Best way to end it with a Gem (scorp moon)?

I want out! It's been a quite nice couple of months but its just never felt right...It's come to a natural end for me. He's gone away for a week for work, we've had to cancel a trip we had booked this weekend. There's no physical contact, not sure if it's a cultural differences thing and I have mentioned it to him. There's just not enough beyond attraction for me to stay. Ideas?

We aren't...I'm just really cr*p at it.

It's not been said that it's exclusive ..but there's definitely been nobody else for either if us and there's been talk of it going in that direction.

Are you just upset that the trip was canceled?

I think you still like him and wait till after the retrograde to make a decision.

Oh goodness... I dated a Gemini with Scorpion moon and there was a huge culture diff. Maybe have someone with you when you end things.

Posted by Sola

I want out! It's been a quite nice couple of months but its just never felt right...It's come to a natural end for me. He's gone away for a week for work, we've had to cancel a trip we had booked this weekend. There's no physical contact, not sure if it's a cultural differences thing and I have mentioned it to him. There's just not enough beyond attraction for me to stay. Ideas?

why it is necessary to "end it"? just let it be, it seems nothings really going on anyway

Posted by DMV

Are you just upset that the trip was canceled?

I think you still like him and wait till after the retrograde to make a decision.

No, cancelling was disappointing but I've always kinda felt the same way since it started. I'm not going to "fade out while he's away.. that's terrible! But when he's back I'll need to tell him that I don't want to continue with things.

Posted by HeartofTopazz

Ideas other than just being honest, and telling him that you want to break up?

I have a feeling she just want to provoke him to stand up

something like a fake break up

@Sola, be honest with us, what does it mean you want out? it seems there is nothing you have to get out?

sorry, dont know the background

There's no back story, I feel like it's more of a "situationship" than anything else. Will a text do?!

If you are not feeling it and you don’t see any future just be honest and tell him. I believe honesty is best in this situations.

Posted by Pandora101

Posted by HeartofTopazz

Ideas other than just being honest, and telling him that you want to break up?

I have a feeling she just want to provoke him to stand up

something like a fake break up

@Sola, be honest with us, what does it mean you want out? it seems there is nothing you have to get out?

sorry, dont know the background

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No, not fake break up!!! 😂 It's just never really gotten off the ground..it's weird and annoying.

Yeah, meeting for a coffee twice a week and sex once a week....gets dull.

Posted by Sola

Yeah, meeting for a coffee twice a week and sex once a week....gets dull.

so you want him to step up?

by letting him know this deal is not enough for you?

I have! He just doesnt make enough effort..all talk and little action.

Coffee and sex, what else you need? 😜

Posted by Sola

I have! He just doesnt make enough effort..all talk and little action.

Last time my exact response:

I dont want to talk to you because i dont understand you. I hope youre ok though.

(im sure they get what i mean. Youre in the same boat so no need too much explanations no)

Send him this : “ I met another guy”

Agreed...I've just deleted his number. Ciao

Come on strong 1000% and watch him fade to black. Problem solved.

Start by blowing up his phone with cringe text messages.

I'd suggest sending baby names you like.

What?! Never!!! His number is deleted..Venus retrograde has served it's purpose for me 🙂

You just deleted his number without ever telling him you were stopping whatever you were stopping? He's going to be so confused...

I said I didn't want to continue to see him because i wasn't happy...I didn't just ghost him. He didn't put up any resistance, maybe he was relieved 😂 A nice, clean no, drama break. Although he did put lovey dovey emojis on his last message....

I mean he was like, "huhhhhh, why are you saying that? Do you not like me anymore?"...which led to my explanation for finishing it. He was like thanks for everything, you're such a good person...blah blah.

Haha!!!! A mutual agreement at last 🙂

I was just like fcuk yeah, I love it when i can break away without feeling like crap.

No new suitor! I miss the Gem..He wasn't bad; just not my match.

I did!

Posted by Sola

No new suitor! I miss the Gem..He wasn't bad; just not my match.

What do you miss about him? Also, how old is he?

Indeed