Single gem forever? C:

Posted by x3Elise
I am a 19 yr old gem girl! I have been single my entire life because I cannt seem to find someone who could accept me for who I am.

I went on dates with a Libra guy, but he turned out to be a control freak(force me to change my religion and be around him all the time) and he cries alot.
I gave up on BGR, seems useless to me(for now) .

I know that alot of gems out there are sure to have dated a couple of times, advice in getting guys to accept me for who i am? :c

You cannot "make" someone accept you for who you are. Some will, some won't. That's life. You're only 19, you have the WHOLE of your life ahead of you... you've got a lot of wonderful things, and a lot of disasters ahead of you... don't be so eager to jump into the shark pen!

We Gemini's are an odd bunch, some absolutely hate us and some freaking love us... you can't please everyone. Just live YOUR life, live it for YOU and one day when you least expect it, your life path with cross the life path of someone else and you'll know it... damn straight you'll know it... it's unmistakable.

Hang in there 🙂

Oh at 19 you have nothing to worry about Lots of dating opportunities ahead of you.. Just make sure you know what you want and don't let a guy play you.. At 19 years of age I wouldn't be worrying about serious realtionships I,d just be out there having some fun and enjoying the things in life you like to do .. Pleanty of time ahead for love and the turmoils of life.. Enjoy life while your single and carefree.

you,ll have a few "not the one" but thats what makes the journey interesting Finding out exactly what you do and don'y want in a mate .

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Posted by x3Elise
I am a 19 yr old gem girl! I have been single my entire life because I cannt seem to find someone who could accept me for who I am.

I went on dates with a Libra guy, but he turned out to be a control freak(force me to change my religion and be around him all the time) and he cries alot.
I gave up on BGR, seems useless to me(for now) .

I know that alot of gems out there are sure to have dated a couple of times, advice in getting guys to accept me for who i am? :c

You cannot "make" someone accept you for who you are. Some will, some won't. That's life. You're only 19, you have the WHOLE of your life ahead of you... you've got a lot of wonderful things, and a lot of disasters ahead of you... don't be so eager to jump into the shark pen!

We Gemini's are an odd bunch, some absolutely hate us and some freaking love us... you can't please everyone. Just live YOUR life, live it for YOU and one day when you least expect it, your life path with cross the life path of someone else and you'll know it... damn straight you'll know it... it's unmistakable.

Hang in there 🙂

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Very wise words above...

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I would add a few things... I know it sounds stupid but I don't think you know what you want... 19 is so young... Don't focus on it... Think about it like this if you are trying to hard it shows... Actors over doing it... sporty people killing themselves... people always looking in the mirror... All trying to hard... ask your self... is that attractive

If I am not wrong Gem... normally always want to fill that void... because you don't feel as whole with out it... well don't go trying to put the wrong puzzle pieces... You might try to conform and then realize how uncomfortable your are... aka the controlling relationship you never should have staid in that long...

Learn to trust your feelings... As a Gem you will know when the right piece fits... just don't be taken or busy with another relationship you should have ended long ago because it was not right...

Remember you should be happy around your partner most of the time like 85% and they should support you in positive directions to grow...

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^^i definitely agree with that!

well, everyone has given you some GREAT advice here! so, i will say, welcome! i hope you enjoy your stay here! it can be an up and down roller coaster, but fun... most times. :}

when i first read that geminis date many people when they are young, i knew right away that that description did not fit me at all and kind of made me question it all, so you are not alone. as for finding someone who accepts you as you are, if you cant find someone who is as weird as you in this point of your life, then you should just leave it at that and do what you need to do to further progress your situation so that you may move somewhere where you might be able to find someone like that.