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Posted by GetMisted
I think the bigger issue here..Is why are some people banned for disclosing personal information, and others are not?
Yes.
That too. I mean, I'm sure that Duncan loves seeing users on his site that rouse up drama. I guess to him it means the site is successful or something. But when drama (a.k.a. me being a dickwad to people I disagree with) turns into criminal activity that could result in harassment, stalking, or even murder that's when its jumping to a whole nother level of fucked up that's not okay.
If one user gets banned for this type of behavior, everyone that participates in this type of behavior should go too. By only banning certain members it sends the message to others that this is okay if you're favored or bring out other users with controversial posts.
Posted by GetMisted
I agree 100%Did you see the thread, or should I email you the screen shot?
^^^^^^^^
Also doing stuff like this really helps too.
Expressing your feelings on the subject can promote change, but doing things like taking screen shots and reporting the issue is way more proactive.
As irresponsible as it might be, maybe the reason Duncan doesn't do anything is because we don't?
Why are you playing favorites?
Apply the same reasoning you applied with biosynthesis.
Posted by Damnata
Why are you playing favorites?Apply the same reasoning you applied with biosynthesis.
Was that directed at me?
Posted by Damnata
Why are you playing favorites?Apply the same reasoning you applied with biosynthesis.
Was that directed at me?
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@ whoever is the site admin now.
Posted by kreol
DJ is great clickbait mang, biosynthesis who? Exactly
If I did that, I would expect to be banned.
The only reason DJ is clickbait is because people keep engaging him for pages and pages.
If we each kept it to one - two replies, the status would change.
Don't report the topic, report the user directly.
Posted by GetMisted
APC's thread was removed.Is DJ going to be removed also?
I was just coming here to say this.
How hilarious would be if her topic would have been removed for libel, while it was addressing the other topic.
Posted by Damnata
Don't report the topic, report the user directly.Should I send the screen shot to @dxpnet also?
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that might be a good idea
Posted by Damnata
Don't report the topic, report the user directly.Should I send the screen shot to @dxpnet also?
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both in email and the info section of the report.
host it somewhere, put the link in both places.
Posted by GetMisted
APC's thread was removed.Is DJ going to be removed also?
I was just coming here to say this.
How hilarious would be if her topic would have been removed for libel, while it was addressing the other topic.
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huh?
Posted by GetMisted
APC's thread was removed.Is DJ going to be removed also?
I was just coming here to say this.
How hilarious would be if her topic would have been removed for libel, while it was addressing the other topic.
huh?
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I am saying, if the site admin plays favorites and only removed your topic because it was libel for donjohnson and not because of what he did previously.
It would be so unfair.
It would be nice to know why the topic was removed
there are far worse topics floating around
Posted by WhiteChocolate
Users should be concerned.If another user obtained their personal information or information of their family members (regardless of how careful they've been in protecting that information) and plastered it all over this place, it doesn't appear the site admins really care or will hold the offending party responsible.
But they did when it came to biosynthesis.
Posted by WhiteChocolate
Users should be concerned.If another user obtained their personal information or information of their family members (regardless of how careful they've been in protecting that information) and plastered it all over this place, it doesn't appear the site admins really care or will hold the offending party responsible.
But they did when it came to biosynthesis.
I didn't even know she was banned?
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She was. Her user profile is still up.
I think happygolucky was banned too after quoting her.
Ssupes too.
So they really went overboard then...for now to turn the other way?
Posted by WhiteChocolate
Users should be concerned.If another user obtained their personal information or information of their family members (regardless of how careful they've been in protecting that information) and plastered it all over this place, it doesn't appear the site admins really care or will hold the offending party responsible.
But they did when it came to biosynthesis.
I didn't even know she was banned?
She was. Her user profile is still up.
I think happygolucky was banned too after quoting her.
Ssupes too.
So they really went overboard then...for now to turn the other way?
3 users were banned?!
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topic went like this:
biosynthesis put up a newspaper link and a picture. happygolucky quoted her. ssupes wasn't in that topic but i think got banned because he was somehow involved.
happygolucky never logged back, bio couldn't log back, ssupes couldn't log back either.
Posted by cheekyfaerie
Wait. So that's what happened to bio? Always liked her.
In her defense, it wasn't because she wanted to put personal info there but she thought that person shouldn't be a part of the community based on real life past actions.
Either way, it was wrong. Even if they remove/ have removed the ban, she's not coming back to dxp.
Posted by WhiteChocolate
For a newspaper article?
newspaper article that had the name of the poster in it
and mugshot with the name in it.
When I say it was wrong, I mean it was wrong of bio.
I think they got banned because the user mailed the site admin directly.
In this case, the girl in the screenshot should message dxpnet,
Posted by Vanish
They were purposely trying to harm another dxp user Damnata. DJ is just a careless idiot.
Uhm, no.
I will leave it at that.
I still don't get why my thread was taken down...
dxpnet?
Posted by WhiteChocolate
For a newspaper article?newspaper article that had the name of the poster in it
and mugshot with the name in it.
IDK man...
If it's public info I don't necessarily see what the issue is.
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That's what I thought too. You can look at it in many ways though.
Either way, it should have been bio alone banned and not someone who quoted her too.
Posted by Vanish
They were purposely trying to harm another dxp user Damnata. DJ is just a careless idiot.Uhhh.. no.
He's putting the lives of other people at risk by posting their personal information.
At risk from whom? You? Because no one else besides you, nata, and aquapiscescusp cares.
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Pls speak only for yourself on that "no one else cares" statement.
Posted by Vanish
They were purposely trying to harm another dxp user Damnata. DJ is just a careless idiot.I agree. To me he's a troll and as I said before I even wonder if he's just making it all up for the sake of trolling. Erica? Does the person really exist? Erica is a known troll around here.
In the other case, it was clear cut trying to fuck with another user.
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It's not that Erika.
I mean just look at you all.
When I was lurking, you had no idea.
How would it have been for me to just start posting personal info out of nowhere.
Posted by Vanish
They were purposely trying to harm another dxp user Damnata. DJ is just a careless idiot.Uhhh.. no.
He's putting the lives of other people at risk by posting their personal information.
At risk from whom? You? Because no one else besides you, nata, and aquapiscescusp cares.
Pls speak only for yourself on that "no one else cares" statement.
You're the only people being idiotically dramatic about it. You're the only people I'd be concerned about. Seriously, if that girl comes here, the only people she's going to think are creepy are you guys.
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Again, speak for yourself.
Posted by Vanish
They were purposely trying to harm another dxp user Damnata. DJ is just a careless idiot.I agree. To me he's a troll and as I said before I even wonder if he's just making it all up for the sake of trolling. Erica? Does the person really exist? Erica is a known troll around here.
In the other case, it was clear cut trying to fuck with another user.
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I am surprised at your take on this...
There is an Erica and she has a last name but I am not going to share that with you. I guess you have to see in order to believe?
Posted by Vanish
They were purposely trying to harm another dxp user Damnata. DJ is just a careless idiot.I agree. To me he's a troll and as I said before I even wonder if he's just making it all up for the sake of trolling. Erica? Does the person really exist? Erica is a known troll around here.
In the other case, it was clear cut trying to fuck with another user.
I am surprised at your take on this...
There is an Erica and she has a last name but I am not going to share that with you. I guess you have to see in order to believe?
Yes. So I won't comment anymore then. I didn't see anything to be honest.
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we did, hence why I made that thread...
that was taken down for no apparent reason...
says a lot though
glad I saw all this come together for once
true colors
What if Duncan has meanwhile new resources and does not depend on clicks?
When I look how many dxpers have stopped being active in the first part of the year. IJS
Posted by feby
He could even be someone entirely different. Has anyone met him? He posts pics but who's to say that's even him? I guess I'm skeptical in general. Plus he doesn't seem to care at all.
to me he sounds real.
with all that fixation on venus and looks.
Posted by Vanish
It's not a big deal.You have no idea how many lurk this site. It's a VERY big deal.
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Yes.
I mean, I was a prime lurker.
Posted by Vanish
It's not a big deal.Then post your full name and DOB.
I wouldn't care if it was on a site that I wasn't on. It's akin to someone posting my instagram on a site I don't go to. Not a big deal.
What's the difference whether you're on it or not?
Back up your assertion "it's no big deal" and post your full name and DOB.
There's a huge difference. I like to post here anonymously. If she was a user here, I'd feel differently, but she's probably never going to come here. Sorry, if you can't see the difference, you're just an idiot.
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where's the gurarntee that nobody on the Earth but dxpers read the threads?
How do we get new members? Cause strangers read threads and get appetite.
Posted by WhiteChocolate
So basically what Vanish is saying is that it would be okay for her full name and DOB to be floating around random websites without her knowledge. Because she's not on those sites.She may not be on those sites..
But predators on that site could live in her city.. and know what she looks like.
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wow, does this need to be spelled out?
seriously people
I mean we are a site of great integrity.
Surely only the creme de la creme of society is in here.
apropos chil buton. reminds me chil banning.
Maybe it helps if Duncan bans them first time only for three months. when they want to log in, they get the message, "it seems you lost your chil on dxpnet. Get cool and come back in three months". And if they come back being still the same hot-headed they were, they get banned forever.
nö?
Posted by Vanish
Jesus, I shouldn't be telling you creepy people these things.
who lives where he was born? and does cities have only one habitant?
Posted by WhiteChocolate
LOL at Natal Charts.Unless your full name is on it there's not much you can do with it.
That has to be the most moronic assertion I've heard.
The planets pinpoint the exact time and location...
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So?
You would have a database of people born in all maternities in that city at that exact hour, not ONE specific person.
Posted by GetMisted
Let's keep in mind..She had her profile set to private. She obviously doesn't want people knowing who she is.
lol, was she real at all? living that catfish life.
Please don't ban DonJohnson 😭
Relax you can still mingle at Evilyoshida
Posted by feby
I'm saying that there's no proof any of the people in djs story even exist, at least I haven't seen it.
regarding aqua teeny he has posted several posts of a far-eastern with a blonde girl.
Posted by exxtasyx
Posting people's personal information? How scary and not OK!
even a Gemini says so. a gemini. think of it.
Posted by exxtasyx
Posting people's personal information? How scary and not OK!
even a Gemini says so. a gemini. think of it.
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he was sarcastic most likely.
he doesn't want us to know that he's the chick in that gif he constantly posts.
lol
Posted by Vanish
It's not a big deal.
From someone who was stalked twice and in fear of my life in regards to one of them, even after having been pretty careful with my info, I'm gonna say it's a big fucking deal.
Posted by WhiteChocolate
I'm "bent" that laws were broken and appropriate action wasn't taken.I mean.. He could be banned for all we know.
I'm just waiting for conformation from @dxpnet
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but if Duncan a Cancer (and not Gemini nor Leo due to the earth precession) he'll take his time I guess.
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Every time I look up someone is having their personal/private information posted on this site. It's getting old really quick. The only reason people feel entitled to do this shit is because you stupid FUCKS literally SUPPORT people that do this type of criminal shit and DUNCAN doesnt REALLY monitor this site or it's more problematic users.
I wasn't born yesterday, so I'm aware that the internet can be a disgusting place, but as the ADMIN of this site it is your personal responsibility to keep your USERS as well as the people that AREN'T USERS safe from predators and criminals. This issue needs to be addressed because within the last few months several people mostly women have had their personal information exposed and seemingly nothing has been done. I could just go to another site, and maybe I will one day. But until then I think you need to really step up to the plate and make sure that your site is both user/non-user friendly. Obviously no one likes censorship, but this site is getting pathetic.