Gems please... What does this guy want— (Page 2)

Posted by ozzzy
Some Gem guys just refuse to give up, even if the girl is rejecting them. I have one good Gem friend that banged over 200 chicks, and he's 28 years old. Many of them were like models. On the date, if girl try to reject his attempt for a kiss, he will try later many times again, lol.

That's disgusting.

Well, disgusting or not, many girls like guys with experience, even if they don't want to admit that...but if they know that guy banged a lot of chicks, and have a choice, he will be even more wanted. That's how it works...the same as with single men vs men in relationships...the other ones are more attractive and visible to girls. 🙂

Well, don't know about his skills in bed, but he recently posted that he's crunching like Rocco Siffredi, lol. That's not the point. The point is, that majority of women will be attracted to guy that regularly bangs different hot chicks, because they will know that those girls see something in him, and that he does have what is necessary to attract them...and those girls like challenge, which he does provide. I see that girls from 15 to 32 are chasing him now, lol. They like that overconfidence in his behavior.

Lmao...well, yeah, I find it interesting that even though he's posting status like that, girls are still interested, and mostly the hot ones. No wonder his confidence is through the roof.

Yet, he wants a girl that looks like from the porn, to be faithful to him, and to love him...no wonder that he still just bangs those chicks, and nothing more. He's searching something impossible. 😄

Posted by ozzzy
Well, disgusting or not, many girls like guys with experience, even if they don't want to admit that...but if they know that guy banged a lot of chicks, and have a choice, he will be even more wanted. That's how it works...the same as with single men vs men in relationships...the other ones are more attractive and visible to girls. 🙂

It is attractive for a guy to have been with a woman in a relationship and he was faithful. If an ex or 2 still wants him that can be hot as long he's not interested lol

So I told the Gemini I'm backing out from this, and that he hurt me with getting my number And texting me when he was already seeing someone. I don't reach out to him, but he still tries to get my attention at work. SMH Geminis ? Lol

And also, that Gem friend when he was finally in a relationship with a girl that he really liked, he still banged other chicks behind her back...and they were together for 3 years. 😄

Posted by ozzzy
And also, that Gem friend when he was finally in a relationship with a girl that he really liked, he still banged other chicks behind her back...and they were together for 3 years. 😄

And you think that is honorable? Something to be proud of? He's disgusting and you are an enabler. I have zero respect for guys or girls like that.

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Posted by Moonbutter
So I told the Gemini I'm backing out from this, and that he hurt me with getting my number And texting me when he was already seeing someone. I don't reach out to him, but he still tries to get my attention at work. SMH Geminis ? Lol

I so do not understand this - just like that other topic about gems not leaving a girl alone. I have never in my life experienced something like that, only as a kid.

I really think, thay they don´t really believe you. So now it´s just up to you to show you are being serious.

... If you in fact are 😉

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He still has to say something, but I guess that's just him... I kinda do like it dang it and he was a first Decan Gemini ?

Posted by Moonbutter
So long story short... This Gem guy I work with stared teasing/joking with me from the get go but I take a long time to like someone and I didn't know he was interested... Until he saw me go off with a guy I had been seeing and said " so you have a new guy? I didn't like that he didn't open the door for you, you deserve better" so ok, that caught my attention? Well 2 months later I ended that and I ended up at another co- worker party where he was at well. We drank, he told me he started seeing a girl he hooked up with back in HS for about a month and wish I came to him sooner( before getting with her)he said they have no label and we actually left our group and started making out, walking around holding hands and ended up in my car where we listened to music and chatted about his situation a bit. He confessed he's starting to feel attached to the other girl but when I asked if I should back off he said nothing jus that she has kids and lives further away. Anyways, since then he's been way more flirty/ playful/ teasing. I'm thinking I should just back off, but he's making it very difficult..? What do u think his intentions are? Should I stay away?

Didn't you say you see multiple guys at the same time anyway?

His intention should be pretty easy to figure out – to make the list...

Posted by themagnetoreborn

Posted by Moonbutter
So long story short... This Gem guy I work with stared teasing/joking with me from the get go but I take a long time to like someone and I didn't know he was interested... Until he saw me go off with a guy I had been seeing and said " so you have a new guy? I didn't like that he didn't open the door for you, you deserve better" so ok, that caught my attention? Well 2 months later I ended that and I ended up at another co- worker party where he was at well. We drank, he told me he started seeing a girl he hooked up with back in HS for about a month and wish I came to him sooner( before getting with her)he said they have no label and we actually left our group and started making out, walking around holding hands and ended up in my car where we listened to music and chatted about his situation a bit. He confessed he's starting to feel attached to the other girl but when I asked if I should back off he said nothing jus that she has kids and lives further away. Anyways, since then he's been way more flirty/ playful/ teasing. I'm thinking I should just back off, but he's making it very difficult..? What do u think his intentions are? Should I stay away?

Didn't you say you see multiple guys at the same time anyway?

His intention should be pretty easy to figure out – to make the list...

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@themsgnetoreborn No, I'm not. Where did you see that?

Posted by Moonbutter

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Posted by Moonbutter
So long story short... This Gem guy I work with stared teasing/joking with me from the get go but I take a long time to like someone and I didn't know he was interested... Until he saw me go off with a guy I had been seeing and said " so you have a new guy? I didn't like that he didn't open the door for you, you deserve better" so ok, that caught my attention? Well 2 months later I ended that and I ended up at another co- worker party where he was at well. We drank, he told me he started seeing a girl he hooked up with back in HS for about a month and wish I came to him sooner( before getting with her)he said they have no label and we actually left our group and started making out, walking around holding hands and ended up in my car where we listened to music and chatted about his situation a bit. He confessed he's starting to feel attached to the other girl but when I asked if I should back off he said nothing jus that she has kids and lives further away. Anyways, since then he's been way more flirty/ playful/ teasing. I'm thinking I should just back off, but he's making it very difficult..? What do u think his intentions are? Should I stay away?

Didn't you say you see multiple guys at the same time anyway?

His intention should be pretty easy to figure out – to make the list...

@themsgnetoreborn No, I'm not. Where did you see that?

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Idk.

Posted by themagnetoreborn

Posted by Moonbutter

Posted by themagnetoreborn

Posted by Moonbutter
So long story short... This Gem guy I work with stared teasing/joking with me from the get go but I take a long time to like someone and I didn't know he was interested... Until he saw me go off with a guy I had been seeing and said " so you have a new guy? I didn't like that he didn't open the door for you, you deserve better" so ok, that caught my attention? Well 2 months later I ended that and I ended up at another co- worker party where he was at well. We drank, he told me he started seeing a girl he hooked up with back in HS for about a month and wish I came to him sooner( before getting with her)he said they have no label and we actually left our group and started making out, walking around holding hands and ended up in my car where we listened to music and chatted about his situation a bit. He confessed he's starting to feel attached to the other girl but when I asked if I should back off he said nothing jus that she has kids and lives further away. Anyways, since then he's been way more flirty/ playful/ teasing. I'm thinking I should just back off, but he's making it very difficult..? What do u think his intentions are? Should I stay away?

Didn't you say you see multiple guys at the same time anyway?

His intention should be pretty easy to figure out – to make the list...

@themsgnetoreborn No, I'm not. Where did you see that?

Idk.

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Lol well what list are you referring to? he's the only guy I've kissed recently. We all went out for a co-workers wedding and he let me stay in his truck playing music for us to listen and sing to for at least an hour while I waited for my ride. He had his car running the whole time. I thought that was very sweet of him.

When a man is seeing, sleeping, kissing, holding, & being with another woman, this is already not a good sign. He is not free or available to be all yours & invest his time and effort into your relationship. I suggest backing off until he's free from the other person. If he doesn't leave her than that means there's more in that relationship.

Posted by Mike79
When a man is seeing, sleeping, kissing, holding, & being with another woman, this is already not a good sign. He is not free or available to be all yours & invest his time and effort into your relationship. I suggest backing off until he's free from the other person. If he doesn't leave her than that means there's more in that relationship.

@Mike79 you are right ? I did back away and he just continues to try to get my attention at work. I know he has feelings for her but why is he still coming after me? He said he wanted to kiss me. Is it just lust from him? Does he have feelings for both of us since he started liking me months before she came in the picture? She looks like a cracked out version of me in a way ?

Posted by Moonbutter

Posted by Mike79
When a man is seeing, sleeping, kissing, holding, & being with another woman, this is already not a good sign. He is not free or available to be all yours & invest his time and effort into your relationship. I suggest backing off until he's free from the other person. If he doesn't leave her than that means there's more in that relationship.

@Mike79 you are right ? I did back away and he just continues to try to get my attention at work. I know he has feelings for her but why is he still coming after me? He said he wanted to kiss me. Is it just lust from him? Does he have feelings for both of us since he started liking me months before she came in the picture? She looks like a cracked out version of me in a way ?

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If you meant more to him, he would end things with her & ask you out.

I think he may only want to see how far your willing to go. Stay classy & don't give him the satisfaction. He must earn it with actions. & his first action is becoming single in order to have you.

Posted by Mike79

Posted by Moonbutter

Posted by Mike79
When a man is seeing, sleeping, kissing, holding, & being with another woman, this is already not a good sign. He is not free or available to be all yours & invest his time and effort into your relationship. I suggest backing off until he's free from the other person. If he doesn't leave her than that means there's more in that relationship.

@Mike79 you are right ? I did back away and he just continues to try to get my attention at work. I know he has feelings for her but why is he still coming after me? He said he wanted to kiss me. Is it just lust from him? Does he have feelings for both of us since he started liking me months before she came in the picture? She looks like a cracked out version of me in a way ?

If you meant more to him, he would end things with her & ask you out.

I think he may only want to see how far your willing to go. Stay classy & don't give him the satisfaction. He must earn it with actions. & his first action is becoming single in order to have you.

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Ok, you make a really good point. Thank u 😄

Posted by Mike79

Posted by Moonbutter

Posted by Mike79
When a man is seeing, sleeping, kissing, holding, & being with another woman, this is already not a good sign. He is not free or available to be all yours & invest his time and effort into your relationship. I suggest backing off until he's free from the other person. If he doesn't leave her than that means there's more in that relationship.

@Mike79 you are right ? I did back away and he just continues to try to get my attention at work. I know he has feelings for her but why is he still coming after me? He said he wanted to kiss me. Is it just lust from him? Does he have feelings for both of us since he started liking me months before she came in the picture? She looks like a cracked out version of me in a way ?

If you meant more to him, he would end things with her & ask you out.

I think he may only want to see how far your willing to go. Stay classy & don't give him the satisfaction. He must earn it with actions. & his first action is becoming single in order to have you.

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Ok, you make a really good point. Thank u 😄