GEMINI MAN SCORPIO WOMAN - HELP!!!

Hi all (posted this in Scorpio but thought better to post here also!)

I'm new to this forum but have read some really insightful posts on here and wanted to ask for your advice on the following (TYPICAL) scenario between a scorp female and gemini male.
We have known each other for 6 or so months and have been intimate from our first encounter with eachother. We were magnetised to each other. We have scary amounts in common, a very strong spiritual connection and shared beliefs/values. He has said that he's never met anyone more similar to him than me, that I'm not like other girls, that I'm beautiful etc etc. So I get the feeling that he likes me. And he strikes me as really honest and kind (he's a buddhist) and not the type of person to bullshit another human being just for the sake of it...

So, forgive me if you've all heard this a MILLION times before, but when we are together it's AMAZING, INTENSE, EMOTIONAL etc etc. and I feel as if he has my heart tightly gripped in his hand when I'm around him. Basically it feels like love. BUT when we're apart his texts are sparse and I just don't know how interested he is! It makes no sense to me how you can enjoy someones company that much and then not want to see them all the time/make them a priority.

I feel like every time I get a bit attached he punishes me for it, and in no way are we able to speak about commitment etc etc. (not that I want to but I can't speak about any form of attachment, for example I missed you etc) I get the feeling this has something to do with previous psycho ex girlfriends and bearing in mind he is much older than me and has probably been there and done all the drama that comes from jealousy and attachment. I am not actually that jealous but I do not feel respected at the moment and I suppose I am getting insecure now about his feelings so that's making me feel more vulnerable and needy than I would be in another, more stable relationship. So confused by his typical gemini behaviour of feeling that minute he will be really into me texting all the time and wanting to meet and the next seemingly moody and actually annoyed that I'm contacting him. So PLEASE a massive call out to you astro-gurus - take a look at our charts and give me some much needed guidance! Blessings to you all! xxxxxxxxxx

PS - Do you think it is possible that gemini's are more stand offish when they are afraid they are developing "real" feelings for someone?

It's great to hang out and have fun with someone you really like. But, to commit to a relationship means a massive loss of personal freedom (of supreme importance to Gems), and is not to be taken lightly. Gems do things on their own timelines, and those timelines rarely make sense to anyone else. When he decides for sure that he wants you, you won't be able to drive him off with a sharp stick. Until then, any attempt you make to move things along will be seen as an annoying effort to chain him. And Scorps have to be extra careful about coming off as possessive or clingy.