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How can you tell if a Gemini is falling for you— (Page 2)
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Things have shifted to the better for us. For example, I'm getting PDA in public. What are more examples?
What are your placements?
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I'm a pisces sun, idk how to figure out all the other placements, any suggestions?
It’s been 8 months and you still not sure how he truly feels.... guuurl.
In the beginning I just wanted to be friends n I really, so really about 5 months since my feelings changed. I dont want to rush things. I just noticed the change from then to now...
Did they change because of sex 🤔
Nope, they changed cause i saw the side that most guys hate to show early on, emotions. He opened up n was so honest.
So was that before or after you guys hooked up that he opened up?
He opened up alot before but now its like flat out whatever he feeling, he says it.
Ok, so you started as friends and is he confused? Like he thinks he’s been friend zoned? I don’t get why you guys aren’t together, what’s stopping you?
No he know he isn't friend zoned anymore for sure. He had some legal issues for one that are about to be over n he wanted to get out the way.
So what does your guy say? Not what you wish or your head, but your gut?
My gut tells me that he is in it, yet he feels a little scared cause he said he's use to females messing him over so he really wants to take his time, this time around.
So why you doubting?
Cause I was messed over prior to him n I just go back n forth from time to time. I know I need to stop.
I see, I’ve been there. Just focus on what you want and be patient. See your self as an addition to his life, a helpmate.
Yes, absolutely. I'm truly learning patience n he constantly tells me he doesnt know what he would do without me.
Ok that’s good, but don’t let him just string you along like it’s ok to hook up and no commitment. You need to prod him to want to make a change to the current situation. After the legal troubles of course, but don’t let him manipulate and play you. 8 months, not going anywhere it’s time he stepped up. Step up or step out.
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Your absolutely right about it, I asked him did he want me to back off a while ago with the hot n cold n he said no. So he did make a change. He gone have to show me more or...
Things have shifted to the better for us. For example, I'm getting PDA in public. What are more examples?
What are your placements?
I'm a pisces sun, idk how to figure out all the other placements, any suggestions?
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https://astro.cafeastrology.com/natal.php
I'm just now reading your other conversations.
Things have shifted to the better for us. For example, I'm getting PDA in public. What are more examples?
What are your placements?
I'm a pisces sun, idk how to figure out all the other placements, any suggestions?
https://astro.cafeastrology.com/natal.php
I'm just now reading your other conversations.
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Ok, thank you. I'm going to look now. They came in slow?
It’s been 8 months and you still not sure how he truly feels.... guuurl.
In the beginning I just wanted to be friends n I really, so really about 5 months since my feelings changed. I dont want to rush things. I just noticed the change from then to now...
Did they change because of sex 🤔
Nope, they changed cause i saw the side that most guys hate to show early on, emotions. He opened up n was so honest.
So was that before or after you guys hooked up that he opened up?
He opened up alot before but now its like flat out whatever he feeling, he says it.
Ok, so you started as friends and is he confused? Like he thinks he’s been friend zoned? I don’t get why you guys aren’t together, what’s stopping you?
No he know he isn't friend zoned anymore for sure. He had some legal issues for one that are about to be over n he wanted to get out the way.
So what does your guy say? Not what you wish or your head, but your gut?
My gut tells me that he is in it, yet he feels a little scared cause he said he's use to females messing him over so he really wants to take his time, this time around.
So why you doubting?
Cause I was messed over prior to him n I just go back n forth from time to time. I know I need to stop.
I see, I’ve been there. Just focus on what you want and be patient. See your self as an addition to his life, a helpmate.
Yes, absolutely. I'm truly learning patience n he constantly tells me he doesnt know what he would do without me.
Ok that’s good, but don’t let him just string you along like it’s ok to hook up and no commitment. You need to prod him to want to make a change to the current situation. After the legal troubles of course, but don’t let him manipulate and play you. 8 months, not going anywhere it’s time he stepped up. Step up or step out.
Your absolutely right about it, I asked him did he want me to back off a while ago with the hot n cold n he said no. So he did make a change. He gone have to show me more or...
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What change did he make?
Things have shifted to the better for us. For example, I'm getting PDA in public. What are more examples?
What are your placements?
I'm a pisces sun, idk how to figure out all the other placements, any suggestions?
https://astro.cafeastrology.com/natal.php
I'm just now reading your other conversations.
Ok, thank you. I'm going to look now. They came in slow?
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Can you copy and paste? Can you do his as well?
It’s been 8 months and you still not sure how he truly feels.... guuurl.
In the beginning I just wanted to be friends n I really, so really about 5 months since my feelings changed. I dont want to rush things. I just noticed the change from then to now...
Did they change because of sex 🤔
Nope, they changed cause i saw the side that most guys hate to show early on, emotions. He opened up n was so honest.
So was that before or after you guys hooked up that he opened up?
He opened up alot before but now its like flat out whatever he feeling, he says it.
Ok, so you started as friends and is he confused? Like he thinks he’s been friend zoned? I don’t get why you guys aren’t together, what’s stopping you?
No he know he isn't friend zoned anymore for sure. He had some legal issues for one that are about to be over n he wanted to get out the way.
So what does your guy say? Not what you wish or your head, but your gut?
My gut tells me that he is in it, yet he feels a little scared cause he said he's use to females messing him over so he really wants to take his time, this time around.
So why you doubting?
Cause I was messed over prior to him n I just go back n forth from time to time. I know I need to stop.
I see, I’ve been there. Just focus on what you want and be patient. See your self as an addition to his life, a helpmate.
Yes, absolutely. I'm truly learning patience n he constantly tells me he doesnt know what he would do without me.
Ok that’s good, but don’t let him just string you along like it’s ok to hook up and no commitment. You need to prod him to want to make a change to the current situation. After the legal troubles of course, but don’t let him manipulate and play you. 8 months, not going anywhere it’s time he stepped up. Step up or step out.
Your absolutely right about it, I asked him did he want me to back off a while ago with the hot n cold n he said no. So he did make a change. He gone have to show me more or...
What change did he make?
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He doesnt do the hot n cold as much anymore. He is more flexible as far as timing.
Things have shifted to the better for us. For example, I'm getting PDA in public. What are more examples?
What are your placements?
I'm a pisces sun, idk how to figure out all the other placements, any suggestions?
https://astro.cafeastrology.com/natal.php
I'm just now reading your other conversations.
Ok, thank you. I'm going to look now. They came in slow?
Can you copy and paste? Can you do his as well?
click to expand
Things have shifted to the better for us. For example, I'm getting PDA in public. What are more examples?
What are your placements?
I'm a pisces sun, idk how to figure out all the other placements, any suggestions?
https://astro.cafeastrology.com/natal.php
I'm just now reading your other conversations.
Ok, thank you. I'm going to look now. They came in slow?
Can you copy and paste? Can you do his as well?
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When we choose you.
You verbally say this?
No.
But we need to have the space to choose you. If we are pursued it may not end up in a genuine place.
We show it by spending time with you and making you a priority in our lives.
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So if it's not verbal, how would you know—
When we choose you.
You verbally say this?
No.
But we need to have the space to choose you. If we are pursued it may not end up in a genuine place.
We show it by spending time with you and making you a priority in our lives.
So if it's not verbal, how would you know—
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Actions... love is action. You show love, and you affirm it with verbal. The actions have to match the verbal and vice versa. If you have one without the other then something is a miss. How does he show his love to you?
Honestly hon..ive had more gems tell me they love me than any other sign...and every one treated me like shit after or abandoned me. The only thing i would trust is consistency..for a LONG time. Words mean shit.
I love Geminis!! hard to tell though how long have you been dating?
Since last July, so going on 8 months.
8 months that's nice, the conversations the mind stimulation the jokes the banter ugh!! I really feel alive when I'm around Geminis, but it's like what everybody's saying here you can't tell, I dated two of them they were all into me but suddenly out lol they change their minds very quickly, " the way into a Geminis heart is their mind" so probably he's still processing the whole thing inside that head of his ... The only mistake I made with my ex's Geminis is I tried to pin them down, you can give it more time since you seem to enjoy each other's company. All the best of luck 🙂
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Yeah I know he processing everything still, I can tell. Even I am. I'm not rushing things at all, I want this to be different.
I'll let you know when she takes me out of the friendzone.
I'll let you know when she takes me out of the friendzone.
How long you been there?
When we choose you.
You verbally say this?
No.
But we need to have the space to choose you. If we are pursued it may not end up in a genuine place.
We show it by spending time with you and making you a priority in our lives.
So if it's not verbal, how would you know—
Actions... love is action. You show love, and you affirm it with verbal. The actions have to match the verbal and vice versa. If you have one without the other then something is a miss. How does he show his love to you?
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Your right, I'm all about actions. He is always checking in for one, multiple times. He does little suprises without me asking. He knows when I'm in one of my moods n how to handle them, its alot.
When we choose you.
You verbally say this?
No.
But we need to have the space to choose you. If we are pursued it may not end up in a genuine place.
We show it by spending time with you and making you a priority in our lives.
So if it's not verbal, how would you know—
Actions... love is action. You show love, and you affirm it with verbal. The actions have to match the verbal and vice versa. If you have one without the other then something is a miss. How does he show his love to you?
Your right, I'm all about actions. He is always checking in for one, multiple times. He does little suprises without me asking. He knows when I'm in one of my moods n how to handle them, its alot.
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Do you guys go on dates? Have you met his family? His friends? How does he talk about the future with you?
When we choose you.
You verbally say this?
No.
But we need to have the space to choose you. If we are pursued it may not end up in a genuine place.
We show it by spending time with you and making you a priority in our lives.
So if it's not verbal, how would you know—
Actions... love is action. You show love, and you affirm it with verbal. The actions have to match the verbal and vice versa. If you have one without the other then something is a miss. How does he show his love to you?
Your right, I'm all about actions. He is always checking in for one, multiple times. He does little suprises without me asking. He knows when I'm in one of my moods n how to handle them, its alot.
Do you guys go on dates? Have you met his family? His friends? How does he talk about the future with you?
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Yep we go on dates, his family moving down soon, which he keeps telling me. I've met his oldest daughter n son who are here. I've met his close friend(s). Yes he does, it's always we when he talks.
I dated a Gemini
He was a gentleman with me. Took me on dates. Respected me. Very friendly. Lots of compliments. He loved to make me laugh.
Yes he is such a big kid n stay making me laugh n the compliments.
When we choose you.
You verbally say this?
No.
But we need to have the space to choose you. If we are pursued it may not end up in a genuine place.
We show it by spending time with you and making you a priority in our lives.
So if it's not verbal, how would you know—
Actions... love is action. You show love, and you affirm it with verbal. The actions have to match the verbal and vice versa. If you have one without the other then something is a miss. How does he show his love to you?
Your right, I'm all about actions. He is always checking in for one, multiple times. He does little suprises without me asking. He knows when I'm in one of my moods n how to handle them, its alot.
Do you guys go on dates? Have you met his family? His friends? How does he talk about the future with you?
Yep we go on dates, his family moving down soon, which he keeps telling me. I've met his oldest daughter n son who are here. I've met his close friend(s). Yes he does, it's always we when he talks.
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Those are good signs but what’s stopping him from making it official?
When we choose you.
You verbally say this?
No.
But we need to have the space to choose you. If we are pursued it may not end up in a genuine place.
We show it by spending time with you and making you a priority in our lives.
So if it's not verbal, how would you know—
Actions... love is action. You show love, and you affirm it with verbal. The actions have to match the verbal and vice versa. If you have one without the other then something is a miss. How does he show his love to you?
Your right, I'm all about actions. He is always checking in for one, multiple times. He does little suprises without me asking. He knows when I'm in one of my moods n how to handle them, its alot.
Do you guys go on dates? Have you met his family? His friends? How does he talk about the future with you?
Yep we go on dates, his family moving down soon, which he keeps telling me. I've met his oldest daughter n son who are here. I've met his close friend(s). Yes he does, it's always we when he talks.
Those are good signs but what’s stopping him from making it official?
click to expand
Exactly n it's the legal issues which are over as of this Wednesday so...
When we choose you.
You verbally say this?
No.
But we need to have the space to choose you. If we are pursued it may not end up in a genuine place.
We show it by spending time with you and making you a priority in our lives.
So if it's not verbal, how would you know—
Actions... love is action. You show love, and you affirm it with verbal. The actions have to match the verbal and vice versa. If you have one without the other then something is a miss. How does he show his love to you?
Your right, I'm all about actions. He is always checking in for one, multiple times. He does little suprises without me asking. He knows when I'm in one of my moods n how to handle them, its alot.
Do you guys go on dates? Have you met his family? His friends? How does he talk about the future with you?
Yep we go on dates, his family moving down soon, which he keeps telling me. I've met his oldest daughter n son who are here. I've met his close friend(s). Yes he does, it's always we when he talks.
Those are good signs but what’s stopping him from making it official?
Exactly n it's the legal issues which are over as of this Wednesday so...
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Be like, “It will be nice when we can finally be official babe.” And see his reaction 😆
When we choose you.
You verbally say this?
No.
But we need to have the space to choose you. If we are pursued it may not end up in a genuine place.
We show it by spending time with you and making you a priority in our lives.
So if it's not verbal, how would you know—
Actions... love is action. You show love, and you affirm it with verbal. The actions have to match the verbal and vice versa. If you have one without the other then something is a miss. How does he show his love to you?
Your right, I'm all about actions. He is always checking in for one, multiple times. He does little suprises without me asking. He knows when I'm in one of my moods n how to handle them, its alot.
Do you guys go on dates? Have you met his family? His friends? How does he talk about the future with you?
Yep we go on dates, his family moving down soon, which he keeps telling me. I've met his oldest daughter n son who are here. I've met his close friend(s). Yes he does, it's always we when he talks.
Those are good signs but what’s stopping him from making it official?
Exactly n it's the legal issues which are over as of this Wednesday so...
Be like, “It will be nice when we can finally be official babe.” And see his reaction 😆
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Lol oh I definitely am
When we choose you.
You verbally say this?
No.
But we need to have the space to choose you. If we are pursued it may not end up in a genuine place.
We show it by spending time with you and making you a priority in our lives.
So if it's not verbal, how would you know—
Actions... love is action. You show love, and you affirm it with verbal. The actions have to match the verbal and vice versa. If you have one without the other then something is a miss. How does he show his love to you?
Your right, I'm all about actions. He is always checking in for one, multiple times. He does little suprises without me asking. He knows when I'm in one of my moods n how to handle them, its alot.
Do you guys go on dates? Have you met his family? His friends? How does he talk about the future with you?
Yep we go on dates, his family moving down soon, which he keeps telling me. I've met his oldest daughter n son who are here. I've met his close friend(s). Yes he does, it's always we when he talks.
Those are good signs but what’s stopping him from making it official?
Exactly n it's the legal issues which are over as of this Wednesday so...
Be like, “It will be nice when we can finally be official babe.” And see his reaction 😆
Lol oh I definitely am
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I live with my Gem, but we’ve been together for about 2 years, we just have fur babies 🙃 I told him the other day he doesn’t have to get married, but I am bahaha. Now he talkn about calling me fiancé. So we’ll see, but maybe give you an idea how to handle your Gem. What is your Gem Venus sign btw?
When we choose you.
You verbally say this?
No.
But we need to have the space to choose you. If we are pursued it may not end up in a genuine place.
We show it by spending time with you and making you a priority in our lives.
So if it's not verbal, how would you know—
Actions... love is action. You show love, and you affirm it with verbal. The actions have to match the verbal and vice versa. If you have one without the other then something is a miss. How does he show his love to you?
Your right, I'm all about actions. He is always checking in for one, multiple times. He does little suprises without me asking. He knows when I'm in one of my moods n how to handle them, its alot.
Do you guys go on dates? Have you met his family? His friends? How does he talk about the future with you?
Yep we go on dates, his family moving down soon, which he keeps telling me. I've met his oldest daughter n son who are here. I've met his close friend(s). Yes he does, it's always we when he talks.
Those are good signs but what’s stopping him from making it official?
Exactly n it's the legal issues which are over as of this Wednesday so...
Be like, “It will be nice when we can finally be official babe.” And see his reaction 😆
Lol oh I definitely am
I live with my Gem, but we’ve been together for about 2 years, we just have fur babies 🙃 I told him the other day he doesn’t have to get married, but I am bahaha. Now he talkn about calling me fiancé. So we’ll see, but maybe give you an idea how to handle your Gem. What is your Gem Venus sign btw?
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Aww ok. He keeps talking about moving. How did yall get together? I'm definitely going to drop a hing. His venus is in Taurus.
When we choose you.
You verbally say this?
No.
But we need to have the space to choose you. If we are pursued it may not end up in a genuine place.
We show it by spending time with you and making you a priority in our lives.
So if it's not verbal, how would you know—
Actions... love is action. You show love, and you affirm it with verbal. The actions have to match the verbal and vice versa. If you have one without the other then something is a miss. How does he show his love to you?
Your right, I'm all about actions. He is always checking in for one, multiple times. He does little suprises without me asking. He knows when I'm in one of my moods n how to handle them, its alot.
Do you guys go on dates? Have you met his family? His friends? How does he talk about the future with you?
Yep we go on dates, his family moving down soon, which he keeps telling me. I've met his oldest daughter n son who are here. I've met his close friend(s). Yes he does, it's always we when he talks.
Those are good signs but what’s stopping him from making it official?
Exactly n it's the legal issues which are over as of this Wednesday so...
Be like, “It will be nice when we can finally be official babe.” And see his reaction 😆
Lol oh I definitely am
I live with my Gem, but we’ve been together for about 2 years, we just have fur babies 🙃 I told him the other day he doesn’t have to get married, but I am bahaha. Now he talkn about calling me fiancé. So we’ll see, but maybe give you an idea how to handle your Gem. What is your Gem Venus sign btw?
Aww ok. He keeps talking about moving. How did yall get together? I'm definitely going to drop a hing. His venus is in Taurus.
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Oh my, Taurus is the bull he stubborn. You gonna have to break him down 😝 anyway, I met mine at work and helped him through a devastating time. What is your guy moon and mercury?
When we choose you.
You verbally say this?
No.
But we need to have the space to choose you. If we are pursued it may not end up in a genuine place.
We show it by spending time with you and making you a priority in our lives.
So if it's not verbal, how would you know—
Actions... love is action. You show love, and you affirm it with verbal. The actions have to match the verbal and vice versa. If you have one without the other then something is a miss. How does he show his love to you?
Your right, I'm all about actions. He is always checking in for one, multiple times. He does little suprises without me asking. He knows when I'm in one of my moods n how to handle them, its alot.
Do you guys go on dates? Have you met his family? His friends? How does he talk about the future with you?
Yep we go on dates, his family moving down soon, which he keeps telling me. I've met his oldest daughter n son who are here. I've met his close friend(s). Yes he does, it's always we when he talks.
Those are good signs but what’s stopping him from making it official?
Exactly n it's the legal issues which are over as of this Wednesday so...
Be like, “It will be nice when we can finally be official babe.” And see his reaction 😆
Lol oh I definitely am
I live with my Gem, but we’ve been together for about 2 years, we just have fur babies 🙃 I told him the other day he doesn’t have to get married, but I am bahaha. Now he talkn about calling me fiancé. So we’ll see, but maybe give you an idea how to handle your Gem. What is your Gem Venus sign btw?
Aww ok. He keeps talking about moving. How did yall get together? I'm definitely going to drop a hing. His venus is in Taurus.
Oh my, Taurus is the bull he stubborn. You gonna have to break him down 😝 anyway, I met mine at work and helped him through a devastating time. What is your guy moon and mercury?
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Facts, definitely. It's working though lol. Yeah mines works next door n yeah same here,devastating time. I posted the link on here last night.
When we choose you.
You verbally say this?
No.
But we need to have the space to choose you. If we are pursued it may not end up in a genuine place.
We show it by spending time with you and making you a priority in our lives.
So if it's not verbal, how would you know—
Actions... love is action. You show love, and you affirm it with verbal. The actions have to match the verbal and vice versa. If you have one without the other then something is a miss. How does he show his love to you?
Your right, I'm all about actions. He is always checking in for one, multiple times. He does little suprises without me asking. He knows when I'm in one of my moods n how to handle them, its alot.
Do you guys go on dates? Have you met his family? His friends? How does he talk about the future with you?
Yep we go on dates, his family moving down soon, which he keeps telling me. I've met his oldest daughter n son who are here. I've met his close friend(s). Yes he does, it's always we when he talks.
Those are good signs but what’s stopping him from making it official?
Exactly n it's the legal issues which are over as of this Wednesday so...
Be like, “It will be nice when we can finally be official babe.” And see his reaction 😆
Lol oh I definitely am
I live with my Gem, but we’ve been together for about 2 years, we just have fur babies 🙃 I told him the other day he doesn’t have to get married, but I am bahaha. Now he talkn about calling me fiancé. So we’ll see, but maybe give you an idea how to handle your Gem. What is your Gem Venus sign btw?
Aww ok. He keeps talking about moving. How did yall get together? I'm definitely going to drop a hing. His venus is in Taurus.
Oh my, Taurus is the bull he stubborn. You gonna have to break him down 😝 anyway, I met mine at work and helped him through a devastating time. What is your guy moon and mercury?
Facts, definitely. It's working though lol. Yeah mines works next door n yeah same here,devastating time. I posted the link on here last night.
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😑 I’m not able to open the link 😠
When we choose you.
You verbally say this?
No.
But we need to have the space to choose you. If we are pursued it may not end up in a genuine place.
We show it by spending time with you and making you a priority in our lives.
So if it's not verbal, how would you know—
Actions... love is action. You show love, and you affirm it with verbal. The actions have to match the verbal and vice versa. If you have one without the other then something is a miss. How does he show his love to you?
Your right, I'm all about actions. He is always checking in for one, multiple times. He does little suprises without me asking. He knows when I'm in one of my moods n how to handle them, its alot.
Do you guys go on dates? Have you met his family? His friends? How does he talk about the future with you?
Yep we go on dates, his family moving down soon, which he keeps telling me. I've met his oldest daughter n son who are here. I've met his close friend(s). Yes he does, it's always we when he talks.
Those are good signs but what’s stopping him from making it official?
Exactly n it's the legal issues which are over as of this Wednesday so...
Be like, “It will be nice when we can finally be official babe.” And see his reaction 😆
Lol oh I definitely am
I live with my Gem, but we’ve been together for about 2 years, we just have fur babies 🙃 I told him the other day he doesn’t have to get married, but I am bahaha. Now he talkn about calling me fiancé. So we’ll see, but maybe give you an idea how to handle your Gem. What is your Gem Venus sign btw?
Aww ok. He keeps talking about moving. How did yall get together? I'm definitely going to drop a hing. His venus is in Taurus.
Oh my, Taurus is the bull he stubborn. You gonna have to break him down 😝 anyway, I met mine at work and helped him through a devastating time. What is your guy moon and mercury?
Facts, definitely. It's working though lol. Yeah mines works next door n yeah same here,devastating time. I posted the link on here last night.
😑 I’m not able to open the link 😠
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Ikr so I see Venus in Aires, Mars in Aries, Jupiter in Gemini
Makes alot of sense
I'll let you know when she takes me out of the friendzone.
How long you been there?
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A year but who knows if I'm really there? Gemini's will make you feel the happiest you have ever been in your life then tell you they don't want a relationship. The only way to be in a relationship with them is to do relationship things while telling them that it's ok they don't want a relationship.
I'll let you know when she takes me out of the friendzone.
How long you been there?
A year but who knows if I'm really there? Gemini's will make you feel the happiest you have ever been in your life then tell you they don't want a relationship. The only way to be in a relationship with them is to do relationship things while telling them that it's ok they don't want a relationship.
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That's deep, I can definitely feel you on that. I guess Its the dual personalities.
I'll let you know when she takes me out of the friendzone.
How long you been there?
A year but who knows if I'm really there? Gemini's will make you feel the happiest you have ever been in your life then tell you they don't want a relationship. The only way to be in a relationship with them is to do relationship things while telling them that it's ok they don't want a relationship.
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Haha that’s so true... they are like big kids who need to be slightly manipulated... all in their best interest of course 😝 but seriously, I think Gems need someone easy going, fiery, playful and willing to take on most responsibilities 😆 also, communication and openness is much appreciated and goes along way with your Gemini.
Look at the guys Venus to see what he looks for in a partner. Aries is impulsive, fiery and action oriented. OP, what is your Mars?
I'll let you know when she takes me out of the friendzone.
How long you been there?
A year but who knows if I'm really there? Gemini's will make you feel the happiest you have ever been in your life then tell you they don't want a relationship. The only way to be in a relationship with them is to do relationship things while telling them that it's ok they don't want a relationship.
What happens if you lose? Those starry eyes telling you they don't love you back? Don't keep bringing yourself down, find someone who cares about you.
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That’s true, I think 4-6 months is the cut off to know if your Gem is really on board. A gem will just keep you in limbo forever if you allow it, because they so carefree themselves. Trick is though, the Gem has to be the one to lock you down, you can’t trap them or they will look for ways to escape.
I'll let you know when she takes me out of the friendzone.
How long you been there?
A year but who knows if I'm really there? Gemini's will make you feel the happiest you have ever been in your life then tell you they don't want a relationship. The only way to be in a relationship with them is to do relationship things while telling them that it's ok they don't want a relationship.
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Lol the same day I told him I didn't need a relationship title is the same day he asked me to be his gf. Reverse psychology ftw
The best way to enjoy a relationship with them is to simply enjoy time with them and be a person they enjoy spending time with. Move on if you want more and they have not presented themselves to want more. Or, move on whenever you want.
Ask yourself what will a committment will bring? Why is it not a relationship unless there is a pronouncement? If you want monogamy, why? And if so, act and express accordingly. Then, ask yourself why the Gemini does not share your concerns?
I'll let you know when she takes me out of the friendzone.
How long you been there?
A year but who knows if I'm really there? Gemini's will make you feel the happiest you have ever been in your life then tell you they don't want a relationship. The only way to be in a relationship with them is to do relationship things while telling them that it's ok they don't want a relationship.
Lol the same day I told him I didn't need a relationship title is the same day he asked me to be his gf. Reverse psychology ftw
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Ok that’s good, but don’t let him just string you along like it’s ok to hook up and no commitment. You need to prod him to want to make a change to the current situation. After the legal troubles of course, but don’t let him manipulate and play you. 8 months, not going anywhere it’s time he stepped up. Step up or step out.