wtf I joined Tinder..

It's so strange!! I really do not know how to date. I feel so awkward.

Apparently you don't, if you're using tinder for dating.

Psst. Tinder isn't for dating. It's for "dating."

Yeah, noooo tinder. Try POV it's a bit better 🙂

Lol it's the same shit you're going through on POF. Seriously it's all the same shit, one guy on multiple dating sites( I have noticed that too from POF and Okcupid, that was not cool. He was an Aries claiming ready to settle down. Lol I asked him about it.. He denied it. After I confronted him he lied to me. I said next.

This is common about what I am experiencing one guy multiple dating sites, they change or keep the same screen name, but same picture in profiles.. Lol busted..

Go the hell outside because this is getting really stressful but both online and irl is about the same..

@Op. Are you a shy, reserved Gemini? Like airman..

Lol I wasn't. I was comparing. Because he knows I really don't like Gemini all that much. But he corrected me earlier on how he was as a Gemini with earth. So I was contrasting now with another Gemini. Maybe there's something to learn new about Gemini. In a good way not bad.

Posted by rockyroadicecream
Apparently you don't, if you're using tinder for dating.

Psst. Tinder isn't for dating. It's for "dating."

What is it used for? I won't sign up on POF b/c from what I have heard it's really just for hook up. Is tinder the same?

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
@Op. Are you a shy, reserved Gemini? Like airman..

I'm definitely on the more reserved side, until, I get comfortable.

Posted by FrenchKpricorn
Tell me I'm a developer and I want create a tinder based on astrology, what's your thought about this.

You should do it!! I can't tell you much about it, though.. It's very strange to me to go through like a catalog and pick someone.

LMAO!! I already deleted it.. I can't get to know people that way.

Posted by Moonbutter
Yeah, noooo tinder. Try POV it's a bit better 🙂

So is Match.com better? I, seriously, don't go out enough to meet men. My 14yr old called me today b/c they are at their dads, she begged me to go out and do something. I'm just in a strange place in life. I don't want to go to bars or clubs, so what's the alternative? I was thinking about volunteering somewhere... lol Maybe, I will meet new people that way.

I can't help but put my life around my kids..

Don't pay for online dating sites.. it's expensive I heard, my brother is on Eharmony and pays alot for nothing. I got more people on POF than he did on Eharmony.. but better questions to ask on getting your compatibility results.. Hence going on POF, bound to make a friend or two though...

Smdh. Yeah it's crazy. You take a chance when you do this.. hence why I ask tons of questions too..

Those sites, the majority of them are for people looking for a piece of a $ $ . AirMan is right on. Have patience, good things can come from it.

Posted by rockyroadicecream
Apparently you don't, if you're using tinder for dating.

Psst. Tinder isn't for dating. It's for "dating."

+10

Posted by Kodak375
I tried 2 dating sites, never again lmao

Yeah, I have decided that dating sites will not work for me. I'm going to have to just put it out in the universe that I would like to meet someone and then hopefully law of attraction when the time is right, someone will enter my life.

I have some pretty serious trust issues and when I think they are resolved I'm sure that is when it will happen.

No, it won't. Unless you plan to settle for the creepy neighbour or something....

Carry on looking till you find a good match.

If you are on a dating site, get active and contact about 50 people you like, as soon as you register (which should be done for a month at a time, NOT longer). After 1-2 weeks of online contact, choose three of them to go on dates. If nothing comes out, wait for 1-2 months, then register again. Look at the new men. On a site like Match.com, it should be a few hundreds new men, in reachable distance and appropriate age. Rinse and repeat.

I found my actual partner on the first day I registered with E-harmony and I couldn't be happier. Before that, I found my ex on Match.com, within days.

And ignore all men who contact you first, unless they are persistent or already on your shortlist.