what REALLY turns a gemini man on?

I love my gemini, just curious?

In what way?

I don't mean to be funny but, you do realize that you have a head on top of a penis as an avatar, don't you? :/

lol! are you serious,now I just keep staring at it! by the question I meant what traits in a woman makes you attracted to her? What are the qualities that you most admire? and of course what makes you sexually attracted to a woman?

OMG! I SEE IT

oh help me!🙂 my co-workers think im crazy sittin at my desk laughing up a storm! yea I gotta change that avatar, good looking out

Smile, Legs, Long Necks, Hips and ass, but all of that goes away if the woman is an idiot. So brain and lots of mental stimulating. A conversationalist that is open-minded, not the open-mindedness that people THINK they have. But the kind that is an infinite train of thought. Rare.

Sexually? See above. ^^^

Posted by amochalibra
oh help me!🙂 my co-workers think im crazy sittin at my desk laughing up a storm! yea I gotta change that avatar, good looking out

Who's gotcho back?! 😉

Also, have independent and abstract thought! Not regurgitation of someone else's theories and conjectures in order to make yourself sound and look intelligent. To me, that's just another form of an idiot. Grrrrrr!!!!!! Like the women who like to start a conversation with: "Have you read the book....?" Rather than having experiences to the point that YOU are the book that should be written about. There are those who read the news, and then there are those that make the news. At least that's how I see it. :/

HaHa! That's a better avatar. But, it's been done, many, many, times. HaHa!

Your mind?

yea I had to do something quick with that avatar! thanx for the answers, Im pretty much like that. We can have the best conversations, of course they last as long as he can be still. He's a gem who always has a lot going on, but I really appreciate that fact that we can have meaningful discussions about all kinds of things. I think that kind of scares him though. I let him have all the freedom he wants, but he always finds a way for us to keep communication between us open and often, I also appreciate it when he wants my opinion.

just be yourself...and this is with anyone...they either love you for who you are or not.

Make sure you guys laugh together...he will automatically make you laugh because thats his nature..but make him laugh too.

give him plenty of sex...

and always to something spontaneous together...like a weekend trip without planning. geminis are the absolute best traveling partners...

again be yourself

Oh, I forgot to mention. If the Coochie is too Hoochie there will be no Smoochie. 😄

^ truth.

brains, style , honesty and fun-loving. someone that has it together.

^^^

Trust me, I'd spot you a mile away, and I'd never talk to you. So, there will be no choking going on here. 😄

Posted by amochalibra
I love my gemini, just curious?

Also, keep all of that emotional shit to a minimum. We are all human beings that have emotion but, I can't stand to be around people who base relationships solely on emotion. That's just plain DUMB! You'll see them on here posting post after post about the emotional content of a stupid relationship that was doomed from the start. Dumb assess, all of them. This Gemini Man knows that there has to be a 'balance' of the Mental and the Emotional (Chakra's). Certain people don't even try to find that balancing point. Then they wonder why they have diary after diary of situations involving their plethora of relationships that failed. Stooo Pid and fuck them! Just to think these people breed. *smh* Well, at least most of them can anyway. 😉

you know what? I take that back about giving plenty of sex....you dont want to overdose him....LOL

what really turns us on, Mental Stimulation Penetration / Good Conversation / Outgoing / Funny /
Lips / Smile / And for some reason Back Rubs always get me :-)

@GeminiMind HOW and WHERE do gemini's (YOU) find that balance between being intellectual and emotional? I have a Gem guy that says he stays balanced between the two, but from what I see, he is a completely intellectual being, just as you sound. I'm sure he a very romantic person, in fact he has a moon in cancer so I KNOW it's there. That is the whole point. I know it, but I can't feel it from him even after he dropped the L word on me. Gemini's seem to be such intellectual beings that even emotions seem to mostly dwell in the mind. For the people, you say that use too much emotions rather than thinking, we feel to think, you/gems think to feel.

I am sure you are familiar with the saying "Always intellect over emotion and never emotion over intellect." There are people who chose to let emotions rule their lives, and there are Gemini's. I am not straying from the topic at all. To a Gem, everything seems to exist in their minds: emotions, passions, even sex is in the mind. Understanding that better will help us understand what makes a gem tick... tock. 🙂 I truly believe that if a gem had to choose over sex or a debate over a much controversial subject, the debate will win. kehe Given that you've had enough sex, but you will never feel like you can get enough intellectual stimulation. Banter = SEX in a gemini's mind.

If you would so kindly help me understand how balance is perceived by a Gem between intellect and emotion. Thanks. 🙂

its really not that hard, just be sexy and smart at the same time, if he wants you, nothing will stop him from getting some.
although making wait for it at least 3 months, just so you have solid relation ship first. but as fars looks go. for me i like skiny girls with big boobs.
i dont know what everyone else likes. but i think its different for everyone, being smart helps alot too. most of all. confuse a gimini. he will go crazy for you.
for some reason we are stupid like that. and dont be surprised when you find out he is like a different person sometimes he is just adjusting to a situation.

to lady aries

If you would so kindly help me understand how balance is perceived by a Gem between intellect and emotion. Thanks.

i am not sure what you mean, intellect and emotion. we dont feel i guess the way most people feel.
i remember my first girlfriend i didnt even know i was in love until i lost her. but she love me so much. i started to feel pain after that.
but could never understand why. cause i didnt think i love her. anyways a balance i guess their is no such thing. a good gimini.
will just do his thing. i love a good intellectual conversation and yes it would come before sex i guess if had my feel of sex. they are almost equal.
emotions are so deep it would take a break up to let us see it. but we will show you appriciation by doing romantic things if we are going to be completely committed.
if not than its just what ever. buy your an aries, you must be confused lol. just dont think about it, we love a good conversation and we love our aires its just a fact. but just dont forget to please us. we love that kind of thing if we do things together.

haha oh man....gemini's love rub downs! back rubs, foot massages. any massages. head rubs. every rub.

Posted by Lady Aries
@GeminiMind HOW and WHERE do gemini's (YOU) find that balance between being intellectual and emotional? I have a Gem guy that says he stays balanced between the two, but from what I see, he is a completely intellectual being, just as you sound. I'm sure he a very romantic person, in fact he has a moon in cancer so I KNOW it's there. That is the whole point. I know it, but I can't feel it from him even after he dropped the L word on me. Gemini's seem to be such intellectual beings that even emotions seem to mostly dwell in the mind. For the people, you say that use too much emotions rather than thinking, we feel to think, you/gems think to feel.

I am sure you are familiar with the saying "Always intellect over emotion and never emotion over intellect." There are people who chose to let emotions rule their lives, and there are Gemini's. I am not straying from the topic at all. To a Gem, everything seems to exist in their minds: emotions, passions, even sex is in the mind. Understanding that better will help us understand what makes a gem tick... tock. 🙂 I truly believe that if a gem had to choose over sex or a debate over a much controversial subject, the debate will win. kehe Given that you've had enough sex, but you will never feel like you can get enough intellectual stimulation. Banter = SEX in a gemini's mind.

If you would so kindly help me understand how balance is perceived by a Gem between intellect and emotion. Thanks. 🙂

Balance is ALWAYS a sliding and moving scale, sweets. ALWAYS! If you understand that concept, then you'll understand Gemini men. I never, EVER, make emotional decisions. Unfortunately, the population is designed to manipulate human emotion to get a person to make decisions. :/ Not me.

^^^finally a answer that can help all non geminis! yes!

Be very busy, but always answer his calls and he will want to see you ALL the time and maybe do it 🙂 I think geminis also like it when you are in control in the bedroom.

Posted by capris
Be very busy, but always answer his calls and he will want to see you ALL the time and maybe do it 🙂 I think geminis also like it when you are in control in the bedroom.

Posted by wineaux
oh GM heart you

*Rubs Wineaux's hands*

Banter = SEX in a gemini's mind.


^-^ Mmmm, banter sex. Spank me while we debate this please? Yep, sounds good.

Posted by THEKingofLibra

Posted by Sickleesweet
Banter = SEX in a gemini's mind.


^-^ Mmmm, banter sex. Spank me while we debate this please? Yep, sounds good.

Well debate with me would be like rape in your mind, cause I'll wipe the floor with you and then hang you outside to sun dry 😛

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Promises, promises! 😉

'give him plenty of sex'

Yeah,Just drop everything thats goin on in your life and become a sex pot
That'll solve everything.

You Aries disgust me.you really have absolutely nothing else in the brain.
its always about self satisfaction.