Gems please... What does this guy want—

Posted by hydorah
I think he wants to have sex OP.

Do you have your mind switched to "money" right nnow?

Posted by Moonbutter

Posted by hydorah
I think he wants to have sex OP.

Do you have your mind switched to "money" right nnow?

Interesting... We went on a date a few days ago and didn't put any moves on me.., but he reciprocate my cuddling up to him in the movies and a kiss after that he didn't let get too full on. So I dunno he acted like the perfect gentleman insisted paying, fussing over me eating/ popcorn/ drinks. He has Cancer Venus soo he's a care bear haha

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Posted by littlenanobyte
I think that you should listen to the part where he said that he's attached to the other girl.

Gems don't admit their feelings all that often so the fact that he did that, is pretty significant.

I would cut him off and tell him that he needs to focus on her and that you aren't interested in anything romantic with him. I personally wouldn't want to get involved with a man who has feelings for another woman. Too messy and too many fish in the sea, not worth it!

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Posted by littlenanobyte
I think that you should listen to the part where he said that he's attached to the other girl.

Gems don't admit their feelings all that often so the fact that he did that, is pretty significant.

I would cut him off and tell him that he needs to focus on her and that you aren't interested in anything romantic with him. I personally wouldn't want to get involved with a man who has feelings for another woman. Too messy and too many fish in the sea, not worth it!

Thanks for your insight I was hoping to hear from you ? You are right, my instincts tell me Now is not the time with him (if ever). I would've never kissed him had I known his feelings for her so then I felt caught in the middle in a way ? I think I'm kinda over it anyway.

You never know what will happen! He may really like you and he might end his whatever kind of relationship he has with the girl from high school. It sounds like there is definitely some chemistry there between them though, at least on his end (and probably with you too). But they didn't work out in the past? I'm going to guess it's just a temporary thing.

If you cut him off, be indifferent, DEMAND respect, don't allow him to be involved with the both of you, he might come around. Don't answer his messages all the time, act like the other night was a mistake, and don't even think about him.

It just depends on how well you play the hard-to-get role, and what his feelings are for you. You gotta let the other situation with the other girl play out. You already know Gemini men like women who put up a BIG fight! It turns them on.

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Posted by Moonbutter
So long story short... This Gem guy I work with stared teasing/joking with me from the get go but I take a long time to like someone and I didn't know he was interested... Until he saw me go off with a guy I had been seeing and said " so you have a new guy? I didn't like that he didn't open the door for you, you deserve better" so ok, that caught my attention? Well 2 months later I ended that and I ended up at another co- worker party where he was at well. We drank, he told me he started seeing a girl he hooked up with back in HS for about a month and wish I came to him sooner( before getting with her)he said they have no label and we actually left our group and started making out, walking around holding hands and ended up in my car where we listened to music and chatted about his situation a bit. He confessed he's starting to feel attached to the other girl but when I asked if I should back off he said nothing jus that she has kids and lives further away. Anyways, since then he's been way more flirty/ playful/ teasing. I'm thinking I should just back off, but he's making it very difficult..? What do u think his intentions are? Should I stay away?

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Posted by Moonbutter
So long story short... This Gem guy I work with stared teasing/joking with me from the get go but I take a long time to like someone and I didn't know he was interested... Until he saw me go off with a guy I had been seeing and said " so you have a new guy? I didn't like that he didn't open the door for you, you deserve better" so ok, that caught my attention? Well 2 months later I ended that and I ended up at another co- worker party where he was at well. We drank, he told me he started seeing a girl he hooked up with back in HS for about a month and wish I came to him sooner( before getting with her)he said they have no label and we actually left our group and started making out, walking around holding hands and ended up in my car where we listened to music and chatted about his situation a bit. He confessed he's starting to feel attached to the other girl but when I asked if I should back off he said nothing jus that she has kids and lives further away. Anyways, since then he's been way more flirty/ playful/ teasing. I'm thinking I should just back off, but he's making it very difficult..? What do u think his intentions are? Should I stay away?

Yes stay very far away.

You said he is developing genuine feelings for her, but he is at some party kissing you?

She lives far, and you live closer. Do the math.

He doesn't like either of you, he doesn't have respect for either of you, or himself.

Idk man. Actions speak louder than words.

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Posted by Moonbutter
So long story short... This Gem guy I work with stared teasing/joking with me from the get go but I take a long time to like someone and I didn't know he was interested... Until he saw me go off with a guy I had been seeing and said " so you have a new guy? I didn't like that he didn't open the door for you, you deserve better" so ok, that caught my attention? Well 2 months later I ended that and I ended up at another co- worker party where he was at well. We drank, he told me he started seeing a girl he hooked up with back in HS for about a month and wish I came to him sooner( before getting with her)he said they have no label and we actually left our group and started making out, walking around holding hands and ended up in my car where we listened to music and chatted about his situation a bit. He confessed he's starting to feel attached to the other girl but when I asked if I should back off he said nothing jus that she has kids and lives further away. Anyways, since then he's been way more flirty/ playful/ teasing. I'm thinking I should just back off, but he's making it very difficult..? What do u think his intentions are? Should I stay away?

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Posted by Moonbutter
So long story short... This Gem guy I work with stared teasing/joking with me from the get go but I take a long time to like someone and I didn't know he was interested... Until he saw me go off with a guy I had been seeing and said " so you have a new guy? I didn't like that he didn't open the door for you, you deserve better" so ok, that caught my attention? Well 2 months later I ended that and I ended up at another co- worker party where he was at well. We drank, he told me he started seeing a girl he hooked up with back in HS for about a month and wish I came to him sooner( before getting with her)he said they have no label and we actually left our group and started making out, walking around holding hands and ended up in my car where we listened to music and chatted about his situation a bit. He confessed he's starting to feel attached to the other girl but when I asked if I should back off he said nothing jus that she has kids and lives further away. Anyways, since then he's been way more flirty/ playful/ teasing. I'm thinking I should just back off, but he's making it very difficult..? What do u think his intentions are? Should I stay away?

My 2c

He is with someone else at the moment. First ask yourself if you want to be the other woman. Then ask yourself, if he can do it to her, would he end up doing it to you.

Until they are officially no longer together, I think you should let him know that not only do you respect yourself but their relationship.

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Posted by Moonbutter
So long story short... This Gem guy I work with stared teasing/joking with me from the get go but I take a long time to like someone and I didn't know he was interested... Until he saw me go off with a guy I had been seeing and said " so you have a new guy? I didn't like that he didn't open the door for you, you deserve better" so ok, that caught my attention? Well 2 months later I ended that and I ended up at another co- worker party where he was at well. We drank, he told me he started seeing a girl he hooked up with back in HS for about a month and wish I came to him sooner( before getting with her)he said they have no label and we actually left our group and started making out, walking around holding hands and ended up in my car where we listened to music and chatted about his situation a bit. He confessed he's starting to feel attached to the other girl but when I asked if I should back off he said nothing jus that she has kids and lives further away. Anyways, since then he's been way more flirty/ playful/ teasing. I'm thinking I should just back off, but he's making it very difficult..? What do u think his intentions are? Should I stay away?

My 2c

He is with someone else at the moment. First ask yourself if you want to be the other woman. Then ask yourself, if he can do it to her, would he end up doing it to you.

Until they are officially no longer together, I think you should let him know that not only do you respect yourself but their relationship.

Thank you for your advice, and yes I agree. I'm not one to be in the way but I got mixed up in it. I don't believe they will last due to his 60hr work schedule, she lives over an hr away and has 2 kids so they barely see eachother. But, you never know maybe they will fall in love and be happy ? I told him I was kinda ignoring him out of respect for their relationship and he immediately said they have no title soo who knows what the heck lol. I'm out?

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Posted by Moonbutter
So long story short... This Gem guy I work with stared teasing/joking with me from the get go but I take a long time to like someone and I didn't know he was interested... Until he saw me go off with a guy I had been seeing and said " so you have a new guy? I didn't like that he didn't open the door for you, you deserve better" so ok, that caught my attention? Well 2 months later I ended that and I ended up at another co- worker party where he was at well. We drank, he told me he started seeing a girl he hooked up with back in HS for about a month and wish I came to him sooner( before getting with her)he said they have no label and we actually left our group and started making out, walking around holding hands and ended up in my car where we listened to music and chatted about his situation a bit. He confessed he's starting to feel attached to the other girl but when I asked if I should back off he said nothing jus that she has kids and lives further away. Anyways, since then he's been way more flirty/ playful/ teasing. I'm thinking I should just back off, but he's making it very difficult..? What do u think his intentions are? Should I stay away?

My 2c

He is with someone else at the moment. First ask yourself if you want to be the other woman. Then ask yourself, if he can do it to her, would he end up doing it to you.

Until they are officially no longer together, I think you should let him know that not only do you respect yourself but their relationship.

Thank you for your advice, and yes I agree. I'm not one to be in the way but I got mixed up in it. I don't believe they will last due to his 60hr work schedule, she lives over an hr away and has 2 kids so they barely see eachother. But, you never know maybe they will fall in love and be happy ? I told him I was kinda ignoring him out of respect for their relationship and he immediately said they have no title soo who knows what the heck lol. I'm out?

When you are both free to explore one another, who knows what can happen. I always believe if people are meant to be together, they will be when the time is right for both parties involved 😄

Best of luck and what ever happens, may the ending be a happy one for all of you

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Posted by littlenanobyte

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Posted by littlenanobyte
I think that you should listen to the part where he said that he's attached to the other girl.

Gems don't admit their feelings all that often so the fact that he did that, is pretty significant.

I would cut him off and tell him that he needs to focus on her and that you aren't interested in anything romantic with him. I personally wouldn't want to get involved with a man who has feelings for another woman. Too messy and too many fish in the sea, not worth it!

Thanks for your insight I was hoping to hear from you ? You are right, my instincts tell me Now is not the time with him (if ever). I would've never kissed him had I known his feelings for her so then I felt caught in the middle in a way ? I think I'm kinda over it anyway.

You never know what will happen! He may really like you and he might end his whatever kind of relationship he has with the girl from high school. It sounds like there is definitely some chemistry there between them though, at least on his end (and probably with you too). But they didn't work out in the past? I'm going to guess it's just a temporary thing.

If you cut him off, be indifferent, DEMAND respect, don't allow him to be involved with the both of you, he might come around. Don't answer his messages all the time, act like the other night was a mistake, and don't even think about him.

It just depends on how well you play the hard-to-get role, and what his feelings are for you. You gotta let the other situation with the other girl play out. You already know Gemini men like women who put up a BIG fight! It turns them on.

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Posted by littlenanobyte
I think that you should listen to the part where he said that he's attached to the other girl.

Gems don't admit their feelings all that often so the fact that he did that, is pretty significant.

I would cut him off and tell him that he needs to focus on her and that you aren't interested in anything romantic with him. I personally wouldn't want to get involved with a man who has feelings for another woman. Too messy and too many fish in the sea, not worth it!

Thanks for your insight I was hoping to hear from you ? You are right, my instincts tell me Now is not the time with him (if ever). I would've never kissed him had I known his feelings for her so then I felt caught in the middle in a way ? I think I'm kinda over it anyway.

You never know what will happen! He may really like you and he might end his whatever kind of relationship he has with the girl from high school. It sounds like there is definitely some chemistry there between them though, at least on his end (and probably with you too). But they didn't work out in the past? I'm going to guess it's just a temporary thing.

If you cut him off, be indifferent, DEMAND respect, don't allow him to be involved with the both of you, he might come around. Don't answer his messages all the time, act like the other night was a mistake, and don't even think about him.

It just depends on how well you play the hard-to-get role, and what his feelings are for you. You gotta let the other situation with the other girl play out. You already know Gemini men like women who put up a BIG fight! It turns them on.

Soo I took your advice @littlenanobyte I told him I'm backing away so him and his girl can have a chance without a third party. I told him I hoped have made him happy☺️ And I haven't heard anything ? What do u think he's thinking?

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Posted by geminidude
I think he is looking for a rebound and I bet he figured out that you got a soft corner towards Gemini hehe. So watch yourself, sooner or later your pants going to get wet big time.

Posted by littlenanobyte
I think that you should listen to the part where he said that he's attached to the other girl.

Gems don't admit their feelings all that often so the fact that he did that, is pretty significant.

I would cut him off and tell him that he needs to focus on her and that you aren't interested in anything romantic with him. I personally wouldn't want to get involved with a man who has feelings for another woman. Too messy and too many fish in the sea, not worth it!

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Posted by littlenanobyte
I think that you should listen to the part where he said that he's attached to the other girl.

Gems don't admit their feelings all that often so the fact that he did that, is pretty significant.

I would cut him off and tell him that he needs to focus on her and that you aren't interested in anything romantic with him. I personally wouldn't want to get involved with a man who has feelings for another woman. Too messy and too many fish in the sea, not worth it!

Thanks for your insight I was hoping to hear from you ? You are right, my instincts tell me Now is not the time with him (if ever). I would've never kissed him had I known his feelings for her so then I felt caught in the middle in a way ? I think I'm kinda over it anyway.

You never know what will happen! He may really like you and he might end his whatever kind of relationship he has with the girl from high school. It sounds like there is definitely some chemistry there between them though, at least on his end (and probably with you too). But they didn't work out in the past? I'm going to guess it's just a temporary thing.

If you cut him off, be indifferent, DEMAND respect, don't allow him to be involved with the both of you, he might come around. Don't answer his messages all the time, act like the other night was a mistake, and don't even think about him.

It just depends on how well you play the hard-to-get role, and what his feelings are for you. You gotta let the other situation with the other girl play out. You already know Gemini men like women who put up a BIG fight! It turns them on.

Soo I took your advice @littlenanobyte I told him I'm backing away so him and his girl can have a chance without a third party. I told him I hoped have made him happy☺️ And I haven't heard anything ? What do u think he's thinking?

Good for you! I wouldn't have send him the message though. I would have just kinda fell off the face of the Earth. The trick with gemini men or really any men, is that you have more power when the ball is in your court. When you messaged him, you gave the whole situation a bit of closure and he probably doesn't know what to do now. Whereas if you just stopped talking all together, it would be driving him CRAZY. He will want to know what are you doing? Why aren't you writing back? Did she meet someone new? And the mystery will make you more desirable.

Did he respond yet??

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your moon shit

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your moon shit

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your moon shit

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your moon shit

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😕

What do u mean "your moon butter" ?

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your moon shit

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😕

What do u mean "your moon butter" ?

😆

He was making a joke about how "butter" is censored as "shit" on this website so, you're "moonshit"

.... I think.

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Posted by BuffaloBills28
Gemini's like to play around.. If he wants to play with you, then why not play back? 🙂 You only live once. lol.

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Gemini's like to play around.. If he wants to play with you, then why not play back? 🙂 You only live once. lol.

Yeah, he likes me "feels some type of way" with me and doesn't want to stop the flirting at work, yet he's feeling attached to the other girl soo why if he's so attached to her he still wants to flirt with me? I don't wanna play around cuz my feelings got involved and I don't have a SO to unleash them on like he does. If he still likes me and wondering "what could have been between us" then does that mean he's not all that into the other girl?

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Posted by BuffaloBills28
Gemini's like to play around.. If he wants to play with you, then why not play back? 🙂 You only live once. lol.

Yeah, he likes me "feels some type of way" with me and doesn't want to stop the flirting at work, yet he's feeling attached to the other girl soo why if he's so attached to her he still wants to flirt with me? I don't wanna play around cuz my feelings got involved and I don't have a SO to unleash them on like he does. If he still likes me and wondering "what could have been between us" then does that mean he's not all that into the other girl?

A dude straight up told u he is feeling another chick ALOT and you're on here creating threads about him?

He flirts cuz it's fun, not cause he likes you.

He likes her and told u verbatim. If he liked you more y'all would be together.

Don't make it more complicated than it needs to be. And if you already told him your moving on, why are you still here not moving on and pining over him and what he is feeling?

It's healthier to yourself to move on.

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Posted by BuffaloBills28
Gemini's like to play around.. If he wants to play with you, then why not play back? 🙂 You only live once. lol.

Yeah, he likes me "feels some type of way" with me and doesn't want to stop the flirting at work, yet he's feeling attached to the other girl soo why if he's so attached to her he still wants to flirt with me? I don't wanna play around cuz my feelings got involved and I don't have a SO to unleash them on like he does. If he still likes me and wondering "what could have been between us" then does that mean he's not all that into the other girl?

A dude straight up told u he is feeling another chick ALOT and you're on here creating threads about him?

He flirts cuz it's fun, not cause he likes you.

He likes her and told u verbatim. If he liked you more y'all would be together.

Don't make it more complicated than it needs to be. And if you already told him your moving on, why are you still here not moving on and pining over him and what he is feeling?

It's healthier to yourself to move on.

I had a long conversation with him yesterday and he admitted to feeling attached to me but I never caught on(bad timing) when I finally did return his affections but he's also feeling attached to another girl who he actually stared seeing so yeah, because of that I will have to wait my turn ? Lol I was over it pretty much then yesterday he wouldn't leave me alone and when I asked him why he keeps teasing/ flirting he said it's because he still likes me. So there you have it. I asked him to ignore me and he sounded sad when he said "well you have been ignoring me anyway" he has Cancer Venus I know they are major softies and once they feel attached it lingers... We'll see ?

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Posted by BuffaloBills28
Gemini's like to play around.. If he wants to play with you, then why not play back? 🙂 You only live once. lol.

Yeah, he likes me "feels some type of way" with me and doesn't want to stop the flirting at work, yet he's feeling attached to the other girl soo why if he's so attached to her he still wants to flirt with me? I don't wanna play around cuz my feelings got involved and I don't have a SO to unleash them on like he does. If he still likes me and wondering "what could have been between us" then does that mean he's not all that into the other girl?

A dude straight up told u he is feeling another chick ALOT and you're on here creating threads about him?

He flirts cuz it's fun, not cause he likes you.

He likes her and told u verbatim. If he liked you more y'all would be together.

Don't make it more complicated than it needs to be. And if you already told him your moving on, why are you still here not moving on and pining over him and what he is feeling?

It's healthier to yourself to move on.

I had a long conversation with him yesterday and he admitted to feeling attached to me but I never caught on(bad timing) when I finally did return his affections but he's also feeling attached to another girl who he actually stared seeing so yeah, because of that I will have to wait my turn ? Lol I was over it pretty much then yesterday he wouldn't leave me alone and when I asked him why he keeps teasing/ flirting he said it's because he still likes me. So there you have it. I asked him to ignore me and he sounded sad when he said "well you have been ignoring me anyway" he has Cancer Venus I know they are major softies and once they feel attached it lingers... We'll see ?

It is kinda sad that if I had known 2 weeks before I did that I liked him we would have been together. No matter, I will respect his relationship and turns out we don't have much anything in common anyways soo prob wouldn't have gone too far... Not to mention he works way too much and with my schedule we would Barely have had any time alone together. I know this is for the better I'm just hoping he respects that and leaves me alone for awhile at least 🙂

This is sad. But ok.

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Posted by BuffaloBills28
Gemini's like to play around.. If he wants to play with you, then why not play back? 🙂 You only live once. lol.

Yeah, he likes me "feels some type of way" with me and doesn't want to stop the flirting at work, yet he's feeling attached to the other girl soo why if he's so attached to her he still wants to flirt with me? I don't wanna play around cuz my feelings got involved and I don't have a SO to unleash them on like he does. If he still likes me and wondering "what could have been between us" then does that mean he's not all that into the other girl?

A dude straight up told u he is feeling another chick ALOT and you're on here creating threads about him?

He flirts cuz it's fun, not cause he likes you.

He likes her and told u verbatim. If he liked you more y'all would be together.

Don't make it more complicated than it needs to be. And if you already told him your moving on, why are you still here not moving on and pining over him and what he is feeling?

It's healthier to yourself to move on.

I had a long conversation with him yesterday and he admitted to feeling attached to me but I never caught on(bad timing) when I finally did return his affections but he's also feeling attached to another girl who he actually stared seeing so yeah, because of that I will have to wait my turn ? Lol I was over it pretty much then yesterday he wouldn't leave me alone and when I asked him why he keeps teasing/ flirting he said it's because he still likes me. So there you have it. I asked him to ignore me and he sounded sad when he said "well you have been ignoring me anyway" he has Cancer Venus I know they are major softies and once they feel attached it lingers... We'll see ?

You don't want him to leave you alone and you don't want to leave him alone. You want to be strung along with the hopes one day he chooses you.

Why would u ask him to ignore you, if you're the one who decided to fall back and let him pursue the new woman he likes? Do you have no self control or respect?

This man knows he has you on a hook and stop attributing this to Astro placements, it shallow and not smart. We as people are bigger than that.who cares it his Venus is in cancer?!

But good luck sis, good luck.

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Posted by bkbella86
I don't see it in the OP but I don't see where he ever pursued you. So this isn't a matter if you would have liked him sooner, it doesn't sound like he ever approached you romantically, am I wrong?

Posted by bkbella86
Also you work with this dude?

Why would you risk your coins for someone who is unsure?

He shouldn't even be on your radar.

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I don't see it in the OP but I don't see where he ever pursued you. So this isn't a matter if you would have liked him sooner, it doesn't sound like he ever approached you romantically, am I wrong?

Well I was dating another guy the whole time so he couldn't have. When I ended things I realized I liked him but then I was about 2 weeks too late? He had started seeing a girl from his HS so they had a past and she just moved to the state he lives in. I think he tried to give me hints but I wasn't showing reciprocating signs so of course he wouldn't directly pursue me. It's ok, things happen for a reason.

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Also you work with this dude?

Why would you risk your coins for someone who is unsure?

He shouldn't even be on your radar.

That's why he wasn't...but then something he said flipped a switch for me

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I don't see it in the OP but I don't see where he ever pursued you. So this isn't a matter if you would have liked him sooner, it doesn't sound like he ever approached you romantically, am I wrong?

Well I was dating another guy the whole time so he couldn't have. When I ended things I realized I liked him but then I was about 2 weeks too late? He had started seeing a girl from his HS so they had a past and she just moved to the state he lives in. I think he tried to give me hints but I wasn't showing reciprocating signs so of course he wouldn't directly pursue me. It's ok, things happen for a reason.

You seem to have all the answers yet you're hear asking questions. If you were so sure you wouldn't have created this thread.

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I don't see it in the OP but I don't see where he ever pursued you. So this isn't a matter if you would have liked him sooner, it doesn't sound like he ever approached you romantically, am I wrong?

Well I was dating another guy the whole time so he couldn't have. When I ended things I realized I liked him but then I was about 2 weeks too late? He had started seeing a girl from his HS so they had a past and she just moved to the state he lives in. I think he tried to give me hints but I wasn't showing reciprocating signs so of course he wouldn't directly pursue me. It's ok, things happen for a reason.

You seem to have all the answers yet you're hear asking questions. If you were so sure you wouldn't have created this thread.

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Also you work with this dude?

Why would you risk your coins for someone who is unsure?

He shouldn't even be on your radar.

That's why he wasn't...but then something he said flipped a switch for me

Oh it was that easy to risk your coins. Over something he said huh?

Not done but said. Ok

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Also you work with this dude?

Why would you risk your coins for someone who is unsure?

He shouldn't even be on your radar.

That's why he wasn't...but then something he said flipped a switch for me

Oh it was that easy to risk your coins. Over something he said huh?

Not done but said. Ok

I'm not really risking anything, and yeah he said something that revealed his feelings for me and I started wondering about him.

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Gemini's like to play around.. If he wants to play with you, then why not play back? 🙂 You only live once. lol.

Yeah, he likes me "feels some type of way" with me and doesn't want to stop the flirting at work, yet he's feeling attached to the other girl soo why if he's so attached to her he still wants to flirt with me? I don't wanna play around cuz my feelings got involved and I don't have a SO to unleash them on like he does. If he still likes me and wondering "what could have been between us" then does that mean he's not all that into the other girl?

I think if he's truly that attached with the other girl, he wouldn't be holding hands with you, making out, and sitting in a car. (where let's be honest, anything can happen) 🙂 ). I don't know, he could just be an extremely disloyal person, where he just doesn't really care about hurting that girl he's with, and still wants to mess around with you even though he might have feelings for that girl.

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Posted by Se7en
Someone is obsessed with Gemini men.

Posted by Se7en

Posted by Moonbutter

Posted by Se7en
Someone is obsessed with Gemini men.

I am... And like a freaking magnet for them?fML ? I just haven't found the right one yet lol. My Mars is Gemini so I blame it on that and I'm air dominant ?

What city and state do live in so I can run into you.

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Posted by Moonbutter

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Posted by BuffaloBills28
Gemini's like to play around.. If he wants to play with you, then why not play back? 🙂 You only live once. lol.

Yeah, he likes me "feels some type of way" with me and doesn't want to stop the flirting at work, yet he's feeling attached to the other girl soo why if he's so attached to her he still wants to flirt with me? I don't wanna play around cuz my feelings got involved and I don't have a SO to unleash them on like he does. If he still likes me and wondering "what could have been between us" then does that mean he's not all that into the other girl?

I think if he's truly that attached with the other girl, he wouldn't be holding hands with you, making out, and sitting in a car. (where let's be honest, anything can happen) 🙂 ). I don't know, he could just be an extremely disloyal person, where he just doesn't really care about hurting that girl he's with, and still wants to mess around with you even though he might have feelings for that girl.

That's the thing... He had feelings for me before she came in to the picture and then when he started seeing her he was getting attached but I see him almost every day where as he sees her every other week most times... He's not a player, I think he just a bit torn.

If you want it, go after it. Making bad decisions is better than having regrets because you didn't do anything 🙂 ) If you can influence the matter, then do it.

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Posted by Moonbutter

Posted by BuffaloBills28
Gemini's like to play around.. If he wants to play with you, then why not play back? 🙂 You only live once. lol.

Yeah, he likes me "feels some type of way" with me and doesn't want to stop the flirting at work, yet he's feeling attached to the other girl soo why if he's so attached to her he still wants to flirt with me? I don't wanna play around cuz my feelings got involved and I don't have a SO to unleash them on like he does. If he still likes me and wondering "what could have been between us" then does that mean he's not all that into the other girl?

I think if he's truly that attached with the other girl, he wouldn't be holding hands with you, making out, and sitting in a car. (where let's be honest, anything can happen) 🙂 ). I don't know, he could just be an extremely disloyal person, where he just doesn't really care about hurting that girl he's with, and still wants to mess around with you even though he might have feelings for that girl.

That's the thing... He had feelings for me before she came in to the picture and then when he started seeing her he was getting attached but I see him almost every day where as he sees her every other week most times... He's not a player, I think he just a bit torn.

If you want it, go after it. Making bad decisions is better than having regrets because you didn't do anything 🙂 ) If you can influence the matter, then do it.

I did that... I pursued it but I felt from him he was torn and feeling guilty so it didn't feel right. No regrets, I'm glad I was brave and ventured out of my comfort zone 🙂 all will end well.

You'll be alright beautiful 🙂

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Posted by ozzzy
Some Gem guys just refuse to give up, even if the girl is rejecting them. I have one good Gem friend that banged over 200 chicks, and he's 28 years old. Many of them were like models. On the date, if girl try to reject his attempt for a kiss, he will try later many times again, lol.