Gemini Woman Scorpio Man

I'm wondering if anyone can give me some insight to this combo? I'm doing the 'dating' thing with a scorpio, and this is a first. And what this man has done to me, I have never expereinced. And we haven't even had a sexual encounter yet!!! Does this combination tend to work? I'd love to hear from other Gemini woman that have experienced a Scorpio. I'm baffled! And seemingly addicted...

i'm with you on that, i'm in the same boat you are.... try and keep control of yourself, or he will take it lol

A True Gem, you can do alot better. You've hung in there long enough........leave his ass flat you are a great person and he does not deserve you at all, especially if he isn't doing anything but be negative and do hurtful things, i don't care who is what sign........DROP KICK HIS ASS!


it hurts i know, but you'll be glad you did it in the long run



GEM GiRL

True Gem, i'm sorry to hear that about your situation.. best of luck there... This guy i'm, i don't know.. maybe seeing..lol we are BRUTALLY honest with one another.. i'm not looking to marry him, i'm looking to enjoy him. I have kinda just takin him in strides... i let him be who he is.. and that is, as i call him... a 'playboy'. But the odd thing with this, as i have let him be him... he has opened up to me, like i have never expected. sometimes he is more open then i would care for him to be. But he doesn't have to lie to me because, at this point i just don't care what he does when not in my presence.. and i warned him, that he better becareful.. LOL cuz he just might get a little more attached to me then he'd like to. and that is actually happening.. so i don't know i just take this guy day by day and see where this leads me. But i will say i'm having the most fun ever...

you go baby - grl ...... 😉

a true gem........hey nothing is perfect, except us gems..LOL JK! more like (perfectly crazy)

I'd just thought I'd share this... cuz i'm dumbfounded.... I was talking to my Scorpio last night.. and we started talking about him and his playboy ways..lol and he all the sudden tells me that he thinks he is ready to settle down!!!! I almost hung up the phone.... I had put in a earlier post, that me and him are friends.. and potentially more.. but both have the same kind of mind set... and then he throws this in there... He was serious. Cuz i got fuss'd at for laughing at him.. LMAO. But i didn't know what to take of that.. Not from him.. i thought i figured him out a little.. I didn't have any questions about our 'relationship'. i knew it cut and dry and that's what i liked.. now.... where am i?

(((True Gem)))

That is terrible! I am so sorry you are going through so much!

It doesn't look like he is capable of fidelity, and that has nothing to do with you at all. There is something off with him. It is about his need to escape true intimacy. It is about the need to have constant validation from other women. It is about his insecurity.

Try to remember that. It isn't about you. It is about him. The only thing you can do is be good to yourself and love yourself fully.

Please give yourself a big hug from me.

Ahhhh, gemini and scorpio--a great connection. Either as platonic friends or intimate partners.
However, a gemini must be evolved in his/her manner of experiencing life in order to fully appreciate the depth and love of a scorpio.
I am fortunate in that my two closest friends are both scorpios. I know that they love me and would do anything for me--but, I also know that if they don't like you--don't even try--just step away!!!!! I have been married to a scorpio for 3 yrs and would not chose another man for anything in the world

I love hearing that Cairo.. I'm getting hooked on this Scorp.. more and more every day. I just like keep waiting for him to do something, anything.. to flip that "on" switch to "off" like what always happens.. and it just doesn't.. But i don't seem to lose that interest. OH BOY.. LOL

Im having second thoughts about approaching the Scorpio women now...yikes!! LOL

m&mGem First off.. good luck 🙂 Hope you figure things out and get some insightful information from here. I absolutely love Scorpios.. I love the mystery and thrill they give me. I'm stll talking to my scoprio.. we are 'dating' lol but i struggle with this guy like non other. Like you were sayiing.. getting any information of substance is a chore. but yet he is still so blantantly honest with me. It's hard for me to understand.. so i just go with the flow.. i have come to terms with this guy.. and i'm willing to take what i can get from him.. until he doesn't put this crazy azz smile on my face anymore.

yeah just be cautious.. what i noticed about em'.. is that when they are interested OOHHHH MAN it's the best. but if someone else comes along to catch their eye.. hmm not so good. lol but see i understand all that cuz that's kinda how i am.. as bad as it sounds it's real.. so i just go with the flow and enjoy it..

That's great... Cloud 9 is my favorite place to be..lol Enjoy it!!! 🙂 Hopefully they loas for a long long time 🙂

oh cloud 9..what a wonderful place it is!

Isn't that what us Gem's live for—?

one twin says yes the other says no...go figure

Ok all you hot sexy gems {and i might add very intelligent}.I"m a male scorp and i must say your not too informed of the evolved scorpio.I realize this topic is a yr old..but i must add my 2 cents as i feel a gemmini will one day be my soul mate.{Im currently single and looking}.The evolved scorpio as oppossed to the unevolved {which is to say they are insecure, demanding ,highly jelouse,and possess a ton of other self destructine negative traits} are like eagles fyling majesticly over the earth and heavins looking out for all of mankind...THE EVOLVED SCORPIO SEEKS TO CREATE,NURTURE YOU AND ALL AROUND HIM! He seeks the best for you and himself and evryone around him INCLUDING HIS ENEMYS.He is truly a master of the human spirit,capable of all the good or all the despair and destruction on earth.And the reason im posting here is to let all you gems know{as far as this scorp is concerned} a gem is the only sign that can keep my attention and satisfy my sexuall appetite so i can enjoy a monogomus relation like everyone else, after all this is what we really seek!

bye the way...i would love to hear how the other gem/scorp lovers are making out.

=)~ fab!


😉

Ok all you hot sexy gems {and i might add very intelligent}.

Thats right, butter us up baby! hahaa

I too am recently involved with my first Scorpio guy. He's got me hooked. Addiction is putting it mildly. I've been reading up on them. And, it is so him. Although we grew up in the same town, and I friends with his younger sister, we never connected until now. We talked via tele, e-mail and texting. I didn't know if I was attracted to him because he's a man of such little words. I literally had to bite my lip to stop myself from talking so much. Then, when we met for dinner, he let it out. He is awesome. He is nice, funny, considerate and very very affectionate. He listens to me. Really listens. Which, as a Gemini, is something most don't do. A great lover is an understatement. He uses every part of his body for pleasure. I hope he's around for a while. I'm ready to jump into the deep end.
Good luck, we'll need it.

And, yes. One of my sisters and best friends are Scorpio woman. They keep me grounded. They are judgemental, but, that's ok. They have a sting when they want to, and that's ok too. I love them very very much. And, am so glad they are in my life.

I am a Gemini Sun and Moon with a raising in Leo. I actually cried when I was told that.
Glad to find you.

E-Gem... you would ask!!! Alot happened, and then... like normal i got bored. Distance played a big part. But.... we still talk and stuff.. just left it ALL that other stuff alone. FOund myself wanting more than what was reasonable. I had to detach. lol

ME TOO!!!!!!!!!! lol but ya, I think he woulda been bad for my health on that level. I tapped out! hahaha but I'm on to a Taurus.. and OHHH LAWD! E-Gem, i haven't been in a relationship in years. I'm so out of practice.. LOL

I'm working on that. He is AMAZING! it's kinda cool, cuz where i'm weak, he is strong and vice versa. Only thing so far that drives me nutso is his planning. I gotta get used to that one! HE PLANS EVERYTHING. But when i have come up with something, takes him a sec, but he adjusts pretty quick. he's got quite a bit of gem in him.. His moon and his rising i think it is, lol are both gem. i had to check in to that, cuz he gets me to the point that no one else has, all my lil' quirks, i don't even need to explain, he gets. SO i'm in a crazy state of mind these days. but of coarse lovin' it! He has lasted 2 months, so that's a good sign.

M&M!! 🙂 I'm forever laughing around him! Ya he's warned me of his stubbornness... even his mom has, but i am too, so i know a lil something about it, and i'm pretty persuasive.. 😉 I'm just enjoying it. We really compliment each other and so ya, we're in cloud 9 stage, and I'm off and runnin'. So we'll see where this leads... 🙂

Thought i'd revive this post. I recently met a scorpio and we went on a date. I honestly feel he cust an infatuation spell on him. We haven't even kissed but i feel like this could evolve into amazing experience.

I have no idea AM, but I recently charted my husband and closest friends and found an interesting trend. All my male friends are Scorpio Sun/Venus with moons in Air or Water, and all my girlfriends are either Earth Sun signs or heavily Earth influence (mostly Virgos/Tauruses). None of my friends have significant Fire or Air influences (except in Moon, interestingly enough). I'm heavily Air (Sun/Moon/Venus/Mercury in Gem). To say that I pick people who can keep me "grounded," but who are emotionally Airy is just about right. 🙂

Caps are the one Earth sign I don't attract, but I had to laugh when I found out a male colleague, who has become a regular family friend, is a Scorpio! No escape for me either, apparently.

I went on a date with my Scorp. He is amazing company. The only thing i'm wondering about is we haven't kissed. We've been on two official dates and we held hands on our last date. When we said goodbye i got a kiss on the cheek. There were so many times when it seemed the kiss would happen. Are scorps shy?

So far things are going well with the scorp. we get along well. Except for when he dusts lint off my shoulder or fixes a misplaced strand of hair on my head... whats up with that? Are scorps obsessive?

Thanks AM.
One questions for all scorps. Do you date more than one person at a time when you aren't exclusive with anyone, or do you concerntrate on one person at a time.

Hi Sweetgem, most scorps concentrates on one at the time, but know this, that scorp can have a lot of admirers whether he/she knows or not. That means they have a lot of choices. I personally would date one at a time because the energy I have to spend on loving someone is too much. Imagine if I have to use all my energies for those jealousy and possessiveness to more than one mate, too much for a scorp to handle.

This is just generalizing. Of course, everyone is different.

Hey sexy gems🙂

I have a scorpio boyfriend. Sometimes I feels he talks to me only when he's finished off all his other commitments,when i give up anything i got to do and give first priority for him, especially when i am in a more critical phase of my career now.

He does whatever he wants and at the end of which, these scorpio guys know how to talk and somehow say something that convinces me. So, I just told him to delete everything that he received from me and get over it.

But it isn;t the first time i'm telling him this, each time i tell him, he ll say something or the other and make it sound like nothing he did was wrong, and that i have a wrong way of comprehending. I am sure any gemini woman, will hate to think her boyfriend thinks she is dumb. No way!

I tell him to get over it with the conviction that he really loves me and will hence, do something to recitify any pitfalls in our relationship. Knowing scoprio;s ego, even if he doesn't do anything , i am sure he will feel bad.

I am pretty confused right now..
wil post later..

ps : some one asked how other scorpio/gems make out..So far, We met up in only in public places , so we've never made out much, except twice, once - in a corner couples'seat in a theater... when we just kissed and he was feeling and fondling me all over in the dark. The next time was a beach side late in the evening, under the moonlight and in the car 🙂 and that was... ooommphhh... took my breath away..But I was only initiating most of the times. He was a bit concerned as it was a public place.

Hey sexy gems🙂

I have a scorpio boyfriend. Sometimes I feels he talks to me only when he's finished off all his other commitments,when i give up anything i got to do and give first priority for him, especially when i am in a more critical phase of my career now.

He does whatever he wants and at the end of which, these scorpio guys know how to talk and somehow say something that convinces me. So, I just told him to delete everything that he received from me and get over it.

But it isn;t the first time i'm telling him this, each time i tell him, he ll say something or the other and make it sound like nothing he did was wrong, and that i have a wrong way of comprehending. I am sure any gemini woman, will hate to think her boyfriend thinks she is dumb. No way!

I tell him to get over it with the conviction that he really loves me and will hence, do something to recitify any pitfalls in our relationship. Knowing scoprio;s ego, even if he doesn't do anything , i am sure he will feel bad.

I am pretty confused right now..
wil post later..

ps : some one asked how other scorpio/gems make out..So far, We met up in only in public places , so we've never made out much, except twice, once - in a corner couples'seat in a theater... when we just kissed and he was feeling and fondling me all over in the dark. The next time was a beach side late in the evening, under the moonlight and in the car 🙂 and that was... ooommphhh... took my breath away..But I was only initiating most of the times. He was a bit concerned as it was a public place.

THANKS TO M&M GEM..u made my job easy..it's exactly what i am going thru wid my scorp guy india 🙂 Wow.. exactly the same feeling 🙂 almost every line of it!!!!

M&M Gem says ---
"I actually found out abt this beautiful message
board when i was at an all time low this sunday.. coz that was the day
i had a huge row with my scorp boyfriend... and i seriously felt
something was either wrong or totally confusing with me. During that
time... jus typed the words... "whats wrong with geminis" in google(at
this point i'd gladly explain myself to u, no offense meant at all to
all the gems that are proud to be one.. mee too, jus that my
depression got the better of me) and chanced upon this site.. Its too
small an expression to say.."i was delighted by my discovery".

People, I badly need advice abt this gem-scorp relationship... i'm a
pure gem.. with all the latent talents, n he's a pure scorp with all
his characteristics. N we're one luv-hit couple... truly madly deeply
in luv with each other.. right now its cherished across the
continents.. him being in India..n me here. I luv him with every ounce
of my brain that demands logic all the time, and he not only provides
that... even enhances it. I admire and adore him for all his ideals
and high self-esteem. (huh, this message board wudnt run out of mb or
gb, wotever it is, if i actually start yak-yaking abt all i like abt
him, including his... xxxxx... 😉 ). Anyways, coming back to my
question... i've been trying to make head n tail of this relation...
sometimes... i feel we're soo good as a couple.. but sometimes, cud be
cz of my ever suspicious brain.. i keep wondering if he's
manipulating. I jus cant stand any kinda manipulation... especially if
words are used for an end result of actions....

.. we're soo much passionately attached to each other..
we fight like cats n dogs.. shout at each other.. and in the same
breath come back together... i bet if we were together that moment...
we wud even physically fight n make up in the same instant... its such
an ebb n tide of emotions... of energy...

"The next time was a beach side late in the evening, under the moonlight and in the car and that was... ooommphhh... took my breath away.."

😄 You gave me an idea. haha...I had similar situation with my gem once but it wasn't at the beach. It was rather kinda like town square area where people sit there for relax and the live band was playing music during evening time under the moonlight. Oh yes, we scorp are afraid of public display of affection...😛

".. we're soo much passionately attached to each other..
we fight like cats n dogs.. shout at each other.. and in the same
breath come back together... "

You know what the say: love-hate relationship is the strongest of all. If no fight, I am sure it will even be boring. 😛
BTW, I haven't fought with my gem like cats n dogs yet but we had our heated debates and arguments so far. 😛

Nope, you are not crazy. It's called love! 🙂

Still going strong and attached to my scorp

Since when does fighting mean love? LOL

You girls are so young and dumb.

anotherscorp,

who the fuck are you anyways?

Don't recall your screen name.

First of all,

I am 25 idiot dumb ass.

Second of all who says I have to be married........the bible?

Don't make me laugh.

That same bible says Mary was a pregnant virgin.

I bet you believe that too huh?

LOL stupid Christian/Catholic pieces of shit are so gullible 😛




I bet you're a virgin saving yourself for marriage huh?



Righttttt.

keep dreaming

Oh I know who you are now...because of your picture.

You're the Scorpio slut with Sagittarius influences who thought that one night stands were a decent thing to do.

Hahaha I rather be a non-married pregnant woman....then be a whore 😉

Said the 26 year old not married pregnant lady...





And your calling me judgmental? Don't come in here acting like you're some holy virgin.


Hahahaha who cares if you had one or two one night stands. One is still enough to make you a hoe. Only dirty women do that.

Slutttttttt 🙂

Hello All,

My first post here, I think I have fallen madly in love with a Scorpio man... this is a first for me. He has completely swept me off of my feet. I must say that finding this message board has comforted me, because everything I read about the Gemini woman and the Scorpio man --- in a nut shell, I should be running for the hills. I read someone else's post and they mentioned that people are heavily attracted to scorpios... tell me about it! I am usually non-chalant, but the slightest mention of an ex-girlfriend, love interest or a random compliment makes me cringe. Now of course, I do not express this to him, I don't want him to think I am the psycho crazy girlfriend, but since when am I the jealous type... since when do I even care enough about anyone to be jealous about anything. What this man has done to me emotionally, and physically... OMG the physical, it is wicked. I wonder if he is manipulating me... if he is, how come I can't see it.

Feedback please, should I be running for the hills?

For the first time in my life... I am actually afraid that this might be the one that breaks the camels back or in my case... my heart.

blissful, you should do whatever is in your heart.

I am currently intrigued by this rather tasty Scorpio man...he has been helping me explode my inner freak....yet he is so fucking controlling I just wanna hit him sometime...grr!....he make demands I cannot submit to ...so i have decided to be totally honest and a frank with him...a untraveled path for me...yet I have decided to stick with it cause I feel I am transparent to him...I have told him that there are certain things i will not agree to....that we can discuss these things and compromise and he had the audacity to tell me he will meet me quarter way while i meet him three quarters...his nerve...anyways I am willing to embark on this journey but am unwilling to sacrifice my identity...he is sexy and intense..I get anxiety when he is unset and withdraws...he hunts my thoughts..from the first time we went out on a friendly night out...we ended up making out in a club..and the next time a nonalcoholic connection... am pacing myslf niger is so fucking sexy...we haven't even slept together yet...

what makes it even more difficult is that he catches me at my most vulnerable...help me ...

To all of the people hating on Scorpios: F*** off! Just because you had a bad relationship with a Scorpio doesn't mean that we are all like that. To the Geminis who are involved with a Scorpio: Donot listen to the negative freaks on here. Follow your heart! I think if you like your Scorpio, noone elses' opinions should matter. All of the astrology websites and books say that Scorpio and Gemini is a bad mix, but I have had Gemini men become EXTREMELY attracted to me almost to the point of obsession. Gemini men tend to be very attracted to the Scorpio women. The only thing they need to keep a tight lid on is their mouths. Sometimes Geminis say the stupidest things and then they wind up being dumped by the scorpios. Scorpios also need to just ignore Geminis tongue because they really don't mean any harm. My gemini male cousin has a crush. Dcreepy, huh? But, anyway, love is love. Don't let these haters get in the way of a good relationship just because they don't have one!