Gems with Gem venus! Decode such strange behavior

Posted by Moonbutter
How do you show interest(not just sexual)... Do you out right heavy flirt w/sexual ennuendos and asking how much for booty call? Or would that be more for someone u dated and are trying to get the person back so you use sexual humor? My ex has been doing this for weeks and when I say " ok, let's meet up" he backs off... But he continues text me and says " you never know what happens in the future" he also says I'm his "best" and hard to forget. He has Scorp Mars so maybe that's why hard for him to let go? Any experiences...have u done this before and what was your intention?

Posted by Moonbutter
Hey gem guy 🙂 prove he wants to sleep with me? Or prove he wants to be with me? Is this odd or normal gem flirting? He told me "the finest booty happens to be attached to a great girl.. Who needs her shewolf claws trimmed lol" I dunno what to make of his comment, haha.

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Posted by Moonbutter
Hey gem guy 🙂 prove he wants to sleep with me? Or prove he wants to be with me? Is this odd or normal gem flirting? He told me "the finest booty happens to be attached to a great girl.. Who needs her shewolf claws trimmed lol" I dunno what to make of his comment, haha.

He needs to prove his sincerity to be with you. He needs to regard you as more than a piece of ass. If he is sincere he needs to prove himself in more than one way than just a fling in the sack.

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Posted by Moonbutter
Hey gem guy 🙂 prove he wants to sleep with me? Or prove he wants to be with me? Is this odd or normal gem flirting? He told me "the finest booty happens to be attached to a great girl.. Who needs her shewolf claws trimmed lol" I dunno what to make of his comment, haha.

He needs to prove his sincerity to be with you. He needs to regard you as more than a piece of ass. If he is sincere he needs to prove himself in more than one way than just a fling in the sack.

Thank I for your gem wisdom🙂 so based on that so far u think he's confused what he wants or just being immature about moving forward with me?

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Posted by Moonbutter
Hey gem guy 🙂 prove he wants to sleep with me? Or prove he wants to be with me? Is this odd or normal gem flirting? He told me "the finest booty happens to be attached to a great girl.. Who needs her shewolf claws trimmed lol" I dunno what to make of his comment, haha.

He needs to prove his sincerity to be with you. He needs to regard you as more than a piece of ass. If he is sincere he needs to prove himself in more than one way than just a fling in the sack.

Thank I for your gem wisdom🙂 so based on that so far u think he's confused what he wants or just being immature about moving forward with me?

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Posted by Moonbutter
Hey gem guy 🙂 prove he wants to sleep with me? Or prove he wants to be with me? Is this odd or normal gem flirting? He told me "the finest booty happens to be attached to a great girl.. Who needs her shewolf claws trimmed lol" I dunno what to make of his comment, haha.

He needs to prove his sincerity to be with you. He needs to regard you as more than a piece of ass. If he is sincere he needs to prove himself in more than one way than just a fling in the sack.

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Posted by Moonbutter
Yes, thanku gemguy! I have and we've been off/on dating for like 5years he just stuck in his ways...this the longest we been broke up. We discussed marriage /kids before so I know I'm more then just a piece of ass to him but your right he needs to show me he's serious to have a life with me. Thank u for putting in perspective 🙂 sorry the grammar is krazy on my iPhone lol

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Posted by Moonbutter
Yes, thanku gemguy! I have and we've been off/on dating for like 5years he just stuck in his ways...this the longest we been broke up. We discussed marriage /kids before so I know I'm more then just a piece of ass to him but your right he needs to show me he's serious to have a life with me. Thank u for putting in perspective 🙂 sorry the grammar is krazy on my iPhone lol

To be even more realistic, if you have to keep coming to the Gemini forum once a week and posting a new topic to figure him out, I don't want to sound mean, but you seem to be a little insecure. Marriage and kids should not even be a consideration right now until you know where things really stand.

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Posted by Moonbutter
Hey gem guy 🙂 prove he wants to sleep with me? Or prove he wants to be with me? Is this odd or normal gem flirting? He told me "the finest booty happens to be attached to a great girl.. Who needs her shewolf claws trimmed lol" I dunno what to make of his comment, haha.

He needs to prove his sincerity to be with you. He needs to regard you as more than a piece of ass. If he is sincere he needs to prove himself in more than one way than just a fling in the sack.

Lorddd! You...again. still. What the gemguy said. Stop playing with him if you want to be sure what is up. Stand firm and don't waver. Tell him to put up or shut up. End of story.....

Sobriety.

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Posted by Moonbutter
Yes, thanku gemguy! I have and we've been off/on dating for like 5years he just stuck in his ways...this the longest we been broke up. We discussed marriage /kids before so I know I'm more then just a piece of ass to him but your right he needs to show me he's serious to have a life with me. Thank u for putting in perspective 🙂 sorry the grammar is krazy on my iPhone lol

To be even more realistic, if you have to keep coming to the Gemini forum once a week and posting a new topic to figure him out, I don't want to sound mean, but you seem to be a little insecure. Marriage and kids should not even be a consideration right now until you know where things really stand.

First of all I'm not posting on the gem board once a week.. So sorry if I have bothered all u gems. I don't know how me saying my ex and I at one time discussed future plans of marriage/kids makes me insecure, so please enlighten me 😄

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Posted by Moonbutter
Hey gem guy 🙂 prove he wants to sleep with me? Or prove he wants to be with me? Is this odd or normal gem flirting? He told me "the finest booty happens to be attached to a great girl.. Who needs her shewolf claws trimmed lol" I dunno what to make of his comment, haha.

He needs to prove his sincerity to be with you. He needs to regard you as more than a piece of ass. If he is sincere he needs to prove himself in more than one way than just a fling in the sack.

Lorddd! You...again. still. What the gemguy said. Stop playing with him if you want to be sure what is up. Stand firm and don't waver. Tell him to put up or shut up. End of story.....

Sobriety.

Thanks for the "advice" now who the fuck are you? Lol

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Posted by Lust
OMG girl, I hope that one day you'll get your brain together.

With Love,
LUSTœ

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Posted by Moonbutter
Yes, thanku gemguy! I have and we've been off/on dating for like 5years he just stuck in his ways...this the longest we been broke up. We discussed marriage /kids before so I know I'm more then just a piece of ass to him but your right he needs to show me he's serious to have a life with me. Thank u for putting in perspective 🙂 sorry the grammar is krazy on my iPhone lol

To be even more realistic, if you have to keep coming to the Gemini forum once a week and posting a new topic to figure him out, I don't want to sound mean, but you seem to be a little insecure. Marriage and kids should not even be a consideration right now until you know where things really stand.

First of all I'm not posting on the gem board once a week.. So sorry if I have bothered all u gems. I don't know how me saying my ex and I at one time discussed future plans of marriage/kids makes me insecure, so please enlighten me 😄

I never said that specifically talking about children and marriage is what made you insecure. I am saying that when you are asking certain questions as a means to figure him out it would seem that you should know ultimately there is a lot to work on. You aren't sure where things stand. I sometimes get the impression that you want someone here to give you a fairy tale solution while forgetting that, with us Gems, it is not always a one size fits all solution. Like I said, I'm not trying to sound mean or accusatory, but it begins to look insesure and doubtful with what is presented here. I do wish you the best however.

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Posted by Moonbutter
Hey gem guy 🙂 prove he wants to sleep with me? Or prove he wants to be with me? Is this odd or normal gem flirting? He told me "the finest booty happens to be attached to a great girl.. Who needs her shewolf claws trimmed lol" I dunno what to make of his comment, haha.

He needs to prove his sincerity to be with you. He needs to regard you as more than a piece of ass. If he is sincere he needs to prove himself in more than one way than just a fling in the sack.

Lorddd! You...again. still. What the gemguy said. Stop playing with him if you want to be sure what is up. Stand firm and don't waver. Tell him to put up or shut up. End of story.....

Sobriety.

Thanks for the "advice" now who the fuck are you? Lol

...Yeah....hmmm. If only you had the same level of...uhmm, false confidence with the gem. But yah, you don't! Project that ish onto someone else.... it might actually work..... and to think I was being nice...I guess you just don't get gems. 😉

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Posted by misslissa
I have both sun and venus in gem. I would tell you what my intentions would be already... 5 yrs on/off...? Yea, definitely would have said something by now if I was serious about you. And, just bcuz you 2 have discussed things doesn't mean A THING if the actions aren't there to back it up...

Good luck! 🙂

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Posted by Moonbutter
Hey gem guy 🙂 prove he wants to sleep with me? Or prove he wants to be with me? Is this odd or normal gem flirting? He told me "the finest booty happens to be attached to a great girl.. Who needs her shewolf claws trimmed lol" I dunno what to make of his comment, haha.

He needs to prove his sincerity to be with you. He needs to regard you as more than a piece of ass. If he is sincere he needs to prove himself in more than one way than just a fling in the sack.

Lorddd! You...again. still. What the gemguy said. Stop playing with him if you want to be sure what is up. Stand firm and don't waver. Tell him to put up or shut up. End of story.....

Sobriety.

Thanks for the "advice" now who the fuck are you? Lol

...Yeah....hmmm. If only you had the same level of...uhmm, false confidence with the gem. But yah, you don't! Project that ish onto someone else.... it might actually work..... and to think I was being nice...I guess you just don't get gems. 😉

You're an idiot. I dated many gems/ gem friends/gem boss...hell even my dog is a Gem. I wasn't looking for advice I just wanted to see other people's view points...sound familiar? Yeah that a gem thing to do. And please don't wear yourself out from being nice when clearly you are not.

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Posted by misslissa
I have both sun and venus in gem. I would tell you what my intentions would be already... 5 yrs on/off...? Yea, definitely would have said something by now if I was serious about you. And, just bcuz you 2 have discussed things doesn't mean A THING if the actions aren't there to back it up...

Good luck! 🙂

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Misslissa, I agree, that's really good insight. Do y'all think it's possible that he could just be immature and would want to finally be serious later on down the line though? I feel like for me, personally, that wouldn't be the case. No real commitment after 5 years, I probably wouldn't have any intention on ever doing so. But I know some situations are more complicated than others.

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Posted by littlemegabyte
In regards to him backing off when you actually speak of ACTION, it means he doesn't know what he wants, or that he knows he doesn't want you at this time. My venus is in gem as well, and I am a LOT of talk, and I very seldomly back up my words with actions (only when it comes to flirting/dating!). It's a game and we love flirting and sexy talking and are extremely playful. I have been called a tease a lot and it sounds like he is being a tease too! When we want something, we will get it and not retreat though.

What has made me really become aggressive towards getting what I want and actually choosing action over words is someone who is mysterious. So try to be sexy, mysterious, and playful (and maybe even a little cold), and don't reply to his messages all the time, it'll drive him insane! He might think that you're just always available to him sexually right now, you want to give him a challenge.

Posted by misslissa
I have both sun and venus in gem. I would tell you what my intentions would be already... 5 yrs on/off...? Yea, definitely would have said something by now if I was serious about you. And, just bcuz you 2 have discussed things doesn't mean A THING if the actions aren't there to back it up...

Good luck! 🙂

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Posted by gemguyaz34

Posted by misslissa
I have both sun and venus in gem. I would tell you what my intentions would be already... 5 yrs on/off...? Yea, definitely would have said something by now if I was serious about you. And, just bcuz you 2 have discussed things doesn't mean A THING if the actions aren't there to back it up...

Good luck! 🙂

+1

Misslissa, I agree, that's really good insight. Do y'all think it's possible that he could just be immature and would want to finally be serious later on down the line though? I feel like for me, personally, that wouldn't be the case. No real commitment after 5 years, I probably wouldn't have any intention on ever doing so. But I know some situations are more complicated than others.

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Posted by misslissa
I have both sun and venus in gem. I would tell you what my intentions would be already... 5 yrs on/off...? Yea, definitely would have said something by now if I was serious about you. And, just bcuz you 2 have discussed things doesn't mean A THING if the actions aren't there to back it up...

Good luck! 🙂

+1

Misslissa, I agree, that's really good insight. Do y'all think it's possible that he could just be immature and would want to finally be serious later on down the line though? I feel like for me, personally, that wouldn't be the case. No real commitment after 5 years, I probably wouldn't have any intention on ever doing so. But I know some situations are more complicated than others.

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Posted by Moonbutter

Lorddd! You...again. still. What the gemguy said. Stop playing with him if you want to be sure what is up. Stand firm and don't waver. Tell him to put up or shut up. End of story.....

Sobriety.

Thanks for the "advice" now who the fuck are you? Lol

...Yeah....hmmm. If only you had the same level of...uhmm, false confidence with the gem. But yah, you don't! Project that ish onto someone else.... it might actually work..... and to think I was being nice...I guess you just don't get gems. 😉

You're an idiot. I dated many gems/ gem friends/gem boss...hell even my dog is a Gem. I wasn't looking for advice I just wanted to see other people's view points...sound familiar? Yeah that a gem thing to do. And please don't wear yourself out from being nice when clearly you are not.

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LOL...see how great we are at mirroring. 😉 You won't get him with that attitude. Gems have an sense of humour and try to envelop a message in that humour. But you took my comment as an attack and chose to try and use your pincers. That speaks volumes, which I'm sure hasn't gone unnoticed by your gem. You have probably turned him off....so now he is toying with you. But he won't tell you....as he's enjoying himself. When he gets tired or finds someone else, he'll leave for good. Thought you were an ok crab with that gem placement of yours...but you are just a cancer.

Word of advice, with so man gems in your life and still so clueless....gems look at the big picture not just the details...actually we sometimes miss the details....so keep focusing on what he said...🙂

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Posted by misslissa
I have both sun and venus in gem. I would tell you what my intentions would be already... 5 yrs on/off...? Yea, definitely would have said something by now if I was serious about you. And, just bcuz you 2 have discussed things doesn't mean A THING if the actions aren't there to back it up...

Good luck! 🙂

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Well Thank u, but u are a woman, sooo guys are different sometimes and he is younger then me. He just needs to grow up.

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Lorddd! You...again. still. What the gemguy said. Stop playing with him if you want to be sure what is up. Stand firm and don't waver. Tell him to put up or shut up. End of story.....

Sobriety.

Thanks for the "advice" now who the fuck are you? Lol

...Yeah....hmmm. If only you had the same level of...uhmm, false confidence with the gem. But yah, you don't! Project that ish onto someone else.... it might actually work..... and to think I was being nice...I guess you just don't get gems. 😉

You're an idiot. I dated many gems/ gem friends/gem boss...hell even my dog is a Gem. I wasn't looking for advice I just wanted to see other people's view points...sound familiar? Yeah that a gem thing to do. And please don't wear yourself out from being nice when clearly you are not.

LOL...see how great we are at mirroring. 😉 You won't get him with that attitude. Gems have an sense of humour and try to envelop a message in that humour. But you took my comment as an attack and chose to try and use your pincers. That speaks volumes, which I'm sure hasn't gone unnoticed by your gem. You have probably turned him off....so now he is toying with you. But he won't tell you....as he's enjoying himself. When he gets tired or finds someone else, he'll leave for good. Thought you were an ok crab with that gem placement of yours...but you are just a cancer.

Word of advice, with so man gems in your life and still so clueless....gems look at the big picture not just the details...actually we sometimes miss the details....so keep focusing on what he said...🙂

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Thanks, but your not telling me anything I don't already know. And

Posted by LittleStar
This is from a Gemini with a Gemini Venus.

We are not wishy washy when we have something real.

You are being played.

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Posted by littlemegabyte

Posted by gemguyaz34

Posted by misslissa
I have both sun and venus in gem. I would tell you what my intentions would be already... 5 yrs on/off...? Yea, definitely would have said something by now if I was serious about you. And, just bcuz you 2 have discussed things doesn't mean A THING if the actions aren't there to back it up...

Good luck! 🙂

+1

Misslissa, I agree, that's really good insight. Do y'all think it's possible that he could just be immature and would want to finally be serious later on down the line though? I feel like for me, personally, that wouldn't be the case. No real commitment after 5 years, I probably wouldn't have any intention on ever doing so. But I know some situations are more complicated than others.

No. After 5 yrs... I think he's just being nice and not wanting to hurt her feelings. I also have a cancer moon, which means I would've committed already way before the 5 yr mark.

@Op: where is your ex gem's moon??

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Posted by LittleStar
Dude. He's bored and playing with you because nothing else interesting is going on in his life.

Move on.

Posted by gemeliorist
Tells her what he thinks of her all the time....cloaked in humour and sex talk. Yet she thinks it's because he really can't move on because he is attached....Nope, she is the fallback girl. But sees his contacting her as the inability to move on....Whatever makes one sleep better.

If a gem really wants you and has zero doubts and they don't even wait for the green light...lightening speed. Gem sun, aqua moon...dislikes the unpleasantness that she displays at times and won't deal with it on the regular. Can you say ghost. He'll probably laugh about it with her while thinking...she needs to share that crap with someone else.

Posted by gemeliorist
Interesting the interpretations of a gems behaviour...talking to someone doesn't automatically mean wanting to be with them...gems can talk to everyone and anyone...most often remain friends even after the feelings are gone if there ever were any feelings to begin with....

Posted by Moonbutter

Posted by gemeliorist
Interesting the interpretations of a gems behaviour...talking to someone doesn't automatically mean wanting to be with them...gems can talk to everyone and anyone...most often remain friends even after the feelings are gone if there ever were any feelings to begin with....

And..—? Your point is? Jeez I don't give a fuk what he thinks/wants I want him to stop harassing me, or is that what u gems do after your ego has been wounded?

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Posted by Moonbutter
Thanks, ill get an exorcist then

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Posted by gemeliorist
Interesting the interpretations of a gems behaviour...talking to someone doesn't automatically mean wanting to be with them...gems can talk to everyone and anyone...most often remain friends even after the feelings are gone if there ever were any feelings to begin with....

And..—? Your point is? Jeez I don't give a fuk what he thinks/wants I want him to stop harassing me, or is that what u gems do after your ego has been wounded?

wait, this is confusing. You don't care what he thinks or wants...but you began this thread because....

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Posted by gemeliorist
Interesting the interpretations of a gems behaviour...talking to someone doesn't automatically mean wanting to be with them...gems can talk to everyone and anyone...most often remain friends even after the feelings are gone if there ever were any feelings to begin with....

And..—? Your point is? Jeez I don't give a fuk what he thinks/wants I want him to stop harassing me, or is that what u gems do after your ego has been wounded?

wait, this is confusing. You don't care what he thinks or wants...but you began this thread because....

Well, you are a Gemini figure it out :p

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Posted by Moonbutter

Posted by gemeliorist
Tells her what he thinks of her all the time....cloaked in humour and sex talk. Yet she thinks it's because he really can't move on because he is attached....Nope, she is the fallback girl. But sees his contacting her as the inability to move on....Whatever makes one sleep better.

If a gem really wants you and has zero doubts and they don't even wait for the green light...lightening speed. Gem sun, aqua moon...dislikes the unpleasantness that she displays at times and won't deal with it on the regular. Can you say ghost. He'll probably laugh about it with her while thinking...she needs to share that crap with someone else.

You are a nasty bitch, and yeah I knew u were joking but also that you were cloaking your rude bitchyness, that's why I called u on it dumbass. You can't fool me, I see through your smoke and mirrors pretending to be nice. You take what I say to literal I was just saying he can't let me go, which clearly that's the case. Yeah I'm a bit fiery and passionate, and I can be bitchy too, but so what! U think I want his lazy ass? Haha u make me laugh. Honey, please don't bring a pussycat to fight with a lioness 😉

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Posted by Moonbutter
How do you show interest(not just sexual)... Do you out right heavy flirt w/sexual ennuendos and asking how much for booty call? Or would that be more for someone u dated and are trying to get the person back so you use sexual humor? My ex has been doing this for weeks and when I say " ok, let's meet up" he backs off... But he continues text me and says " you never know what happens in the future" he also says I'm his "best" and hard to forget. He has Scorp Mars so maybe that's why hard for him to let go? Any experiences...have u done this before and what was your intention?

He's playing a game and you're not playing with... If he asks you "how much for a booty call" you don't say "ok, let's meet up", that's not what he wants. He wants you to play along with him. Maybe if you play along and you actually succeed to turn him on by playing along there might be a small chance he'd actually want to do it.

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Posted by AirMan
i know for a fact a gemini man who has a cancer venus would not pull a stunt like this. ever.

I know for a fact they would. 😄

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Posted by Lust
Yup, that makes sense..
But ..1st you need to have the brain to play‰

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Posted by Lust
Yup, that makes sense..
But ..1st you need to have the brain to play‰

yeah my ex fucked my brains out...Jealous your gem not fucking u you good enough? Be nice and maybe I'll pimp u out to my ex 😉

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Posted by Lust
Yup, that makes sense..
But ..1st you need to have the brain to play‰

yeah my ex fucked my brains out...Jealous your gem not fucking u you good enough? Be nice and maybe I'll pimp u out to my ex 😉

Lust already has a Gemini man and she's quite happy with him from what I recall. Stop being mean.

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Posted by Lust
Lol for Moonbutter..true cancer!
Yes, I'm one of the lucky one. He is Amazing. I am happy and he is too.
Thanks gemguyŠ