffy puffy and called me passive aggressive and hot and cold and then it just fizzled out entirely although I will still randomly text him just to push his buttons.
Gemini for me is very fun for a month at a time.
One of them was very aggressively perusing me as I just giggled at it, but I would flirt with him and like his pictures and I commented on a couple pics of his on Instagram being flirtatious (he was away and I commented "come home already!") and I saw that he had deleted them! I asked him about it and he said he only had his close friends and family on there and he didn't need them asking questions...so I pretty much got over it after that but would still respond to texts and flirt a bit and he got all huffy puffy and called me passive aggressive and hot and cold and then it just fizzled out entirely although I will still randomly text him just to push his buttons.
Gemini for me is very fun for a month at a time.
To be honest in the long run you both will feel suffocated in each others company. I am not trying to undermine your relationship but have seen from others experience. You Pisces are very emotional and you will find Gemini too fickle and unemotional, I can tell you the sexual part you would love it but that's just sex for them and not for you. They will leave the bed to do other things once it is done and you will crave for cuddles and attention. That will leave you hurt. They are fun to be with as a chitchat friend for long term or FWB but not to settle down.
Posted by cancerleolibraThat's only true if they are not grounded. Those of us who have water or earth placements will not abandon you unless you do it to us first and too much time passes in between. Once we are sure we want to give you our heart, we do it in a sense where we intend the partnership to be a forever but if we feel like we are being taken for granted then you will first see the warning signs of us mirroring you before we leave. More often than not though, we do try to make things right. It's only once we come to the conclusion that we can't, we leave it behind.
as a cancer who has been in love with a gem, be careful, they're so fun and loving at first but when it gets to serious they flee, what're his other placements thought?
Posted by littlemegabyteIt must be incredibly rare for a gem man to find a woman they feel are worth their time/emotions like this.These women aren't a dime a dozen.
Posted by littlemegabyte...Unless she was friends with him first. It's possible, depending how long they have known each other and how comfortable he is with her. Many of us prefer to be friends first. Let's us get a true feel for the person and helps us make a decision. 😉
OP, gemini talking about its feelings within 3 weeks is way too premature.
Posted by littlemegabyteYeah see they are the more grounded ones. You will never find a better lover than a Scorpio or Cancer, especially if it's in Venus. We are actually A LOT alike in how we are in love and security.Posted by theDominoGood post, theDomino.Posted by downstairsmixupA Gem does in fact talk about their feelings and reserves their deepest feelings to the one they love.
Geminis won't talk bout their feelings they will how ever be about them
A Gem will gravitate towards you, and be somewhat obsessed for your comfort, affection, and time. They'll seek you out and dedicate every waking second (thought) to your life.
I am really intrigued by the experiences that other signs are having with gem males that they come to our forum for. Gem men, to me, are all in, full speed ahead, 100% in, the 2 experiences that I have had with them romantically. They are so sweet and affectionate, dedicated, and loyal. It must only be when the gem man *really really* loves a woman, yes? I've not experienced any of the flaky, runaway, and immature behaivor from gem men that others do. It must be incredibly rare for a gem man to find a woman they feel are worth their time/emotions like this.
I've experienced 2 great gems- moon in cancer, moon in scorpio.click to expand
I meant to say in the rest of their chart. Sheesh what is wrong with me this morning! Too early, more coffee!
Posted by gemguyaz34Good thing she has a Venus in Cancer and Scorpio Moon (well pretty much all Scorpio) boyfriend. 😉Posted by littlemegabyteYeah see they are the more grounded ones. You will never find a better lover than a Scorpio or Cancer, especially if it's in Venus. We are actually A LOT alike in how we are in love and security.Posted by theDominoGood post, theDomino.Posted by downstairsmixupA Gem does in fact talk about their feelings and reserves their deepest feelings to the one they love.
Geminis won't talk bout their feelings they will how ever be about them
A Gem will gravitate towards you, and be somewhat obsessed for your comfort, affection, and time. They'll seek you out and dedicate every waking second (thought) to your life.
I am really intrigued by the experiences that other signs are having with gem males that they come to our forum for. Gem men, to me, are all in, full speed ahead, 100% in, the 2 experiences that I have had with them romantically. They are so sweet and affectionate, dedicated, and loyal. It must only be when the gem man *really really* loves a woman, yes? I've not experienced any of the flaky, runaway, and immature behaivor from gem men that others do. It must be incredibly rare for a gem man to find a woman they feel are worth their time/emotions like this.
I've experienced 2 great gems- moon in cancer, moon in scorpio.click to expand
As a Gemini female we will not flee unless given a reason too, and as far as emotions we have to be extremely comfortable to open up our emotions to people
Posted by gemguyaz34LIES EVERY SINGLE SENTENCE.Posted by littlemegabyteYeah see they are the more grounded ones. You will never find a better lover than a Scorpio or Cancer, especially if it's in Venus. We are actually A LOT alike in how we are in love and security.Posted by theDomino
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Posted by winevictoriaTo confuse us even more so we can never, ever tell when a man has feelings unless he directly comes out and says it. I think they're all in on it together.Posted by UndineCompletely helpful! Why do they act so much?
Some women believe to "see" feelings when men pay them compliments, act charmingly, protective and attentive. It's just the way some men are training themselves to act. No relationship with "feelings" what so ever.
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Posted by winevictoriaWell was he giving you any signs that indicated he felt the same way?Posted by thisismylife2015Oh my, that is actually the altruistic way of looking at it. I believe she and I as well were saying when they act to fool you.Posted by winevictoriaTo confuse us even more so we can never, ever tell when a man has feelings unless he directly comes out and says it. I think they're all in on it together.Posted by UndineCompletely helpful! Why do they act so much?
Some women believe to "see" feelings when men pay them compliments, act charmingly, protective and attentive. It's just the way some men are training themselves to act. No relationship with "feelings" what so ever.
I messed around with someone who (approached me) said he didn't feel the same I did about him.click to expand
Posted by gemelioristlol No! I'm just going by my own experience. of course I understand it's not the same for everyone.Posted by gemguyaz34LIES EVERY SINGLE SENTENCE.Posted by littlemegabyteYeah see they are the more grounded ones. You will never find a better lover than a Scorpio or Cancer, especially if it's in Venus. We are actually A LOT alike in how we are in love and security.Posted by theDomino
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