Gemini Men and Settling Down

My Gem man admits to a very...loose past, but says that he is very interested in settling down now. Gems have a reputation of needing freedom and independence but he seems to very much enjoy playing house and the idea of marriage and children...is he putting on or could he be serious?

It sounds like playing house is playing ... Gems love to play.

I wouldn't measure this according to Sun Sign, for it's not uncommon for people to entertain the "idea" of marriage and children.

I would use his proven track record with you, in how he treats you .... as the tool in measuring whether I would consider him husband material.



Don't forget that very important detail, SF, that most women, it appears, often forgets.

A woman would say .. he's talking marriage, is he serious? And to her, if he is serious, or she thinks he is serious, then she proceeds to invest her heart full stop ... while never taking into consideration whether she WANTS to invest her heart into this man, for the man himself .. she is merely making her decisin based on what his decision to want her.





Is he worthy of you, to be your husband and father of your children?

Should be your only question.

If his proven track record with you doesn't show his integrity being good enough for you .. then it should be irrelevant whether he is serious or not, about marriage and children.

Very well said P-Angel 🙂

Marriage and children doesn't have to mean a complete loss of freedom and independence...I am the kinda person that really needs those things, but for me it's more about FEELING like i'm free rather than actually BEING free...Lol!! Don't smother him, pressure him into anything, or use manipulation tactics against him and he'll most likely be fine...Give him a little space, and make sure you both get some time to yourselves.

Generally speaking, I think that guys are hesitant to settle down until they actually are ready, and I think most guys know when they are nearing that stage of their life. If you really study him and look into his eyes when he says that kinda stuff, you should be able to tell whether he means it or not. And yeah, pay attention to a man's actions over & above his words - if his actions and his words are not aligned, then you know he's just telling you what he thinks you want to hear.

He's a good man definitely not all talk. daily he goes out of his way to spend time with me and to share time with me. He's very responsible and more mature than most guys our age. I would say that he has shown me that he could very well be a good husband. His parents dont have a great record, but it seems like his relationship with his mother made him very intune to the needs of women and the way they should be treated. His parents are still married although they went through a rough patch. I wouldnt say that he is proposing marriage to me, trust me P I wouldnt make it more than it is. Im just simply asking if Gemini men have a habit, desire, or track record of settling down or of being eternal playas.

Once we find the "One" we settle down and remain loyal. Problem is finding her. Everyone else is just a fling. We are Not players. Most people know the deal from jump. Others tell themselves what they want to hear. I've been in 2 10 plus year relationships. All I ever asked was not to bore me. Keep it fresh. Massage my mind. Be a librarian by day and supa dupa ho at night! If that is met. I aint goin nowhere!! For what? Maybe I'm different than most Gems in that regard. I need stability in my life. Always have.

I was reading a profile of Gemini's that characterized them by decans, and it stated that 2nd decan Geminis, which he is, are more prone to be focused of fidelity and if/when they find someone to fulfill them they are very prone to settling in for the long term. Im more inclined to base my conclusion on an assessment of him as suggested by PAngel, but this is certainly encouraging lol. I hope not rightly so.