Is my Gemini man not showing affection normal?

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I’m an Aquarius so I do understand when not knowing the right time to show affection feels like. But I’m scared he’s losing interest or cheating, which I heard is common for Gemini men. We’re always together if not every day than every other day. He’s amazing truly, he goes out of his way to prove he cares all the time. If I say I really want to get out he comes up with an idea to make me happy. So he is still trying. But there’s no passion AT ALL. He doesn’t really like to cuddle to much, if he does it’s only for 5 seconds, lately he doesn’t even kiss me 😭 it’s been 6 days. We've been together twice since then & I wanted to see if I didn’t kiss him first would he do it. We even had sex today and he didn't. He hates holding hands he thinks it’s corny. If I don’t get some love soon I’m gonna go nuts. I’m a leo moon & he’s an Aries moon. Also we’ve only been dating for 3 months and officially together about a month lol. & I know I should probably just tell him but I’m scared if I do it’ll push him away or I’ll come off needy. Is there any way I can get him to express himself more?

Oh and one other thing, he shows affection while I’m sleeping. He wakes up super early so I’ll feel him kiss me while I’m asleep or him playing with my hair.
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Gemini men are so cactus with affection. Awkwardity overlords!


Lmao

Are aqua guys affectionate?

Yes they are!!!!! But I behave exactly like you say to OP so even the coldest guy wouldn’t be able to be cold next to me for long 😄


They are? Then I will be open to the idea of falling for an aqua guy...

OMG! I'm like that too. My scorp ex used to be grumpy and don't even ask why. Its like he just wanna give me his grumpy side. And I would be so CUTE with him and make him laugh 😂

Yeah you are like so nurturing and lovely even online. I am more snarky online...

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I think I relate well to their way of showing affection and when they don’t give it to me I know how to ask for it and Aquarius like that. All the aquas I know are really loving towards me, hahaha, but I know lots of people that say they can be cold.

Really? I think I may come out more nurturing here than in rl then 😄
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Gemini men are so cactus with affection. Awkwardity overlords!


Really? That's not my experience with them. My first love was a gem and he showered me with affection.
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My Gemini was the same. So touchy feely. I used to call him the 1,2,3 man cause his hands were always on my boobs, butt, or cooch. I never had an issue with affection.

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Gemini men are so cactus with affection. Awkwardity overlords!


Really? That's not my experience with them. My first love was a gem and he showered me with affection.


My Gemini was the same. So touchy feely. I used to call him the 1,2,3 man cause his hands were always on my boobs, butt, or cooch. I never had an issue with affection.

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That’s not affection, it’s molestation 😂
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Gemini men are so cactus with affection. Awkwardity overlords!


Really? That's not my experience with them. My first love was a gem and he showered me with affection.


My Gemini was the same. So touchy feely. I used to call him the 1,2,3 man cause his hands were always on my boobs, butt, or cooch. I never had an issue with affection.




Haha !

Is that what you guys mean by affection ? No offense but that sounds more like uncontrollable thirst 😂

I was more talking about pda like hands on face, stroking hair, sweet cute kisses on the forehead and nose or cheeks. Sweet nothings in your ear. Holding hands, holding your handbag in public, carrying you when you were tired of walking. Spontaneous hugs and kisses. Spontaneous cute compliments. Childish playfulness.

Etc etc...

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Yes, I think the sweet affections come naturally for them when they are falling/ have strong feelings. It’s more of a tender look and touch 💕
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Gemini men are so cactus with affection. Awkwardity overlords!


Really? That's not my experience with them. My first love was a gem and he showered me with affection.


My Gemini was the same. So touchy feely. I used to call him the 1,2,3 man cause his hands were always on my boobs, butt, or cooch. I never had an issue with affection.



That’s not affection, it’s molestation 😂
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It was annoying. Lol.
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Posted by Waterbearerwearer

Gemini men are so cactus with affection. Awkwardity overlords!


Really? That's not my experience with them. My first love was a gem and he showered me with affection.


My Gemini was the same. So touchy feely. I used to call him the 1,2,3 man cause his hands were always on my boobs, butt, or cooch. I never had an issue with affection.




Haha !

Is that what you guys mean by affection ? No offense but that sounds more like uncontrollable thirst 😂

I was more talking about pda like hands on face, stroking hair, sweet cute kisses on the forehead and nose or cheeks. Sweet nothings in your ear. Holding hands, holding your handbag in public, carrying you when you were tired of walking. Spontaneous hugs and kisses. Spontaneous cute compliments. Childish playfulness.

Etc etc...

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I don’t do public PDA. So maybe that’s why he used to be on me so much in private. I don’t like someone hanging all over me in public. I guess I’m weird 😕
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Posted by Waterbearerwearer

Gemini men are so cactus with affection. Awkwardity overlords!


Really? That's not my experience with them. My first love was a gem and he showered me with affection.


My Gemini was the same. So touchy feely. I used to call him the 1,2,3 man cause his hands were always on my boobs, butt, or cooch. I never had an issue with affection.



That’s not affection, it’s molestation 😂


It was annoying. Lol.
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I can imagine it was
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Posted by Lala1393

Posted by Waterbearerwearer

Gemini men are so cactus with affection. Awkwardity overlords!


Really? That's not my experience with them. My first love was a gem and he showered me with affection.


My Gemini was the same. So touchy feely. I used to call him the 1,2,3 man cause his hands were always on my boobs, butt, or cooch. I never had an issue with affection.




Haha !

Is that what you guys mean by affection ? No offense but that sounds more like uncontrollable thirst 😂

I was more talking about pda like hands on face, stroking hair, sweet cute kisses on the forehead and nose or cheeks. Sweet nothings in your ear. Holding hands, holding your handbag in public, carrying you when you were tired of walking. Spontaneous hugs and kisses. Spontaneous cute compliments. Childish playfulness.

Etc etc...




I don’t do public PDA. So maybe that’s why he used to be on me so much in private. I don’t like someone hanging all over me in public. I guess I’m weird 😕
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Just sounds like lust 🤷🏻‍♀️