I don't think I'm meant to have a boyfriend..

I play to many games, and I become distant when I don't get enough attention.. I HATE it.. I crave to be loved and adored sooooo soooo badly.. I don't know what to do.. My Sun, Mercury, Venus and Jupiter are ALL in Gemini.. Could that be why I am so hard to figure out or to get, or have problems keeping relationships? It's annoying me, but at the same time, I kind of don't care (Virgo Rising) makes me Humble and not push to care to be in relationships even though deep down inside I fcuking crave it. Ugh (Face palm)

Don't be too hard on yourself! It's your sign..that's right! But you don't need own upto that..! You'll always grow! Geminis are mostly confused..they hardly understand themselves!But it may also be something like you didn't find your match!Love waits for one thing...the right moment 😉 ...so wait for your's!

Posted by Gemineyevixen
... I become distant when I don't get enough attention.. ... My Sun, Mercury, Venus and Jupiter are ALL in Gemini.. Could that be why I am so hard to figure out or to get, or have problems keeping relationships? It's annoying me, but at the same time, I kind of don't care ...

I have a Stellium like you. All in the first house. I had this problem for years. If I did not get the appripriate attention in the beginning, I became distant. And left the thing where it was.

Finally when I learned to stay and communicate I had the worst challenge. The worst man I 've met.

I lost all the years and I can only laugh at my love life. As if it was written somewhere that it should fail. I mean don't apples fall from trees? c'est la vie.

Posted by Gemineyevixen
I play to many games, and I become distant when I don't get enough attention.. I HATE it.. I crave to be loved and adored sooooo soooo badly.. I don't know what to do.. My Sun, Mercury, Venus and Jupiter are ALL in Gemini.. Could that be why I am so hard to figure out or to get, or have problems keeping relationships? It's annoying me, but at the same time, I kind of don't care (Virgo Rising) makes me Humble and not push to care to be in relationships even though deep down inside I fcuking crave it. Ugh (Face palm)

HI Geminieyevixen...You are not alone in thinking this:/ One of my Gem guy friend's said the same thing about his love life(he settled) but that's another story...My Ex Gem bf of 4 years had Gemini Sun, Mercury, Venus with Aquarius moon so I think I kinda understand where you are coming from. I as a Cancer, saw the yearning and sensitivity of my ex and I loved that about him but I felt the "emotional" connection was off and I attribute that to the Aqua moon. I think if he had "let go" more...let the walls down I would have felt closer to him. Alas, that is not ultimately what ended the relationship, however that missing connection did bother me a whole lot. On the positive side, I bet you are fun, witty, silly, playful, beautiful person inside and out...I think you will be able to connect with the right person.

Am like that too. I hate it.

But then, when you don't get the attention you deserve, then the person is not worthy of your attention.

What problems do you have in relationships? I am facing similar issues too and I would like to hear you out and help if I can.

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Posted by Gemineyevixen
I play to many games, and I become distant when I don't get enough attention.. I HATE it.. I crave to be loved and adored sooooo soooo badly.. I don't know what to do.. My Sun, Mercury, Venus and Jupiter are ALL in Gemini.. Could that be why I am so hard to figure out or to get, or have problems keeping relationships? It's annoying me, but at the same time, I kind of don't care (Virgo Rising) makes me Humble and not push to care to be in relationships even though deep down inside I fcuking crave it. Ugh (Face palm)

I'm sure Kylie Minogue doesn't feel so bad about her love life now...

A Gemini through and through.

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-2974037/Kylie-Minogue-reveals-love-love.html

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someone needs to just stop already! good grief...

don't go w a leo cause they'll sack u once they know you want the spotlight

I never know what I want 😛 But I for sure don't like being in a relationship,I hate being tied down

Posted by Gemineyevixen
I play to many games, and I become distant when I don't get enough attention.. I HATE it.. I crave to be loved and adored sooooo soooo badly.. I don't know what to do.. My Sun, Mercury, Venus and Jupiter are ALL in Gemini.. Could that be why I am so hard to figure out or to get, or have problems keeping relationships? It's annoying me, but at the same time, I kind of don't care (Virgo Rising) makes me Humble and not push to care to be in relationships even though deep down inside I fcuking crave it. Ugh (Face palm)

Whoa Gal We have almost the exact same chart! My Rising: Virgo; Sun:Gemi; Mercury:Gemi; Venus:Gemi; Jupiter: Virgo....

I, too, have had serious issues with committed relationships. I've only had two (age 22 currently) and both ended on my behalf. The first one was nice, peaceful, and he was soooooooo sweet and cherishing. I ended it with him because I found myself falling for another, younger dude. I felt this was reason enough, ya feel me? Nowadays, I look back in sadness because the older I get the more asshole guys I meet. He was truly a sweet heart, good guy. I'm the asshole in that situation but I was younger and inexperienced.
My second relationship was awesome, awesomely infuriating as well. He loved me and I loved him but I felt like I was doing all of the work and that if I had backed off some he would have drifted away....I knew after only a few months that we wouldn't last long. Still, I held on for almost two years because there was an 'unsure' factor of maybe I'm wrong about him. Luckily, he moved to another state so ended that wasn't as hard.

POINT BLANK> I need the same thing that you do....but I've also had it before and left it. There needs to be a balance between the safety net and the exiting spontaneous factor....play it safe in some aspects like fidelity (duh) but do something crazy together, get into some trouble and laugh about it, be on the SAME PAGE

Posted by Gemineyevixen
I play to many games, and I become distant when I don't get enough attention.. I HATE it.. I crave to be loved and adored sooooo soooo badly.. I don't know what to do.. My Sun, Mercury, Venus and Jupiter are ALL in Gemini.. Could that be why I am so hard to figure out or to get, or have problems keeping relationships? It's annoying me, but at the same time, I kind of don't care (Virgo Rising) makes me Humble and not push to care to be in relationships even though deep down inside I fcuking crave it. Ugh (Face palm)

I have my sun,merc & venus in Gemini so I understand how you feel. It's so easy to be detached and "think" about feelings as opposed to actually "feel" them. However truth is us gems crave our soul mate who will love us unconditionally and ground us.

So to answer your question all that air could be the cause of friction in your relationships especially if your dealing with water signs.

My advice is to stop playing games and be honest about your feelings, needs and desires in your relationships. Games will get you no where fast.

Yeah for me I just want to talk and converse about ideas anything that peaks my interest which is pretty much anything I don't know. I seem to know a little bit about a broad range of topics. If someone loses communication with me I'm gone. It's hard enough to keep up the interest if someone isn't even reciprocating at all especially talking. That really disappoints me.

same situation here...Im gem with scorp moon. 36, never married, no children. I MUST have an emotional connection first before the physical can ever be considered. I have probably been wrong a dozen times, but most dates I have gone out with didn't seem to be intense enough for me so I never gave most of them a second chance. Those I did always proved to be too silly and completely oblivious of the meaning of passion. I have settled...been w/bf for 10 years...no marriage in sight, no desire to marry either. Oh well.

same situation here...Im gem with scorp moon. 36, never married, no children. I MUST have an emotional connection first before the physical can ever be considered. I have probably been wrong a dozen times, but most dates I have gone out with didn't seem to be intense enough for me so I never gave most of them a second chance. Those I did always proved to be too silly and completely oblivious of the meaning of passion. I have settled...been w/bf for 10 years...no marriage in sight, no desire to marry either. Oh well.