Gemini woman, I'm leo... assistance is required :P

Hey, I'm new around here and would like to have your opinion on my story guys, take your time to read it! 🙂

I just want to start off with saying this girl does probably have a good confident, she excercise, look good, is popular on social medias and stuff like that, it it makes any sense! Anyway

A few months ago I found her on instagram, we started to follow eachother and I got her snapchat and in the beginning she was like I barely use it but I got it and have now had her there for a few months, right.

I tried to snap her a couple of times, she answered and I started to like her don't know how lol but I decided to ask her out because I typically like to meet people not just chat...

this was before she was going on a trip, I asked her out and she said like we will see and it was on such a short notice so it never happened, she came back from trip, I just had her on snap and send her sometimes some funny and crazy things, sometimes she replied sometimes not, no biggie. We just had eachother on snap and that was pretty much it, however...

I kind of lost interest or I actually have it but I stopped trying to like get her in that way and it became more like I snap her sometimes some stuff and she laugh and that's it, nothing special tbh.

This weekend I saw her posted something about some party so I was like you going or what bla bla, I found out she is going but I was like nah I probably won't but we will see.

Then a guy called me and I decided to go to that party which was on this last saturday. I was hanging out there having a drink (non alchoholic) just enjoying the time and danced and as the time goes by I recognize how a girl is just like trying to get closer and closer to me but I act like I don't see notice it.. a few seconds later while I'm looking down at my phone she pulls up like under my face and like heey... meanwhile it's loud music in the background so we are barely hearing eachother.. We start to talk for a lil bit, hugs and like hey nice to meet you because it was the first time we met.

Right, no biggie.. so under this whole party night I just notice and see how she is constantly during the whole night trying to be where I am.

So under the party as we go on and off from the dancefloor, we always like search for me when I'm up there and she like stands next to, we dance laugh and all that and my friend is like hey, she seems into you because she is coming all the time exactly next to us.

Still during the party night, it was one situation where she comes to the dance floor with her two friends and I'm with my friend, her friends goes away after a few minutes but she stays next to us, even though she is alone and it's like the first time we've met and she doesn't know us, she still stands next to us.. for a few minutes and dances with us then she goes off after like 5min.

After some hours, I walk away a little bit to get some fresh air so I sit down on a sofa with my friend as I see like 4 girls pass by, some friends I know.. meanwhile I also knew that this girl was outside and would come inside at any moment, so I grab the four girls and start to talk with them because I know them.. when suddenly the girl and her two friends come in again and is walking towards the dance area and before that, as she sees me, she instead comes and stands next to us.

So basically she stands next to me as I am sitting at the sofa talking with the other ladies I know, then I'm like looking at her and ask her do you know them? she was like no.. so I realized she didn't even know these other girls I stopped to talk with and yet she had the courage to come and stand next to me because we all know that every girl wouldn't do that.. so I'm like okay, then I turn a little bit to her and her friend and start to talk with them, then we're like alright let's go the the dance floor and we continue to dance and they are standing next to us...

then after the party, we walk out together and me and my friend are standing outside so, what happens? her friends walks away towards the car and she unlocks it and stays with me and my friend and still she barely know us, it's fucking freezing cold outside she didn't even have a jacket and it's like, her friends waiting in the car to leave but she stands with us and are talking...

then after a few min, I was like hey let's not freeze blabla let's go,we hug eachother and she goes to her car where her friends are waiting and I go to mine with my friend, we drive home.

Then after 1h I guess when she has dropped off everyone, she was home, she texted me first like hey it was really nice to meet you, you looked better IRL, bla bla bla, I answered the chatted for a while and then she was like goodnight, kiss emoji and I mean.. she have never been like this before, she never initiated a conversation with me unless I like asked her something, she put effort into her messages and stuff like that.. so I started to wonder is this just a kind person or is she maybe into me?

this was on saturday night, we have not spoke since that.

I'm wondering what do you guys think what kind of act is this, what should I do, wait, write or what?

I'm not sure if this helps but she is a Gemini and I'm a Leo.

Hers:

https://gyazo.com/11483620b92de4fdda3b81080ed36ab7

https://gyazo.com/db4dc92b8b401ec426dce69409464e7b

Mine:

https://gyazo.com/f3656473f82f60ad859015495e8b22a5

https://gyazo.com/f9bad572f2536ef3dca8be36f1d76cec

hope it wasn't too long, appreciate it guys 😛

Did I add this to the proper section? Sorry I'm new around here and didn't find the topic at the Gemini area

Posted by nanobot

How cute

She is a gemini sun, pisces moon, mercury cancer, venus taurus.

You're going to have to make the move on this one. All the signs are there...

Ask her out now

Do you mind telling me why do I have to make the move?

I don't have anything against it, I just mean I did ask her out like 2-3 months ago when we had never met I guess she maybe wasn't interest at that time but I feel that she has a little bit interest by explaining this story about this last weekend?

But please tell me more how is she as person? What do you guys say?

Posted by LethalFantasia

OMG. I swear to you, when I was reading your story about how she was like all around you and whatever I swear I was thinking "she probably thought you looked so hot in real life compared to your pictures." LOL. And then you confirmed it in one of the last sentences that she texted you that.

Anyway, she seems weird to me, like she comes off super strong lol. But hey, you're a Leo guy so you're probably loving this attention. If you felt a connection when you guys talked and you're attracted to her then why not ask her out? Nothing to lose.

Hahah yeah lol! Anyway, the thing is.. I'm a leo and I do not have any problems at all with asking her like hey wanna do something at the weekend, BUT there is two questions, because all humans work in that way when we get much of something and quite easy and served = you loose interest and I don't wanna get back as we were before that I have to ask her out and she ain't gonne be interest or find some excuse,

on the other hand, could it be that she is shy or something because she is not? she had the courge to walk up to me and stuff like that.. so I'm a lil bit confused!

She's a neurotic freak like me. She most possibly likes you but she's mentally running 1000 miles per hour and, if she's into you, driving herself nuts with the what-ifs.

I can also be like that sometimes coming up with all the what if's but yea so you assume that the case might be like this:

She has gave me the opportunity even better by sticking around me at that particular party,

a compliment and realized that it might be better than she thought before we met,

now it's a matter of patience to just chase her slowly and show that I'm interested in her?

Because as I said I just don't wanna get stuck in the same position as before... chasing without any results. I know this was a while ago, things has changed after this party and I think she opened up her eyes a lil'bit more for me, yeah?

So the reason why she haven't even snapped or chatted with me since saturday night is because she is waiting for me to get to her and probably is thinking what if cases... ?

So most of you guys think that there might be a chance here?

Any random advices regarding her sign; how would they like a guy to approach them?

Just talk? Give compliments? Straightly ask her out as now we have met once?

any Do Not Do or You Should Do things to know about?

It looks like maybe I should text her tonight..

What's Neg? Do you mean being negative? Absolutely, I'll think about smile and making eye contact if we meet.

More advices are appreciated! I think I'll text her tonight.

Hello, I'm a gemini girl here but my placements are opposite to hers so i dont know if this will help (although we have the same venus).

So... when i dont talk to a guy online its because I'm meh. I have no real opinion, however when ive liked a guy before i certainly did hang around him. Shes probably thinking that youve already shown you're interested so now shes shown you shes interested so...why arent you messaging her? Is what id be thinking anyway. Id say shes definitely interested in you, just dont be to easy or to hard, find the right balance.

Good luck 🙂

Posted by Gemalit

Hello, I'm a gemini girl here but my placements are opposite to hers so i dont know if this will help (although we have the same venus).

So... when i dont talk to a guy online its because I'm meh. I have no real opinion, however when ive liked a guy before i certainly did hang around him. Shes probably thinking that youve already shown you're interested so now shes shown you shes interested so...why arent you messaging her? Is what id be thinking anyway. Id say shes definitely interested in you, just dont be to easy or to hard, find the right balance.

Good luck 🙂

Yeah? Sounds fair enough, I'll pop a convo tonight with her and see how's life 🙂

Update:

We chatted yesterday and I must say it wasn't in a romantic way but that doesn't mean that it is bad right? Cuz it can't be too romantic as we have just met once and have to get to know eachother and stuff... I didn't go for a proper hey let's go out, I more wanted to say from my side that "I have had much to do lately on work" but I still wanna talk with you.

We joked about some things and and I must say she do reply faster than she used to and with more effort in her texts because before before, I really felt like this girl is like cold and I should be happy if I even get a reply. But now after we met and so, it seems like it is better.

I'm more wondering what do you guys think, is it better to talk a lil bit more and act casual with the glimt in the eye, snap her sometimes random stuff or straightly ask her out for the weekend, or only chat for now so she gets the feeling I don't wanna send random snaps to you, I wanna know what's going on in your life? I usually don't act like fkn this xD but you know it is when you start to like someone, more advices pleaseee!! 🙂

Maybe I should just type often, or only when I actually want to talk or meet? should I propose go to cinema or so

Thank you very much!! By the way, do Gemini females get tired of something easily? I've heard some might play some mind games is that true?

I'm just wondering if they are more like these type of people that like to become secure and talk a lot with someone before going out? I personally have waiting and don't have aproblem at all with asking her out and I'm a leo, very straight up and honest with all my thoughts and nah, I don't insult people whether it is a joke or not, only if someone steps on my toes ^^

How are they when it comes to just fuck around or actually settle with love and relationship? I know it's a little bit early to ask but still would like to have your guys opinion and I also take this horoscope thing with a hand of salt or however that expression is lol. It's individuall after all. Last question, do gemini girls fall for more calm people or crazy? what do you guys look at in a person both on the inside and outside

Posted by deepinit

Posted by nanobot

How cute

She is a gemini sun, pisces moon, mercury cancer, venus taurus.

You're going to have to make the move on this one. All the signs are there...

Ask her out now

Do you mind telling me why do I have to make the move?

I don't have anything against it, I just mean I did ask her out like 2-3 months ago when we had never met I guess she maybe wasn't interest at that time but I feel that she has a little bit interest by explaining this story about this last weekend?

But please tell me more how is she as person? What do you guys say?

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Yeah you asked her out when you were an online stranger. Now that you've met in person and the vibe was good she's much more likely to go out with you now that stranger danger is not so much in the equation.

Very true, I appreciate the both latest two post from you guys, sounds good so far!

I also came off with a realization that she isn't so tough as I thought she was or? She hit the gym, small body but fit, I think might have a temper but when I today chatted a lil bit with her about different things... We came into movies at cinema and she was like I'm not gonna watch that movie you told me to because I would be scared and I was like hey, if you're with me you would not feel that 😉 then she was like yea but when I'm alone that's the point where I would be scared and I was like no you can be with me then you won't be and she was like I still have to go home at some time and we laughed lol... I honestly feel that we are talking much more than we did before and it feels great!

although I have been the one initiating the conversation since saturday, I've done it two times with some snapping and stuff.. what do you guys think overall, should I wait or go for proposing to date / hangout at the weekend or something when she get time?

Is she really shy though because she wasn't like that when we met irl so why is she waiting that I have to contact her first or is she waiting for just me offering her to go out? we have eachother on snapchat and she have not said anything except for 2 days ago and yesterday but that's when I initiate the conversation :o just curious

dude guys... why do I have to do all the contact stuff? I mean a snap isn't even possible?? did I loose my chance, does she want me to chase 10000% or whats up?

Posted by ACsquarepluto

Posted by deepinit

dude guys... why do I have to do all the contact stuff? I mean a snap isn't even possible?? did I loose my chance, does she want me to chase 10000% or whats up?

Cancer Mercury can be extremely shy. I remember I liked someone senior year and when I saw him at an event I turned around and walked the other direction for no reason but fear

She might not be that bad, maybe contact her one more time and say "I hope you don't mind me reaching out".

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That's what she was right, cancer mercury?

I understand what you mean but I mean if she could come up to me plenty of times during the night when we met... would it be so hard to write to me on the evenings or so, snap me and such stuff?

Cuz she answers with effort and that stuff but she doesn't really reach out to me first... am I reaching out too often or how do you geminis work aghh... but that was good point maybe I should add the sentence like i hope u dont mind me reaching out but then she might think im insecure?